my friend who knows every song ever is wrong please tell me the right answer

I"m thirty and I don't have any family or existing natural friends left over from high school plus I am currently unemployed...

So my brother was one of the most meaningful people in my life growing up. He's 11 years older than me and after joining the navy when I was 13, I was devastated. He started by calling us almost every weekend, and now five years later never calls. He now lives in an entirely different state and he is getting ready to become a dad to a little girl.  I can't help but not want this new baby though. I feel as though now with her around, I will be forgotten by my once best friend. Before the baby he always was "busy" so he stopped calling. Now I feel as though he won't even acknowledge that I even exist anymore.  Is it normal to feel this way? It's even making me start to resent my brother. I don't want much to do with him. I know I should be happy but I can't help but feel hes just one step closer to finally leaving me behind. 

I'm a 14 year old girl and a freshman in high school. I'm best friends with a couple of other girls in my class. The three of us are inseparable and get along really well. The thing is, I have to give them money in order for them to talk to me and be my friend. It's their "rule". If I don't give them my lunch money or something, they won't talk to me or hang out with me at all, and they'll even threaten to hurt me if I try to talk to them without paying them. At the beginning of the school year, one of them kicked me, which hurt for days, because I didn't pay them but tried to talk to them. I can't help it! My mom packs my lunches some days, so I have no money to give them. I really miss them when they won't talk to me! I give them my lunch money as much as I can. If you're wondering, I don't starve or anything. I usually eat something when I get home because I usually have no money for lunch because of these friends I have. Anyways, I overslept this morning, so I didn't have time to have breakfast. I was starving during the school day, so I HAD to buy myself lunch. I couldn't give my lunch money to my friends. I told my friends my situation, and they just said "You know the rule! Pay up or you can't hang out with us. Now get lost!". Please help me guys! These two girls are my only friends at school! I have no other friends I can hang out with! How can I get them to talk to me again? I feel really lonely right now because of this! One more thing. Whenever i'm upset, they won't comfort me unless I pay them.

Alright to give some background to the story, FRIEND A and I are very close but have not seen each other recently due to school schedules . Last Monday she offered to take me out on the town but I wasn't able to go immediately due to a previous arrangement. Later that day she hadn't brought up the offer so I didn't mention it either. That night the group of friends that I and FRIEND A share invited me out on a drive the car was full and as FRIEND A lives far out and we didn't plan to be out long, she wasn't invited. Ever since FRIEND A found out about this she has made an active effort to ignore and speak badly of me to other people. Is she being dramatic or am I being unsympathetic? I knew she sensitive prior to this but had never been on the receiving end of her pettiness. What should I do?

so i had grew up with this one girl let say her is Sam and I knew her since 8th grade then i had move out the state from New Jersey to Arizona but i go back every Summer. every time i reach out to say hi to Sam every few month to keep touch she write nicely then she came back as mean saying leave me alone like she bi poplar so i give up and i have move on so her ex boyfriend Jose and i became friends for 3 year now and they told me that they broke up because they got big argue and slap her idk how bad it was cause i wasnt there as friends we not friends at that time can that cause her and i to fight? so my old friend Jeff send a message to Sam how it going and such and she said nothing much i drink and smoke mean time Jose told me once they end up talking again behind my back I guess and lie to me that he wasnt talking to her but eventually he told me and she was being mean to him and told him if he doesnt pay her car pay ment she going tell everyone about them, so is this cause us to fight as well? no one else knows about Jose and Sam fight i dont think her mom even knows and i think she behind her mom facebook for jose , will this get karma if happends or least they deserve it? if so how i know it will? and one day she pop up my people may know so i finally had chance to block her yay

If it's bouncers or one of staff at bar then yes has to listen because it's their property not mine. I am talking about when you bumped into someone who just another customer who stop by bar. Let say there is empty seat and you want to take a rest so you go there to sit on. Somebody next to this chair telling you go away. Now should I listen or not listen? They are not the boss. Or maybe you gonna suggest better listen anyway even if I legally don't have to. However I do need some place to sit soon or later and I do want to enjoy my drink and listen to music.

"Hey, you forgot your scarf at my house, so I wore it to school. But my boyfriend is allergic to perfumes and got annoyed that the scarf was smelly :( ". ... so if a person is using someone's else belonging is the owners fault? I mean, I didn't understand why this person (who was my friend) acted like it was my fault, when she is decided to use it because I forgot it in her house. Isn't that a bit rude?

-I work with these two guys. One is very lazy, insulting, dramatic and argumentative. The other is a compulsive gossip. He's ALWAYS gossiping. Anyways, last week they were picking on a female coworker and they made her cry and they were laughing about it. All day at work they send annoying emails and barely do any work.  The mean guy is always in a negative attitude, like he hates his job and he hates everyone around him. They are both selfish, lazy and annoying. On my weekends outside of work I can't get a minute to myself without annoying text messages in my personal life and at work it's hard to concentrate because they are always sending me stupid, annoying and oftentimes crude emails.  Finally after they picked on the new girl (like they picked on me when I was new), I reported them to our manager because I want it to stop. And now I'm seen as the office snitch, etc. Was I wrong to do this?  Oh, and the gossip guy ALWAYS gossips about his lazy friend. Like, these guys hang out and then he's always insulting his friend behind his back. Was informing the manager of all of this the right thing to do? 

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hey, im a 16 yo girl. my best friend is a 16 yo male and his 14 yo brother is one of my best friends too. they live an hour away so i only see them once a month. my best friend and i were talking about me spending a weekend at their house. how do i get  my parents to say yes? thank you :) i brought this up to my mom last night and she said maybe she didnt say yes or no but i feel like my dad would just say no

I need a believable excuse, they already know it's my birthday and refused time off, so what's a good way to get out without them suspecting anything 

hello. i have a male friend (im a girl) who recently went through a bit of a heartbreak. hes been extremely pissy and condescending in the last few months and has started to treat me really rudely. i know he is depressed so i shouldnt be to hard on him. ive stuck by his side but being around him has started to affect my self esteem negatively. we used to have good laughs together so i try to make jokes when we hang out and keep a positive energy but he doesnt respond well. he treats me like im stupid when al im trying to do is cheer him up. what do i do in this situation?

you don't deal with there little rotten asses as well(and if they have bad parents,it's still doesn't excuse there behavior)so what should or can be done to deal with evil vile little trashy pos,to stop them form continuing to bully others,and maybe grow the hell up?

My best friend, Maia, is always bragging about how good she is and expects me to be happy when she achieves something. She's in 6th grade, passed ABRSM grade 8 piano at 10 and is doing DipAbrsm now. Apparently, maia's also perfect pitch. She won the national champion for y12 and fifth for y14 fencing. She said that her lexile is like college sophomore level and she's also a really good debater, but I think she's a little too arrogant to keep on bringing those things up...?

Hi I have a Best friend we been Best friends for 8 years but my best friend always wants my password to my accounts. I always tell her why do she need my password she always tells me for she can check up on her ex on my page since he had blocked her. By the way this is on Facebook. One day my best friend was going through my messages and she goes through my likes and everything. I find it kinda creepy because what person just wants your password to be nosy and see who are you texting or etc. so I decided to change my password again she gets mad at me and always asking why I changed my password she needed it when she doesn't honestly it's like she wants my password to be nosy by the way we are both 21 now she still acts like a little 16 year old. What should I do ? Pleas help 

i always thought my best friend would never talk bad or negative about me to her boyfriend. i do not talk bad about her or our friendship to anyone. but i read this text from her phone and it hurt me so much. i know reading off her phone is bad and secretive from her but i needed to see this ig. she texted her boyfriend they "she didn't want that long with me" meaning she didn't want to have more time with me than what was needed. i need help bc that is my worst fear in the world, to feel unwanted and i think that just hit it completely 

Why is it that this new girl walks into my life and we click more than my best friend of 10 years do. Me and my best friend just have a good time when we out  It's low key bothering me inside I'm like hmmm  Can't even vent to my best friend like this so she really my best friend then 

I have been having recent problems with people that I have been building general relationships with and they seem very nice to me when I first meet them and I learn later on that they do not choose to want anything to do with me or they say rude things about me behind my back or whenever I do something wrong they immediately report me to their boss at their work whenever I shop there when all I do is talk to them I never have done anything out of line to them, but this sort of thing has been happening recently and they act so sweetly to me but I learn that they are two faced and fake as if they are annoyed by me where I live people don't talk about the elephant in the room right away. They do it at the "last straw" as a warning like "this has happened too many times and we are telling you now" when they should have to begin with. I am getting far too frustrated with this behavior from other people who pretend to like me sometimes I feel like it is my fault. How can I deal with those certain people or those types of fake people?

I'm a reallly shy person when I am with people I live with like my family or my cousins I act like a wild ************ but if someone else wants to talk to me I can't seem to act like that around them and I stay to myself how do I change that cause I really wanna step out of my comfort zone and be crazy infront of others too and show who I really am.

I'm a guy and I'm 28 and my old friend Tara is 28. I have a learning disability. From 2013-2017 we were friends. She was very protective of me and we also lived in separate states and that made her extra protective of me and she worried about me a lot. She called me honey and dear and darling , she said that she loved me very much and I was very special to her and she was always looking out for me. She treated me like a little brother even though we're the same age. Did Tara treat me like a little brother