There's only 12 students in my class. When I went to the restroom, they started playing a game. I got back and they all looked at me and didn't invite me to play with them. Like, wtf? And we're 12th graders, not kindergarteners.

At work a guy said he thought I didnt have a voice cause i never talk. Thats not evn true because he was one f the people that trained me on he job. So obviously we did talk before. Im tired of people judging me for being quiet and shy. People asking if im ok randomly or asking if im shy. It just makes me shut down. I think im doing good and being friendly and then i get hit with the stupid rude why are you so quiet comments. Then i lose my motivation to continue even trying to be outgoing.

Hey, so I have this friend, Sara, which I've known for 2-3 years. However I think I'm outgrowing her. She's a very sweet girl and I love her from the bottom of my heart but I feel like she isn't challenging me enough? I've changed and matured so much from last year and I'd like to surround myself with people that inspire me. I don't feel like my best self around her yk? At first I thought I would distance myself from her by staying friends but just not as close as before. The thing is the same thing happened to me. My best friend for years slowly started to distance herself by ignoring me, having excuses to meet ups, and hanging with other friends.And I get that now, we weren't on the same page and I don't blame her for cutting ties. But at the time it was all so confusing since we were so tight before. It kinda hurt since she would smile at me and treat my friendly but never let me get close to her, now we only see one another in the hallways and walk past each other like strangers. So would it be better to tell Sara upfront that I don't want to be friends? I feel like a dick since just yesterday she told me how she has trouble making friends. We're in the same friend group but whenever we're all hanging out she is sorta isolated from the rest of us. Thus, I usually separate myself too so that she's not alone. Which results in me feeling tethered and she definitely deserves much more than a relationship based from pity.  Thank you for your time and any advice would be great.

I told this guy that he would have plenty of time to f*ck me. And that I would just stay with him for a couple of hours. Below is what a guy said to me. You were just gonna come for one ******* never come back I bet.

Im in high school and I feel myself slowly distancing away from my friends. I started school with only my best friend that I knew from middle school.she is way more outgoing than me and created the bond between us and this friend group. It was really nice in the beginning. But the thing is, I don't really talk much? And because of that I never personally got close with any of them,  maybe because my best friend would do all the talking for me assuming that I couldn't speak for myself. Despite this, I felt comfortable with them all and ate with them during lunch with no problems, with my best friend by my side. However, my best friend has changed and started hanging out with other people who I absolutely have nothing in common with and they're just a differnt crowd than I'm used to. She's into things I don't particularly like and even has an interest in weed now. Like that's not bad but I have known her for so long and remember when she would say she would never do that. But anyway, after she tried it for the first time it's like she's someone else. And i'm just not into that kind of thing? And because she no longer really hangs out with me, I've lost the connection with the friend group (they don't care about me either lol) and I pretty much am alone all of the time. Beginning of school, lunch, all the time. And although im lonely, i dont have the interest in making new friends? Also Im a junior and it feels like everyone has their own groups already formed. advice?

This guy thinks I'm just going to f*ck him once and not come back. I know most men could care less about this.

I have a friend online, and well, He asked this question. I really care about him and it really saddens me 'cause he's only 16. He mentioned that he needed self care plans 'cause he's pretty bad for looking out for himself. Any ideas on what to tell him?

This guy thinks I'm just going to **** him once and not come back. Most men could care less about this. 

So long story short, me and my girlfriend work together In a hotel as housekeepers, we come in got out housekeeping boards, she got 3 checkouts and 12 stay overs, I got 7 checkouts and 11 stay over, she finished around 3:00, she tell me to hurry up, I'm trying to hurry up, at that time I was already on my last 4 stay overs, she tells me to "HURRY THE FK UP" she starts arguing that I'm taking my time when I'm literally trying to finish faster, she keeps telling me that I'm just waiting time, that I should of been finish, I told her "I had more checkouts than you I had 7 you had 3" she responded "I DONT GIVE A FK HOW MANY ROOMS YOU HAD YOU FKN ***** STOP TAKIMG FOR ****** EVER YOU SHOULD OF BEEN DONE ALREADY" I was trying to do my work but she just keeps telling me ****, am I wrong? Did I take for ever? I just can't seem to understand, how I was taking long, how can I handle this, who's is wrong? 

Ok. I have a friend's bday coming up March 17 (yes her bday is on st Patrick's day.). Anyways, a lot of times when she sees you she has a habit of calling you (the general you) a nickname. Well at least to some people. So I thought I would go to cafe press and design a water bottle. She already has a water bottle, but I've been told more than once that people can have more than water bottle. These are the 2 designs I've come up with. Very similar but slightly different wording. Which one would be better? Or do you think I should word it in a way I dont have here? Also no matter your answer, do you think I should put my name on the bottom, like saying who its from? If so how should I sign at the bottom, like what words should I use? Thank you for your help in advance. If I decide on this as the main big gift, i need to order it in the next day or 2 to make sure the delivery date is before her bday and has a little cushion incase its a couple days late.

I'm fun, outgoing, loyal to my friends and family. but sometimes when it came to other people I always felt that I was doing 'the most'. especially when I got to college, I knew alot of people from my undergraduate years, but at the same time I had few friends because I knew the difference between acquaintances and friends. in my last year I was around this group alot, there were alot of individuals in this group. some of them I knew from years prior and others I had just met that year. at first when I came around some of them that had never talked to me before acted a little weird but others were pretty welcoming. as the year went on things started to get better, until one of the girls best friend passed away.then everthing after that was kind of weird towards the two of us. we would see each other out and sometimes things would be fun and other times I felt that she was avoiding me. the group had an end of the year bonfire and didn't even bother to invite me. one of the girls in the group then started seeing a guy I used to be good friends with until he called my best friend the c word because she didn't like him back the way he thought she did. from that point it was weird between us, and by graduation I felt that everyone and anyone was against me. recently the girl unfollowed me from instagram and I have no idea why. even though I haven't seen them in two years, it makes me wonder if there was a problem. I'm just over here minding my business.

I don;t understand it. Guys do this especially. Why do people do this. Why mock such a touchy subject. It is none of anyone's business of who is dating who, or who i sexing who. It mostly seems to be about sex.  People (guys mostly) love to either mock peope who arnt getting any. The person might be celibate for religious or spiritual reasons, so why make fun of them for it. But its even more annoying for those who not having sex get mocked for it like its something wrong with them. Its annoying as hell, and it can lead to resentment of others (hence the existence of these angry incells, had they not been mocked its almost as bad as people who judge other's for their sex lives. Why do people do it? in this case its usually religious people judging others (usually women) for their sex lives. Again, it is none of their business. Why do people insist on getting in other people's bedrooms. (especially in politics, and the same people will tell others to stay out of their pocketbook, but will try to legislate laws regarding other peope's relationships/sex lives,,,,,hypocrisy) (and some of these guys end up caught doing what they are legislating against) Again, why mock or judge what has no impact on you or your family. Why do people do this?

Hi! I am a 17 yo girl and my best friend is a 17 yo boy. We text everyday on instagram. However, he is a notoriously bad texter. He will like things and post things yet he hasnt read your message. He does this to everyone, but I love him and really want to talk. He is very busy (as am I but I respond to everyone in a timely manner).  For example, yesterday his brother facetimed me and flipped the camera on my best friend. he was outside chilling out ON HIS PHONE when I had texted him while back.  Its not that my best friend doesnt want to talk, hes just a bad texter. How do I tell him his texting habits annoy me nicely?  Thank you!

My friend randomly sent me a picture of a toddler he clearly found online and when I asked him about it, he said it's "our kid" and that "we are her parents". A while ago he texted me a pic of his own niece and asked me "who is that?" Some other things about his character/personality: When he giggles playfully, the sound of it reminds me of Pennywise the Clown's giggle and sometimes it sounds like the kid Arnie (Leonardo Dicaprio)'s giggle from the movie "What's Eating Gilbert Grape?" I don't get it. Sometimes, I wonder if my friend is mentally challenged, but how can I be sure? Because sometimes it's like he is while other times, it's like he is truly intelligent and normal with no issues.

We are both females She acts like crazy when she realized that i have confidence She acts like crazy everytime i am with her Maybe i should stop make company with her??

I'm 19 (btw). The other night we were in my car and my car is really old it's 17 years old. So my friend purposely decides to put a burn mark on my seat because he thought it was funny, I yell at him and clearly I am upset about the situation. Everyone is sent home after this as I say I'm going home so everyone leaves my car. This is second time recently my friend has done some super immature disrespectful **** he threw my friends vape out the window the other day cuz he's immature asf. So the next day He asks me to hang out and I explain to him about the situation and how I feel. I say "how would feel if burned your car." He says pissed but justifys it by saying "his car has perfect interior" not even to mention I payed for my car and he didn't. Throughout the argument (over text) he never says I'm sorry and the closest he says is my bad and tries to minimize the situation. So the next day I decided to call him on the phone to discuss it with him and he doesn't say sorry until Tell him he never did and basically does the same thing. Then the next day he hits me and my friend up saying we are "being pussys and we need to grow tf up" he keeps Apologizing but contradicts his apology every time and tries to make it seem like I'm overreacting. You guessed it goes the same way. Then he brings in a gc and exposes that I told people a secret I shouldn't have and tries to make me look like I'm the asshole and the disrespectful one. It escalates obviously. Whatshouldido?

there is this "friend" I have let's call them Sam and they are really negative. They make me feel dumb and like I need to try harder. they also get mad at me easily. they're quite intimidating and I let them boss me around. and I can't work up the courage to say no to them. I'm trying to more now buts hard cause i feel like a bad person. We use to have a mutual friendship but not anymore. Now they just boss me around and they're trying to break up my friendship with a really good friend of mine. What should I do?

Rent is due soon, I told everyone In the group chat to send me rent. One person didn't respond for two days, so I reminded him to pay me rent in the morning. He didn't send me the rent all day, so at night time, when I got home, I asked him if he can pay the rent tonight. Venmo takes about 1 to 3 days and it's already Wednesday. He didn't bother checking the group chat where I always post the screen shot of the utilities, electricity varies each month and sent me the wrong amount. I'm not accusing him that he was trying to pay me less. My problem is that people don't bother checking the group and I have to remind them or repeat myself over and over. I told him that he had sent me the wrong amount. After he didn't bother checking the amount, he asked me what is the amount. I told him to check the chat. Later I told him that please check the group chat form now on. His response was that the group chat is too toxic because of me. Well, in my defense, he's the one who won't say anything to a roommate who never does the dishes, never throws out the trash and never checks the group chat because he has anxiety. Since day 1, before we even moved in together into the current apartment, while I did all the work hunting for apartment, keeping everyone posted, I had to repeat myself over and over and over. I'm fed up because I have to continue to repeat myself because nobody every responds, then I'm told I'm toxic What the hell is wrong with college kids these days? There is another roommate who is inconsiderate, thick headed and lacks common sense. He doesn't realize that being loud enough to wake up people in the morning is an act of selfishness or inconsiderate act. He never throws out the trash and people have been complaining to me. He also never does the dishes and I have get upset at him. But I'm the usual one who says anything to him while everyone else is passive. then I get blamed because I'm aggressive.  I mean, I wouldn't have to be intense if everyone communicated and got involved when things happen. Instead, Im the only one who actually cares about anything, says anything about it. The same kid who tells me that I'm too intense, doesn't have enough common sense to cough into other people's food and says "I'm not sick so that's okay" or leaves other people's room door open because for the sun light. But when asked not to do it, he says "I don't mind if someone else does it to me" I mean, is it normal to be endlessly patient with them? I'm so fed up with them I can't wait until current academic year is over. Am I supposed to be forever patient to idiots who leaves their clothes in the washers or dryers and goes to sleep or leave for classes while I also have to wash my clothes? I'm a transfer student and I lived a tough life and worked at tough jobs so I have more discipline. I see you selfish lazy immature retards sympathizing with a**hole roommates. F you idiots too

Her and I signed up for a credit card and she got approved for a card that has a $300 credit limit and when I told her mine was $7,000 she acted kind of weird and was wondering why and asking me questions??? And I told her I have a job interview for a full time job with benefits on Friday and all of a sudden today she texted me telling me she has a job interview tomorrow???

I kinda find it very shellfish of my friend. If I do something on my own and without my friend which is succeeding a goal, she gets very quiet when I talk to her about it. I feel like a friend should always support your dreams and give feed back. every time I talk about my goals with her I never get feed back she just switches the topic on her goals I find it very rude but I just listen to her anyways because I'm not that type of friend. It's weird because if me and her succeed a goal together she's so happy about it she always says things like I'm so happy for us. For example if we both get a job interview and get the job she's so dramatic and happy. But let's say a opportunity comes through for me and not her. she's not happy for me she gets kinda irritated by me and she doesn't says she's happy for me then. I feel like she's only happy for me when she's involved in it I find that kinda shellfish because I'm supportive of her goals all the time even when it's without me. I remember one time I did a modeling photo shoot and told her how great it went she was not happy for me when she wasn't included. But when she succeeded things without me I'm always happy for her. Another thing is if she feel like she's winning more then me and more at the top she supports me, but if I'm winning more then her she's not that happy it's like it's competitive with her. Every time I try  confronting her she put the blame back on me like I'm the one who's wrong what can I do ?

If you gave someone something that they used. Then told you they wished they had more of that something, so you gave them more of that something. But then they did something different instead of using what you gave them when they said they wished they had more. Do you think they meant what they said when they said they wished they had more? If so, why once given that would they do/use something else? If they didn't mean it, why say they wished they had more? The main reason I'm confused about it is I'm only guaranteed to see this person for another week ans what I gave them would only last a week or 2 for them. What they have now will last 2-4weeks. So if they decide to use what I gave them after what they have now is gone, I may not see them anymore, so may not see if/when they do use them. And the last question would be why wouldnt they use what you gave them that last less than first while they see you before using the thing that last longer?