I am a guy intern at a company. My good friend Ann is also an intern at the company. One day Ann's mom came buy to pick her up from work and Ann introduced me to her mom. We had a brief conversation before they left. Ann's mom seemed to me to be a very nice person. The next day a work Ann asked me if I saw anything unusual about her mom. I did. Her mom had the biggest boobs I had ever seen. However there was no way I was going to say that to Ann. I just said "your mom is unusually beautiful". I though I had dodged a bullet by not saying anything about her mom's boobs. Giving this more thought I think Ann wanted me to say something about her mom's unusual boob size. But what could I say? Did I do the right thing to not comment about boob size?

This guy and I met on Facebook awhile ago it will be a year in July. We live 5 hours away in different states. It takes an hour to get there if I fly and 5 hours if I drive. We are going to meet soon and he's saying that he wants me to stay for a weekend he wants a relationship. But for now, I would only be able to see him for 8 hours a day every two weeks. But this would only be temporary until I take my state exam for school in six months. Then I'll be able to see him more often every other weekend. Of course, If we really like each other I'd move.

I'm a guy and I'm 28 and my friend from work is 18 or about to be 19. I have learning disabilities. She's very compassionate and is very sweet and nice to me and enjoys talking to me. She is just like my former friend Tara who is 28. She's very smart even smarter than me and she's very sweet and is protective of me. She has a similar personality to my friend Tara.

over the years I've had many frenemies. So I feel like when this sort of thing happens I'm not really too surprised by it anymore. I just want to talk about it though. Sometimes I wonder why it's so easy for people to exclude me or befriend me. My husband always tells me it's because other woman are jealous but I don't think that's the case. I've had women who are much more beautiful, intelligent, and successful be mean to me. Everywhere that I have worked, no one ever invites me out or shows any interest in being friends. When I make friends, it's either through my husband or online. And they don't tend to stick around for too long. Either they just stop talking to me, don't invite me places, or start being frenemies. In 2014 I picked up a bad habit. I hate to say it, but I'm an alcoholic now. Most days I feel depressed and feel like I don't fit in. And to keep myself from getting too sad I just get drunk. If there is anyone out there that feels the same way. Please reach out to me. It'll make me feel like I'm not alone in this situation.

So I'm an RA with my own room. The room is pretty decent for a college dorm, but it's still not big. I have a large white rug that covers about 2/3 of the room. This weekend I had my cousin over and I told her to be careful not to eat on the rug and to make sure to use the table when eating. She didn't really care, though, and kept eating pizza on the rug without a plate. I told her not to but like she kept doing it. Other than that, she could do whatever she wanted with my stuff (if she wanted to) and could do anything else. I just asked that she kept things clean and she was like pretty annoyed by it. Anyways on like the last day, she spilled eyeshadow on my rug and didn't tell me. She had left at this point so I texted her saying why didn't you tell me. She replied that she didn't realize she spilled it on the rug. So I was like okay, i'm not upset . Then she texts me that I was being a control freak and what not. Yet she failed to mention all this when we were together. And my rug is still stained and i'm annoyed because I don't currently have enough cleaning supplies. Like why is she upset, shouldn't I be the mad one?

One time when I was a kid I decided to ride my bike around the neighborhood and then a cop showed up out of nowhere and asked me a bunch of questions.  I feel like as a kid it was okay to walk to the bus stop because I was just a kid taking the bus but now as an adult I just seem out of place. Idk I don't want to make people uncomfortable especially since it's mainly elderly white people in my neighborhood.  One time a girl at my school bus stop told me that I don't belong there because i'm a n******  I didn't move here, I was raised here

I havnt seen him for months and we don't talk anymore and we never dated. I stopped talking to him for a good reason but I cant seem to shake him out of my head. WHY

Recently I went out with a friend and had a few too many. She brought me home and made sure I was ok. Later a friend I've known for a while came over but idk what happened between that point and waking up to him on top of me. Idk if I consented or not but when I came around I was in extreme pain and telling him to stop. Not only does he keep going but I find out he didn't even use protection. I feel so embarrassed and conflicted. I feel like this is my fault because I let myself get so drunk but I'm more upset that I don't remember an entire period of time that we apparently were having sex and finally fully started to wake up because it was so painful. I was sore and hurting the day after and still a little sore. He is sending messages that basically want me to state what happened and had the audacity to tell me let's get together again. I just don't know how I should feel. I feel in the wrong for getting to that situation but is he in the wrong too? I'm just conflicted of the whole situation. Did I say ok or did he take advantage?

I am a guy in my mid-20s and three of my close guy friends and I went out of town and had a good time. Well, we were at the one bar and they had a mechanical bull and my friends begged me to go and ride it. It was a pretty crowded the night we went, which means a lot of people was watching me. Well I stayed on for about 90 seconds. Now the problem was, and my friends told me afterwards, I was giving everyone a good show of my butt. 1/2 to 3/4 of my butt ended up showing and I was wearing shirt that did not cover any of it. A lot of people were yelling "crack kills" and different comments. My friends told me they saw a lot of people video-tapping me, and I am really embarrassed now. Do you think they will post those videos on the internet? If yes, is there anything I can do? And why would they do that? My friends said a lot of girls and guys were video-tapping. UGH!!

I'm a guy and I'm 28 and I have a learning disability. My friend who I met at work is 18 or about to be 19. She is nice to me and she told me I'm awesome and she likes talking to me. When I told her on the first day of the week I would be there working the other part of the week it made her happy and she said awesome she also asked me how I'm doing after I asked her how she's doing?

I'm a guy with a learning disability and my new friend who I met at work is 18 or almost 19. I told her that someone told me that someone stole my Instagram pictures and placed them on a bunch of websites I searched and found no evidence of that, I told my friend and she got suspicious and concerned and gave me some advice which I don't remember what she actually said she claimed the message I received was a total scam. She's going to college this fall. I'm 28

I have a friend who got married before I did and I was amazed she got married before me. She has no life goals, has never had a real job, gone to school, or even driven. She met this guy on an online dating site and the guy lived out of state. He came down to meet her, then she went up to meet him. At one point she was crying that he wouldnt come down to meet her a second time. He then did and lived with her and her family for a few months.  He then proposed to her and they have been married for about 4 years now. I work full time, have done some college, and I am pretty and smart. I am a very kind and caring person. I have no guy wanting to marry me. It's just so weird how life is. Why is it that life happens that way?

They always tell me about there problems and so on but when I talk about mine or some thing that makes me happy they don't want to hear it or anything because they have there own problems but they are dealing with the same thing. So why do people treat me so weird and don't want me to say some issues that I can talk and feel better about but I let them talk

I recently made a friend who's a girl. We aren't super close but we talk sometimes and we always smile and say hi in the hallways. I once unadded her on snapchat thinking she didn't care about me because she ignored my desire to talk to her about my depression and I thought we were done, but she still smiled at me and told me she didn't hate me, so I felt like an idiot and apologized the next day. While doing that, I told her her smile makes my day, and she laughed and said aw thanks. Then after apologizing for unadding her I said "hug?" and she said sure and we gave eachother a one arm hug. Then that's when it seemed bad. She said Ok bye! even though she was alone and then I left. The next day I came to just thank her for something, and she seemed super uncomfortable and wouldn't talk to me besides saying "ok". I noticed that and left right away because I didn't want to make her feel bad. So I added her on snapchat to apologize to her for whatever I did wrong and she didn't reply back or accept my friend request - and now I feel so awful and bad. How can I apologize to her? Does she hate me now? What did I do wrong?

I started school on February 3rd and there is this new kid that is so annoying because he follows me and makes me feel really uncomfortable and I really don't want to see him anymore. So the only solution to this is for me to leave that school but that isn't so simple. 

I'm a guy and I'm 28 and my female friend who I met at work is 18 or 19 or about to be 19. I told her that someone told me on Instagram that someone had taken one of my Instagram pictures and put it all over the web on some website. My friend appeared to be suspicious of whoever did that to my picture. I have a learning disability. She someone's talks to me using a motherly/older sister and compassionate voice only around me. Is she just very protective of me?

For eight hours a day? Obviously I'll want to eventually move closer, this would only be temporary. 

I know I can't control his friends, but his friend "E" and his girlfriend obviously talk **** about me. I believe I am strong enough to disregard their noise and work on my stuff, but I am getting sick of this. If my friend talked crap about my husband, I would not have wanted to be around them. (negative influence and vibe) What do you think? I appreciate your transparent opinion.

Why is that?

For example, if I drip water on the floor, she won't let me wipe it up insisting that I do it wrong and goes on how I never clean up after myself probably. However she has left the same dirty pots and pans on the stove for over a week, covering literally every table and counter space in the common areas with dirty dishes to the point where the house smells rancid. She complains how I never help with dishes even though I wash everything I use and out it away promptly after use.  I want to move out but she has a melt down saying I will make her drop out of school if I do. 

He makes me so happy and excited. I want to touch him.but I cant.  THARS NOT CREEPY 😂 

Leaving the home and soceity is not easy as there are lots of memories and money involved. Then how?

Now you have a gay friend. Should you tell all your friends and his friends? And his parents?

she is suppose to be my best friend but she hates very much when i feel confidence and she always tries to put me down and convince me that i am ugly also What is her problem?? i cant understand.... I am always nice to her

So throughout high school just like everyone I was apart of a specific group of friends. High school was only 3 years ago so I still hang out with a few of them who do genuinely like me. However I've realized the others in the group don't like me to put it mildly. I've confronted my 2 friends from the group that do like me about it a few times when I see the larger group gets together and I'm never invited. The first time they said I wasn't a real part of the group because I wasn't in the group until high school and I guess you had to been in it since middle school. So the second and most recent time they hung out I again brought it up and my 2 friends spoke what is most likely true. They flat out said everyone there except them (which I don't believe because they aren't going against the majority of the group) was very clear about the fact that they can't stand my presence and that me just being within 100 feet of them kills the mood. To be fair to them, in high school this was 100% the truth. I was not at all fun to be around and complained about every inconvenience. I'd say I've changed. I wish I could just prove that I'm better than i was in high school. Most people think I should just make new friends but I don't think ive made a friend on my own ever. I've always made friends through others. What should I do to either restore my reputation or accept that these people just won't ever see me as anyone other than who I was in high school.

Long story short, one of my housemate decided to leave because he feels uncomfortable with me. To be fair, I had problems with him because he would not wash the dishes, not throw out the trash, leave his clothes in the washer/dryer and leave the house, have eaten other people's food without their permission and have disturbed other people during their sleep in the mornings. My housemates, who tends to be passive and avoiding confrontations, or being selectively critical about him only an event that effects them occurred, were also complaining to me so it a lot of the times I would encourage them to confront him. At times I was aggressive with him in terms of my choice words sometimes, because I would say things in the group chat but I would not get a response from him, no one else would say anything if it didn't effect them. So I would get frustrated at the lack of involvement, action and response from them. Now they're telling me that I could've been less intensive and making feel everyone uncomfortable. I admit that I am sometimes a bit intense, but at the same time I don't play games, I don't put up with BS, so when someone acts up, I won't always be patient and nice with them. The guy leaving, was often playing victim, claiming that I whine about things too much while he was at complete fault(everyone else agreed with me) and claimed that I was after him for personal reasons. They clearly complained to me about him and told me that his departure warranted and when I did a lot of work to tell him to fix his behaviors. But now that he is leaving, they're telling me I could've taken a different measure when I put in a lot of the work, if not most of the work. I don't think it's fair for them when they haven't done jack **** I hate being condescending but he was immature, not wanting to own up to his mistakes, trying to go for petty revenge with light sarcasm. Not to mention he lacked common sense and he had a thick head. Good riddance along with ungrateful roommates. P.S - When I screw up, I don't give excuses. First thing I do is acknowledge that I've made a mistake and I own up to it by admitting and apologizing, followed by action to repair the damage I caused. I f**king hate people who aren't brave enough to admit their mistakes, make excuses for their failures, play victim and blame it on other people. I'm sick of it. I work way too hard to put up with that kind of BS. Plus, he said "if my ex-roommates ever tell you what I did, my life would literally end" I knew this was a red flag. He was the second ever roommate that I had to get angry at ever in my life and I'm a senior so I had many roommates up to this point. I never had a problem with anybody except two people, including him in 4 years.

So I had a game Friday but I'm on Jv and we were playing out rivals Midlothian Heritage and they were so good , but we won and our varsity didn't. So now their coach is making them go to practice tomorrow and he chose some of us Jv players to go but I dont want to go and don't want to let them down what should I do?

It is so much more comfortable for me, however i was recently talking to one of my best friends about weird school events and he brought up wear your pajamas to school day. I made a joke about sleeping naked. He laughed it off and said he thought it was gross, and that he wouldn't be friends with people who did that. That made me think "is this normal" and i dont know.

My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months. He has been nothing but wonderful and I consider him to be my number one best friend because he and I are closer than I have been with anyone before. However ever since the start of our relationship hes had a serious disliking for my friend. He and my brother tell me that they believe she is a bad influence in my life and not a good friend. When we first became friends she was sweet, understanding and had the biggest heart I've ever seen. Although for the past year, she has talked behind my back about something very special to me and said an incredibly rude joke to my brother regarding his weight. She said terrible things to one of my friends and tore her self esteem down. My boyfriend doesn't like when I talk about her or even to her. I tell him everything so he knows all the things she has done. We almost had our first argument over it because I don't want to drop her as a friend because I know that she's better than how she's acting. He tells me that it's up to me what I do- he just hopes I make the right choice but I don't know what that is. I care about her a lot, she's incredibly sensitive and is already going through a lot in her life especially at home. I don't know what to do because I don't want to hurt her or making things worse for her by leaving but i don't want to upset my boyfriend and brother either by making the wrong choice

I thought it meant that the songs that she has in her playlist meant that she still thinks about me but I guess she just likes the songs.  but one of my friends have song that have quiet on it. And I thought it meant that she was thinking about me but I guess it doesn't mean anything I guess she just likes the song. But on her playlist she has quiet hearts, it's oh so quiet & quiet storm

So there's someone I love with everything I have. I didn't know it was love while I was being close friends with him. He left from my life and he basically blocks me on everything and told me to never communicate him and said we aren't friends. While I think about those moments we spent time together at school and we only been friends for two years but I always sit with him at lunch and I feel jealous while he's talking to others and not me and I wanna be the only friend to him. Last 3 years that since he left, my life have not been good and everyday I always stress and depressed and when things get hard I mourn his name and I think back of good moments while we were together. I talk to his picture and I cry a lot and I think about him like 50% of my day and I know it's impossible to see him again in this life but I can't like or love anyone but all I think about is him. So help me and advice me how do I forget him, and also it's one-sided love and he didn't even know all this happening to me while we were together as friends.

Even though i said i would go i feel that i might be strange to go to her party since she is 16

Ok, so My best friend (m16) and his brother (m14) are two of my best friends. They live an hour away and happen to be in town this weekend. I went to their hotel to hang out with them yesterday (Saturday). Today, Sunday, I went out to lunch with my best friends ex girlfriend (my other best friend). My best friend and his ex didnt say a word; however i went to hug my best friend and his brother. A few minutes later, the waitress brings out a cake and goes "that family over there bought this". Is this because hes trying to win his ex back or because he has a crush on me?

you have to still be a teen