Hi! I moved to Guangzhou (Huadu District) about a week ago and was looking for social basketball groups or even public or paid courts where I can shoot around. I've asked some locals and they always point me towards the city centre which is about a 1.5 hour commute each way. I don't mind the commute, as long as there's an organised club or group that plays at set times, so my commute isn't wasted. Any help would be great, Cheers!!

I live in Illinois and our wedding is going to cost us about $14,000. I'm constantly seeing that spending so much money can ultimately mean a doomed marriage. How much was your wedding worth and are you still married?

I found this empty blister pack in my laundry basket. I asked the only possible culprit my husband and my daughter both denied ownership. I trust my husband, So, the only possibility is my daughter got it from someone in school. It seems like its a set,but there's is a round space above, between the two empty shapely space. i also thought it is from a tiny device part, but its stamped with a date, that seems like an expiration date. So it must be something consumable. Thanks for trying!

My husband says he should be able to do whatever he wants to me (the more it hurts me the more he likes it) and he hates when I say no to anal so much that he resents me. Last night he could tell I didn't want it and went to sleep on the couch. I hate it and feel that it's for his pleasure only. I never say no to sex and feel that should be enough. Do most people do this? He said it only lasts for a minute and a half and I should take it or I'm closing myself off to him. He has stopped kissing me, saying I love you or treating me as a wife, mostly over his anger. I feel I'm in a no win situation. Help?!

So recently I got sick and went from 94 lbs to 88 lbs, I'm 5'1/2 btw (not 5'5) so I'm pretty small. I'm currently recovering from my sickness and when ever I want to eat some American food (like a burger) my husband (Japanese) calls me a fat ***, I mean I get that he's joking, maybe, but I don't think now is a good time to joke like that when my BMI is borderline anorexia, (or maybe it is anorexia nervosa now idk) his comments on my body based on my food choices kind of hurt and make me not want to eat :/ which I'm aware isn't a good idea right now. (For background information we live in Japan, but I'm American)

My brother and his wife live with me & my parents. She's from India & since immigrating from India to uk to live with my brother she hasn't gone back to India. I think she's bitter about this. Since I introduced my fiancé to my family she has been acting extremely defensive & rude with me. I don't know how to handle this without causing a scene as I'm getting married soon & I don't want to cause myself any stress.

What should I expect at the mediation? My son is one year old and his father has always gone weeks and months at a time without asking about him or seeing him since he was 3 months old. He went February-April with no contact. And June- until now with no contact. I'm going to assume he's going to try to get our son 50/50 but I'm not going to agree to anything like that. I would agree to supervised visitation. I was reading online not having a give and take attitude could make the judge mad and that's the last thing I want to do. How can I go about the situation as smoothly as possible?

If I don't I don't have to give her half of my stuff

I want to know what the f is my in-laws problem. Its probably me but wtf, what about their son and their grandchildren? Are they that really f up in the head? My in-laws moved away after a family dispute that involved me marrying his son, we now have kids together and they don't care to see them, they have only seen them maybe 3 times at most and it has been forced sorta. Whenever they are in town they never call my husband, my father in law has always preferred spending time with his nephew.. according to my husband it has been this way since he can remember. How f sad is that? Anyway when I married my husband things were good until they wanted us to live a lifestyle I wasn't comfortable living. My in-laws love money and like to be surrounded by materialistic things, I on the other hand am not like that at all! Finally my sister in law and I had this big fight and we both did some nasty things to each other, I was pregnant at the time and my hormones got the best of me after that they moved far away. My husbands sister wants her parents all to herself and they do everything she says, I mean everything! I'm constantly telling my husband to call them because I don't want him to be like them, I encourage my husband to love his parents and always reach out and tell them he loves them -my husband is a very kind. Today he found out they are in town and he was turned down, inlaws going to spend time with cousin instead. Husband and cousin same age. I don't understand....

I am truly concerned, about my husband mental health. My mother in law recently passed away, when she was sick she made my husband promise to take care of my father in law. The problem is my father in law is such a horrible toxic person, however my husband is so kind hearted, he will not break the promise he made his dying mother nor will he stand up to his father. In turn now I have to listen to my husband, vent about him, and my father is law is making my husband miserable. I am not sure how is step in, causing the least amount of problems as possible. Example: I was in the hospital, having surgery my husband was with me, at the same time my father in law had an appointment with his cardiologist. Now every day he calls my husband telling him how worthless he is because he was not a good son he was not there for him. He told him over and over he needed to be with me, but still takes it from his dad. I told him to just hang up but he won't he feels he breaking that promise to his mom.

The place I'm from it is not uncommon for men to abuse and dominate their wives. Does this happen in Western countries too or not as much? I'm guessing it does not happen as much in white majority countries.

I cheated on my baby's father right away when he didn't live in the same town and said we would "marry eventually". I didn't want to waste my time on someone who wouldn't give me a ring! Now I'm married to a wonderful man. What are your thoughts?

When I think of my husband dying I feel so up upset & I cry to myself but I don't find happiness with him anymore. I don't know if I love him anymore. Caring for him doesn't come naturally to me anymore and I've stopped being affectionate. But I cry thinking of him being hurt and the day he will die. I'm not happy with our lifestyle and he only cares about his parents and siblings.