I don't know what happened. He's always been kind. It's like I'm dealing with a different person now. What should I do? We've been married for a little more than 2 years.

I have been seeing a married man for 2 months now at first we just hung out to talk now its sex his wife doesn't know about me they dont have kids its just her he said they aren't happy and haven't been in years but she wont divorce him he said we are just friends and I'm ok with it but lately he has been texting me more calling me baby and love I dont get it he keeps sending me mixed signals he said it's just sex I was fine with it but today he called me today and he started talking about our future together and I'll admit I like how it sounds but after two months of sneaking around with him and the way he talks about his wife makes me wonder if I should continue seeing him like this I do like him but I get the feeling he isn't going to leave her even though he tells me how miserable she makes him feel I'm not stupid about that part I'm 33 years old and he is 47 he wants to get the divorces papers but she wont sign them should I stay?

He grew up in a home where there were no rules. Or not enforced enough. his mom will praise him even when wrong. We have had marital issues we are in counseling things are starting to get better. A couple months ago we agreed on sharing household work. He volunteered to clean upstairs. Meaning 4 bedrooms and two bathrooms. It was a good thing because he always despised cleaning bathrooms, so for him to take that on and give me the lightest load was a good thing. he got lazy this week end and decided to clean very fast. I had a problem with the way he did it. not clean enough, we have kids so it's imperative that it's clean. He said he doesn't comment on the way I do things downstairs so I should leave it. I tried to do it myself he felt offended so I left it. last time when he did that I showed him the right way he accepted it but this time he didn't want to do it that way. I understand that he grew up in a household where taking instructions wasn't taken seriously but then again I'm not asking for much do yo I think I should talk to him or wait for counseling to discuss it. I just don't want us to argue over something this simple because he is making huge efforts but at the same time he could do it the right way.

Last time I checked, only the woman can get pregnant.

so we have a bit unusual arrangements. we are friends and my ex makes very good money and does not want me to pay those 200$ ordered by court. so my question is if I don't pay, can state solely sue me if my ex wouldn't? state texas

I'm not sure what to do as the fiance, but I feel like J is being a bit controlling of the relationship their kids. Recently, my fiance and I have identified a job opportunity in another state. It would increase our salary, AND lower our costs of living by at least 30%. We fear she'd withhold summer visitation. Would I be out of line for saying something to her?

Instead of just making one person shut-up and stop complaining? Because, if we were to be truthful (and if you do not agree with this, then you are lying, faking, or a dumbass), the reason a couple seeks counseling is because one of the two people is doing something profoundly impacting the other. So, has there ever been an instance where the counseling actually made a person see what they were doing to the other? Or has it always been the affected person just told to stop complaining?

They are shattering the lives of their five children by getting a divorce after all these years. The father is going to move three hours away near his old girlfriend. Apparently the father's sister and brother are excited that he's getting a divorce as he's moving near them and they hate his wife. I am from the wifey side of the family. I also think the wife has some reason to be hurt though she is the one who fired him as her husband. They are five children's lives have been ruined by them so how do I help them get their parents back together? Four of them are still kids one is an adult now at 21. The couple has broken their vows after 24 years of marriage. Both spouses are guilty. The wife for firing the husband and the husband for being temperamental like a bully.

When the husband has a secret long-term affair with his wife's best friend, how much hate does you think the wife's best friend has towards the wife? The best friend shares confidences with the husband, do you think the wife's best friend feels that the husband can do better? Does jealousy lead to absolute hate?

So my husband and I have been married nearly 7 years. I am thinking about seperating from him because his priorities are off course. We are days away from getting an eviction notice. He is always waiting for the best job to come along. I keep telling him that is fine but at least get a temporary position somewhere. That way we wont starve or get evicted. Well it didnt work. He blew nearly a grand at a casino. Which was bill money. I told him repeatedly to make sure he has that to send to me. And he didn't. See the landlord was working with us because we promised to start paying about 500 a week. Well the land lord is now pissed because he didnt stick to his promise. I am just emotionally exhausted from having to tell the landlord multiple times that we don't have the money. I feel like seperating due to money issues is selfish (I watch Dr Phil) but I also feel that if I want to keep my sanity I have no choice. I need advice something fierce!

A fake friend he had has attacked my husbands character with lies. He's lost friends because of it but mostly everyone knows it's not true. He's forgiven everyone but I'm still angry. He doesn't talk about it but when he does it's sad. He's always been sweet given me kisses held me when we sleep but it's my turn to comfort him

The aunt and kids I am close to but her husband I have never been that close to. They have been married 19 years. Not sure the issues though they never seemed particularly happy and we'd see the aunt (my Mom's sister) far more often then her husband. When my uncle on my Dad's side divorced we always think of his ex-wife still and I have her on Facebook. She was a lot more involved in family stuff though. Only other divorce was my Mom's other sister and she divorced when I was little so I had nothing further to do with the ex other then if seeing him through the kids. He was a creep.

So I am in a long distance relationship with my husband because he is in the military and is currently in AIT. I'm finding it kinda hard to cope with it. Not only is he 1000 miles away but he's gay and around a lot of guys, he even hangs out with one gay guy who is married also but I do know he's married. Something keeeps popping up in my head that my husband is cheating on me but my husband has basically told everyone he is married. But why do I still feel like he's cheating? I would sometimes ask if he could trade with me or if he can send me videos and he's always tells me that he is to tired or that his roommates are there. (The rest is In the photo)

what should i do if i start to feel overwhelmed? lately's she's been feeling upset if i take a couple hours to respond and don't respond automatically. She's at the lowest place she's ever been because a man she was in love with hurt her very badly. But I hate to feel pressured to drop everything i'm doing and consistently text her. I've always done it so many times and i'm already losing out on sleep going to sleep at 2 am because I'm trying to juggle my marriage, texting and being there for my friends and supporting them, cooking, clean, working, doing my hobbies, working, and also in the midst of working on a book. I have a lot in my own life going on emotionally but I'm trying to be the strongg and self-less friend so I hardly ever vent to her. Any advice. if i take a couple hours to text back she will be like " I just won't vent to you anymore." And I was like " sorry, I was in the middle of cooking. Didn't want to burn anything."

do you find it hard to resist temptation and keep your composure when in the presence of an attractive person