You have only met twice and barely talked

Okay so three and a half years ago I made a friend at a new school and we were very good friends. unfortunately i very abruptly had to leave and couldn't return back. i went to a place nearby hoping that she would go there as well soon in like a couple of months time. I didn't know where she lived exactly. i had no way of getting back to the old place. i was at this other place from june to november time, so approx five months. I only knew her for around a month or so, maybe a little longer but definitely no longer than six weeks but we got on so well. i am very limited on friends and keep thinking why don't i not reach out to her despite it being quite a long time. in the november i was again forced to leave and then had absolutely no chance of seeing her at the new place. yes, i could of possibly gone back to the old place and popped in to see her quick, but i was promised she would come to the new place soon so i thought i would wait a few months, but like i said i was forced to leave. i never learned her last name, but on facebook i was searching for her and i finally got a result in the same town, it sounds like her. i really REALLY want to message her and reach out but i worry i will get rejected or she may not want me now as it's been ages and she could get funny about why did i never bother to find her sooner ???? please help me would it be worth a go or not thank you

Im sorry this is long anyways I moved out the state 15 year go from New Jersey to Arizona but every Summer I go back for a month not this Summer there was some family issues anyways I grew up with a disabilities & i was in a disabilities class hole life so I had 3 friends who I thought where my close friends and there bit drama after I moved & so over the years I had problem with this one chick since i went to day camp in my teens up till week go, I have moved on with them and now I have hard time make friends in Arizona cause where I live is now it to hot for the Summer go to pretty much anywhere accepted to bars up Chandler or restaurants & usually are the good place so no one there at park in Summer but Winter there is and most my friend ive made over the years kinda spread apart and live up north of me place called Glendale & near by football stadium and it a 40 mint drive so I want make new friends in town like my 3 old friend does with theirs and they go out just about look like every week up Nyc and that what I miss the east cost.So I am kinda shy at beginning so how do i talk to them and what do I say to them and most the people in my street are usually like go more on vacation to out the country too so what best talk to them and I am 31 with no kids most them I see are like in teens when i go walk my dog. What kind best way of group I can look up on facebook or Instagram for disabilities in my town?

we hung out a lot in july and facetimed nearly every night. now all of a sudden she just stops reaching out to me and stuff. i ask her to hang out, she's busy. i ask her if she wants to ft, she says she's busy. busy this, busy that, but busy with what?? she said 'homework i didn't finish' even though our school never did stuff like that where u had to finish work in the summer. at one point i asked 'hey wanna hang this week?' and she said she was busy with school (again), and the next day she had other friends over. i hope it doesn't sound it, but i'm not jealous by any means. i only asked her if she wanted to hang out like 2-3 times over the course of the whole month of august. i asked one of our mutual friends if she knows anything abt if she's mad at me, and she said that my 'bff' thought i hated her,, but the only reasons she had is bc we didn't invite her to play minecraft at 3am (the only time we play). point a: we used to invite her all the time, and she'd either say she was busy or just never reply. point b: she goes to sleep at like 9pm. and i get it like if she felt hurt by that, but she could've tried at least talking to me about it; that's no reason for her to just straight up ghost me specifically. i just don't understand why she's doing this i keep racking my brain over why, was it because i missed a facetime call?? i can't think of anything else and i'm really confused, i just want things to go back to the way they were :(

My best friends grandma just died and I don't really know how to help her get through this. She was really close to her grandma and pains me so much seeing her hurting.

can you have him arrested and charged with a sex crime?

My guy friend always asks me similar questions to the ones I ask him.. why do guys do that?

i'm asking this question, because i'm desperate for validation in the sense that i'm not alone in this situation, who else can relate to this? Sadly, i'm no longer in touch with any of my childhood friends, the friendships fizzled out due to attending different schools, growing apart or drifting apart from each other.

I feel so bad what I did. Okay so at school which is in college you're all hanging out and then I saw her ex-boyfriend he can talk to me. I resent it a lot because and my best friend broke up because things didn't work out. Let's just cut to the chase we sort of ended up kissing. This is after we started chatting and I'm not sure why I've always had feelings for him and I was a little jealous of him and my best friend dating but I supported them. I just couldn't believe that I kissed him but I sort of liked it and then my best friend saw me. He and I sort of started going out three weeks before ahe abd my boyfriend knew. She ran out and I ran after her. She confronted me for kissing her ex-boyfriend and going out with him while I have a boyfriend and called me a whore. I tried to explain to her that he kissed me but she was not buying it and said that I've been lying and going out with her ex-boyfriend behind her back and didn't consider her feelings but also going behind my boyfriend's back. She told me to never ever speak to her again in the true best friend would never do that in a real woman when go behind her boyfriend's back seeing another man. She threatened to tell my boyfriend if I didn't. Right now ex president doesn't go to my school. Anyways I called them up and I told him what's been happening and he was crushed. He confronted me and yelling at me why would I do this to him and he's been a great boyfriend to her and I would cheat on him like that. He told me what's even worse is that I didn't even call to meet up and we have to do it over the phone. He told me that he didn't want to talk to me on the phone and had to think about it. It's been two weeks and he finally told me that he never wants to see me again and he broke up with me. I lost two amazing people! I tried to contact them. Before he hung up he called me a whore. He though I was different from other girls.

So me and her are both Christian and actively involved in the church. During summer my ex came back around and he is someone that I never got over. I love him and of course she knows that. They've been friends for a long time as well. My best friend has been in an emotional relationship with a married man in our church. She says she's "trying" to cut it off and that it's not a big deal since she hasn't physically done anything. Not to mention his kids are in our youth group. a couple of my other friends suggested she go to our Pastor to get help because now she's entertaining a relationship with a girl, but still wants to lead in ministry. Needless to say my best friend got super mad at them and then started trash talking me when I had nothing to do with it. I simply told her I agreed. She went around saying that the only reason I'm not sleeping around with my ex is because he doesn't want me and that our friends should tell my pastor on me. I slept with him over the summer , but quickly regretted it, I went to my pastor and another leader for accountability because I wanted to do what was right.. I didn't justify my actions. She made me out to be some kind of girl who sleeps around and to make matters worse she went crying to my ex and he called me yelling at me when I wasn't even the one who told her anything. I was literally just in the room when it was being said.. after my ex yelled at me I ended our friendship... did I do the right thing ?

I reached out to an old friend and told her I missed hanging out with her and asked if she wanted to hang out again. She ignored me. Never even replied and it's been 2 days. My feelings are hurt. I want to send one last text saying something like "forget it" but that's like... a little confrontational maybe.

I am the only girl in my AP Physics class at school. The class has a lot of homework. A group of us students like to get together in the evening and do our home work. When we started this we would rotate whose house we went to do the homework. Now the guys want to come to my house to do the home work all the time. I thought that was probably because if we have a problem we can not solve, the guys ask my mom for help and she always has the answer or maybe because when our homework is done, mom give the guys homemade pie and ice cream, cake, or cookies. I was curious so I ask the guys why they always wanted to do our homework at my house. What they told me just blew me away. They said it was because my mom was so nice, so beautiful, so hot and so sexy they wanted to be around her. It is true mom is VERY BEAUTIFUL but she is not hot and sexy. She has a great figure but she NEVER shows any cleavage or wears tight sweaters. How should I feel about what these guys are thinking about my mom? Are all high school guys this way?

They always want you to come to where they are. Is there anything to say or best to ghost?

Last week, my friends decided to prank me. Spiked my drink (with sleeping pills), change my clothes and the settings on my devices to make it seem like I'd lost a day from my memory. For a couple hours they had me thinking I was crazy. At first I figured I'd be a good sport abt it but its irked me so much lately I want to get back at them. Any ideas? Everything I'm thinking of seems lame and not even close to what they pulled.

i have a friend who constantly comments mean things on my instagram , such as "i'm mad at you cause you're so annoying" or "who would take pictures here" when i post a picture taken in a random spot. she is NEVER mean in real life though- she constantly tells people how nice i am and how she thinks i am her best friend... once on snapchat she slid up on my story and said 'my 3 year old sister wears her hair like that' i'm just confused why she does? at this point, i comment back humorous responses because what she says doesn't personally insult me, it just makes me wanna drop her as a friend. what do you all think?

So many things could be resolved by just taking about it. Like "Hey, I heard this about you. What is going on?", "I said hello to you and you didn't respond. Are you upset with me or did you not hear me?", or "I'm really upset with you for _______." But no, people just want to blindly believe everything they hear, make inaccurate assumptions, grow to hate you based on those skewed views, and then ignore you/cut you off and talk smack behind your back instead. I thought this crap would end in high school/college, but it seems to just go on forever. It's hard to resolve an issue if A) you don't know what the issue is and B) the other person has cut you off/is ignoring you. I seem to have a lot of enemies in my town with little to no knowledge of their reasoning - barring the occasional information from mutual friends about what they've said. Does anyone else have this issue? How do/did you deal with it? It's infuriating. I seem to have a lot of enemies which I didnt even know I had, nor domI know why in most cases. It's infuriating because these people refuse to hear my part. They just keep ignoring me, trashing me behind my back, and more people are believing them and doing the same thing! What's even worse is thisnis a small town and i feel like I'm being passive-aggressively judged and condemned everywhere I go. **or rather refuse to tell me what the problem is so i can either apologize if i legitimately did somethinf, ormset the record straight if it is more people telling lies/inaccurate assumptions Sorry for all the typos, I'm on a tiny phone.

So a little over 6 months ago, my best friend invited me to go with her and some other friends to Nashville for her 21st birthday at the end of October. However she told me only a few days ago that because I won't be 21 at the time that I can't go anymore, despite the fact that my 21st birthday is literally a week later. If I were in her shoes I would wait the week for her and then go on the trip, but no, that's not what's happening at all. And she keeps talking about the trip now to me about how excited she is knowing damn well that I'm not going anymore. Am I overreacting for being a little bit pissed off about this? Or is it justified?

My friend is going through a rough time right now. This is what he sent me yesterday usually we argue but now all of sudden he wants to be nice. I guess it's just because he's going through a rough time. He and I have been friends since 2015 he lives in another state and we hookup every now and then. Me: I promise I know it's really hard for you right now. But try to stay positive and let me know if there is anything I can do. Him: Reality strikes with uncertainty; vehicle broke into and vandalized; brand new ipad from verizon, all of my important documents and work stolen... I'm not emailing you for assistance---I'm just sharing this unpredictable event.. Nevertheless; i'm currently emailing you from a public library---leaving soon with absolutely no sense of direction. I'll never forget the experience and time we spent together.. I dont know what to do.. WILL CHECK EMAIL TOMORROW

I had a feud with a group of girls in school. But now i dont talk to them at all. It's been months since I've never spoken to them. Today i was standing along in the corridor reading a book. Then these girls came out of their classrooms and looked at me and stopped in their tracks.Then they kept looking at me for like a whole minute because of which i was feeling uncomfortable and wasn't able to read. Then they smirked and looked at each other and said something. Then stood over there for like another minute after which i left the place and continued reading and they left too. It looked as though they were making fun of and that they regularly do. We were friends at one point of time and something happened all those months ago because of which i broke the friendship and ive never spoken to them since. They were really toxic to me and that's one of the reason why i put them behind me.

A) Replying, "She wanted to see how you were doing. She was worried about you" after one complains how her aunt intruded on her B) Replying, "Because you're bothering him, honey!" after one complains how her enemy in school is encouraging others to shun her & breaking up her friendships C) Replying, "He was just joking around!" after one complains how her neighbor taunted her D) Replying, "He was only a baby. You should've just given him the pillow!" after one complains how her cousin scratched her cheek E) Replying, "It's her job to keep you healthy!" after one complains how the nurse gave him a shot because he found it so painful F) Replying, "She didn't want you to be bullied!" after the victim of bullying asserts to his interlocutor that berating him for failing to *fight back* constitutes victim-blaming Are these examples of defending or supporting something unpopular or controversial? Or are they helping the complainer see the other side of the story?

Went out on a big friend gathering. We all left at the same time. Got in my friend's car and we were driving with some other friends driving behind and in front of us. There was a car that sped up a bit (with the engine revved) that looked like a friend's car so we decided to play around a bit and have a little race with that car. We assumed that that car was our friends bc it did kind of look like our friend's car but when we looked closely at the person we were driving next to, it wasn't our friend but a stranger. We felt guilty, laughed it off, justified it bc they were a stranger, but still felt guilty (mainly bc one person felt super guilty abt it). I just want to know anyone's thoughts on this situation. Thanks

I sent a text on a Samsung galaxy 9+ to a friend and I don't want another friend to see I sent it but the person I sent it to handy responded yet. If I delete it, will they still get It?

So basically I found something out by snooping into a friends texts. I caught wind of an issue that was hushed up when I came around. It was ALL about me being a "dumb *****", but I would never know this if I hadn't snooped into her texts. I obviously cannot be friends with this person any longer and would love to make it known in some silly way that I'm a "dumb *****", but don't want to come off like a wacko for snooping. I'm trying to come up with a way of "accidentally" seeing it... but that would be somewhat not believable. Any thoughts?

I'm a 21 year old guy. I had a co worker exactly 1 year ago I had a massive crush on. I wanted to do a friends first thing with her since she was a co worker. We would hang out some times. Long story short, a guy asked her on a date and they became TIGHT. Still are. Boyfriend and girlfriend. She no longer works at my work location. Every so often, I text her to say hi. She never texts me or wants to hang out anymore. I just texted her to see if she wanted to hang out and that I miss her. She never even responded and it's been days. This is the most painful long term friend zone ever. I'm gonna go ahead and call it torture and it's making me physically ill that she's with this guy and she won't even be my friend anymore. I bet she responds to her boyfriend right away and she won't even talk to me. I feel tortured. I really do. I think about her all day everyday.

So I became fast friends with this girl while they were together. After they broke up we both talked about how we would like to still be friends, but didn't want to make it weird for my mate/her ex We've caught up a few times now and it's always a great chat and a good time. We've seen a couple of movies, gone shopping, got coffee and had lunch together over a few months. All very above board. Now we're having dinner tomorrow night at a restaurant she picked that looks quite fancy and she asked me to pick her up for the first time since we've known each other. For some reason I'm actually nervous..... This feels very datey and I'm a bit worried we're moving over a line. Or that we have crossed it already... What do I do?

now she says she meant like a son or brother. wtf? I don't underrstand

I've been hooking up with this guy since 2015. We've only hooked up about five times because it's long-distance. But how long does a fling usually last?

So this just happened an hour ago I asked my Best friend if I can spend the night and she said she'll ask her dad she did he said no but he said that her other friend could come and spend the night And I haven't spent the night there in over 3 months and she's not allowed to spend the night and anyone's house so that's out of the question Anyways I haven't done anything bad I'm not a bad kid I don't smoke or do drugs or drink alcohol and I actually buy him stuff like usually I'll bring food over and I'll get something for him and her brother or like all bring cupcakes and I'll make sure I have enough for her brother and her dad and everybody know I just don't know why he doesn't lik anyways I haven't done anything bad I'm not a bad kid I don't smoke or do drugs and drink alcohol and I actually buy him stuff like usually I'll bring food over and I'll get something for him and her brother or like I'll bring cupcakes and I'll make sure I have enough for her brother and her dad and everybody and I've just been crying because I don't want him to break up our friendship Just 8 years of my life down the drain and I want to confront him about it but I don't want her to get in trouble So please help me

I'm 13 and my bestie is 10, we are both females, i just wanna know if it's fine to be friends with someone 3 years younger

There is this 11 year old boy that keeps following me around my neighborhood and knocking on my door. Even after my parents told him to stop. He seems kind of socially awkward.