You are around a crowd of people. They all dress the same talk the same act the same and physically look alike and stick together. They will see you and make fun of the way you talk, or harass you over the way you are, or be mean to you and spiteful to you over you being a different way than they are. Nobody is letting you in, they are making fun of the way you talk and use your words. Others are hostile towards you because of you being a different way. You are getting bullied out of the clear blue by some of them due to you supposedly being 'different' and everyone in there seems to take up for the bullies over you. Most in the group accuses you of being different. You cannot talk to one person one on one but you have to talk to all of them, they relay everything to each other. When one in the group doesn't like You, the others would be mean to you in favor of that one person. If you defend yourself against one person in the group regardless of you being in the right all of them will stand in against you. How do you deal with these people?

I take part on a charity group where we meet to listen to lectures or to go out to help those in need, and there's this guy who's also a member and absolutely EVERYONE says he's an amazing person,very kind,silly and is always ready to help everyone, so we should expect that such person would get along very well with everyone he mets right? NO, he's been avoiding me since the very first time I saw him, he says hi to everyone except me, and he does everything he can to avoid being on the same place as me, to the point where one time I was passing by and when he saw me he entered a dark lightless room and just stand in there looking at the wall... eventually it got to the point where the situation got so awkward that I don't even feel courageous enough to greet him, and it hurts because it feels as if there was something wrong with me because the person who everyone says is the nicest is the person who ignores me, I know some people will say "ignore him" or "forget about it" but it hurts and ignoring the matter won't change that, specially because I'm living in a different country now and I still don't have a lot of friends here so yes it hurts to be ignored by someone. Does anyone know what might be the reason why he is ignoring me? If not does anyone know what can I do about it? Or something I can do so I don't get hurt for what he's been doing to me? Thank you Ah btw we're the only youths in the group, the other members are all grown up adults so maybe that could influence?

Esque mi prima y yo nos encerramos en mi cuarto todos los dias y nos quitamos las camisas ella se acuesta en la cama o yo algunas veces y yo me pongo encima de ella o ella de mi las dos en posición vertical acostadas con nuestras barrigas tocandose y luego cuando pasamos un rato haciendo eso que nuestros cuerpos se ponen bastante calientes por el calor producido por nuestras barrigas tocandose y nuestra respiración cerca pues ahi mismo yo o ella comienza a moverse de arriba hacia abajo con nuestros cuerpos y barrigas tocandose lentamente con nuestras barrigas rosandose bien pegadas, podemos estar haciendo eso horas y horas ,me encanta sentir ese calor por nuestras barrigas y cuerpos tocandose y sentir nuestras respiraciones cerca , y me encanta estar asi sobre ella sintiendo su barriga y cuerpo caliente en mi, hacer eso es lo mejor del mundo siempre que hacemos eso cuando paramos nos revisamos y terminamos mojadas, pero lo intenté dos veces con un hombre y me encantó y todo incluso también cuando paramos me revise y terminé mojada de lo riquísimo que se sintió también pero me gustó mas hacer eso con mi prima, eso me hace ser lesbiana o estoy enferma? Díganme por favor paré de hacerlo porque nose si esta mal y nose que soy o tengo …

Would that be an act of diplomacy, or would it more closely resemble butt-kissing?

Spoken to both of them numerous times, calmly, about her staying over too much and noticing the increase in water and power bill. Roommate says he just genuine doesn't care, and girlfriend never says a word just lets him talk so she can do whatever she wants. Other morning we kicked her out and told her she needed to leave when he does in the morning instead of staying here rolling 12 in the afternoon when no one is here and back again by 6pm when he gets off work. Endless cycle. We threatened to go to her parents and tell them what's going on (because she's 20 and still lives with them) and that's what got her to leave in 2mins. Roommate also made her a key, without asking. So since we've been doing this for months and given them multiple chances should we go tell her parents what she is doing?

My cousin is dating this guy she went to high school with. She didn't give him a chance then. He's a couple years older than her. I think he's mixed with Latino and black but he has mixtapes, at least 3 baby mommas that I know of and while he seems chill he's got a lot of stereotypes. His mixtapes a re pretty good I won't lie. But he acts and dresses ghetto. Sometimes he wears suits but he's ghetto his friends are ghetto.

I am so in love with a guy. He's working in a place with his best friend. This guy is extremely goodlooking,tall blond, blue eyed, perfect angel face. He never smiles (at least I have never seen him smile) and he always has a sad or bored expression on his face. He also almost never make jokes, which is something many guys do.. his friend is the opposite of him but physically they look like... brothers or twins. One day I made excuses to talk to him, his friend saw me and looked at me from hair to toe. He got mad and told himto leave me alone and go away..we talked he looked into my eyes for many seconds, I did too, but he just answered to my questions and didnt say anything else. He was cold but polite, and used expressions such as 'I swear to God I'm not lying' or put his fingers on his eyes to swear on his eyes that he was saying the truth. His beautiful blue eyes I got lost in. When I said 'oh boy!' He turned to look at me and came back to me, answered again and went away. Why was he so polite, his eyes were so sweet and he looked at me in such a magnetic way, like betweenus there was something, he also got mad at his friend for looking at me, but then he went away. Kept working. Like I was nothing. I wanted to cry. I felt so stupid. I had put on my favourite dress with flowers and sandals. I had curled my hair. My mom said I looked like a cute doll. He just stared into my eyes and went away. Didnt even ask my name. I am heartbroken.