We're both adults we live in a coach house, he lives down stairs I live upstairs it's hard for me to find an appartment because I'm on ssi, so there's nowhere I can really go, he thinks that just because he found me an appartment that he can try to force me to be around him all the time, he even kicked my door really hard one night when I wouldn't let him in my room, he thinks it's because of my autism why I don't want to talk to him, no it's because he's really creepy and weird, he gave me lots of unwanted touching growing up as kids, he liked touching me a lot, it made me feel very weird and very uncomfortable, I'm always afraid to vocally express to him how I feel, because he gets violently angry when his feelings get hurt, should I just disappear and become homeless, I mean he causes me so much anger and pain to the point where it makes me sick

So at lunch I really wanted tomato pasta and there wasn't any and the main today was gross so I got a panini. But it was ham and cheese. I hate cheese. This whole experience somehow in my mind linked to my dad and how he cheated and lied about it. Is it bad that just getting a panini with cheese can set me off? Like I took off a bit of bread and started crying right in school.

I have not seen her since her immature fit at age 25 on Memorial Day Weekend. I have to see her at a wedding weekend after next. I dislike her and so I am dreading it. She is mean, bullies, and has fits.

When I was a teen I made a really dumb mistake by making an anonymous phone call to someone I was upset with and venting. It was taken as a threat and the police were called. I was indeed wrong to do it and my mother had every right to be furious for the day. No charges were pressed. Yet throughout the rest of the year she brought up how bad it was without any "I understand what you were upset about but you can never call people like that". No sense of "I still love you, I know it was an accident, please promise me you will never do it again". Instead she was just mad about it. As a parent I'd be furious for a day or two and then let it go. My mother did not let it go. Years later it came up and she is still insistent about how bad it is and how I'd go to jail now a days for that kind of thing (she is probably right). Yet, 20 years later I would think she would have let it go and know that obviously at age 36 I have outgrown that immaturity and would never do that. Why in the world does my Mom hold on to this and does anyone know? She is not mean to me or anything on other days, it is just when this comes up. 20 years later it is a funny story as I told the kid "you should go to hell, sorry for saying go to hell, hope you make it to heaven". So I can laugh now.

Last week, my friends decided to prank me. Spiked my drink (with sleeping pills), change my clothes and the settings on my devices to make it seem like I'd lost a day from my memory. For a couple hours they had me thinking I was crazy. At first I figured I'd be a good sport abt it but its irked me so much lately I want to get back at them. Any ideas? Everything I'm thinking of seems lame and not even close to what they pulled.

She is very naive. Im the oldest of a very large family. My mom will post pics of my younger siblings. Pics in front of their house, with their address on the door. A pic of the kids sitting at their bus stop!! She posted a pic of my sister in the bathtub, and you can clearly see her butt. Shes only 4!! There are a LOT of sick people out there. She has over 200 facebook friends, and she admitted to not knowing even half of them. How could she be so naive? What do I say to her? Im geniuenly afraid that someone will try to abduct one of them at the bus stop. They live in the middle of nowhere. She wont even put her facebook on private...

Hi, so for school I need to write an essay about a family experience that affected us. I wanted to write about the time we almost adopted a kid but lost the kid. I fully understand it's a sensitive topic, but it's important we address it. I wanted to tell if from my familys p.o.v and how they reacted to the situation. My mom told me my family wouldn't want to do it, but she would help. Is this even a good idea anymore?

This has been happening for the past 5 years and at this point I don't even know what to do so I just came on here to vent about it So if you don't already know, yes my younger sibling has special needs, yes I do care about him regardless of his learning disability's, and no I wouldn't prefer him to be any other way But- he recently started getting me in trouble for literally no reason, for example if he talks back to both of our parents in a disrespectful way and gets in trouble for it, he will then go on to say "im just acting like -insert my name here-" or "im just doing what -insert my name here- does" which automatically makes my parents believe im the reason why he acts like this. And before any of you say "bE a gOod rOle mOdel fOr hiM" I rarely disrespect my parents at all as usually in our household i'm either doing my homework, studying, or just on my phone. Im rarely even at my house at all in that matter as im mostly over at one of my friend's houses or just going out with my friends. The funny thing about the situation is the fact that he knows what he is doing, he knows how gullible my parents are which he takes advantage on for getting himself out of trouble. What should I do?

His daughter lives with him, he is a GREAT dad to an 8 year old. I have dated and lived with them for almost 2 years. We are expecting and happy about it. This is my 1st and only pregnancy I will experience so I want it to be peaceful and memorable for all the good. Sometimes, I fell robbed of this being special because he has a child already whom he has made the ultimate daddies girl (she cries and gets angry at the thought of having another sibling) it can be annoying but I understand the fear of no longer being the 1 and only. I just find it frustrating that he questions if I will treat them any different. In a sense it is natural because this is my actual offspring. I just get tired of the comparing he is already doing, I just want to go with the pregnancy now and teeter with those situations later.

I'm 25 graduated in BS-IT, grew up in a Philippines but currently living in Japan with my parents. I can speak and write English fluently and Japanese on a conversation level but cannot read/write. Am currently employed in a blue collar job that I just started 1 month ago(still in trial period). And during my 2 weeks of work i noticed it's not suited for me and off my expectation. My mom and dad recently just retired. they live separately and I live with my mom and brother(just started 2nd course college with part time job). When I was trying to find a job my father told me if I wanted to study he would be willing to pay for both the house and the tuition fee. But my mother doesn't like owing my father so she told me to find a job to help pay the bills. I've been interested in BCI (Brain-Computer Interface) but didn't know where to start. I've always wanted to/interested in controlling stuffs only with the mind, be it for medical or entertainment purpose. I'm worried about my age. Since I'm 25 at the moment I'm worried it might be too late to study on a subject that feels like you need high grades before college. and i heard employers prefer people 29 and below So should I. Continue with my job until my brother finishes his course, then start studying again(guessing I would be 29 by then). Or Leave my job now and start studying Kanji and go college. (this was supposed to be more detailed but couldn't due to text limit) Thank you for reading this long text.

She blames me for things that I didn't do. She makes be feel bad almost all the time. She's never happy with what I do. I am a straight-As student and yet she isn't satisfied. I have so many restrictions and to be honest, it suffocates me. I have begun to despise her. What should I do? I wouldn't be moving out until next year.

A new girl started 7th grade with my daughter and they became fast friends. My daughter casually complained that I wouldn't let her have any smart device that lets her sign up for social media. This friend gifted her an old iPad - out of the blue. It still had tons of images and history on the iPad. It seems like it belong(ed) to a young girl but my daughter doesn't know her. She didn't confront her friend after I raised my suspicions. I haven't met this family yet because they just moved in and I've been pretty busy. My daughter knows where her friend lives, though. We could easily drive to her house and see who's home. I don't want these people to feel like I'm accusing their daughter of theft - I am just kind of suspicious because it looks like it belongs to someone else who can't possibly be the girl's relatives for several reasons. It is also weird that she gave it to my daughter out of nowhere.

plzz help me

Today my mother started freaking out and saying bad things about me and when I tried to deny I was seen as someone who was talking back and she said she would hit me if I didn't stop talking she forced me to cut my nails take out earrings that were a gift simply because she didn't like them and forced me to wear a skirt with a girly shirt knowing I hate girly things. Over the summer I was trying to develop a style that was more me and I was feeling comfortable until my mother said awful things about it and made me change everything to her liking and now I'm sitting here crying because people are exactly like this at school because if one thing is different about you they judge you and I know this sounds stupid But idk what to do anymore

I'm an adult trying to save money and move out. But right now i cant live on my own and have to live with her. Her reason for moving is so silly to me. She didnt even ask if i was okay with moving just pretended like she was offering me that option... She knows im jobless and its hard to get a job and also hard to find a place to live especially with little money. Pisses me off that she can't take responsibility and admit she doesnt give a damn if i like it or not that shes making me move with her for the stupidest reasons (food running out? Really?) And on top of that she wants to move to a commune type place where I'd be forced to "work" (for no pay) for some weird hippies. Please any advice thanjs

My life has been a complete mess since I gave birth a month ago. I can't stand being a mother anymore.

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My mother is toxic. She's constantly putting me down, trying to control my life (i'm 22 and pay my own bills), she constantly disregards my boundaries and i'm tired of living this way. I moved back in with my mother after my last relationship ended and I couldn't afford rent anymore. So she has helped me get back on my feet. Now i'm finally in a good place, with a good career, and i'm happy...outside of the house. When i'm home its constant put down after put down. I'm currently working on getting a new apartment and I would honestly cut her from my life. My problem is that she has my 7 yr old brother and he means the world to me. cutting her from my life means losing him too and I can't do that. What's the best way to deal with my mother for my brothers sake and is it even healthy to do so when she is clearly the most stressful part of my life? I have add that this is not typical helicopter mom and overbearing nagging mother. I've seen and observed mothers like that. my mother is constantly cursing me out and putting me down. I know for a fact that a loving mother should be building up her child, even if it comes across as overbearing. My mother acts as if she's jealous that I've accomplished as much as I have at my age, and that's not saying much. she just tries to ruin everything that makes me happy in life

told me about it and they lied I broke it and said I dont want him.He died months ago.Nobody told me he died.He just wanted his mother.He was trapped inside a cult.I was scared.I dont even know where his grave is.

the dude who literally helped create me couldn't care less bout me but my dad could of bounced when he found out my mother had a kid instead he just made me his kid, who else has an amazing step dad?

I finally turned 18 and I want to move in with a relative to get away from my toxic mother. My mom has been verbally, mentally, physically abusive in every shape and form my entire life. My dad isn't like this at all, he's just a bystander because he's afraid of her too. Long story short, my dad has his own vehicle separate from "my car". (My mom doesn't drive) He only has the rights to "my car". My name isn't on it at all. So, if I were to leave with it, will I get in trouble with the law of some sort? I have a copy of the insurance card too. They literally don't need this vehicle until my younger sister starts driving which won't be until awhile. I kinda doubt he would ever let me get arrested or something serious over it like theft, considering the fact I've been driving it for an ongoing 2 years. But anything is possible when my toxic mother is in the picture... Please, any advice or legality advice is helpful. Also, please don't be rude about it or say "buy your own". I'm a freshman college student & I don't have a job yet. And it would make it even harder to go to school or find / get to a job without a vehicle. I live on a terrible side of Chicago that's very violent with high crime and I feel very uncomfortable walking places alone esp. at night. So please try to understand where I'm coming from, I'm not trying to be greedy or anything. If I lived in a nice town, I would definitely take a bus or walk places. But that isn't the case.

She is horrible to me and she's 26.

My parents force me to do alot of things, and when i say i dont want to do it, i get yelled at, and they make me sometimes cry, and sometimes me and my dad will get into an argument and my mom will start yelling at us and one time she threw something at my dad. And also sometimes when i say "oh i dont want to do..." my dad will laugh and say "its just that you cant do it" and sometimes i just want to run aawaay...wut do i do?

My 14 year old is gifted and another school district recruited her into a more advanced program. She says she doesn't fit in with the kids there because they don't like her. A lot of those kids are from rich backgrounds and some have the stereotypical "silver spoon, spoiled rich kid" attitude. Most of the time, they'll leave my daughter and the other outsiders alone. She can still overhear snarky comments from these kids in the hallways and there's always that nasty glare too. A lot of the students aren't particularly welcoming to the kids who aren't from their neighbourhood. My daughter wants to go back to the school where her old friends attend. Realistically, she'll probably be dealing with unpleasant individuals all her life. She's begging me to transfer her back, though

I have 2 kids from a previous marriage and 3 from my current marriage. We are planning to have 1 more.