this girl from Portugal asked me if i wanted to see her boobs, since i was very sad because i didn t feel feminine enough. she says its a common joke where she s from, is that true?

Have you ever had a fling with someone at your job, and did they tell anyone or did anyone find out? Did any rumors start to occur?

I know I should stay out of it, but my buddy is like a brother to me. He has a grest girl this time, and he is going to mess things up. She has old school parents and that is a problem, and she can be clingy, but not in a bad way. She will call him, and he will ignore her when all he has to do is say hey I am going to finish watching this and call you in an hour. He will juat ignore her watch tv, anf play his game and go out to the bar. They use to see each other a lot more, so she wantd to talk and text even more more, but she is working 2 pt jobs technically 3, but the 3rd is as needed, and if she can work that day, and she is training to be cna. I think she is to good for him. I know he almost left him once but I grilled him and now a few months later he is going back to his okd ways of ignoring her for the bar, video games and tv. I know once she is gone she is gone. How can I make him realize all this?

So last night I had a dream I made love with a guy. He was taller, on the thin but toned side, not hairy at all, and had a beautiful face. I could tell we were dating or in love. He was sitting in this room alone and I walked in, and he was all ready for me to ride him with a sort of sad expression? But then I told him to get up and I sat down in his placed and placed a strap on dildo(?) for him to ride. He kind of perked up and started riding. I'm not one to dream about sex and have never part took in it, and even if I did I'd be submissive. But I don't know. His smooth skin against mine, his moans of pleasure, his orgasm, when I think about it I can't stop. It wasn't sex at all, it was truly making love. This person I dreamed of isn't reachable at all so it's not like a crush to talk about. I don't know! I'm just unbelievably in love with the idea yet I know I'm submissive and always will be. Plus I can only think of this with this specific person (who's, again, unreachable). How do I get over it? Or just what should I do? P.S. I'm a trans male if that helps any.

I got a promotion 3,000 miles away, and my boyfriend said, "Congratulations, but I can't do long distance, Baby." I ended up not taking it, but I feel so hurt that he just didn't even consider moving with me. I'd have moved to the ends of the earth, if he got a promotion. We are still together, but I can't help but think that he just doesn't love me as much as he says. What are your thoughts?

My boyfriend hasn't seen me in 6 months although we see each other almost every day because of work. We've been together for over 5 years. He hasn't seen me because he doesn't believe us dating if we don't live together and he doesn't agree with my lifestyle choices. Today he invited me to go visit his family overseas. He said it in unkind why. Threw his card on the table and laughed as I started looking at the information because I doubt his sincerity. I want to have a good trip and I'm someone who needs reassurance since he tells me all the time how I don't know who I am, I am selfish etc.. I asked if he could tell me 'loved me' because I don't know the last time in these many months he sincerely says it. Yes, we talk but there is no emotional bond like we once had. Since I asked for reassurance, he said I can no longer come on the trip and since I ask that he tells me 'you have no love for yourself.' And that he can't be with someone who doesn't love themselves...

So there's this guy that I like. In my Spanish class we are doing a dance and one day we were practicing during our homeroom and both mine and his partners were gone, so he asked if I wanted to practice with him. He also posted a like for a TBH thing and I liked it. He sent me a paragraph about how he liked talking to me and that I am smart, funny and chill. What does this mean?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. Soooo my parents are middle eastern. And middle easterns are super strict on their daughters. I'm 22 but that's irrelevant because my parents believe I'm not allowed to date. I can't exactly move out right now because I'm in school. So my boyfriend is a secret and we don't get to hang out much because I don't want my parents to get suspicious. I called my doctor about birth control and they called me back and I guess my moms number was on my file. Basically she's suspicious now and my boyfriend doesn't want to see each other for a week or two just to prevent my mom from finding out. I get it. I don't want to take a break from seeing each other but I get why he wants to. What do I do? This is putting a strain on our relationship and I don't want things to end. Please help me.

I've had mine for 2 years but my girlfriend had hers for 3 We are constantly arguing with eachother about how its not fair that she got hers first when im the guy in the relationship AND I'm older than her so i deserved mine before hers Should I break up with her and get with someone who either doesn't have their license yet or hasn't had theirs as long as me? The fact that she had hers longer than me makes my blood boil but thats the only thing ruining our relationship and idk if there is hope for us unless i someway somehow get mine before her

So I have this huge crush on this guy I feel like there are mixed emotions. Today he pat my head ( don't know if that's a good thing) but he called me his sis. I make him laugh and I make him laugh. He helps me a lot in class.

Background: I was working at the restaurant, he saw me and he gave me his number. I texted him. We went out and had some drinks together. We had really great time — we were hanging out more than 6 hours but felt like two hours passed—. Few days later, when I was at college he came to my school while he was having a lunch break. We spend time together a little bit (just talking and have a coffee) then he went back to his work. I know he is interested in me because he keeps saying that I am pretty and beautiful. But we have been texting each other. No phone call at all. He just texted me that 'I am your favorite'. And I am super confused what this mean? Why he doesn't say that I am his favorite?? this question can be super silly but I am a foreigner. Only have been living few years. So I wonder if there is any hidden meaning? Thanks for help in advanced!

Like say at a coffee shop for example. Do you sometimes look around and notice if any guy is around that you might fancy?

so i'm 17! i've only properly kissed 2 guys, others were just pecks when i was younger, but whenever i go to kiss my new boyfriend, my mind goes completely blank and i can't think! it's really bugging me cause i always end up messing up and forgetting how to kiss and i feel like he's going to think i'm bad at it :/ it happened with my other boyfriend too, anyone else?????

I asked this guy I like if I made his heart happy and he said yes but then sent a yellow heart emoji afterwards. What does that mean? Why not a red heart?

Okay so my friend told my crush, who is also one of my friends, that I liked him and that he should date me and he said "I would date her for a while if she lived closer" which sounds stupid because he only lives like five miles away. But anyway, since then we ve hung out a couple times (we don t go to the same school so we only see each other outside of school) with other friends and he s always been kind of flirty (putting his arm around my shoulders). The problem is, we have each other s emails and he doesn t really ever talk to me unless I start the conversation. Also, I asked him if he meant it when he said he would date me and all he said was that he can t date until he s sixteen (he s almost 15 right now) and that we d talk about it then. Sometimes I think he likes me but I can t really tell. I kind of think maybe he s too shy to actually tell me he likes me but maybe it s because he actually doesn t?? I don t know.

I virgo been romantically involved with a cancer man for 5 months. He told me he has a gf which was cool bc i wasn't looking for nothing serious and wanted a fwb thing. Long story short it was just that at first and then he started being more affectionate, buying gifts, cooking, meeting his close family, and even trying to get me pregnant. I kinda feel tricked because now the situation between us feels one sided (his side) So now I'm in my feelings which i take account for. My thing is why would a man whose already in a relationship try's to have a baby with another woman? *hes been with his gf over 3 yrs.

Like an old mans sack or old ladies udder?

I honestly like the feeling of wearing a condom. Plus, you don't have to clean up a mess!

I went out on a blind date and I'm completely weirded out by my date. He is extremely sensitive to temperature, lighting, and etc. On our first date, he wanted to go somewhere so dark where there is no people around. By the way, it is quite warm in the room but he is wearing a scarf and layers of clothes. After the second date,he that said he is too tired to text me or go outside. He can't bear to go outside and he only stays indoors. When he walks, it's like he is super fragile and will fall down in any minute

This guy is a mutual friend of mine and I thought he liked me. One night, we all hung out and I was talking about how I hated my job, and he told me that he might stop by to make my day better. Anyway, he did that, and ever since then, he's been coming in (I work at a coffee shop) frequently, but not daily. He and I hung out alone one night, and I found out that we have a lot in common and we have very similar backgrounds. However, he asked if he could kiss me, and that led to making out, and he asked if I wanted to go back to my room. I ignored the question by changing the subject. Anyway, we hung out again, cuddled and made out for a bit, which led to both of us performing oral on each other. Afterwards, he "complimented my vagina" and said that he enjoyed hanging out with me. He hasn't contacted me since that night (4 days ago). So I asked him if he was free to hangout and he said no because of class. So I'm confused by his actions, and I was wondering if I should ask him if "this" was a one time thing or if he's looking for a hookup partner? I also don't want to come off as annoying/desperate.

I honestly want to talk to him to take what I said back.

Hello. I'm 20 and took molly for the first time. I've done pretty much every other drug but for some reason this really killed me. I felt extremely nauseous and Iike I was dying. I thought I had to go to the ER. My friend made me go to the bathroom and I violently threw up no less than 10 times.

I don't ever want to marry or have kids. I make it my rule to not date women or spend money/time on them but Ill make exceptions for prostitutes.

Not into her older sister who is arguably more attractive (her older sister has a husband and 2 young daughters in elementary school) but her older sister is easier to talk to, friendlier and easy to joke with. The woman who led me on/changed her mind about me, NEVER even told her older sister that I liked her or that we flirted early on when we met each other. Her older sister understands why I ignore her but she doesn't agree with how come I ignore her. When her older sister and I talk, neither of us mention her sister and she doesn't hold it against me for ignoring her.

Hey guys so I recently started talking to someone but its been so awkward bc I haven't been in the dating scene in so long. This is how out last convo went I posted something and he said "wow u did a lot" i said "ikr" the he said "how r you love" and i feel like when ppl say "love its such a player thing. Then I said "everything is good at least i got home early" then he said "I am glad u did because u would have got caught up by the weather like I did" then I said "mhm" and he just put a smile face. Idk if I should initiate the convo. I felt like I made it weird and not interesting by just saying "mhm". But I also feel like if someone actually likes u they too would try to talk to you & he likes my pics but hasn't talked to me.

I notice like half th he guys I meet are single. But every women has a boyfriends. Either women are going out with the same guys or women are lying about having a boy friend

are not that physically attracted to her, right? Be honest that that is what it comes down to. Don't just argue with me for the sake of arguing. Look at your own lives.

I have a supervisor who use to be my coworker we had sex a few time but never went out but we talked about it. She gave me full control in bed. I did everything to her in sex positions. Now shes my supervisor and she is extremely bossy. It hard for me to except shes my supervisor

I like him and not afraid of rejection, if he doesn't return my feelings oh well, but a small part of me doesn't want to ruin our friendship?

In the past my boyfriend and I faught a lot, it was almost every week. I stuck it out because I believed things would change and they did, but during that time, I caught him messaging women on social media. He even downloaded a dating app and made a profile. I was devastated because I did not do those things to him. I know he didn't do anything physical with other women, he talked to women out of anger towards me. Now time has passed and he talks about starting a family with me, I love him but I don't want another tough patch to come and he does that again. He says he won't especially if we are married but it's hard to get through that.

I am a young man and I moved to a big city about a year ago with someone I knew. We lived together originally while both of us were getting started. Recently, I got a big promotion at a job in the financial industry, and I now literally make like over 10 times what I was making. Over the course of the year (even before the promotion), I developed a big appetite for sex. Being in a big city, there are just so many beautiful women, and I just enjoy sex a lot more than I did before. Also, both my friend and I lived with our families previously. Anyway, I just don't want to live with him anymore. It just doesn't seem reasonable now that I make a lot of money. He rarely gets sex, and he wouldn't want to see me having sex all the time. In the past, I have just gotten a hotel room or gone to the woman's place for sex, but I don't want to do that anymore when I can now afford an amazing apartment, even in an expensive, big city, with my new salary. I have signed a lease on a fantastic new place, but I still want to be friends, although I know he doesn't have the money to live like I do now. How do I tell him that we won't be living together anymore?

Remember... accused. Could easily be totally innocent. So should a potentially innocent man who's not admitted to or proven to have done anything be publicly named and shamed? Should his face be plastered on the news? An ordinary non-celebrity guy all that will come up when you search him was the time he was involved in a rape case...he'll never get no job because lot of the time they'll just presume he's another one who got away with it. "Men are hardly ever innocent jailed for rape" Clarence Moses-El. Released after 28 years because a woman "dreamt" he raped her. There's more cases but one case of this is one too many cases of this. Should he be sent to jail in the knowledge he will get f*cked up on the wing when everyone knows what he's been accused of? I want to hear your opinions

I want to move to California but I'm afraid I may just end up being homeless what should I do first when I move up there?

So a guy I was dating for two months asked me for a break from the relationship to figure out whats best for the both of us. According to him my personality isnt for him. However, when I answered to his text he never replies... later that day I posted a snapchat story which he views.. its been 5 days ever since and he always views all my stories ... what does this mean? will he want me back to try it again ? or is he messing with me and doesnt care at all? Ps,. before when we were dating he said I love you and would talk about our future kids together.. and then like going to weddings together.. then all of a sudden he got "busy" with work.. and tried to in a nice way say im needy and thats why our personalities dont match... and no we didnt have sex! ps it has only been like 3 days since his text to me about thinking about us lol

y boyfriend is a great guy but i'll be first to admit at thirty five he doesn't have it all together. He doesn't know how to cook, clean, he has to drive his moms car most of the time because the a/c broke down in his, and he lives with his grandmother and mother. he has three kids by two baby mamas. he only makes seven hundred every two weeks. he CAN have a short temper but I think he's been getting better with that. From time to time i'll still catch him talking about the way I say some words sometimes he gets irritated with my facial expressions and how I pronounce words. but he's kind of OCD. he's also scared of a lot of things. Every time I tell him I wanna go somewhere like Miami or vegas to live it up he pulls the " it's dangerous card" but it's dangerous everywhere. And he says if we take a vacation he would be ok chilling in the hotel the entire time. I was like "what??" he was like " yeah so we don't have to spend money." I love to discover and explore and try new places and things, I've always been this way. my mom has never liked him ever since she found out that he has three kids by two different women. I've known my boyfriend since I was nineteen we were best friends and since we were such good friends we decided to date, so he asked me to be his girlfriend after a couple of years of us being friends. he's always been there for me, he gave me rides everywhere when I couldn't drive. I love my boyfriend, I've always loved him but i'm so confused right now. I don't know if i'm IN love with him and I don't know if I love him because he's always been such a stable part of my life. he's always been there for me in every way. he even told me that he's planning his career around our move to new York. he says im the one to motivates him to want to do better and go back to school. I find myself desperately wanted to see my coworker and getting butterflies every time he's in the same room as me. I get goose bumps when he stands next to me. I started talking to my coworker a couple of days ago, I met him because he came into the teachers lounge during our planning period. we started talking and next thing we know we were two hours in conversation and he was smiling harder than I ever. as a matter of fact, I have never smiled or laughed that much until I met him. in my current relationship I really don't even smile that much. I don't wanna break up with my boyfiend because I know that me and my boyfriend gave a lot of people hope that love is real and I don't wanna seem like a failure or like I gave up. but at the same time, I'm so into this new guy and he's making me happier than my boyfriend. me and this coworker have more in common than me and my boyfriend and I love the way he looks at me and admires me. we basically told each other our life story in the first two hours we met, we discussed our pet peeves, our passions, our goals, our likes, and dislikes, and even talked about crazy ex horror stories. this is the first time I have ever looked forward to going to work. my coworker is so down to earth, he's drop dead gorgeous, he has NO kids, he lives in his own place, he has an amazing body, he's funny, he's nice, and he has two degrees. He was like " I love this job but I also want to do more creative things" and I was like " I absolutely feel the same way. I"m jack of all trades." I was telling my coworker I was working on a story and would love for him to read it, he was like " send it my way ill read it asap." then he winked at me.

today i arrived home from school around 3.45 PM and i got home and i wanted to rest and he said around 4.30 to go out and i said no please i dont want to go out and he said okay.. then around 5.30 PM he said lets go out and i said okay witch was my bad because we went to a cable car and it was a long walk there and i lost some cash.. and then we just arrived home and we still went out... how can i next time say no to him when he says lets go out and accepts that.

By him accepting my request does that me he likes me to? Or interested too?

I work with her. We're both single and I feel like I'd have a good chance of getting her to have sex. We get along great and I find her attractive. Would a woman that age have sex with a guy at my age?

SO MY GIRLFREND!!! PEREGANT AND WE ARE HAPPY ABT IT BUT!!? AM I ALSO?!? we dont want 2 😑 babes becase the very hard to tak care off!!!!! PLS HURRY WE NO THAT 2 BABES ARE TO MANY BaBES!!!!?!?!!