As I have mentioned before, last year we went through the courts when my wife's anger got out of control in the home. Our son was very young. Since then we have fought a lot. But just 2 days ago it started getting really out of control. Now I'm trying to decide if she is full blown narcissitic. So she wanted to keep some bags packed. She blocked my phone number and said that she is moving out. Well after work last night, I decided to unpack her bags... But I'm thinking about what I've done wrong and if it really deserved her stonewalling and trying to leave. I feel like I should have been stronger and told her to keep on walking but I was worried about our son. I'm torn between trying to work with her and telling her to hit the road. Having kids together complicates things. I made an appointment with a lawyer to discuss custody of our son. I feel like she just works all the time anyway. For months we have barely done anything together. Reduced communication and definitely no family time or dates etc. Nothing to show there is still love. She has always done whatever she wanted anyway. So moving away might be the next logical step for her. I know that my son deserves to grow up in a safe and loving home. Not one full of tension. I work virtually full time night shift. 7 nights plus 5 days off, 3 days day shift rotating fortnightly roster. This would mean hiring an in home carer for my son during the nights. I felt a bit uncomfortable with that idea since they are someone who is not family. My parents have health issues that make it difficult to care for my son but they said they would take him during nights. The distance from work is another issue. It may not be safe to drive 1.5 hrs to my parents' home after night shift.

Mine is making uglier women cry and ruining lives while still getting myself off Lee, why are you so concerned? Having issues with your marriage and lashing out? You know you like being/having a mistress ;)

My husband's long lost daughter of 30 years finally found him and they have been contacting each other via calls/texts. I am happy for both. The only thing is that they only contact each other when both spouses are npt around. It kind of makes me feel uncomfortable and is very awkard to me. He once called her at home in front of me only because I told him that it is ok. But when she answered, the first thing he said was "the wife is here and you are on speakerphone". He didn't make it like a normal phone call he would make. To me it was like a warning signal to not talk about certain things or in a certain manner. Ever since then and a few months has passed, they still do not have conversations with spouses around. Why? I am trying to understand. Is my husband that uncomfortable to talk to his daughter around me and her husband? I am his wife, best friend, etc and he should not feel that way if he is. He doesn't even get me involved in knowing about her, her family or sharing everything he has learned about her. He hasn't even shared his feelings about hoing through getting to know her and the baby steps. How can I get my husband to feel comfortable to talk to his daughter when I am around and her spouse as well without starting an argument,etc?

My wife sometimes cries during sex. Why do they do this ? How can I help her feel better ?

I've been with my boyfriend for 6 months and we just talked about cohabitation because I am long distance and I can see a long term relationship with him. WE recently decided that I will move closer to him and work in his city when the discussion of me moving in came up he said he's not quite ready for that because and I was okay with that. My best friend said her and her boyfriend, Craig and her moved in at 4 months into their relationship and it was also long distance she said that its a bunch of red flags because her and Craig moved in at 4 months and usually moving in happens at 3 months. But I always felt my boyfriend and I always have done it the right way? What is the average?

suppose you are getting married to a fiance and there are a few things that your fiance needs to know about your family. suppose there are a few relatives that are negative or bad and you should stay away, do you think you need to tell your fiance? so the person knows everything about your family? nope... it is not about telling your fiance to hate someone, that is bad. it is telling if a relative got a mental issue and that is why she is not invited to your wedding BTW I have a sister who is weird (she thinks weird) and she has an anger issue. I have had so many problems with her with her attitude.

It has nothing to do with love, all the problems marriage brings will make you fall out of love very quickly, marriage turns into more of a business arrangement that a romantic one, and once the disagreements start, your marriage is finished.

My wife has been on a mission to "declutter" our home for the last 3 or so years. Some areas are a bit "cluttered", but we have 3 kids under 5. When we met, she had this perfectionist, everything it its place mentality, which she let go of when our middle son was born. Now she's reverting back and it's driving her crazy. She's constantly stressed. She hasn't studied (she started taking a correspondence course for her career when she became pregnant with our youngest...2 YEARS ago). No matter what I say, she still insists on decluttering NOW. She's been skipping church lately because "there's too much work at home". I don't know how to tell her that it's becoming a bit excessive with the organization and rules. Any thoughts?

So, my wife and I have been married for 10 years... Now, it is expected that our sex life would deminish over the years... However, for the past 6 months, it is been non-existent! So, the other night, I told her that I really wanted to be with her and that she should give it to me more... She said that she didn't feel like it... then I suggested to her that she should, or she may be sorry... So in a mocking laughing response, she was like "yeah, right" So I give her another warning, and another chance to repent, and tell her once again, that it would be easier on her if she were to give in... Again, the same response... So that night, I "finished" all over the back of her work slacks... Well needless to say, it was not the best day at work for her... But the most puzzling thing was that after all of this, she was actually mad at me... I gave her several opportunities to change her tune, if she would have just let me in and out for 3 minutes, I would have finished in her and not on her slacks... I don't get it, am I really wrong here?

1. A woman with whom you are both almost obsessed with each other. She has a wild, vivid imagination just like you. You have a very intense relationship with soaring highs and plummeting lows. You are the whole world to each other and you have little energy or desire for doing anything else except simply being with her. You are totally crazy about her. The relationship is basically a full-time activity. Sometimes you feel like your love is consuming you. 2. A woman with whom you get along well, but don't have all that much in common. You relate pleasantly and have few disagreements. You give each other space and have plenty of time and energy for your own hobbies and interests. She's kind of a no-nonsense, straightforward person. There is no incredible magical spark, but you don't have the deep low points, either. Who would be the better wife? @Jeff. Why should I rethink my life? And it is based on the two women I have had my most significant romantic relationships with. I married one of them.

I met and dated someone who I really fell for. It was revealed to me that he was only separated, not divorced like he originally told me. When I found this out I told him I had to walk away and that he needs to get himself together before we could really be together. He said he was moving forward with his divorce but when I was with him I wasn't seeing any signs of it moving forward. Now he has a new girlfriend. I have no idea if he processed his divorce or not but we are still friends on fb. I feel like it's out way of still keeping tabs on one another. His friend's wife has been tagging him in a bunch of photos lately and his new gf is in them. I didn't have the heart to delete him as a friend on fb so I decided to deactivate my account for now so I'm not tempted to go on and see any of the pictures that make me sad. Is this okay?

Like if he treats you sweet always tells you how much he loves you. Spends time with your family, nurtures the kids, spoils you with gifts, is faithful. What would make her divorce him

On Tuesday evening, I had a squirrel sneak into my house. It was running all over. I finally cornered it, and bit me and scratched me a few times. But after feeding it, it has seemed to take a liking to me. Now, I really don't want to have it exterminated, and was thinking of keeping it as a pet. I tried to explain that to my wife, but she is flipping out. I guess last night, she went to check on the baby, and the squirrel was in the crib. Well, she got all upset... Eventhough, the squirrel was just sitting in there in the crib batting around some of the toys, and didn't even harm the baby. I tried to explain that the squirrel probably never had toys, and just wanted to play... So I don't see what the big deal is. But now, I got all these ultimatums, about the squirrel goes, or she goes, blah, blah, blah... Can anybody give me any advice as to help us rectify this so her and the squirrel can coincide together. As I would hate to think that she would put her petty health concerns over my deep desire to have a loving pet! I don't think I could be with that selfish of a person.

I have a history of abusive relationships, some of them were pretty bad and I'm still working to get past a lot of it But there's still some things I get really jumpy at... like when my partner gets grumpy I get scared and a bit skittish Well my current partner was grumpy and I tried to explain why that made me a little scared, because of what would happen when a previous partner would do to me when they were grumpy... but that I trusted them They then went and said something along the lines of "I thought you had more faith in me... but ok" And I immediately felt terrible... and like I had to apologize and I was in the wrong... Was I in the wrong? Or are they trying to manipulate me to feel so?

I saw this guy at a restaurant with his wife and kids he looked ok had a baby face but his wife looked like a swimsuit model. Very beautiful family seemed like good parents

I am 27 and my boyfriend of a year and half is 25. He is very serious about moving out and wants me to join him. I'm paying off my student loans and shortly I will be in a better position to contribute and move in. Due to our age difference, I definitely get worried he won't be ready for marriage when I am. Any longer than one year I know I will become upset I am acting as a wife but with no greater commitment given to me. I'm not religious but I really struggle with knowing "when" is the right time to move in with a guy?

if a handsome man that looked a bit like Sam Elliot wanted to enter into a purely sexual relationship with you, but non commitment. Would you be turned on by the idea? or would you be turned off? will choose a best answer

On our was home from a lovely evening. We pass by a Hospital where his first niece was born. He mentioned that if it wasn't for her being born he would have gone to medical school. And would have never met me. He also mentioned he would have ended up with a doctor. Probably Asian or white. We are both Hispanic and I am no doctor. I really felt sad when he mentioned it. We have been married for 5 months and have been together since October 2016. I told him that his comment made me feel insecure. I tried looking at this in a positive way but i just can't. He said he was hypothetically speaking. Idk why this got me into tears. now I'm wondering if I should have just not been too emotional about this. Is this something I should worry about in our marriage?

My husband has temper tantrums when anything doesn't go his way. He'll scream and rage over video games. He'll know about a responsibility or issue he needs to address, but when it comes time to do it he'll have tons of excuses on why he doesn't want to do it and as he gets ready he throws everything around, gets all huffy puffy while he gets ready, and acts incompetent about it. In no way do I want to "accept" this behavior but bringing up it makes him rage even more.. how do you handle this sort of thing?

My friend saw a video of domestic violence on the internet news. Married couple get domestic violence caught on video. My friend is divorced and did not make any comments about what she saw. What does this say?

I thought until divorced that this is infidelity. He and his wife later got back together. This all happened in 2015. I met the woman he was with during the separation recently.

I can feel it in my gut. Have been with this person for 7 years. We have a child together. This person cheated on me last year and I forgave them because I have made dumb mistakes in the past as well but none as bad as what they had done to me. What do I do? I take care of our child all by myself too. I feel like an idiot.

He is on a peace keeping mission, looking for an honest woman, parents deceased, wife deceased, child being cared for by nanny or other guardian, We chat but he cannot talk on the phone or via webcam due to security