If you have seperate bank accounts does that protect you? What all comes with the finances?

before that they express their independent point of view but after they marry it's like their husbands tell them what to say .

i can't have a short conversation with her without her telling me how big his husband's thing is . what does this mean ?

So I am extremely turned on by breathing sounds like hearing a snorkeler breathing through a snorkel while snorkeling or a scuba diver breathing. I went snorkeling with my wife a few weeks ago in hawaii and I was so turned on by hearing her breathe through her snorkel. My wife says that I have some sort of breathing sounds fetish as anything that relates to breathing and hearing breathing sounds turns me on. Is she right about me having this fetish ? Is there such fetish like this that exists ??

I'm a 35 year old married guy with 3 kids, 2 daughters and 1 son. My marriage is hopeless. I had affairs with 2 women at the same time behind my wife's back and she hasaid no clues about those affairs. I had a 16 month affair with my wife's best friend and a 3 year affair with a married mother of a child at my kids school which resulted in me fathering a child of hers however she passed it off as her idiot husband's child. I miss having the relationship with my wife's best friend. My wife earns twice as much money as I do. My wife's family is extremely wealthy, her parents are rich and her 3 sisters and 1 brother are wealthy also. My wife bought our house when we got married and if she knew about these affairs she would take the house, half my earnings and force me to pay child support. I don't love my wife anymore, what do I do? I also don't regret my affairs either, what do I do?

A little girl grabbed my leg, and refused to let go. This has happens three times now. No not in the same mall. Not even in the same state. It happened to my brother once as well. My wife was in Macy's, so I went for a walk down the mall to fetch a cup of java. Some little girl ran over and grabbed my right leg. She was crying, and what I though was her mom was not happy. It turned out that the "parent" was her much older sister, and she gave me an attitude at first, then apologized. I am tall and I guess I look friendly. My wife are 52 and do not have children. She has no patience with them, so I imagine she would not be happy if she witnessed it. She does know that kids, dogs, and cats, take to me. I realize that to a five year old, all tall men look the same when all they see is a pant leg (Levis).

I am separated with 3 kids. I have a 25 year old gf, I'm 31, who helps takes care of my 12, 9 and 2 year old kid. I just get tired of hearing her say she does everything for me when I try to help as much as I can. Cooking and cleaning here and there when she is at work. I haven't been able to pay the rent or any of our bills we have together for 5 months now due to unemployment. She knew what this was when she decided to be with me. I figure it she should know that it is her job to help me provide, teach, cook, clean, clothe and feed my kids, but she doesn't see it that way. Especially now since my wife and the mother of my children has been diagnosed with cancer, I need my gf's support more than ever. The gf always complains and says she is stressed out from doing everything for me, but am I right? This is supposed to be her job as my partner and she should stop saying that or at least stop complaining right? Side note: I separated from my wife of 13 years because we were constantly being unfaithful to one another and both unhappy. I was being selfish but I in no way abandoned my kids and I still help my wife by paying for her car and anything else she happens to need so she can be healthy and able to take care of them. Because of everything that's going on we do not want to get a divorce but do not want to be together. At least not right now.

What would make a guy cheat early in the marriage?

I can't hold down a mutually respectful relationship with my family, my husband hates me, he doesn't even want to have sex or hang out, I am not as good a mother as I thought I'd be, I don't seem to be able to get a job despite having two Masters degrees, I don't have any friends.

He is 29. He refuses to get checked up. I have talked and he just ignores me. When I press him he says he is too tired or that I want it too much. We have sex maybe 3 times a month which is also over before it starts. We have gone to couples therapy but it hasn't worked.

So here is the deal I got married 2 weeks ago, moved in with my wife into her house and I feel like I don't belong there I honestly miss my apartment, she has 2 beautiful kids that spend half of the time with us, when they are home is like I don't exist and of course that's normal since they are little kids and they need all the attention, my problem is that I feel like its not my house and honestly feel trap and bored.. I know its not a good sign. Any adive will be greatly appreciate it. Thank you

I have 3 kids with my toxic ex. He's a dead beat that never made time or effort to see his kids but has visitation and pays child support. He wants nothing to do with it none of them I confronted him and he made every excuse in the book why he doesn't get them. He got mad and forced himself to want to come and get them. He called and said, " I'm coming to get the lil brats so you'll get off my back about it cuz I have more important things to do. My kids dont deserve to be treated like that and I dont want no one like that around my kids. Should I block him?