Me and this girl recently started texting and Snapchatting. We talked every day for a few weeks but yesterday she left my Snapchat on read and today she didn't reply again when I Snapchatted her. Why would she just randomly stop talking to me out of the blue? I'm just really confused because we talked for so long and this just seemed really sudden and random.

I'm a freshman in a 4 yr college and since most of my friends and classmates went to community college I was left to make my own friends. I decided to join this culture club but I noticed everyone already knew each other since they're either 2nd year or more. I felt intimidated because I'm mostly used to people my age. There's another freshman member in that club and she seems like she gets along well with them. I joined my first semester but since their club meetings were on Fridays and I go home on Thursday (Live in dorms) I would only be able to go 2 Meetings a month, which is probably why few of them recognize me. Now that it's 2nd semester I would want to know if it's possible to get closer to them and how? I know most of them hang out at the library at the same spot but I get really nervous around new people and don't know how to control it

I'm 23 and I've never really had female friends. I'm nearly done with college in a few months and I have no clue why I've never had a girl friend. First off, I do have friends, but they're guys. I honestly think a lot of girls don't like me because of my looks and smarts lol. I'm at least an 8. I'm about 5'5" 115 lbs. Curvy in all the right places. The last friend I had accused me of "sleeping" with he bf. I called her insecure, all the girls on my dorms floor wouldn't talk to me after that. I currently go a great stem program at a well-known school, so I'm not dumb either. I know I'm the total package and they're insecure so they don't speak to me. I usually hang out with guys because they're less drama, but I missing hanging out with other women. It's different with men.

I love my mom to death but she has this friend who a older woman who makes me uncomfortable because I'm high functioning special needs her husband before he passed away treated me like a baby to they have this grand son that needs a girl friend that they talk about hooking me with when I have some one else I'm interested and dating right now they made me feel so bad about myself I distance my self from them for years and my mom made go out with them one night a few years ago it wasn't fun at all before he passed away when I was out with them they talk about hooking me up with their grand son who can't keep a job and special needs he not the type I'm interested in I asked my mom if there racist because they ask me if there any blank people where I lived looks so concerned I'm sorry if this harshed I wasn't all that sad when he pass last July I'm unhappy with my mom inviting her to thanksgiving I told her I don't like her she said that she the nicest person she knows when I don't feel that way about her and I'm little upset she invited her for thanksgiving what should I do how do I handle it

Okay so I have this friend who claimed to be half Japanese and half Caucasian and she also showed me her mom but not her dad. She said her dad is Japanese but never showed me him and we've been friends for 2 years? She posted a picture saying something about her being asian and her other friend commented "you're not asian lmao 😂" and then I asked her, "doesn't your friend know that yours half Japanese? Lol". She ignored the question and even deleted her friend's comment. How do I know if she's faking her ethnicity?

have this really awkward relationship with a male friend of mine. It's like we both know there's chemistry between us and we don't know what to do. I only really see him when we work together and because I'm shy and inexperienced I just stay well away and that's even more awkward. Last time I missed him a lot because I'd been alone and had been wanting to talk to him. (I don't know what about). I just attach myself to a man I like because I don't really have a group of friends or family. So he noticed eventually I was getting too close to him. I feel like I was in his personal space in a public place and I must have been really annoying. So I just left him and started flirting with someone else without realise I was doing it... And then he came back to me and got really close to me.... to the point where I could feel him, I felt he was putting himself emotionally on the line because we always stick together. We never talked about it since, just moved on. And nothing came from that really. He's talking to other girls apparently. I just don't get it. I'm a bit lost so I can see why he's never asked me out out. A part of me has never wanted that . I just don't know

Well I have been moved out the state to Arizona from New Jersey back in 2004 i was 14 and moving into 9 grade so reconntect everyone on facebook from myspace anyways I been asked If i like this guy name Henry that I knew him since 4 grade and I asked him if he liked me he reply No so i said no i be coming back in a month for a month hope to see you with everyone else in group there chance we can meet then I got block so years later 2012 i believe it came and i went to my friend Joey to ask if i can see my friend facebook and he let me so i went back on his wall to see what happend and i seen that i was still friends with him while he dating his girlfriend Laura for about year and then I seen a status saying about this been hack by your lovely Girlfriend Laura then year go by I message her on instagram saying who i was so i was friends with her for over year then i asked if we can meet with you and Henry I would love to meet you then i got nothing everytime i come back out so then i guess i got block again after like here there of there picture so then i message Henry I got block then message again saying if this henry girlfriend i would like to say i am not here to get in between you guys there nothing between Henry and I and I got mean message from Henry so now I see his girlfriend Laura on my friend instagram and I can see when she is on and wonder if this is his girlfriend have hard me being mean to this girl Courtney she probably twisted the story to Jessica to tell La & also I see she how long before she was on las time so anyways I message Henry one last time about hearing about his mom on my instagram in seconds I got block and she was on before I messaged and it was 52 mintues before she did, then yesturday I seen latley he tag her name in a video he sharing IS THIS HER? none of them dont want to admit how i get this back it recently happend to me and I am very sad please help me

I don't live in the United States but I had a tattoo and people would just out right say I'm gay and I'm not. When I got the tattoo I thought it meant balance between good and evil so as I got older I noticed men would hit on me and a teacher of mine asked me if I am a proud LGBTQ activist . I covered it up but now alot of people where I live now label me homo-sexual I even had ex-girlfriends believe I was gay at first

I've never done anything bad to anyone, but people say I look like a monster. Im a 16 year old girl. Guys tell me "plz don't beat me down", sing songs about "a big fat bully", put a scared expression on their face when they see me.

So here is my deal, I used to be good friends with someone when I was young like form age 3 to 7, but I ended up moving. anyway we never kept in touch with each other since then. I am 27 now and had a random urge to reunite with my old friend. I searched for is full name on Facebook and got nothing. I did find his sister though. Back when I was friends with my friend his sister was older and I never really talked to her at all. My question is would it be appropriate to simply massage his older sister asking what happened to her brother? BTW I don't use social media. Only reason I made a Facebook it to reunite with a few friends. I pretty much have a blank profile.

So I work as a CNA. I plan on going back to school this fall. I have a super lazy coworker. We don't have separate patients. I do majority of the patients by myself, while she sits on her ***, or just disappears. She tries to make it seem Im not about team work, that she waits on me so we can do it together. However if I did that, everyone will be done once, at the last minute, and will have messed up their beds. That's an excuse because they're going to need to be taken cared of. Even on my breaks, she won't change anyone. She's like this with everyone she works with . My friend said I should I report her. I honestly feel like that's not going to do anything because she's been doing this for years. But idk. I feel like I shouldn't report her, just drop down to prn and get another job

After meeting with guy on campus, he asked where Im heading to and if Im heading home. I said yea and he said he's heading home too. Was he testing the waters? Why want to know right?

What does it actually mean when a guy cums quick?

How come some men don't have a problem hugging other men but some Men do have a problem hugging other men ?

Even though I am divorced, I am still on friendly terms with my ex husband. I know people say that can not be done be we did it. I am also friends with several divorced women like me. These women have asked me to fix them up with a date with my ex husband. I can understand this as he is a great, and I mean GREAT looking guy. I know they would enjoy a date with him and I know he would enjoy a date with them. Even if I could do that, I am not sure I want to do that. I am afraid if something goes wrong on their date, one or both of them will be mad at me. Guys, how would you feel about your ex setting you up with dates for beautiful women? What if it did not work out. Would you blame me? Gals, also if I set you up with a date with a guy and it did not work out, would you blame me?

About 2 weeks ago my friends and I went somewhere to ski, we stayed in a lodge. My friend's boyfriend Trent drove all the way there. Hannah (my friend) always brags about him because she's like 18 and he's 26. One day as she was bragging about him I said something to the effect of "you better watch out before I steal your man!" We were joking and she laughed. When we got back to our rooms, there was miscommunication between everyone so we ended up with a room with two beds. It wasn't an issue, I volunteered to take the room with a second bed, sharing it with Trent and Hannah. At night Hannah goes to shower, it's dark, so I stumble into what I believe to be my bed. It's not and Trent was in there. I freak out silently, he's half asleep and thinks I'm Hannah. He wraps his arm around me and spoons me. I start to feel comfortable so I let it happen. Hannah comes back and starts screaming at us. I'm so confused, she accuses us of cheating, I tell her "so what, what are you going to do?. SHE BEGINS TO THROW MY STUFF OUT OF THE ROOM. She told me to sleep on the floor. I was irate, I pushed her and we start fighting, it took all of our friends to break us up. I cut the trip short and called my brother to pick me up. I haven't spoken to Hannah in weeks, but she still calls me a "homewrecker" I deserve an apology from her. How do I get it? I feel as if Trent is at fault because he's the one who started it all.

ve been an expat for 8 yrs got married and had 3 children. 9,6,3yr olds But now circumstances have changed seperated with children living in an( money pit) expensive city south of france, alone with no family and very few friends and no real job prospects because of language barrier. But have the sun 300 days of the year, beach, slower pace of life and beautiful nature as well as a private life away from gossiping friend s and fam and family friendly. I could build a life here alone with my babies and work my butt off with mediocre job that will hire me. But live on minimum 1 child s shoe alone average 45€ easily My home town London has everything activities, cheaper living(somewhat), social scenes for mums abd kids, multicultural, a property for my kids and i..and bad weather but most importantly my family and friends, as well as a possibility of a professional job with potential good earnings. But brexit will hit anytime Before i even met my husband i was so desperate to leave my home town. It s all i knew and i was sick of the bad weather. And the same ol same old. And it was depressing But now what. Home right now seems so promising ..but i remember how depressed i felt ... i just dont wont to home and make the wrong decision but im so torn. Your opinion helps thanks in advance xxx

My friend and I aren't in the bestest terms at the moment. However, he recently bought me a book and told my best friend to give it to me. I would have much appreciated if my friend gave me the book himself. I want to receive it but at the same time, I don't. So what should I do?

I live with my bestfriend may of 2018, ever since I move in she tell me what I need to do. I'm 32 year old man, controlling,manipulated,and needy. All was want me to tend to her son and her need every time I get money all my money go to bills, she not working cause she just had weight loss surgery, she stress me out a lot, plus I deal with working at mcdonalds I want my life back she tell us everyone going on a diet, or you don't need to eat out I want to move out but can't break the lease which is 1,000 dollars I love and care for her but I feel like I'm there to support them.she tell me thing are going to change she suppose to get a job this month after she recover. any advice she does online school but I'm the main one who putting in for it all and I'm tired.

Im 21 years old man I dont have alot of friends and necer had alot during school I had a total of 7 friends and only 2 of them I consider close. At Univesity I Made friends with one guy and I kept in touch with one school friends. Now I have zero. Does this usually happen? Will I ever have friends? Ps: I am confident and have alot of hobbies such as gym and yoga + I graduated university

Like there's a older coworker who keeps asking personal questions

What would you do if you felt like you couldn't approach one of your friends when they would upset you?

I've liked my Best Friend for almost a year and a half now. I'm a guy and he's not gay. I've accepted this, yet I still can't move on. Recently we've been drifting apart. I mean, most of it probably has to do with the fact that I'm pushing him away. I guess it's just some defense mechanism I have to avoid getting hurt more. I thought drifting apart would actually help, but it just makes me feel worse. He's having all of this fun without me, and he doesn't even miss me. I know it's stupid. I shut him out and then get mad when he doesn't talk to me. But I don't know any other way to move on. I wish they weren't the same person. If I wanted to stop talking to my crush, I could just talk to my Best Friend. But now I'm losing them both. What do I do? I don't want these feelings anymore.

I'm 28 and a lot of my friends are between 17 and 20. Like I feel like I have more in common with people that age like playing Xbox and movie interests. This age group also comes with my job where it's usually school leavers who apply at McDonald's. I find it easier to get along with them then people my own age who have there own houses, engaged or married and have kids. Honestly I don't even feel like I'm 28 years old. Is it so wrong that I have younger friend groups

I'm somewhere around 20 now (ain't telling y'all), I have my own house and a job. Tomorrow is a high school reunion, and there is this one bully that calls me sh*t a** and steals my stuff. I'm taking my nephew and my niece with me because I have to watch over them. Is it ok to tell them to call him that name and poke fun at him just to make him feel awkward and to spite him. I am not a coward, and I know being reminded of your former crimes by little kids are always embarrassing.

I've been invited to a friends party. He's 17 and I am 27. We are work friends but we do things outside of work. We have similar interests I.e. marvel, Xbox etc. I know that I am older than him, and so does he, and I told him that I am not sure and that I will think about it but he really wants me to come and keeps asking.

Hi, About one years ago I became friend with a girl that I met in my college. We immediately hit it off and became fast friends. It seemed like we had lots in common I was very excited to have a friend with whom to share something I love. After about a year of knowing each other I met another girl. It was my idea for us three to get together and chat. We all got along great. Then The other two ladies seemed to hit it off really well, making me feel like a third wheel. They pretty much ignored me and I decided to unfollow them on social medias because they used to post their pics together and completely ignore me. It has been a year but I still think about that. How can I forget it?? I'm so sad about it. I know this all seems childish and I'm trying just to get over it, but I'm having a hard time moving on. I'm just disappointed that a seemingly good friendship turned out to be not so special. I'd appreciate any advice you could give.

Bueno soy gay y me gusta mi mejor amigo , el lo sabe....tenemos una relación bastante peculiar, entre los dos nos peleamos mucho , nos pegamos, nos vacilamos y sobretodo discutimos por tonterías , la gente dice que discutimos como un matrimonio.... el es el típico mujeriego que no le importa nada solo le importa sus amigos y todo eso.... Mucha gente se cree que le gusto o que estamos saliendo en secreto Un ejemplo es su mejor amigo que siempre le insinúa a su amigo que me bese o que hay tensión sexual....o también su madre que nos dijo directamente que quien se desea se desea o que en el fondo nos queremos.... Como he dicho , el es el típico mujeriego hetero y que liga mucho... No se que hacer porque le quiero mucho pero se que me tengo que alejar de él pero hay una parta de mi que no quiere..... Y con esta situación me confunde porque antes no discutíamos tanto ni nos pegábamos....

Something bad happened to a girl i knew since 9th grade. I've had classes with her throughout including this year during senior until i dropped an ap class & took study hall. I sat with my lunch friends as i over heard them talking about how they are worried. I asked is she in the hospital and one nodded. Then i asked what happened but they didn't tell me and said it was'nt my business.

He's on the baseball team and a somewhat popular rich type kid. I wish I had friends and even when I attended a youth group I felt that people were cliquey. My dad only makes 36k a year and we are not rich. I wish we were. I am a girl. Some of the rich popular kids make fun of me and even most kids do in general and they claim that I am the girl that nobody understands.

honestly I've tried so hard to help her. I've gave her so many reasons why I love her and don't want her to kill herself. I've written paragraphs. I've given her advice, but it feels like she doesn't even listen. she just vents, and rambles on and on about how she hates her life. she doesn't acknowledge anything I'm saying to her. I've told her how afraid I am to lose her and I'm always praying for her. she does this at least once a week. It's emotionally exhausting because I'm also going through alot rn... and honestly it's getting old. sometimes it just feels like she's being dramatic. she doesn't even give reasons why she wants to kill herself. it's slowly driving me away from this friendship, because she's always miserable. I probably sound awful. but this point in my life, I really need positivity and this is making my life so much more stressful. I don't want to give up on her, but at the same time I need to think bout myself. I'm stuck between these. and it's driving me crazy. I don't know what to do.

So my friend is a 21 year old girl and her boyfriend is 24. Anyways they are from Italy and recently moved to study in a college here in the states. Anyways they became friends with a 55 year old guy at their college and he befriended them. He buys them things and helps them out. However he is divorced from his wife and has 2 teenage kids. But he always maybe once a week hangs out with my 2 friends. I kind of find it odd because he is like 30 years older. What do you guys think?

I don't want to quit Instagram but I also hate to be on Instagram because I see that no one post their failures and they are all happy which makes me feel like a loser. I quit Instagram a shot while ago and it took a huge weight off my shoulders but I still don't want to seem like an anti-social person and miss my friends. What should I do?

I asked this guy has he ever been paid for his services.

I feel more and more feminine by the day. I dont want that. I know the whole stigma of "you should just be yourself nininini" but i really, really dont wanna. Help?

I'm more than half way through my freshman year of high school and have a group of good friends. We are kinda the quieter clique, exept for Rachel (not real name) she tend to speak her mind. She is sometime a little dramatic (which I now sounds mean but hear me out). Recently one of our friends was struggling with mental health and had to take a step back from our group of friends to just clear her head (which is conpleatly reasonable). Rachel took this very badly accusing her of leaving us, and betraying us. Rachel would constantly talk **** about her despite the fact that, she really did nothing wrong. When this girl attempted to make friendly again Rachel refused to speak to her, and now does not want any of me and my other friends talking to her either. She tends to tell us who we can and cannot talk to/ like. If I sit next to some one else during class for a day she says I'm "leaving her." The thing is Rachel is trans, and has Gone through a lot in her life. Me and my friends all kinda have mental health issues and we try to support eachother. Exept Rachel is constantly talking about suicide, and telling us that our lives are so much better than hers. She also does in no work in class and then expects us show her our hw and notes. it is starting to annoy everyone, but I'm worried if we confront her, she will hurt herself. Ps: I would like to note that her parents and the school know about her mental health issues. She is getting help.