Like let s say there s a 16 year old who has to watch his siblings and has to cook for them whIle he watches them and also helps with disabled or autistic siblings too? What s your opinion on his mom making him do all that?

My Sister is 10 years older than I am (I am 33, shes 43). She has a 11 year old son. I noticed last week when she tried to encourage him to succeed in life and set goals, but the tone of voice comes off making her sound angry or disappointing with him and he looks scared. It makes me recall my relationship with our mother. Its how she spoke with me at times, her voice had a consistent tone of anger or disappointment. at the time, I felt like her standards and expectations of me (and other people in contact with her) were pretty high and thus her disappointment. and now I see it in the relationship between my sister and her son. I love them both very much, but I worry that his self esteem might go the same way mine did (especially as I was also bullied as a youth into my teen years...and her angery tone of voice didnt help in the manner) I know now that she had alot of presure from work at the time. My mom and sister are alot alike and I worry for my nephew. How should I speak with my sister so that she can give better encouragement to her son?

I've noticed a few times before that my dad would look at my breasts then looks away quickly. So I thought that maybe it was my imagination. But recently he started to stare at them for what seems like a very long time to me but is actually probably like 7 seconds. He thinks that I can't see him so he keeps staring. Every time he looks my heart starts racing. He usually stares when I'm in my sleep shirt or tank top so I'm not wearing a bra, and you can see the outline of my breasts through the shirt. Why does he do this and am I over reacting? I don't know if I should call him out on it or not. He is the pretty much the perfect dad other than this, but why does he do this? I just want to know why he does this, if its normal, and if im over reacting. ??? I'm not a troll this actually happens. Are you saying this doesn't happen to anyone else? I'm not saying my dad is attracted to me in any way, he could be doing it for another reason, I just dont know why The only reason I'm not wearing a bra is because I am in my sleep clothes and about to go to sleep. I'm not going to sleep with my bra on. Also that's not the problem because he has done it even when I do have a bra on.

Im 17 and bought a car from the dealer , but since my history and credits are basically zero, my mom signed for everything and it went through her , even though I put down the depoait and down payment and as well as pay ita monthly fees with my money. My brother has his own car but is going to a party tomorrow night and wants to borrow my car which is way nicer than his. I made plans a week ago with my best friend tomorrow night since we are both off and he decided today he wants it . again he has his own car ! So he goes and tells my mom and she is actually giving him the car even after i said no ! That asshole never in his life let me use his car and the nerve of my mom to just give it to him. I understand its legally in her name but my mom and I agreed its my car , insurance is on me, my responsibilty and my money basically a year ago . Its not the first time she took his side , he is also 22 and has agood paying job, he can go rent a nice car if he wanted. My mom keeps telling me "oh poor boy didnt get to drive it", well you know hes never nice to me and never let me used his car or gave me rides so what should I give mine . Any advice?

I get along really well with the woman's sister even though she led me on or changed her mind about me. That woman likely never discussed how I felt about her to her older sister who I still get along with. Her older sister who I get along with, never brings up her sister when her and I interact with each other.

So my father lied to me and my stemning this summer. After 20 years of not talking him and his brother started meeting up. Without telling us. My (crazy) uncle which at that time was in custody for allegedly killing his own wife had called him. My father stepped in as a false alibi and my uncle actually got away with murder... Now I've told my father that if I see my uncle I would beat him up. That is why I don't visit anymore. But I know my father both does and does not know what he is doing. He is mentally disturbed and I don't want to do anything I might regret. I am trying not to fight anyone. I am studying medicine and do not want to be associated or take and part of any crimes. But with my mom gone in 2006 I don't want to do anything I might regret later in life. How do you deal with a father that really does not know how to be considerate + thinks the world and its content belongs to him? I mean if I contact him now he will think that I have «realized» that I am wrong and that he was right. He has no ability to see his own flaws/mistake, no reflection in own actions. He is really good at conspirations against himself tho... please advice me «Stepmom» not «stemning»

So im 20, my lil bro is 15 we lost both our parents in a car accident about a year ago. he has been living with a foster family but he hates it. a couple of hours ago he showed up at my door with a bunch of clothes and told me he was moving in. so obviously i told him he couldnt and asked if his foster parents knew he was here, and they didn't. so i yelled at him and told him to get in the car because im taking him home, and he started crying, i didnt even have the heart to bring him back after that so i let him stay the night and told his foster parents that he's here. so what do i do now? i know he wants to live with me but he cant. I dont go to see him very often because im too busy with work and school. this is the first time ive seen him since august.

times per week. It is driving me crazy. I feel like I still live at home. If they catch wind that I am trying to do anything at all, they show up to try adn help me but all they do is hinder me. For example, I was packing for a short weekend trip, and when my parents showed up they decided to "help me pack". They loaded my car with everything but the kitchen sink despite me telling them it was making things more difficult to have so much stuff I didn't need. They would not leave until I left to make sure I didn't put anything back. I am not a little kid they need to cut it out.

I was visiting my cousins (my mom's sister's children). They were showing the family picture album. It has pictures of my mom when she was young and was she ever beautiful. WOW. I told my aunt that I had never seen those pictures and I thought my mom in those pictures was the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My aunt said "If you think she was beautiful then, let me show you some of national magazines she modeled for". Moms pictures in those magazines just blew me away. I had not idea mom had ever been a model. She had never told me about that? I ask my aunt if she could make me a copy of mom's pictures so I could put them on the wall in my room and she agreed to do so. Do you think my mom would have a problem with her daughter putting her mom's pictures on my room at home as I am so proud of her? Can anyone think of a reason mom never told her daughter she was a model and had appeared in national magazines?

She asked for 250.00 because she said she would buy food with it. I had 400.00 and I had a bank fee to pay off that was 124.00. I spent the rest on my son's clothes because I expected her to buy food like she said. We don't have much food in house left and she spend my 250.00 on the phone bill! I only agreed to contributing to the food and rent and she's responsible for the phone bill and other bills for the apartment. I'm seriously pissed off.

My cousin sometimes barrows my things without asking me, if I'm not there, but HE NEVER RETURNS IT UNLESS I FORCE HIM TO. When I write him where is that thing he took, he ignores me. Like do i really ******* need to ask him to give me back my stuff ??? Isn't that common sense? He also once took my bike for a ride after I told him that HE CAN'T TAKE IT, but he did anyways. He also took it once without asking me(because I wasnt there, but he could have texted), but my mom( and I bought it for my own money...) He also took my basement keys to which I allow him to store his bike in, but I told him to just take his bike out and return the keys right away, but he took the keys for 3 ******* days and I couldn't get access to my bike. I constantly texted him about it,but he ignored me and I HAD TO COME TO HIM TO GET THEM BACK. This happens every time he takes my stuff.I have to get it back myself. What should I about this ? Is he a piece of **** ? I will not tolerate this anymore, but I wonder whether I should keep being friends with him? did you even read what I said? I DO ASK, BUT HE IGNORES ME OR MAKES ME GET IT BACK MYSELF.

My sister is 15 she'll be 16 next month she's having twins with a 22 year old guy. She's been with him for a while she really loves him. He's my worst enemy I hate him not for this but other stuff he's done to me. I'm trying to stay out of it I don't want to cause trouble for her. Our parents died I'm in charge of her but she's gonna marry him after the kids are born. Is that wrong ?

I'm a 22 year old female. When I was 16, I met my boyfriend online. He lived in the U.S. and I lived in Canada. We had a long distance relationship for a few years, and would visit back and forth. When I was 19 I moved to Virginia to be closer with him. I'm now 22 and still love him, I love Virginia, and I'm happy with my life here. My mom on the other hand does not approve of my boyfriend whatsoever. I'm her only child, and he's the reason that I'm far away from her now. She constantly tells me that she doesn't care for him, and makes it very obvious when talking to me that she is disappointed. She thinks my early 20s should be spent "experimenting" with different guys, and that I shouldn't be held down so young. She is planning on moving from Canada to Texas, because her brother lives there and she wants to be closer to family. She is basically forcing me to move to Texas too, because she said she doesn't want to live her whole life far away from me. When I have children, she wants to be apart of their lives. She wants to see me more than a couple times a year. I understand her perspective, but at the same time, I really don't want to move to Texas. I like Virginia. And not only that, but my boyfriends family is here in Virginia and he doesn't want to move away from them either. I'm stuck on what to do. If I move to Texas, I'll be closer with my mom and she'll be happy. But, I don't necessarily want that for myself. What do I do?

My daughter is 5yrs old now. She means the world to me. The mother of my child really doesnt like me. She really doesnt have a good reason not to like me she just acts dumb. But its been almost 2 years since shes let me see my daughter she doesnt answer my calls or te t messages she doesnt let my family see my daughter she just acts like i dont exist. We do not have a court order she is getting me for child support. Currently im not working so i havent been paying it can someone give me advice on what to do so i can see my daughter idk where to even start or who to talk to. I just miss my baby girl and wanna see her again.

Hubby and I had to run some errands and my MIL was watching our 2y.o.son for three hours. When we came back I walked into my inlaws house and saw my son with his new haircut, an Amish haircut. I tried to be calm, I just started giving a weird smile and looking a bit shocked and MIL just proceeds to tell me, "Look, Mommy, we got a haircut". I just replied "Yeah, I see.." and I didn't say anything else. Hubby wasn't in the room at the time but when he came back he said nothing cause he would never dare say anything against his mom. When I told him I was upset he said it's just hair and it will grow back. Later, I just said: "I prefer a slightly different cut, I'm more into...(and showed her on my son what I like more)". We had already given him a nice haircut a few days before bringing him to stay with her and if it's not her way, not what she likes... she'll do it her way. And the worst thing is, hubby won't say anything, worst-case scenario - he'll agree with her. The fact is she didn't ask either me nor my hubby for permission to cut our son's hair. Then She proceeded to say: "during summer, shave off his hair completely since it will grow out thicker and better looking." I said:"I do not think that's necessary since he already has thick hair and I do not think he needs to be bald". Anyways, I was so mad but I cannot say anything much to her cause I'll end up being a really bad DIL. Any similar situations out here? How'd you deal with this?

Instead of them slapping their kids butts with the palms of their hands, i say that they should just give their kids a good bopping on the head with their fists when their kid or kids start acting badly or talking badly. Just saying. It just makes more common sense and is less sexual.

He asks all of these dumb questions like "what's the time?" and "which one of our cats is more mature?" and even "did you know that they put popcorn in ceilings in America?" I want to know how to get him to stop asking me stupid questions.

She s 27 years old. His dad has psychopathic traits, charming, manipulator, controling, liar, single dad of 3 woman, works away as a CEO. He also said she bite his tongue but he couldn t say anything cause she s retarded. She cares about her a lot. She seems smart for her condition even teaches kids.

First off let me tell you that I'm going to be completely honest and give you the facts so you can judge for yourself. I'm not trying to give you my family's history, but If you have the time to read all of this and are willing to make a judgement, then it would be appreciated greatly. So, tonight my mother goes to visit her daughter in a neighboring town. Her daughter, which is also my sister, is 29 years old; She wanted my mother to come and fix her daughter's hair for a pageant crowning that was to happen later on in the evening. My mother, whom is 68 years old accepted. She came home later that evening crying and upset. She said her daughter treated her like a dog and ignored her and even made fun of her in public. My mother didn't do anything wrong to her. She just done what was asked and all seemed fine. Unfortunately, this is how my sister's personality is. My mother always an extremely kind hearted person and gave her just about anything she wanted. My mother also got her off of drugs when we were younger. My sister used to come by and get Xanax. She would act friendly for like 10 minutes then she would get what she came for and leave. Now that she has her own meds she very rarely comes by. And she only does when she wants my mom to babysit or like today, do her daughters her. Now my sister a RN Nurse and making good money with a family of her own. She is a pretty blonde but does have 3 children by 3 different dudes. She is has always been popular.

He said that while my mother as alive, and she had dementia that her apartment was like a ghetto. I don't live near them but he lived in the same neighborhood and I have to ask why wasn't he help her cleaning it? This was before she went into a nursing home. He has a very angry personality and I don't feel safe talking to him about anything. Bu I regret not asking him why he would let his mother who ultimately wound up in a nursing home live in a ghetto when he knew about it? I feel sad that I didn't say anything on her behalf. But I would consider it a waste of breath to bring it back up since he is very angry and explosive. What are my options? I was living in another state.

More details: I'm an adult living with my mom. I am in graduate school and my mom has recently been very passive aggressive and hasn't spoken to me in months even though we live together. Yesterday when she got home she physically assaulted me and tried to drag me out of the apartment. I want to move out but know the process can take long. I am just torn with what to do.

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I'm a college girl who used to live close to her. The 13 year old says that her mom expects her and her 3 siblings to be perfect kids. Her mom yells at her children over minor things and often makes her youngest brother cry. Yes, it does sound like she's unhappy with her home life. However, running away from home will only create bigger problems. She'll eventually have to come home and face her mom again, who might be angry that she ran off. Kids at school might be nosy about her personal life details when they found out. The worst possibility is her NOT being able to come back, ever. There are pedophiles and traffickers who can take advantage of a young girl on the streets alone. This 8th grader sounds serious about wanting to run away, but the grass just isn't greener on the other side. I'm concerned about her safety, and what kinds of problems will come up if she does. However, I don't want to trigger her or have her be angry at me as well.

so iam 15 years old , me and my mother don't really have a relationship at all like i cannot come and talk to her about boys or nothing at all she puts it like "you're a little kid you don't know what you are talking about " she calls and talks negative about me to my sister saying she cannot stand me , and my sister has told her i said i wish she wasn't mom and my mother said she didn't care .. she is always depending on somebody else to do something for me but she does do stuff for me sometimes.. she is always asking me to clean for her . all the stuff i've said about her so she can break has not her well aleast she doesn't show it i have never seen her cry only once and it was over me about to get taken and that was all .. she always says i'm annoying , we never spend time together, everytime her boyfriend is around she REALLY NEVER GIVES ME ATTENTION EVERYTIME HES AROUND !! and today i told her she rather be laid up with a man and she just went off by saying he does everything for him like i really don't care what he does all the materialistic **** i don't care for tbh i just wanna have a relationship with my mom but she doesn't get it at all , sometimes she is nice she tells me she loves me and i'm all she gots but deep down inside i know she doesn't care about me or my sister , please help i really love my mother but she ooesnt understand she thinks i'm being grown by telling her how i feel like wtf .. but this is not how she acts all the time

I live with my grandmother, she is my legal guardian. She is on her second bout of cancer. It is much less severe, but it has been 15 years since she last had it so she is much older now (61). I am a 14 girl with a 9 year old brother w/ behavioral issues. I have an aunt and uncle who said they d adopt me but they already have 2 kids of their own and don t make much money bc my uncle is blind and diabetic and cannot work. I would also have to move away from my friends and boyfriend of one year, all of whom I am very emotionally dependant on bc of my depression and anxiety. Please help.

I'm starting an apprenticeship in childcare next week it's 3 years long and 3.90 per hour. With all the hours I'll be doing I'll earn £117 a week which is 468 a month. My mom and dad are taking £90 a week from me that's £27 a week for myself? 108 a month? What an earth can I do with that? £27 a week . Don't tell me no rubbish about having to pay my way I wouldn't mind £20/£30 but £90?? that is ridiculous. Btw the reason I have to pay is because my mom is loosing her child tax . It would be cheaper to go move in with my boyfriend and claim for universnal credit. I feel like I have to get a normal full time job now so I can earn a better wage. Which would ruin what I actually want to do.