I love him so much i dont want to lose him even though some things he does pisses me off and i just cant speak up.

We have been married two years. We are both in our early thirties. My husband is from Europe. I'm American. My sister-in-law (husband sister) has been staying with us for a few months. We got back home from a long day. I went into the kitchen to make myself a sandwich. I sat down in the livingroom and I started to eat my sandwich. My sister-in-law got up and went into the kitchen and made a sandwich. She came out and handed it to my husband. And she said, "Here I made you a sandwich since it looks like your wife is not going to do it." I was shocked, my husband looked at me and said, "Yeah... YEAH she's right. Why didn't you make me a sandwich? You are lazy and you only think of yourself." Was I lazy?

My husband and I were at a restaurant/bar tonight.... My husband went to the bathroom. He saw a white substance on the toilet. He JUST told me this. I am TORN. Do I call, and maybe put a worker in danger, or do I NOT call and put others in danger?!?! It was on the top of the urinal. What do we do?!?! So this bar is basically an adult bar I think. I saw no kids and my friends were there about an hour and a half later and saw no kids....it was in the mens bathroom on top of the urinal. My husband didn't tell me for a few hours after. On one hand, if I call, they can wipe it off. But on the other hand, if I call, and they wipe it off and then it gets in food, or they tell a staff member and they take it, then I would feel guilty. I feel like I am in a lose lose situation.

then a week after you break up, she meets some gang banger and fvcks his brains out all night?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a few years. He is divorced with kids who live with their mother in another state about 6 hours away. They were married over a decade and she is now remarried for ~a year. He has driven to visit them. His relationship with their mother is "ok." It's not a great relationship, but it could be worse. Is it wrong for him to stay with his kids at her house with her new husband? He sleeps in the kid's room and stays there a few hours with them. Their mother and stepdad barely make contact with him while he is there. He is the one who typically provides them with meals, etc. while in her home. His reasoning is that he wants to maximize the time with his kids. My argument was based on the principle that he is disrespecting me by staying in his ex-wife's house with her home and he can maximize his time with the kids somewhere other than her house. Is this weird or wrong?

I am a teacher in grad school, my husband is a business owner. He makes almost double what I make. We obviously both have bills that we contribute to monthly. However, my husband has a lot more money left over to save after his bills are paid. Currently, with me working on my Master's degree, I am making payments as I go to avoid debt. This was his idea, which I agreed with because we try to avoid debt at all costs. My husband says things like: "The savines account should be all mine because i'm the only one contributing to it." "Where would you be if I wasn't here footing most of the bills." "How about if something on the house needs to be fixed or replaced, you do it!" Sort of at my wits end. I am grateful because we are in a good situation for me to not have to take out loans for my degree. How would you deal with a spouse that acts like this?

I been married for 5 years, and my whole life I have felt like something has been missing until I met a man name Anthony, he and I became very close intamite we talk all night long we go out. Until, he started turning me on when he looks at my balls. This is the hardest thing I believe I ever had to do but he makes me incredibly happy. I have never felt so complete. Do you think my wife knows? Do you think my best friend knows?