I am under 18 and lost my Social can I go with my sister or a Friend who is like a father to me or does it have to be my Mom and/or dad who have to go with me to get a new one?

And you can't win! If you go along with it, they'll continue to treat you like a child. If you fight back (not literally of course), showing them you don't like it, they step up their game and do it more severely! If they give you a 5 minute task, they'll get mad if you don't get it done in a split second. If you get it done fast, they get mad at you for rushing! They barely allow you to drive a car. You have a good paying job but yet they control what you can and can't do with YOUR OWN MONEY!!! How do you break out of this?

My husband and I are moving soon but everytime we move my mother in law moves too. Not only that but withing a quarter mile of us. She s really controlling and I m ready to start a life with out third party input. Am I just over reacting or what?

Hi my name is Jason i live in Holland and i just turned 18. Well im kinda, well not kinda but really irritated about my dad. I've wanted to drive his car for so long since i was 17. Then he always had an excuse and said you cant drive you're 17 police will get you. I was mad but still he was right. Now i turned 18 plus i got my licence a week ago. He still doesnt let me drive and says things like wait till the police get you when i get his car without asking. WTF IS THE POLICE GOING TO SAY I HAVE MY F*KING LICENCE. I dont drive bad my mom says that i am the best driver out of all of them. They failed their driving test 5-6 times while i got mine first try. But whenever my brother asks he gets the car. And he drives like a moron. How the hell does he trust him and not me. I dont get it what should i say to him. Today i brought my little sister to McDonalds and i told my father about it as a joke and i tought he would laugh. He got mad at me for driving. Wtf?! Btw im 18 my bro is 20. We're both boys.

eventually noticing the differences b/t my siblings n I. When it comes to financial obligation they've never missed a beat but most times it feels like it's been more of a burden than an obligation. it seems like my adoptive mother has grown agitated with me in hs we would get into arguments and she would pick at the fact that i'm adopted or that I am messed up mentally because of my past. It's grown to be so bad that I kinda just feel as though i have no family. I moved out and eventually had to move back in because of domestic violence & my siblings stayed home until they were well into their upper 20s. my mother now picks with me for weeks on end until I can't take it any more then tells me what a burden I am how I'm a mistake and that she doesn't want anything to do with me. I really am not sure what to do about this.. she's the only mother I know but she's grown to hate me so much.. i'm just wondering if I should take it as a loss.. save money and move and never look back or to dig deeper. I have no one to vent to.. my siblings don't know how she treats me and will never understand what its like to take a walk in my shoes. They only tell me that she doesn't mean what she says... even when she's told me these things multiple times. No one see's when I'm being provoked, they only see when i retaliate. She compares me to her birth kids saying she never had to deal with the arguments with them but she knows that she never treated them like she does me...

My boyfriend came to my house to pick me up for a date. I introduced him to my mom and they talked briefly. On our date he said "Your mother would sure make someone a Trophy Wife". Can someone tell me what that means. Is it a good thing or a bad thing?

My wife does most chores around the house, but doesn't always get them done, AND THATS OK. She works 20 hours a week at what she admits is a dead end job. She watches our son while I'm at work with the help of my sister, brother, mother and her mother. Often a member of the family takes our son out through my whole shift. I do less chores around the house, but I always do what we've agreed on. I work 40-70 hours a week at competitive job that provides from my family and pays all our bills. I watch our son while she's at work with no help. Nobody ever relieves me of my son because they're all working. I've always felt like things were hard but that's what I expected when having a child. Now I have to do dishes and fold laundry while watching my son because she learned what the mental load is.

at 44..for job choices, I can either continue to substitute teach, which fits my schedule better with my 9 yr old and my life is kinda hectic right now because I'm in court with his dad. Or I can take a job which is 9-5 tues-Sat full time which only pays 12.80. But at least I'd be employed all year long with full benefits. But I have to use my car ( 112k) miles on it to travel. And it may require me to work later he said until 6. My son has an activity after school 2 x per week. If I'm working, my son may have to go to TWO different child cares over the summer because courts want to give every other week to me and his dad. I don't think its a good idea for a child who is already struggling to force him to two different daycares. If i was subbing, at least Id have the summer off. Its only 2 months and I'm sure I could afford it. What do i do? so stressed I'm working on my civil service exams in the mean time

I don't want my husband to keep wheat flour in the house. Aside from not wanting to smell cakes etc. that I can't eat, I also think it's a bit dangerous in terms of airborne cross contamination. He says GF cake mixes are too costly to use all the time and some are not great. What are your thoughts? Am I going overboard by not wanting us to bake glutenous foods I cannot eat? How should I deal with this? It also just so happens that my husband's father (oddly enough) is celiac too. Despite this, the rest of the family of eight children (including the husband) and the mother have always eaten gluten. They regularly baked cakes, breads, biscuits and other home-made gluten filled goodies and the father just goes without (they were on a low income). He never wanted to burden his family with his dietary restrictions. My mother is also celiac and has never bought or used wheat flour or regular cake mixes since the day she and I have been gluten free, and my father has never had a problem with it. He just has regular bread and a separate toaster and that's about it. Am I going overboard here? People told me that when I married my husband I was very lucky since he would be aware of my dietary needs due to his father's condition. Seems like it's gone in the opposite direction now. How should I confront this issue? Any sound advice would be appreciated.

Like seriously, they act very similar to each other even if they have different occupations. They talk and act like each other. Why is this?

At my new college there are some weirdos here and there. I come home and tell my family about it. Anyway. I was telling my brother (it's a thing between me and him) about this Guy that's well got a disability. One minute he's resally smart and a genius next minute he's talking to himself or making weird noises. My mum overheard and told me to be nice to people and stop talking about them like this because I'm not perfect. When did I ever say I was perfect?! I am the definition of imperfect. I have so many flaws. I'm socially awkward beyond relief. And now I'm stressing over how imperfect i am. Aforementioned, my mother was telling me to help people the way nice girls from high school are nice to me and helped guide me. My mom wants me to be like them. The reason being because there is a foreign girl at my school that keeps hanging around me to learn English. Half the time I don't understand her and doesn't understand me. When I first met her I was too nice to her, so now she's clung onto me like a shadow. It made me miserable. The more I told my family about that, the more auntie grave would tell me to keep my distance and stay away because she's crazy. But my mother would keep telling me to be nice to her. It's already my teacher t Is my mother right in the aspect of me talking about a boy with a disability? I understand because I have one myself. Social anxiety made school hell. Advice?

My father in law is 94, he remarried this younger woman (MIL). At first, she's taking care of him, he's happy & out of a nursing home, visiting is easy. We'd fly to them & hubby would spend all day with his dad. Overtime, MIL has become awful. She isolates him, controls him, doesn't notify us when he's in hospital, & is dishonest. Visiting is impossible. MIL refuses to let anyone come to the house as "it's too stressful" for her insisting that we all travel somewhere. Every destination either gets shot down or they change their mind. FIL wanted to travel, then suddenly he doesn't & thinks we should stick to phone calls. Recent visits are us traveling to see them, they claim to be "tired" & need rest, & hubby gets to see FIL for a scant hour that day. Last time we saw them they claimed to be in town for 3 days; got to see them 2 hours total before they went home. A lie, they were around for 4 more days sight seeing nearby. FIL seems miserable & feels out of control of his life. I don't know if that's his age or something MIL is doing. We've accepted that we're not going to get to say bye to FIL & that she's going to call us when he dies. Don't know if she hates us, is taking advantage, or she's manipulative. FIL is cognizant but is also easily swayed to her whim. Is there anything I can do? We're concerned she's going to claim he's mentally incompetent & change his will. Can she do that? I just want hubby to get to spend as much time with his dad while he still can.

I have an emotionally abusive father, but my mum won't leave him. How do I avoid him at home without him getting angry? (And I can't leave the house without him or my mother at my side, ps my mum is constantly tired, so she won't take me out as much)

Me and my family about 12 of us are going to the beach in the summer "0cean City Maryland" My family is very close,and my aunts, cousins, grandparents and my mom are all going. the trip is only a 5 hour drive,but my family is pretty chill with me smoking weed my grandmother aunts and cousins know i do and most of them also smoke weed so me bringing it and being high around them inst a big deal. Our hotel is ocean front and we have a balcony, my friend is coming with me and im not sure where we should smoke without seeming suspicious or getting caught, can we go on the beach at night and smoke? on the balcony? i have a dab pen ans well probably use that most of the time.

Her company wants to sent her to Germany for 3 years for work, she accepted it without talking about it to me or her family. her parents are already in their 80s and she is the only daughter in the family. i just had a fight with her about this. she doesn't respect me and her family by doing this. I do know that she can make her decision as it is her career but it wouldn't hurt to tell her company that she needs some time to think about it and come home and talk to us about it? She is the only child in the family She told me that she's sorry and that her career is very important to her

okay. so i had an upcoming ortho appointment and i lost the slip to remind me when it was. so my mom said she had it in her phone and i thought she didn't. i went to go check on her phone and while i was coming back into the kitchen (where she was at) she asked me "are you done yet?" and i said "no" kinda in a deeper tone. and she started to get all over me and say why do you have to have an attitude? and i simply said "all i said was no" the. she started mocking me when i said no. i went to my room and i forgot my phone then. so i went back into the kitchen and grabbed my phone and my mom again thought i was having an attitude while grabbing my phone. then she told me "you haven't been punished in a while" she said for me to go into the corner and raise my arms and i started crying cause she was literally yelling at me when i didn't do anything wrong. what should i do?

My sister bought a prepaid credit card and buys things on Amazon. My parents didn't let her get one till she's 16. She got someone else's address so the items can ship over there. That person is apparently from school, and so the items are given to her at school. I also found out that she talks to random local people online. I don't know if it's tied to the credit card situation, but it seems like she does risky things.

My parents are great parents, but they are so stubborn, especially with electronics. I understand that in a way because they don't want me addicted to videogames, but what they do is way over the top. They downloaded this app like, screentime, which they have to pay for, to monitor my every move on my phone and limit me to an hour of games a day. They shut off the router for my computer at 10 so I am forced to get off, they get pissed if I'm not in bed at 10:30. They aren't doing this as punishment, I make good grades(4.4 weighted GPA), I am on a varsity sport that has practice year round, and I completely stay out of trouble.

Im sending 7 scratch off lotto tickets to a friend in the mail for a birthday, can anyone estimate how many stamps that needs?

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Hello i am a 17 year old male I live in California where weed is legal. Anyways I ve been smoking for almost a year (started when I was 16) and I do it just like any other teen except I have strict *** Mexican parents. weed dose NOT effect my school I litteraly have straight A s in all my classes . I only smoke like 3 times a week but recently I ve been getting caught up alot for the smell. My paretns say I m a hardcore addict , I m going to end up in the streets, and that I m going to overdose on weed and other hard drugs. I honestly and personally think my paretns are just so extra and exaggerate everything. They say they "know" I do other drugs but I ve told them already that I ve seen a bag of xanxs offered to me but I refuse bc i know that will **** up your brain , also lean aka purple drank has been offered to me but I know it causes liver failure so I refused . My mom is looking for a rehab and I think it s unessasary bc it s weed but I m starting to think they might be right? I m moving out at 18 for college and my paretns say they will put a restrain order so I don t come back. I love my paretns to death but Are my paretns doing too much? Should I go to rehab?? How can I convince them to let me smoke weed?

Do I look only like my dad or do I have some of my mom's features? I definitely have my dad's eyes, eyebrows, and skin color, but I think I got the bottom of my nose and lips from my mom.

My brother lives 4 hours away and send ice cream to my house around Christmas. It was 6 pints. I keep a mentally ill brother with me. One day my brother at home called him and when he was asked about getting 6 ice creams he said he got it and gave me 2 of them. He said he didn't want me to get any. Should it matter who eats the ice cream or paid for it if we decide to share it?

I'm a 15 year old girl from Canada. I searched her up on social media at 11-12 years old, but it was a dead end. But recently she created a profile for herself. I'm sure that it IS her - my adoptive parents had her photo and name. This woman looks almost exactly like her, never mind the same full name. However, I might stir up some bad memories from the past. We don't know any history of why she couldn't take care of me. She lives 30 minutes away from my area, out in the suburbs. Her pictures show two cats (that I never met either) and herself.

The short version is my older sister is a single mother of seven children. Only two of the children have the same father. Our parents are always helping her financially and watching the children for her while she works and goes to school. They have them over constantly. She has it hard. She's on every type of government assistance there is. I'm married, had children after I married and my husband makes a good living for us. However, I'm struggling with feelings of anger and bitterness because our parents are always helping her. With money, with babysitting, ect. They never have time for our family and it hurts. We live about 35 minutes away since we moved and every time my mother visits she falls asleep because she's so exhausted. She does so much for my sister. They spent so much money on things for her (that end up broken or not being taken care of). They even helped her buy a minivan in wonderful condition, only for her to let one of her boyfriends "work" on it and ended up costing hundreds of dollars to repair the damage he did! I don't get to spend time with my mom. I keep telling myself I'm lucky to be married. I'm lucky to have a husband who has a good job. I keep telling myself she needs the help. She's a single mom of seven beautiful kids. I love those kids so much! But at the same time no one forced her to have seven children she can't take care of. No one forced her to have multiple relationships and get pregnant. I just want a relationship with my parents.

Okay so, my mom is about to have an interview in a couple of weeks so she is asking me to pretend to be the interviewer but I keep starting to laugh which makes her laugh, throwing her off track. At this point she is probably going to get my older brother to do it, but she always asks my older brother to do stuff and I want to prove I can be trustworthy and responsible for once, how can I avoid laughing and be serious?

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