Im 15 and my dad is verbally and emotionally abusive, and has been that way since i was little. He often yells at me until i have panic attacks and calls me names. I never used to be very affected my this, but it is starting to affect me now. last year my family found out that my dad had been cheating on my mom for about a year and he was EXTREMELY ABUSIVE at that time. Him and my mom would always be fighting and he would take it out on me. He also is very narrsasistic and refuses to apologize when he is wrong. he also likes to mock and belittle me. My mom wants to try and work on her marraige but i hate my dad and i know that neither of them are happy staying married. this past year i have basically stopped liking boys, and i cant find them attractive really at all. I have always been very boy crazy, but have never been able to dorm close relationships with boys. Im confused as to what is happening and i dont know why i cant find boys attractive anymore. Then I started developing hocd. I have developed extreme anxiety around grown men and many other things. Now because i am not finding boys attractive I feel like i am loosing myself piece by piece. Has anybody else had an experience like this, or know what is going on?

I am 16 and I gave my friends dad a BJ. I am legal so can we continue if we keep it a secret? He is married but his wife does not have sex with him.

I need advice: my husband and I have been married for 10 years. He has this thing that he wants me to go out and meet new guys. In the beginning it was ok and I did that to spice our sex life and to make him happy because I love him. After a while, he started to treat me not so good and he thinks it is my obligation to show off and do things with other guys. If I don t do those things he turns into a rude person. Today he said he will be back to being nice to me ONLY if I please him again. I told him he needs to be nice first and then he gets what he wants. He said it is the other way around. He is conditioning our marriage based on that and even talks divorce because he says he is unhappy and he wants a wife that does things for him. So pretty much I just get a nice husband if I go out and mess around and I even dont enjoy it. How would you handle that situation?

Honestly. Normal not what "should" be. And not worst cases either.

she says i deserver better than her. i don't understand why she believes that. i miss her and can't live without her. what do i do?

What would have to take place mentally for a woman to justify this?

Tired of feeling like I always come second or third in some cases. We barely see each other she works morning I work nights but we work at the same place and I get to see her here and there when I come in for the night shift. When it s time for her to go home she always seems like she s in a rush, she does have to pick up the baby from her moms but she never just goes straight home she ll be there for an hour or 2 so I don t see what the rush is all about. Like tonight I said "hey can you bring our son by work so I can see him, I ve not seen him in 2-3 days because of work" she said yeah then last minute she said she had to take her mom somewhere and never came by. If my wife was in the same situation and barely got to see her son because of work I wouldn t hesitate to bring him by so she could see him. This isn t a isolated incident she does this often. She says she misses me and wishes she can spend more time with me but puts very little effort into doing so. Sorry for the rambling, moral of the story is how do I go about getting my wife to put me first over her families neediness.

My wife's daughter moved in with us last year after flunking out of college. I work from home and when my wife goes to work, she's there all day walking around in her panties and tee shirt. She sleeps on the sofa with just her panties and tee shirt, and she knows I am looking at her butt. She showers with the door open and is just absolutely tempting. She knew I was looking at her breast one day and she opened her shirt more so I would see them. With all of that said she knows that if I tried to touch her, or did anything inappropriate with her, my wife would leave me so fast. I know she would rat me out if I made a move on her, so why tempt a man that she knows that she doesn't want?

Everything about him turns me on--right from the moment I met him at their home for the very first time I knew he would be trouble for me. I feel so safe around him, I love his smile, the way he smells, his jokes. Meanwhile his wife, now my mother in law is off, she is distant, overweight, sad.. I know he needs love, I just wish he wasn't my husbands dad. Will this feeling ever go away? been 3 years now. I fantasize about him whenever I see him.

I AM WONDERING WHEN UR MARRIED IF IS OK FOR BEING A MAN IF IS OK TO TALK TO UR GF OR WIFE ABOUT UR EX WIFE OR EX. GF ABOUT THI GS U DID OR WHAT SHE GAVED U OR WHAT SHE DID FOR A WOMEN IF IS OK TO TLAK ABOUT UR EX HUSBAND OR EX BF WHEN UR MARRIED OR IS NOT OK CUS MY WIFE TLAKS ABOUT HER EX HOW HE BAUGHT HER EXPEBSIVE THUNGS AND I CANT DO THAT IS THIS OK OR NOT WHAT I CAN DO

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What are some red flags signs that you believe are good predictors of whether the woman is likely to be unfaithful cheat on husband have affair in marriage and divorce or not . The only ones i can think of is 1. She has a high number of sexual partners before marriage , has slept with many men and has dated many men and has had many sexual relationships before marriage 2. She has had sex outside the context of committed relationship ex: one night stand, flings, FWB , hook up etc 3. She has cheated in the past on her boyfriends 4. She is or was a "party girl " 5. She is a $lut or was a former slut in the past at some point in her life 6. She is very materialistic 7. She is an Athiest Liberal woman and self identifies as a Feminist Can you think of any more red flags or danger signs ? 8. She was born and raised grew up in a Western culture in a western country ?