I've been in an unhappy marriage for a long time, and have been taking antidepressants on and off for a few years. I think my bad marriage is the main reason I am depressed. Has anyone experienced this? Did getting out of the bad situation help your depression?

He goes out every weekend sometimes comes home early other times goes to parties. Sometimes I have to phone him like tonight to come home. Other times he just comes home. He's not cheating on me. We have been married 8 years he has changed a lot for me but maybe not enough. We have kids together.

Or if he just doesn't know how to interact with you because you seem different and so he doesnt necessarily like or dislike you.

I broke up with my ex August 20 2017.We was going to get married but we didn't.We have a 1 yr old together he let's me come to his parents house where he lives to spend time with my son.Every time I go to spend time with them my exs dad brings up marriage and how he wished everyone would have stayed out of our relationship.My ex said if we lived in Georgia we would have been married by now.

Do you think it's wrong or normal that I haven't had sex with my husband in over 4yrs? We're only 46 & 49

The widows husband died and the man she married was divorced by his wife because he had 3 children by his first wife who had died

I have heard many women claim that they want to date/marry an "experienced" man who has been with other women in bed and who will know how to please her.. well, according to such "logic" why would a married woman get mad if her husband cheats on her? shouldn't she feel happy that he is learning new skills from another woman that he will then apply when having sex with her?

He was born 2 years before I met my husband. The mother never attempted to contact my Husband until now, 16 years later. A non-legal paternity test proved that he is my husbands. She claims she doesn't want anything, just to know who the father is, but had a huge fit when we would only agree to a non-legal test. We live in Texas. Everything of value that we have, I inherited while married. My husband is disabled and doesn't bring much in financially and I am a school teacher. We have children of our own. I inherited my family home and it is worth a lot. I want it to stay in my family. I am afraid that the mother somehow saw our home and now thinks that we are rich. I am worried that this will affect our children's inheritance if a legal test is done. I planned to will the property to my husband if I die first. Then it would go to our children. If this happens,I know in Texas this kid could contest the will and fight for the house. We plan on trying to get to know this kid, so my feeling might change. But for now, Does anyone know how I can protect my children's inheritance? And, if the home is in my name and he dies first, can the kid try to take it from us? What would you do in this situation? I feel for the kid, not the woman. She could have easily told my husband that she was pregnant ( or the kid could be his). He didn't move until a 2 years after the birth and they have had mutual friends on Facebook for years.

During oral sex they're in their phone either viewing online pics of porn vixens or videos. They have a high sex drive but the porn viewing is outrageous. You can also send them pics and they still keep porn pics. They mention to you that they were exposed too early to porn. Is this excuse or psychological? (Honest options needed). Thanks

I still love him... My ex and I have been on and off for 2 months now, we were together for 3 years. Always together madly in love. Then we hit a point where all we did is fight. In a fight 3 weeks ago, he left and gathered most of his belongings. I really didn't care at the time. I thought it was just another one of his temper tantrums. I didn't reach out, enjoyed my time stress and fighting free. I emailed him and gave him an inventory a week ago of lots of stuff he still had at my house. I told him if he wanted it, He said Friday worked for him, this was on a Monday. Friday rolled around and I emotionally gathered his stuff and he never came. I emailed him at 10 pm and said, I guess you don't want your stuff and he said he forgot to come get it. That he has been all over the place. I can't imagine him forgetting to come get it. Why would he not come get his stuff? Is he trying to hold on to something that may be left or am I reaching. Is it possibly that he could have forgotten that he forgot belongings he carried everyday? Expensive clothes and shoes and etc. I am in the denial phase of this. I am remembering the good and no longer angry, but we go through this so often that it might be for the best. I am not sure. I have never loved the way I Love him and never wanted to punch someone in the face like I want to punch him either. I messaged him back and said, I gave you an inventory, now you are telling me you are surprised how much stuff is still here? I don't get it.

Im at,the beach w my husband and my daughter. We sit down at a table. All of a sudden this random girl comes to our table and puts a glow stick around my daughter's neck. My husband tells me to be nice, bc om jealous and have a bad temper. I agree. The grl than goes and sits at another table with another girl. So these two girls are giggling and smiling and waving at my husband and my daughter. They kept this up for maybe ten minutes on and off. Im getting mad and I tell him to stop looking there way. I continue to see the,girls looking,over our way. I told him stop this now or I will make it stop. So, I pretend to go to there table to see,if he would stop me....He didn't. So I turn around and sit back down across the table,from him and I smack,him hard, publicly, and loud. I know I should have handled myself better but I felt so sad. He tells me im paranoid, that the two,grls meant no harm. But I feel they were either trying to make me jealous, or trying to have a threesome w my husband, or was I being paranoid. I mean who brings a glow stick over to ur table unlesz there flirting. Idk but ot hurts bad. Were these girls trying to make me mad, hook up w my husband, or am I crazy?

Let's talk about a relationship where the husband does not initiate sex with his wife. The only time they have sex (which is good when they do) is when she initiates. However, she does not want the sole "burden" and risk of rejection that comes along with it. When she is the only one, she says it feels like initiating sex becomes a chore, and that it makes her feel undesirable. The problem is, they may go for months without sex if she does not, and that itself becomes a problem for the relationship. If the couple has a sexless marriage, over time they lose physical connection with each other. In therapy, they tried scheduled sex but the wife was still not satisfied because the husband would not make the first move and did not make the effort to talk about the schedule if a change was needed. They both enjoyed the sex, but it appeared the initiation itself (and risk / stress / rejection) became a task or chore to the marriage because the truth was in a two-income family with children, there was always going to be some degree of chance the timing wasn't right. Since they do enjoy sex once started, the problem can be isolated to the simple question "Who Initiates"? This leads us to the question of: In many marriages, its natural that as the years pass, the desire or passion dims a bit. But a physical sexual relationship stays as important as it was to the original attraction. So why isn't who initiates sex considered as important a "task" as who does the dishes?

His immediate response was that he wouldn t get into an other marriage and this time his family cannot force him coz he already married once for them and that he would lead a fine single life. The answer felt like it was more of a fantasy than a sad situation. Am I interpreting this right ?

My wife and I are separated but still live together. My wife has been spending a lot of time with a friend of hers from college. My friend who is a pizza delivery guy part time called me and said my wife was at an apartment and answered. My friend said she was in a guys shirt. They guy came amd paid he was wearing s robe and was wrapped in a blanket. I asked around and the guynshes hooking up with has leukemia and my wife has been dating him. How do I deal with this?