My wife's cousin he's in her early 50s has an older son in his 30s what is a relation between my wife and her cousin son

I asked a question the other day about how to escape a strict Christian marriage, well I am working on it I will escape soon I planned it. I am secretly packed. So my sister needs help now, she went to a doctor for infertility and it was confirmed it was her and not the man. Luckily they didn't have to test the man as he wouldn't do it anyway as we don't Believe in doing that She's been married for 9 years, she had 2 miscarriages, one after her honeymoon and the other 2 years after, her husband thinks it's her fault for not praying enough and she spanks her every night and then he makes her pray for many sons and forgiveness for not believing enough But she still hasn't gotten pregnant, it's obvious to me it isn't her fault. Her husband has been spanking her every 3 days for the past 3 years and she told me she is not happy and feels awkward because he sometimes spanks her while she's naked, before she changes into her night clothes. What can she do

I told him that his sister uses people and brags about what they do for her, in private. The next time I saw her, she was cold and rude. When I asked him if he told her what I said, he denied it. There are just too many coincidences, and I'm starting to feel as though I'm going crazy!

How marriage symbolizes love? Why marriage symbolizes love to us?

I am part of the quiverull cult, sadly it isn't the life for me anymore, I am exausted and am slowly trying to ease my way out. I did the first step, I birth control pills but my husband cannot know, he is the pastor Please don't judge me, I just want to get out of a misrable marriage, he doesn't show love, just sex is all we do, we neber talk, I have 5 children 4 boys and a girl. I am 25 so I can still have a life, it'll be hard but I want to be normal.

My husband randomly acts like a jerk toward me. He would shout at me for no reason, be on defensive if I asked him any simple question, be grumpy all evening, ignore me, have earphones on and listening to music over dinner and all evening till he goes to bed. All that for absolutely nothing as we had no fight or argument or disagreement. Then he wakes up the next morning, doesn't even apologise for his behaviour and tries acting all sweet again like nothing had happened. When I ask him why he was acting up he acts suprised like I was making up a story, goes in complete denial and says he wasn't acting up, gets angry and accuses me of looking for a fight when he did nothing wrong. I ty to explain how his behaviour is making me feeli upset as it's happening too often now but all he does is just get angry and throws words at me like " we'll get upset then" and walks away. IS THAT NORMAL ???

I feel more attracted to someone s personality, not that I m not sexual but I want to stay a virgin forever but also be with someone I love. I would prefer more of intellectual relationship , but we never consummate. We have separate beds and all, but we can still have physical contact but just very limited. Any thoughts?

My husband and I are finishing up school and planning on attending graduate school. He has proposed the idea that we should move into his parents house. They have a rather large house and it happens to have a guest bedroom on the opposite side of the house from where 3 bedrooms are. It would give us a little more privacy. We would pay only $300 to live there and of course purchase our own food and hygiene products. Any insight from someone whom has experience in this type of situation? Thank you.

Where can I hide my birth control pills? I am from a strict Christian home and was married at 19,, I am only 25.. when shopping I always look out of place, my long skirts and old lady tops are silly compared to the women wearing pants and T-shirt's, as well as business suites. I was able to get some birth control pills I went to a place that helps women get pills, not my regular doctor and no it wasn't illegal. My regular doctor would tell my husband, I live in a small community and I had to travel a hour to get the help I needed. Now how do I hide them? I gave birth to my recent baby 5 months ago and this is usually when I get pregnant, I even tracked myself and if he has sex with me this week I will get pregnant. Luckily he is away on business so I can get this sorted before he comes home. My husband doesn't care about my happiness as a women is suppose to be quiet in his mind. She isn't suppose to speak her own thoughts just obey her husband. As the husband in our beliefs is the head. But I am done, I am misrable.

My wife in my opinion is very selfish, i love her and she loves me but i believe I love her way more than she loves me. I have several times spent whole paychecks on her, she loves to go shopping, for herself. When i go shopping i always keep her in mind, most of the time i buy her something. I periodically buy her flowers, teady bears and jewellery. But she will RARELY buy me anything, i dont expect something as often as i give her something but occasionally would be nice This years valentines day was our 1st valentines as a married couple so i wanted to make it special so i bought her a 3/4 karet diamond and gold necklace worth $1,200 and a real rose preserved in 24k gold. She didnt buy me anything until I gave her the gift, and all she bought me was a v day card and a balloon when i went to work later that night. I have to compete with facebook and candy crush all the time for her attention and when i send her a message on fb messanger sometimes she wont respond for hours, but one day she was showing me screen shots she took on her phone and my chat bubble was in the background with an unread message, so she was surfing the internet, taking pictures and cant spend 3 seconds to respond to me I cant even explain to you guys how low in her priorities i feel like i am to her. I try to tell her but she gets mad and says i always have problems with her... My only problem is im not a high priority to her and her actions prove it to me on a daily basis. But she doesnt understand

My husband has all the control of the money. I get $20-40 once in a while and im stuck at home with son who is a year old. I'm in school to get a teacher license so it makes aense to stay home right now. No Child care end of program when it comes time to student teacher (just started program). So husband is bread winner for now since not working anymore. I closed my bank account since not working didnt see the point. Anyway. I feel trapped husband gets a say on every financial decision and either leaves me in dark or tells me after the fact. Our tax return came and i did work all last year. I never saw a dime of it. Husband bout us a new bed and paid $200 of a bill of mine (grateful) and the rest went to whatever. Bills are paid and we are fed. But i cant help but feel powerless. If an emergency happened im stuck. And to give some perspective, im visually Impaired and cant drive though i want too (acuity not good enough). Am i selfish for feeling this way. When i was working and he wasn't working for a month spending my money was ok. But i can't spend his not even my part of the tax return. But he has 24/7 access. Some family say he is the breadwinner deal worh it and i have no right or need the money and others say it's controlling and we are married so its 50/50. What do you guys think? I see both sides and am trying not to be the needy wife i can't wait to be working again!