If someone acts frightened by your actions and mumbles the word "psycho", is it novel to question that person by saying, "Am I really a psycho, or are you just a pussy?" Preferably said with a **** eating grin or while smoking a cigar.

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I started giving one of my friends from school a ride with me to school everyday, she only lives about a mile from me. I dropped off her little brother at the grade school as well. Her parents were home half of the time, WITH VEHICLES. I did this despite her calling me "slow" or just little insults here and there. I stopped giving her rides whenever I got too busy with track (I run in the mornings) but I probably could of still given her rides. I mostly stopped because she would trash my car, make me almost late to school because she was never ready, despite her saying she always was She just kind of makes me wanna die.

I've never really had that group of friends or even really a friend that I hung out with all the time. I've never gone without at least one friend and at school we're as close as can be. But come summer break or weekends, you'd never know we knew each other. This year especially it's been bad. At school I have so many friends and we all hang out. We partner up in class and talk about everything. But then I get on social media and find out that maybe six of my friends all went and ate dinner. Or two of them had a movie date. Or, most recently, they throw a huge 16th birthday party and don't bother to invite me. That's when I realized that I in no way consider these girls my true friends. They're just people I talk to at school. Now I have one friend who im closest to but I've come to the realization that she's also a school friend. We have absolutely nothing in common. There's also a maturity difference because she's younger than me in both age and maturity. She has mature thinking but her way of thinking is very immature. Now at school it's not an issue but we don't have much to do outside of school. I'm just getting tired of having nobody to go hang out with. It'd be nice to have someone to just go to dinner with or go on a walk. Its also hard to meet new people where I live because there aren't many ways to socialize. We're a tiny town in the middle of nowhere. So my question is, do I just wait it out until college? Or is there something else I can do?

One of my friends who I recently was mad at I have decided to forgive because I am done with having to hold a grudge. Last time he apologized I ignored him, because I wasn't ready to forgive and needed time to cool off. Now he is scared to try to apologize again but I know he's sorry. What do I do?

I am 13 years old. I have never had behavioral issues in my life. I always bring back As on my report card. For the life of me, I cannot figure out why my parents won't get me a phone. I am extremely mature for my age. My brother got his when he was 11. I am never invited anywhere, as I can not be easily contacted and can't be notified of last minute changes. Therefore, I rarely get to see my friends outside of school. And on the rare occasion I am invited, I'm usually not allowed to go. With that being said, I have to turn to online games to "hang out" with them. I don't have a PC, so I can't get those types of games. With the recent additions of games like Fortnite and PUBG to mobile, I can finally play with them. But unfortunately I can't. My iPad Mini 1 does not support any new games that come out. I have no way to socialize and have fun with them out of school. Therefore, I would like a newer device, and since I don't have a phone and probably will need one sooner in the future, it would make more sense for the to be the new device. I am constantly laughed at, and have "fun" poked consistently at school. Those who don't do this tell me that they feel sorry for me. I am yet to meet someone at my school who does not have a phone. I can't legally work in my state. I can't babysit, due to the few children in my neighborhood being older than me. None of my neighbors want me to mow their lawn. None of them. I do all of the chores in my house, and I'm not paid anything, and I can't ask. I have no way to get money. I receive only $25 from my relatives on Christmas and my birthday. I've done research. I can use the SIM card we have in our home phone, so there's no need to create a new data plan. I've figured out what would be the best phone I can get for around $250. I've found it, yet my parents continue to say "maybe later", as they have been saying of the past 4 and a half months. And for those who will undoubtedly screech that I'm spoiled: I am not. My brother is the spoiled one. He gets most of everything he wants. I'm not the golden child of the family, despite doing nearly everything my brother does. I do not plan on sexting. I do not plan on using social media, for I think it is pointless. There shouldn't be any "safety" concerns.

Sons friend is hot weird? I'm 48 and I have a 18 year old son. My sons best friend is also 18 and comes by often. He is so hot and I know this sounds weird but i love looking at him and being near him. Is it weird that I think my sons friend is hot? Would it be bad if I told him he was hot? Have any others mothers thought liek this about their sons friend?

I'm a guy and I've known this girl since elementary school, she's got a great body, big thighs, large chest. It would be great to have sex with her, her body is perfect. We're both 17

this girl always used to say hi to me but i ignored her in regards to my crush. time passes and i stop disliking her. shes in my lunch period now (at school). she smiled at me when we were in the lunch line. i havent seen her in a long time. what happened? i thought she really wanted to be friends because she kept saying hi to me even though i ignored her

My friend had hurt me multiple times after I forgave her for different reasons and now she's going out with the boy I liked. I knew that since the beginning when she knew about me liking him, she tried to get in the way and she finally succeeded and she constantly posts pictures of them as if she's trying to make me jealous. I'm not jealous and I don't have feelings for the boy anymore but it hurts a bit that you trust and forgave a person multiple times and she still kept finding ways how to hurt me even though I never did her wrong. I want to unfollow them both on social media just to stop hearing about them since I finished high school and don't have to face her anymore. What should I do?

Because I vent too much? I thought friends were for "venting" or talking to each other about problems I don t mind if she vents

I'm a guy and I've known this girl since elementary school, I'm 17 now. Would it be a bad idea?

I used to have 216 friends but I currently have 108

Most of my old friends I grew up with I'm no longer friends with. I cut one guy because I know he can beat women and treat them like ****. Another friend was because he's a selfish drunk. I cut another friend because he stabbed a guy over a women. Yet I see some of my old friends hanging out with him. I did move and I just keep to myself here. I live in a city and I go out all the time to be social. I don't like to cut off friends but it seems like I cut them all off. I don't mind being a loner. I've had too many friends in the past.

So about a week ago, I ended what I thought was a really good friendship because it turns out the person had apparently been lying to me... a lot. I was incredibly shocked and hurt. I would have never expected this person to behave like this. I trusted them so much and they became my "go-to" person. I turned to them anytime I needed advice/to vent and they did they same to me. I was so happy to have such a wonderful, trustworthy friend. When I found out how they had apparently been lying to me for a good while about some things, I was so angry. I kind of lashed out at them and told them that I no longer wished to talk to them. They texted me on Sunday night being casual and I did not answer. I texted them on Monday morning to try to offer a more thorough explanation for my "sudden" decision (and to be a little less "mean" about it). It didn't land whatsoever. They immediately denied everything - said they didn't lie and didn't see why I felt there was a betrayal. When you play out the situation at hand, it's pretty clear that yes they did indeed lie. I informed them I had texts that proved my point with certain things and they never said anything back about that. I understand I have every right to be upset, but losing such a good friendship feels horrible. We talked every single day and were friends over a year. it feels kind of weird not hearing from them on a daily basis. Has anyone else ever experienced a "fake friend"? How did it play out? What advice would you give me? Do you think there's a chance we may actually get back on good terms? I know a week is pretty short, so there's no telling how things will play out as time goes on. At this point, I'm still hurt over what happened and pretty annoyed that they don't even see my point of view and never apologized or anything. There was no "discussion" - just me explaining my feelings and them denying everything I pointed out. I don't plan to speak to them right now. If they speak to me, I might consider answering. @myfavouritelucy - Really? You think your false judgment is going to "offend" me? Try again. You know NOTHING of what happened between us, what was lied about, or how I am as a person. To be frank, the actual lie I'm referring to really isn't your business. The point here is dishonesty is a problem. I don't think anyone enjoys being lied to, especially by someone who was supposed to be a good, trustworthy friend. Btw, maybe try taking a grammar class - the plural in "question" is not needed. Beverly - Yes, I do see that point. The reason I lashed out so much is what the lie pertained to and just the simple fact that I was so shocked that THIS person... someone I considered a best friend... would actually be dishonest. It was really hurtful and I still can't believe they did that. It was all so random and unusual. When I talked to them Monday, I didn't lash out like I did initially. I just explained my reasons for not wanting to speak to them more calmly.

I have a friend whose I think is a sex addict and it gets very annoying. We're in high school and it gives off a bad reputation. She always talks about how she did these guys who she doesn't even know like that. I always have to sit and put up with it because I don't want to be rude. I'm really concerned about her and her health because she doesn't wear condoms which is unsafe. Also, she tells everyone what she's done and it's not cool at all. Yes, I understand that it's her body and she does what she wants with it but I am still concerned for her and don't want anything bad happening to her. I just want to know how can I deal with it. I don't want to stop being her friend over something she does, I just feel that it isn't cool at all and giving herself a bad reputation.

My friend Velvalee and I have different biological human moms. For example if my friend Velvalee and I are made up of same stardust from a space star (whether it is dead or alive) would my friend Velvalee still be my sister and I be Her Brother?

Although I'd been close to my friend from Austrailia for 7 years and she's stayed with me a handful of times, we're growing apart in so may ways. After he last visit to NY in May last year, I realized she's a toxic person and was only using me for a place to stay while she hooked up with US men. In September or so, I told her I need some space and time to myself, as she was growing very passive aggressive and sarcastic in her communication. Now, I'm realizing I don't want to be friends with her any longer. I'm 37 and she's 47, so we're not teenagers going through a "phase," I've decided she's toxic to stay in touch with at this point. I want to delete her from my social media (since she criticized things I've posted that she's expressed she's envious of) and cut the cord. Is there a point in sharing my life with her online? Eventually I will verbally tell her our friendship has "expired" so do I wait??

So my best friend and I (both girls) are in our mid 20s and we are very very close. We both aren't gay, have always been attracted to men, but a few months ago I was feeling a little more love than just her as a best friend. I told her that I have a girl crush on her and she said that she was honored and that she loves me so much. But sometimes the signs can confuse me because we cuddle a lot, like she will lay right on my chest and we will watch movies or if I lay on my side she'll be the big spoon with her arms around my waist. We are so very close and we love to cuddle and love but she always plays with my hands a lot and my nails. She tells me she loves my butt and that I have nice muscular legs. I've kissed her a few times, quick pecks, she's never kissed me, I've only kissed her, but when we talk she also will look at my lips and also hides both her lips and then pops them back out. She loves me and calls me her baby. She seems to change her mind though because I'll joke and say I like you because she is my girl crush but we don't want anything sexual, and she will say back I like you too but she doesn't say it all the time. She said she's not gay but there's a physical attraction that she doesn't get. But she said if she was gay then we would be dating by now but she isn't and neither am I so I'm just confused what this means?

I have a friend called Mona (that's not her real name) and she is constantly ignoring me. She ignores my calls and my texts but at the same time she considers me her best friend. I'm gonna give you one example. This happened today. I texted her mother (I'm also friends with her mother) and asked her if we're going out today and she said yes. So I asked her when and she ignored that text so I sent her 2 messages and she didn't answer. So I called her and she didn't answer. Then I called Mona, thinking she would answer because she was just on WhatsApp, but she didn't. I was thinking maybe they got into a fight with Mona's father so I didn't think too much of it. After two minutes, Mona is online (in WhatsApp). How ridiculous is that?! If you can text people, I'm sure you can call me back! And that's one of many stories similar to this one. What should I do? Help me please!!

I work in a clothes store and my manager was a massive influence on me, she taught me so much and we were really close I basically worked with her 4 days a week for more than 2 years and working all day together we spoke about everything and she basically became my rock. She quit unexpectedly and I texted her saying how much I miss her but I'm finding it really hard to work now as I always feel sad being at work without her. I could still see her if I wanted to but we never used to really see each other outside of work that often so I don't know how to random text her since it's been 2 months since we last spoke and wouldn't know what to say I think its a bit weird that i'm still missing her and don't know how to get over it? If anyone has any advice I could really use it!

I am about to end my freshman year at college and I have to admit that I am pretty unsatisfied with how it has gone friendship wise. The fact of the matter is I have no friends here at all, just acquaintances who I can talk on the shuttle with, or in class with. That's it! My roommate this year has also been an issue for me with making friends. I won't go too in depth but she is always negative, never goes to any events, and is rude to any person we start talking to. I'm sad to admit that she is my closest friend here even though, I wish she wasn't. I know that not being involved in events is a big reason why I don't have friends, but I never wanted to go alone so I just sat in my dorm and just hoped someone would come my way, I guess. I am involved in various clubs and such and I do talk to people in them, but that's it. We talk, snap about meeting times, and nothing more. Plus, they already have about 20+ friends, so why bother with me? My boyfriend doesn't attend the same college as me, and he told me that I need to actually ask people to hang out with me and make an effort to make friends. I get it, but at the same time I don't want to look like a 5 year old asking someone to be my friend and I also feel like I shouldn't be the only one trying to make an effort. I feel like when I talk to people I come off as awkward and I feel like I'm pushed aside. I need help.

Mmkay where to start. Let's see I started talking to him in Mmkay where to start. Let's see I started talking to him in January all the way through now. I literally never thought about liking him lol. Like sure he's attractive but ya know I never thought of it. Um on Monday someone asked me if I liked him and I said no, then I got home and I had sent him a message and he said he was mad and that he didn't want to talk, bruh my heart dropped I got so sad lol that's when I like I realized I liked him. Then before that on Saturday he told me he was going to be a ******* and I was trying to convince him not to and he was already convinced so ofc there was nothing I could say. I told him he might as well make a tinder. Then I also told him he need a haircut. Sunday I get a message from him telling me he made a twitter and then he showed me his haircut lol.

I'm a 55 year old man, and my best friend, a woman whom I've known for over 20 years has been involved with this 25 year old kid, for the past 6 months. She's 45 years old, stunningly gorgeous, and sexy as hell. Anyway, I can tell this is something that isn't going to last, that she'll eventually get tired of it and move on. However, I can tell this kid has developed serious feelings for her, and she continues to play on that, so he keeps coming back. I've always been loyal to her as a friend, as she's been to me, and I have never meddled in her affairs. But I also like this kid, he's a good and decent kid, and I feel compelled to tell him the truth about what's going on, and it's because when I was his age I had an older woman do the exact same thing to me, it hurt badly for a long time, and I wish someone had told me. Yet I know that if I do I might lose her as a friend. So I either continue letting her play with this kid's heart, or I try to tell open his eyes to what's happening, so he doesn't get hurt even worse when she eventually cuts him off. By now I thought I'd be mature enough to know how to handle such a situation, but it's different when it involves people you know. So right now I'm torn, and frankly could use some advice.

Oh boy, she was talking to her friend about amazing moments they would want and she told me how she loves weddings and I sat there listening, nodding and all that good stuff girls love to see. The thing is, I'm only 17 - we're teens. THAT IS MY NIGHTMARE. I need to keep my youth, I want to keeping having some fun and enjoy these years. But if she's bringing up marriage, and I'm feeling anxious inside.

I'm 19 almost 20. All my life people have teased me and called me ugly ever since I was a little girl. In 8th grade people started saying I looked old and ever since then it's stuck. My boyfriend's friends mistook me for a teacher... Told him i looked like an old lady... Another of my boyfriends friends mom thought I was a 30 year old cougar with a 19 year old boy. Even at hospitals and doctors office I fill out forms and they'll ask me "Are you sure the birthdays right" and I'll say yea... I've even have had people laugh at me. And think I was lying about my age... :( I'm not lying but I'm starting to think about just lying to people about my age. I'll say I'm 30. Or 45. So people stop with all the judgement...

Long story short, someone that I know started bullying my friends on social media. I tried confronting them about it and they got angry and started spreading rumors about me. So much so that I get weird stares in class by people he s told. Now, on Friday I m spending time with friends and he ll also be there. How should I handle it?. Thanks!

I am apparently more of a loner. I do not trust people easily and i absolutely dislike social drama and gossip. I also don't like small talk, i see it as a pointless waste of time and energy. As a consequence, i don't have many friends that i really trust or enjoy the company of. And i even prefer it that way. I prefer to spend my free time alone. I often find myself annoyed when i am buried deep in something that i am currently doing then suddenly a friend calls to invite me out to a drink or something.

Alright so I have this close friend who've I've known for some time and he admits he likes this girl who is commonly referred to as "two faced" or "emotionally abusive". I can't disagree because that girl has frequently hurt me and my close friends in many ways, and I'm not exaggerating. This girl put me at risk for forcing me down a ski trail for advanced skiers, and made fun of me for panicking. She has even hurt my close friend frequently, however he still has a little thing for her. I don't know how to tell him that he could potentially get hurt! I really am concerned because I care about him a lot, and would fall to pieces if she hurt him. I know this sounds stupid but that girl is extremely abusive. And you may have picked on that I have a little thing for my close friend, and yeah I do, but it's beside the point, I can't see him get hurt. What do I do?

Id like some advice on how to start a conversation with a new girl and how to meet her. I need help with this because i get anxious and awkward around women.

The guy I like is using gay hashtags (#gayboy #instagay) he shown interest in women. He expressed interest in me. I told him (I'm a girl) obviously I was in his heart sometime considering he pointed to his heart when we almost kissed, I need to know if I need to stop thinking I have a chance to date him, I told him I never thought he would like me and wanted to kiss me but he surprised me by wanting to kiss me. I told him I was hanging out with a few friends at a restaurant. He shown up with his friends knowing I would be there and knowing I want to date him. He looked shy around me. I feel if he didn't like me, didn't want to talk to me and if he was gay he wouldn't come to the restaurant knowing I want to date him. He's been sending his friends to my work. I feel him showing up to the restaurant knowing I am wondering if I'm still in his heart and want to date him means he still likes me. I feel his words on Instagram and his actions are not adding up. I told him "someone proposed" to me and it seemed like it bothered him. If he was gay, he wouldn't care someone proposed to me. When I saw him at the restaurant he looked really shy around me. He is NOT a shy person. He calls women "what a babe," "lovely," "angelic," "wig," "glowing," etc.

My boss is normally a hard *** with everyone. We wirk at a union job so I never really thought it was that bad even when he was hard on me. Just really annoying. And he used to be harder on me but chilled out on me after I got things settled with my son's occupational therapy schedule so I am no longer consistently using fmla to take him to his therapy three times a week. Now I do get away with small things like a mistake on my paperwork and or shutting a press down two minutes early so I can correctly clean my area, because simply, I am no longer in his department. I was downsized out of it and he literally borrows me every day because no one else can effectively run my press, because they downsized everyone who can. I am now the highest senior in my department and if he needs to pull someone union rules say that I can refuse and he has to send the lowest senior there.... and I told him that as long as he does not yell at me for something stupid... I will continue to run the press. So now he never yells at me and just talks to me like I am a human being. I also don't really cause any issues. And rune more parts than the other 2 shifts. But now everyone is much saying I am flirting with him when I never actually talk to him for more than two seconds.