He pretended to be a guy I used to work with who claimed he loved me but recently I discovered that he has a girlfriend and she is to give birth to his child next month The imposter has been contacting me off and on for years It really hurts knowing I've been led to BUT hurts more that the real guy is is going to be a Dad How the hell do I get over him?

I have a specific type that I'm looking for in a man and I cant seem to find them anywhere. Where can I meet a guy like this, any ideas? Bald, white, blue eyes, tall, fit, good job.

Guy 1 does these: - glances at me when i'm drinking water and not looking - constantly stretches his feet towards me as I sit opposite him and invades my personal space - as I was walking to another guy sitting in between us, he was leaning forward to make it obvious for me to see - smiled at me one time another guy pulled a chair for me - makes eye contact with me but doesn't look away - stood super close to me (sleeves touching) for 15 mins straight during a presentation - waited for me while talking to another dude as I sign in for attendance after class Guy 2 does these: - pulls a chair for me - opens the door for me till I walk through it - apologized to me when his friend interrupted our conversation - smiles at me when sees me as he was talking to another guy - cares for me like asking me to sit when another guy was standing too but never bothered to tell him to sit

We were at her house, in her room, watching Netflix. The door was open ( her mom's rule) We were cuddling, and talking. We were kissing and holding each other. Then randomly she looked at me and said " I really wanna lick you " and I wasn't sure how to reply, so I laughed and said she was weird.. She ended up licking my cheek multiple times. I wasn't grossed out by it or anything.. I just have mixed feelings about it I guess.. She also softly bit my hand a few times. I know she wouldn't wanna sleep together or anything.. being we're both just 15, and arnt ready for anything crazy. Why did she do this? Is this a normal thing? We're a lesbian couple btw..

This is a long story..... I ve known this guy online for 7 years or so. I ve never hidden my weight in fact I talk about being fat all the time. We recently started talking about meeting in person and I ve got a plane ticket to see him but I m worried he doesn t realize how fat I am. There are body shots on my social media but I m worried he hasn t paid attention but it seems awkward to ask outright? Help.

The causal encounters section on craigslist was taken away a few days ago.

Say if a guy and girl were sitting in an area where not many people are around, and the girl lifts up her shirt and bra and flashes her breasts at the guy. Does he have the ok to pull his pants down just beneath his crotch shortly after and show her his huge b*ner? Answers?

I met this guy online and we're supposedly dating and it's only been almost 3 weeks since we've started dating. He still lives with his parents and they're going to be away for the whole week so he invited me over. He asked me what I wanted to do and I told him whatever he wanted to do. He messaged me saying "get you pregnant" and I said "what?" he then started talking about having kids and said he wanted to wait until he got a house or an apartment first. He then said he had strong feelings for me. I asked him why he had strong feelings for me and he told me that he doesn't just f*ck and run and how when he has sex it means something.. Is he trying to scare me away so I won't talk to him again?

i went clubbing for my friends birthday I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 17 he said it was fine I went clubbing and that he'll talk to me the next day , i asked him a number of times if it was okay , ealrier this year my boyfriend cheated on me but i decided to move in from it and get on with it because i love him. while i was out he blocked me on everything and said i was wrong for going and that no one in a relationship should go clubbing , i've been 18 for almost 5 months and i haven't been but i've only been this once for it was my closest friends birthday so i couldn't miss it. when i got home he told me this was worse than cheating and accused me of talking to loads of boys and called me nasty names, he said i should of known clubbing was wrong regardless of what he said, he's going on a boys holiday in the summer and will be out every night with the boys , but i can't go out one night especially after he cheated ? am i wrong for going or is this an abusivr relationship

I went on a couple dates with this guy, he went to church with me once and met my fam. But then i felt this impulse to stop trying to be his gf because of diff religions and i stopped engaging in in long convos , eventually we stopped texting. It has been 3 months and hes reached out a couple times, this last time was 15 days ago and he asked me to lunch sometime and i said that sounded good but he said maybe sometime after my finals since id prob be busy. I thought hed reach out and wed have lunch but he hasnt. Another thing is its my bday and he hasnt even texted me happy bday or posted on fb. Has he given up? I have missed him alot but im really not one to say it. Idk maybe i should move on do u guys think he has?

I'm having a bonfire in a couple of weeks. Nothing too big just me and about 5 of my friends. We plan on camping so no one has to drive home drunk. I invited this girl who was at one time my best friend and we are still pretty close just not like we used to be. She gave me a bj once a few years ago at a party. How do I maximize my chances of sleeping with her? I was planning on just telling her she could sleep in my tent which wouldn't be too strange for us because we are pretty comfortable with each other. Then I figure it'll be pretty easy from there. Is this a bad idea?

I'm looking to start dating. I do have a job and my own place. I take public transportation. I take the bus to work and back. I do have my license and I've had cars but i don't need one. I do live in a city and don't like the traffic.

In 2016 I met this guy in Australia who was from the UK, we went on 2 dates and then went seperate ways due to circumstances. However 2 years later he still has kept in contact with me saying how he misses me, loves me, and all this very serious talk. He's back in the UK now and I'm in Australia. However why would he be wanting to keep in contact with me when we live so far away ? I haven't seen him in 2 years. We haven't done anything sexual besides kiss. He knows I'm going over to the UK in August for 2 years.

There is this guy in my school that I think I like but honestly I am unsure. All my friends think we would look cute together. But I am not entirely sure that I see it. I mean we are sorta friends and we play fight a lot. One time I threw milk on him because he didn't believe I would do it and he threw water back. It was actually super funny. I have to admit he is kinda cute.

My boyfriend and I love eachother but he has some emotional baggage going back to how his pregnant fiancée 4 years ago was tboned by a drunk driver killing her and the baby. He told me he'll never be over this I told him I love him and I'm there for him. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months I've met his family amd my bf and I regularly go to synagogue. My boyfriend has cried telling me about this and I held him as he wept, how can i tell him that I'm here for him amd love him? Also my boyfriend has told me numerous times he feels guilty about being happy.

Okay so I've never been a huge believer in signs telling you that you are doing something right or not but what has been happening is changing my mind. I decided to test it. So there's this guy I like but is someone I shouldn't like and I decided that I needed to get over him. Well I applied to this job and if I get the job I would have to get over him because it is against the rules for us to date but if I didn't get the job then there is nothing to worry about. Long story short and I didn't get the job.. not even an interview or anything. Sign? If not maybe this is one. So last weekend I was in the car going down the road and hadn't thought about the guy all day. Well I turn on the radio and the first thing that comes on is a commercial but the thing is on this commercial it saidhis last name in it atleast 10 times and I have never heard of this commercial before. Sign?

I don't get it. I have a friend on drugs and she really pissed me off getting so involved with what I did with her co-worker. I also do not like her or trust her, she should have never gotten so involved with what I did with a guy. The girl really pissed me off. I just ended up sending like 1,000 angry text messages saying how they are ugly and weird, and she is a wh*re. I blocked them both, because I did not want to be contacted by them. I said they can block me. I just assumed my messages weren't going through. I don't want to be reached out to. The girl then reached out to a mutual friend, her parents, the guy, her boyfriend, my friend, and a bunch of people to text me, when I do not want to be reached. She will not respect my privacy and will not leave me alone. I am blocking all of these people trying to message me. Now she is saying that I am the one obsessed with her and that she thinks she is in danger, when my other friends are laughing about this, and I do not want to be contacted. I don't know if they are bitter that I do not want to be friends. So is it that she cannot let go? Now the girl lied to my mom that she had changed her number and is in danger, when literally all of my friends were laughing their asses off?? And I basically am making it clear I do not want to be contacted or be friends and they won't leave me alone? The girl acted like she owns me

He's really into clothes so I was thinking about buying him something he's wanted, but for our 6 month I bought him shoes and I don't want it to be redundant. I would also prefer this gift to be a little more sentimental. Do you think a gift (necklace, bracelet) with our date or names or something is obsessive or odd considering he's a guy? We have talked about it before and he said he'd wear these kind of things if I got it for him, but i'm just not sure! What are your suggestions? :)

I have complete faith that it can work. I'm leaving my current college and going to a different one for two years. My boyfriend is staying at this college. His fear is that I'll fall for someone else at my new school. That's won't happen. I'm not interested. I don't even see guys that way anymore bc i only have eyes for my bf. And he feels the same for me. My new school is in my hometown so I'll be 2hrs and 45mins from my bf. I can make visits ya know? Like every other weekend & when he has winter break/ spring breaks and still i can go see him and vise versa. Any other tips on how to keep our relationship alive and well for the next two years?

I just learned by girlfriend is and I'm not sure how to take it. Thanks.

i understand he needs his space.. but i haven't seen him in two weeks. is it wrong of me to feel this way. honestly, i like him a lot and i just can't do this anymore. i feel so unhappy. i hope its not me being weak on giving up. we live not even 5 mins away from each other

I met this guy online and we're supposedly dating and it's only been almost 3 weeks since we've started dating. He still lives with his parents and they're going to be away for the whole week so he invited me over. He asked me what I wanted to do and I told him whatever he wanted to do. He messaged me saying "get you pregnant" and I said "what?" he then started talking about having kids and said he wanted to wait until he got a house or an apartment first. He then said he had strong feelings for me. I asked him why he had strong feelings for me and he told me that he doesn't just f*ck and run and how when he has sex it means something.. Is he trying to scare me away so I won't talk to him again?

Around two years ago I dated this guy. It never got serious or anything we didn't even kiss but when he comes around me my heart still skips a beat. Along with seeing him with his new girlfriend makes me slightly jealous. I don't know what this could be and I have never had this happen with anybody I've ever dated before it's judt slightly weird. Has this happened to anyone else?

Hi guys im 14 yrs old and still a vergin,been talking to one of my girls dad and weve been textin and stuff hes so nice to me and he always buys me watever i want when we go out! lol hes been inviting me to go over hes house l8tly but i have a 15 yr old boyfriend that i been with for 2 months! wat should i do ? should i go over hes house n loose my virginity or stay with my boyfriend n wait for him?

This gift is for a man, any suggestions welcome :)

I really think I am screwed. I haven't been kissed in 2 years. I haven't had sex in 3 years. Guys seem to move on from me very fast. My crush just got married. Most importantly, I have a serious hormonal problem that no doctor is able to figure out. I have breakthrough bleeding everyday of my life. My libido is good, it's just that the blood coming out everyday kills my mood just because it makes me depressed and is gross. I am afraid of what guys will think and I really think no guy will want to be in a relationship with me because of this :(

He wants to move in together. I don't want to legally live together yet (before marriage) because I'm too scared of us breaking up in the future. My thoughts are kind of along the same lines as having a prenup... I'd rather go into the relationship smartly, I want to be prepared in case things didn't end up well. He could easily argue that "preparing for a breakup means that I already don't see us lasting" but that's not the case at all. I actually love him. I'm just too scared. I really don't want any financial stress in the future lol :( Help!

I am on a dating site . I get all these comments from guys like "it's a tranny. Yet, they follow up asking to take me on a date . Are these men gay and looking for tranny's ? I'm female born btw . One message I got read, " my friend thinks your a tranny , but I don't think so. So do you wanna go out with me "? Its like he tried to belittle me and then ask me out .

This guy that I'm on and off with just blocked me on Facebook messager. We were talking about how he has no money or gas for his car and that he can't ask his dad for money because his mom listens in on the phone. Then all sudden he blocks me. He is not answering my texts either. I paid for his phone so it wouldn't get turned off and I gave him a $10.00 For gas but he spent it on pop.

Ok so a guy I work with overnight is popular and the ladies do like him a lot. I'll admit that he has stuff going for him He's tall good looking with nice clothes and watches and drives a 2016 escalade. I used kinda jealous of him (not in a bad hateful way) cause everyone always talked about him But I found out he doesn't have his own house and he's 33. I guess he's doing good things for himself but would you consider him a success?

Don't judge, I just want some advice. I have entered an NSA fb relationship. We both are in sexless marriages, and became interested in each other and decided to get together. We have discussed our expectations and parameters. Basically that it is strictly sex, be discreet, how often we want to see each other, and that our interests/attraction are mutual. We've enjoyed each other and continue to. I don't want this to be more than sex, but would like the security of exclusivity; no worry about stds, would enjoy experience of no condoms, and no drama. Is there such a thing? And how would I talk to him about it.

im a purger - it helps me because i know how i am... i know i would go back to the texts and reread them and would stay miserable

I told him I liked him and he said he was flattered and asked why I was hesitant to say anything and he said I was sweet. Then he started blowing my phone up. We have been talking constantly for 2 weeks. What does this mean?

I am pretty sure I am in love with this person, but I m young and I m not sure because I am quite young to be falling in love. I feel more happiness towards this person than sexual feelings. Whenever I see their face I catch myself smiling without knowing what I m doing. I ll be with my friends and every word they say just reminds me of him and I just start talking and talking about him until my friends get annoyed. I ll be looking at pictures and videos of him and I try to show my family and friends because I want them to see how funny and amazing he is. I think about him non-stop and I ve dreamt about him so much and the dreams are usually about him just helping me out and talking to me and being so kind. Whenever I go to sleep every night I get so excited because I have just peace and quiet and I can just think about him until I fall asleep. There s so much more I could say but it would take me so long to type it. He just gives me so much happiness and I thank God for this happiness everyday.

I was just wondering if a girl can still really enjoy sex if the guy has a 5 inch penis because that's kind of on the small side so can a a couple have good sex together

I've been in a relationship for two and a half years and it's long distance. After the longest time we were supposed to meet this upcoming week and spend the whole week together. We haven't had time before cuz he works full time and I am a full time college student and work part time. But finally our schedules seemed to cooperate and he was gonna drive down here. However, this morning he wakes up and says he can't come and that kinda pissed me off. He didn't give a good excuse other than his boss wants him at work and if that was the case he could've told me before. Well I was pissed so I told him to **** off. He knows it takes time for me to calm down so a hour later I text him saying oh it's ok if you can't make it we'll meet next month. But now he's just reading the messages and not replying. Again I didn't like that so to catch his attention I just texted well if you want to breakup let's do it and he just replies ok. Idk what to do!!

A month ago my ex left me for someone else so I've had minimal contact with him and just a few minutes ago he texted me "hey how are you doing" should i respond or keep moving

we are both in our early 30s...we had 3 dates...he opened up about wanting other things with me...and i simply stated i needed time and to develop trust...that resulted into a big argument ...he said lot of hurtful things like "its better i say it now than a year later... we are not compatible"... that was so harsh for me because in the beginning he said he wanted a serious relationship and that he promises he won't leave when things get touch....it was so hard for me i couldn't function for two days........ about two weeks later he texts me and says how he taught about me and how is sorry.....i said why did u text me ..u said we werent compatible.. he said i know but i didnt really mean it... so we talk for two weeks everything is great between texting but he doesnt ask me to see each other.... so i asked him if he would be weirded out if i ever made something for him..he said no he loves cooked meals... so i make him salmon and steamed broccoli.... but i dont tell him because i thought he would ask me to see him and i thought i would surprise him...i texted him good morning and he said gm back and he said he would be busy at work...so i didnt text him anymore because i didnt wanna bother him....but i did go ahead and go to the store bought the salmon...and the broccoli and went home and cooked.....i take a shower and i curl my hair and i waited and the time hit 8:23 pm....so i text him....i said i thought we would see each other...dont you miss seeing me at all... he said sorry i had a bad day at work...but yea i would love to see u....so i go up there to his place..and we talked and i find out he isn't ready for a relationship...i wouldn't have known that had i not come to his place...so things got tough again......he says i want you in my life but i am not ready for a relationship......anyway a week later he asks me what im up to and i was going to the movies by myself....so he wanted to go with me.....and the next day he doesnt text anymore..... after i dont receive text...i began to cry....i was confused ...i was tired of playing it cool and i was tired of giving him all the space in the world...so i finally just say whats on my heart and i say i couldn't do this anymore...i want a real relationship and i wanna get closer and all you want is space i hope you find what you are looking for he said sorry you feel that way you do have a place in my heart but its better we end this conversation and not stay in contact bcaz its getting worse

Hello all. I'm an 18-year-old college freshman. I do well in school. I have a 3.8 gpa in one of the most competitive engineering programs in the country. I'd say I have a lot going for me. I'm very attractive and have a strong friend group. I've been through a lot. I do have PTSD from being molested as a child by a relative and then from being raped when I was 14. My friends are concerned about my current behavior. Freshman year I had sex with different guys. I haven't gotten pregnant and don't have any STDs which is a miracle tbh. I've also prostituted myself for $250. I'm pretty much addicted to sex. I drink whiskey regularly, snort coke, smoke DMT, get high on weed every day, almost had to be hospitalized from an incident with shrooms, and enjoy taking huge amounts of acid. She regularly drinks, snorts coke, snorts DMT, uses weed compulsively, almost overdosed on shrooms, and enjoys taking huge amounts of acid. I meant to say I had sex with 25 guys as a freshman

This guy that I'm on and off with just blocked me on Facebook messager. We were talking about how he has no money or gas for his car and that he can't ask his dad for money because his mom listens in on the phone. Then all sudden he blocks me. He is not answering my texts either.

I'm too scared to ever try to talk to them unless they talk to me first and they rarely do. I'm a woman btw. Anyway yeah it freaking blows cause I imagine marrying them or at least getring to know them. But I never get to. But I have ample chances to. Just jst sucks asss