We are both seniors in high school, and we are rooming together next year at college. Any ideas on what to get her?

I met this guy at a store where he works I see him often and we always talked when I'm in line paying for my groceries. This has been going on for a couple of years now. In September he asked me for my number when I told him I was in school for Massage therapy. He called me two months ago asking if he could come over for a massage and asked if he and I could hangout. Not knowing he had a girlfriend I messaged him on Facebook asking if he wanted to be friends with benefits. And he told me he had a girl and that he wish he would have got my number awhile ago and that he would have loved to had it been two years ago. He then asked me how I would feel about being with him and another girl. I told him I was a virgin and I told him that we could still be friends. And he said that he would still be my massage study buddy for school and that he and I could still hangout. And I said ok so today he messaged saying he wants to come over soon. I don't understand why he's asking to come over when he has a girlfriend. The first time he asked to come over was before he ever mentioned anything about a threesome or about him having a girlfriend. And now he's asking to come over again. Is this really a good idea?

I texted a girl how's she doing and how's school, and she replied great, thanks.. I hope you are doing well yourself. Is she being closed off?

So I'm trying to be friends with this guy from the past. We never dated, but he was with a former friend of mine for 2 years. Him and I use to talk way before they got together and he said he had a crush on me back then (we actually talked 7 years ago). Well now that my former friend doesn't want to be friends anymore, I got in touch with him again because I could always use more friends. He said he's happy that we are talking again, but he's also tried to flirt with me and I've made it clear that I'm a lesbian. The last few hours when I try to contact him on Facebook messenger, he will either "read" my messages and barely respond, he will either read my messages and not respond or he will just not read them. Every time I post though he has "liked" my posts. I don't understand why he won't respond? I also gave him my number too so if he ever wanted to call or text me he could. He didn't say anything when I gave him my number. I'm not sure what I did wrong? I figured maybe I should stop contacting him. Also, I'm not trying to be clingy or needy, just want a new friend. He said he felt sad for me that I've lost a friend (his ex).

ok so like i smoked weed one time and it was because my friends kept telling me to bc they are all stoners. I absolutely hated it and i will never do it again, it was just not for me. So today some random guy found out and he asked me infront of one of my friends. she flipped out when she heard that i had smoked and no joke started running as fast as she could away. like she s very goody but at the same time like she s not. i don t want her to tell any of our other friends and i don t want her to judge me. Our other friends were asking what was wrong because they could tell she was freaking out, and she kept like shaking her head and didn t say anything except "oh my god". and like we were walking to class and she was like trying to go ahead of me but i wouldn t let her and she was like I m just in shock. SO NOW IM FREAKING OUT BECAUSE I FEEL EVEN WORSE ABOUT IT AND I DONT WANT ANYONE ELSE TO KNOW AND JUDGE ME AND I DONT WANT TO LOSE HER AS A FRIEND. btw I m 15 if that matters

I met a girl at school and we had an instant kinship. Well she told me she does not do drugs but I find pictures of herself on social media drinking. I mentioned smoking and she got really weird and said to not do it but her guy friends do it and I have seen pictures of her smoking. She is a loud person but if I were to enter a room she can get really weird and quiet. Contained laughter but. I met her because she laughed really loud at stuff I said.

After graduating college I now seem to have no friends. Is this normal? Before I would hang out with friends. Now I just work and only hang out with my gf. And I know people at work but they are more acquaintances not real friends.

I have two best friends from back in secondary school and we're all still really close. One of my friends S was going to Amsterdam and last minute invited my friend O. They didn't mention it to me until O was already there, then S told me today that she deliberately left me out. I don't drink or smoke and don't love clubbing so she thought I'd hate it and be bored. My knee jerk reaction was to feel betrayed but she was trying to be considerate. Should I just let it go?

I'm 29 and all the girls I work with go out nearly every night drinking with all their friends. I don't have any friends and just stay in every night. I never socialise. I am very quiet and just go along with things. When all the girls are bitching about each other on lunch hour I just sit there quietly and feel uncomfortable. They do talk to me but I just feel different and like I don't fit in. I just feel like a very boring person but I don't know how to become more outgoing and care less about what people think of me. I really want some decent girl friends but they all already have huge groups of long term friendships with other people and I just don't get accepted. What Can I do?

I am 21 years old and badly need new friends. I have some but not as many as I would like and don't get to spend as much time around others as I would like. A lot of the friends that I had in high school and college were fake friends who let me down and betrayed me. It has caused me to have a lot of anxiety. At this point in my life, I am look for quality people that are genuine and actually care about me. Not just shallow mediocre friends that come and go.

I used to keep up with the joneses and was in a lot of debt. This was in my early 20's. I learned by 25 and nowadays live very simply, zero debt. But for a while I was wearing the same expensive styles I used to have. Now in the past 2 years, I have nice style but I ditched the Gucci bag and Louis Vuitton bag and even by relatives I feel I'm not treated as nicely. While it's true we used to have something in common, it's not the case anymore then. I feel like even neighbors are different, like without any status symbols you are a nobody. I pick up on these things easily because I used to search for the validation so eagerly back in the day. I wonder now, does anyone else notice this? Does anyone else feel glad they're not bonding over their experience with granite counter tops? (I do love granite, but it's just an example :p thinking of a conversation of something expensive). Did you too choose a simpler lifestyle? I really don't know how anyone would know I was living more simply unless I told them. But somehow my interactions have changed a lot. To being much less.

Have a next door neighbors who appears whenever I get something new or are doing something to my property. Got a new car, this person checks out the make in front of me and asks all these questions. If I make an improvement to the property, this neighbor appears like magic and asks questions. It's like they are a roach just waiting in the woodwork for some supply. How to ditch this person while still being civil if that's possible. Want to avoid them. I know this person gossips around the neighborhood, because they tell me about others.

we're both girls. She used to always say hi to me but I ignored her in regards to my crush. I was jealous of him with her. Eventually I grow up and stop disliking her. Time passes and now we have the same lunch period. I'm over my ex crush. We had been in the same lunches for a while, few months. I sit in the outer lines of the rectangular large cafeteria, and she started walking in front of me the past few days. I heard proximity is a sign. Why won't she sit by me?

So today I almost got into a fight because I misinterpreted a foreigner's hand gesture, so I gave him a dismissive gesture. Turned out he was trying to help me and later found me wanting to fight. Instead of fighting him, I tried to tell him the situation was a misunderstanding. He felt like he won though. Am I a coward for not taking the obvious challenge? He did threaten me pretty bad, so I could have retaliated to his verbal assault with a physical assault, but I chose not to. Am I a *****?

There is no way around it, my two roommates are total slobs. I'm not the cleanest person myself, but I at least try to make a concerted effort. Recently, I have become incredibly busy to the point where I've become super sleep deprived and haven't had a day off in almost a month. I work, I'm getting ready to graduate and I'm studying to pass a state-administered insurance licensing exam, so my stress levels are through the roof. Last semester, when I was only taking two classes, I had more than enough time to keep the house clean by myself. Ever since I've become swamped, the house has gone to hell. I've asked my roommates to help me pick up the slack, and they haven't done diddly ****. It would make me feel better if they were also super busy. However, they are both lazy sacks of crap. One sits on his *** and plays video games all day. The other spends most of his time cooped up in his room watching Netflix. I've been polite, I've been stern, I've left them notes, I've called house meetings; nothing. I'm the only one who ever sweeps, mops, vacuums, cleans the bathroom or mows the lawn. About 80 percent of the time, I'm the only one who does the dishes or takes out the trash. The kicker came when I got home from a weekend-long career fair, and one of them had thrown a party. Empty beers cans, dirty dishes and trash everywhere. Not to mention, the house now reeks of stale beer. It's been over a week, and he still hasn't cleaned it up. I've had it. What should I do?

I'm 15 and I've been wanting to since 6th grade! Since then, most of my friends started wearing very cropped tops and shorts. My mom was worried about pedophiles preying on 11 year olds in these clothes (in this case, 15). She's STILL concerned about it. She checks our mailbox so I can't order online without her realizing. The mall is 2 hours away from home so I can't go there alone. Besides online shopping would make her question why I got a credit card— she doesn't know that I registered one, she didn't let me get one till I'm 16.

Nobody knows what me and dad do anyways. I'm practicing on him to make me a better gf . but I don't want a bf when I have dad. @the wanderer--shut up azzhole.

One of my other friends was trying to stop it. The two fighting wouldn't listen. I just stood behind a weight, shaking violently and softly crying.

Even though I am divorced I am still on friendly terms with my ex wife and her parents. We did not have any children. Her parents are very much into sports but they do not have much money to attend sporting events. I have a box seat at the local stadium and I sometimes invite her parents to watch a game with me as my guest. They really enjoy watching these games with me and are very grateful that I remained friends with them. I did not know it but my ex wife's new husband is also a big sports fan. He must have heard my ex wife's parents talking about going to games with me. He told them he thinks he should be invited to come along with them to these games and they told me about his request. I asked my ex wife's parents what they thought about that idea and they asked me not to invite him as they don't like him. Has anyone ever heard of a husband wanting to be with his wife's ex husband. THAT IS JUST WEIRD. Does sports make people do strange things? I don't think I will invite him to join us AND I don't want to intrude into my ex wife's life. I wish her and her husband the best life in the future but I don't want to get involved in her life. Does what I am doing seem like a reasonable thing to do?

I am 16 (male) and I have a foot fetsih, I have a friend (male) in my class and I like his feet and want to worship them. I would do anything to get to his feet, what should o do (Please give me a proper answer as it will effect my result)

We used to facetime from time to time in the summer, and have convos. We don t talk as much but i still check up on her sometimes. She ignores me though, and never even chacks up on me, and i told her how i felt about it. She said "ok" then i sent her papragraph about how i m depressed and im at the point of giving up. She opened it and didn t say anything. And now she s ignoring me. What should I do? We were JUST friends. I don't like her in that way.

So i recently got hired 3 months ago at this job and as I started one of the girls started talking to me and we started to get to know each other by talking to me and being social with me. I did the same and I made her laugh. She would ask to make plans and would express her friendships with past friends and how she hopes that I wouldn't be fake like them (Which I'm not close to being fake) Yet a few weeks start passing by she's starts drifting away as she got to know me. She would always tell me she's embarrassed about her families income and what people think about her, so she has insecurities and i mean we all do. I feel like she uses her insecurities to break my dreams which doesn't work since I don't give a **** about others. I would make plans with her and she would not even text me back if shes coming or not in fact she fell asleep on me then a week later shes like yeah we should go to the beach and she just doesn't follow through her words. She's like I'm gonna stop spending my money on taco bell yet she still does til this day. What's her problem? I can't seem to understand people leading me on. what should I do in the future? Should I just not befriend coworkers because I feel better off not being personable with them. Getting sick and tired of meaningless friendships and insecure energies. Oh and she talks bad about other people. Chances are she does about me as well. Am I the problem?

If a person talks to you and befriends you because he/she and their friends thinks it is fun just because you're the shy weird kid who has no friends. Then one day they admitted to that because they feel guilty and say they really like to be your friends for real now. Is it okay to not forgive them even if they seem to be really genuine on their friendship towards you? Or is it being petty?

I am a 25 yo female that used to be a happy member in a class team, then a small issue due to misunderstanding happened between me and one of the members. I apologized even though I did nothing wrong, I apologized just to make it up with her because we are in the same team and I have a clean heart, I do not build up. However, she did not accept my apology and started bothering me even more, I heard her talking to other members about me. However, the team started preventing me from engaging in the team activities. So I ended up changing the team, but they did not leave me alone and do things that hurt my feelings. For example, they stopped talking to me. Also, If I participated in the class, they laugh at me. In addition, If there were no chairs in the class and I ended up sitting next to one of them, they move their chairs away ( I shower everyday). Moreover, they stare like evils during classes, and hangout without inviting me. I am confident, it is not necessary to be loved by everybody. I try to ignore their childish behaviors, and make new friends, but still I do not like the way they treat me now, I think it is rude. Should I tell a professor or report this issue? It has been 3 weeks now and they get more aggressive.

Here s my situation: I m currently a sophomore going into junior year. I don t know if I should switch for next year though. At my current school, I have a lot of friends, however they re all from different friend groups. I have one good friend from each friend group it feels like. This is fine, except that at lunch, I feel like I don t have anyone to sit with because it would be awkward to go sit with their friends. I have about 3 best friends, but two are seniors and will be leaving. So that leaves me with 1 friend in the chance of having the same lunch with her, which is 1/2. I will have to resort to one of my other not-so-close friends if I don t have lunch with her. Or, I could transfer to an entirely new school, which I know a few people from sports there, but everyone has the same lunch, so I would never have to worry about lunch without friends, I would just have to be the "new girl". I m open to both opportunities, but unsure about which route to choose. I don t want to leave my old friends, but I don t want to experience high school in bad lighting, I d like to enjoy it, and sitting alone at lunch doesn t really reflect happiness to me.

hi i always thought i was normal but i recently joined a baseball team and today was my first day and in the locker room one boy made fun of me for being circumsized and I dind't know what that meant but I did some googling and now I'm scared? am i a freak? is it contageous?!?! ive never had s*e*x* so i dont see how i could have gotten anything..... should i see a dr and would they tell y parents? how do I tell my parents????

The problem is that I ask a lot of questions though I don't study at home because they think I must have read that at home. In lab when I am alone, I perform my best, then one of my friends saw it and he came to my bench in C programming lab. I will explain you what he did. He took my seat & said that he thought last time he stayed in that seat( I said nothing),Then he took my lab manual. I later knew that he actually wanted to slow pace me, Also when I am at home, I switch off the mobile phone, because it distracts me annd my friends would think if I was studying all day and night with phone switched off =>What to do to make them less jealous of me?

So there's this guy who moved to our school a couple months ago from another school in the district and he seems really interesting, and I would totally love to be friends with him, but I have no idea how to start a conversation with him. I know that once I talk to him a couple times I can build the friendship, but I just can't figure out how to start it. Also, I can't even treat him like "the new kid" because its been months since he moved here and he's not even really new anymore. I'm also afraid that he'll be snobby or something. Can anyone help with this????

This girl always used to say hi to me but I ignored her in regards to my crush, I was being immature and jealous. A while passes, I grow up and stop disliking her, and she's in my lunch period. Today I sat down in the outer side of the large rectangular cafeteria. She walks in front of me to get to her seat (that was quite a long way away). She could've picked any direction to go to her seat, but she goes in front of me. Does she want to become friends?