Now that I'm 24 and my bf is 25 sooo many people ask us when we are having kids. Especially because we have our own cars, large apartment in an oceanfront town on Boston's north shore and have been together nearly 8 years. I have already finished grad school and have a good job, so we could afford one financially. But I dont feel its right for me, i just cant imagine myself having a kid. I love little kids, but i wouldnt like the idea of dealing with one 24/7 and sacrificing a lot of my own life. My bf was also told by the doctors not long ago, he might not be able to have kids ever and i kinda felt like that was a sign from the universe we should remain childless lol. I know adoption is an option, but i dont want to do that either as i grew up with a dad not biologically related to me, and remember how much it upset me as a kid and the huge family fights we would get into over it. So who loves their life, but doesnt have kids, and why?

I caught my son masturbaitng to my clothing. My son is the last one to leave the house in the morning. My husband leaves the house by 6 and I usually leave the house by 4 to go to the gym. Well I didn't feel so good, so I decided to leave early. I felt so gross. So first thing I wanted to do was take a shower when I got home. First thing I noticed was that the bathroom lights were on to our master bathroom. Next thing I noticed was a clapping sound coming from there. The door wasn't locked. I opened the door, and caught a glimpse of my son playing with my clothing. I was kinda in shock so I left the house and decided to go do my grocery shopping. I really don't know what to do, some people claim that this stuff is normal. Should I talk to him about this? I don't want to embarrass him. I don't know if I should bring my husband into this. Should I let him continue? I just don't see how someone gets off to smelly thongs and sports bras. I work out for about 2 hours every morning.

So my ex fiance' just got out of prison. In his first week out (this week) he gives me a call that he's really injured and in the hospital. Is it apropriate to see him? If so how do i act? This would be the first time we see each other after the breakup and I'm not sure if I should see him but we mutually agreed that we would be friends so I'm unsure what to do. :/// He claims that he doesn't have anyone to visit him and he doesn't want his sister (his only family out here to see him how he is.) And I cant help but blame myself because during our relationship I always babysat him and had to make sure he was okay. That was one of the reasons why we broke up. So i'm really devastated and sad about the situation.

I'm a 14 year old girl and my mom has this guy friend that she kind of likes and he weirds me out so much. Before I get into this I am pretty much afraid of men because a lot of men in my life have acted inappropriate towards me. My mom told me it could be because my dad and uncle and old singing teacher gave me a bad view on men for how they act towards younger women(my uncle tried to rape me when I was 7 and my dad is old af and obsessed with girls at age 18 and my singing teacher touched me inappropriately when I was 10) So this mayyy be a bit over exaggerated. But back to my moms friend, before I met him in person he legit EVERY week gave my mom stuff to give me like candy and random **** so I liked him and thought he was super cool but after I met him he gave me a weird *** vibe like he is always calling my mom asking if he can come over at the times he knows I just got back from school and she's at work. Whenever I am around him he acts nervous and stares at me A LOT and I tell my mom how strange I think he is but she says that's he's normal around her. I mean he could have social anxiety ya know. But now he wants me and my mom sleep over next weekend? Why me and not just my mom the ****? Should I stay away from this guy or am I just over exaggerating?