Ok so my father married a women ,and she knows that he have 7 kids and my father and stepmother living up spreate from ur house we live down stairs ,since they got married like 12 years his wife coming to our house saying garbage telling us that she owns everything and we don't have anything and trying to control and going back and forth in our house acting like it's hers and talking rudely to us or when she pass around ignoring us and take things from the house , we told our dad about her but he didn't listen so what should I do ?

I am a 15 year old Sophmore Boy and this spring break as usual my family will be going to my grandmas house in Florida fo spring break, the same place I've gone for spring break since I was born. I am so bored of this place, I hate the beach so much, I don't see the point of simply laying in the sun and worst of all my family so so annoying. I will admit I suck to be around. I'm negative, sad, annoying and especially around my parents. So this year I really just don't want to deal with them so I have been in my room mostly for the first day and a half and they hate it. They come in to tell me how embarrassed they are that my aunt and grandma just think i sit in bed all day. And honestly i don't like being in my room very much either, it's just better in here than out there. To make this worse my parents found some weed I was planning on bringing the day before we left and we both know that the other party knows but they haven't confronted me yet. Please help me I do not know what to do anymore.

My single mom who lives alone really liked my ex husband John when we were married and they remained friends after our divorce. That is fine with me as John and I are still friends after our divorce. We did not have any children. John brings mom a lot of happiness. Whenever she needs something fixed on her house, her car, or her computer she will call John. He comes over and takes care of the problem. He never charges her anything for his help. He just told her that he does not charge friends for helping them. I have remarried and when my current husband and I visit mom, she NEVER mentions John or what he has done for her. In fact she does not want to discuss it with me when we are alone. She tells me she does not want to cause me any problems. John did a kitchen remodel for mom and it came out beautiful. The last time my husband and I were at moms he saw the remodel and when we got home he asked me to get the name of the contractor that did it so we could use him to remodel our kitchen. Please give me some advice on how to handle this. The LAST thing I want is to have my husband meet John. I see nothing but trouble from this happening. Oh My God. What would happen if they become buddies? YOUR ADVICE PLEASE.

Is it normal for your parents to hold everything against you? Like the cost of living, food, clothes, etc. and use it as a reason why you should give them respect and pretty much shut your mouth and just listen? I'm turning 19 this year and my dad still does that. He's been saying that to me since I was a kid and I've been scared to move out or anything because I feel like he'll get angry at me because he gave me, "Everything". I call my dad materialistic, because he believes that him showing love is buying us everything, but emotionally and mentally wise he's very abusive towards my family. (My mom emotionally neglects us, but since she doesn't have a job, she rarely ever mentions anything about money) Is this how normal parent act? Is it ok to be scared of your dad for emotional and mental reasons and to feel very little respect towards him or your mom due to this? All of his friends and my mom's friends always yell and talk to me about showing respect for my parents, but it's hard.

So i wanted to put some movies on my laptop so my dad gave me a hard robe full of movies but also albums of family holidays and stuff. So I opened to hardeice on my laptop and I opened it and scrolled through the drive but I then saw a folder in there called "Folder 1". Now due to it having such an ambiguous name I clicked it and it had stuff such as empty folders but also a few forms about my dads work. But there was one folder with something in it. I opened that and it had a folder called "Pics". Now I'm someone who usually likes to look back on old photos of my family and memories so I opened it and it was the single most worst decision in my life. In that folder were a collection of my mother in lingerie and some of her naked. I then realised this folder was my dads collection of secret pictures of my mom. I saw so much and I almost had he urge to vomit. I quickly closed the folder and shut my laptop. I can't get those images out of my head and it's just something I want to forget immediately. I just wanted to watch Mission Impossible

I have been depressed/suicidal since I became a teenager. everyone rejected me and thought I would be a failure in life, even my family. My parents kicked me out and i had no one. No one to ask for advice or rely on. Being alone is scary and difficult and makes you feel like trash because no one believes in you, but somehow I got a good job and pay my bills. I now got a girlfriend, we live together and im making her my reason for living. When I struggle emotionally, I think that I'm living for her, to not give up. I know living for someone else is unhealthy and her breaking up could push me to my breaking point, but the alternative is me being suicidal because of my low self esteem due to being alone most of my life.

So I'm 16 years old and in College, but my boyfriend is 20. he met my parents I brought him to the house for a family event they liked him and they were happy that I told them they didn't care about his age because I was honest about it plus it isn't illegal in Florida. I'm not allowed to go to his apartment I can only see him when he comes to my house or he goes on a double date with me my sister and her boyfriend. But the other day I missed him so much so I left the school when I got out of class early and went to his house. I lost track of time while I was there and I left at the same time my mom and my dad were pulling out to the school and they saw me crossing the street from his house. once I got into the car I got into so much trouble they were yelling at me saying "why were you there? You know you're not allowed to be over there, I'm not taking you to this college anymore you're going to the school downtown closer to our house " I was so sad because I made friends at that school and I was homeschooled my whole life, so I didn't want to go to that boring school downtown. But this weekend my mom said "the other day me and your dad said things we didn't mean because we were mad I understand they you're getting older and you want to be in a relationship and I'm not trying to stop that but there is way to do anything" she gave me a hug and said she loves me. Do you think they will still make me leave the school? And how can I regain there trust ?

My brother never contacted my mom my other brother and me for 20 years. About 4 years ago he started visiting us on holidays. My mom passed away 2 years ago and I am living in her house now. My brother never tells me when he is coming and never asked me to stop at his apartment 5 hours away. He never will tell me anything about his work or life and doesn't care about mine. Shouldn't brothers have close relationships and doesn't it sound like he don't want to connect with me?

My relationship with my mother is impacted because she always asks for money. She's not on drugs, only 48 but refuses to work. She's also married. It's taken it's toll. Because day and night she wants money, she only call when she wants money and she'll come up with a big like saying she's dying or this or that and it's way too much. I don't even like living by her, she and her husband have been trying to move in with me and I don't want them to. She's told me that it's my job to take care of her, I'm going to regret it if she dies and all types of things. I can't save for anything. Any advice? I feel so guilty for saying know. But it's like I have no mom. I'm thinking if moving to a different state. I have 6 brothers and sisters and she does it to me

My mom really doesn't like me staying up past 12am. This causes my mother to command me to go to sleep. I'm very quiet and do not make noise to wake her up. Any further past 1am she will barge in the room and raise her voice at me as if she wants to wake the entire house. She'll stand at the door way and glare at me. Sometimes I'll ignore this to rebel against her, since I'm not doing any harm to her. But I guess I am "troubling" her by staying up the night. The only reason she has given me why I should sleep instead of stay up is that it is "good for me". I guess she isn't very good with her words and prefers to order me without any good reason. Which is most of the time. Many times have I sought out a reason and have tried to be on equal terms with her. But no matter what she does not want me staying up the night at all. I would ask her why, and she would avoid the question and tell me to sleep now or get kicked out of the house. It is her house after all, she has the right to kick me out. I'm just not sure what to do in this situation. I enjoy doing things at night. Reasons being daytime is sometimes loud and distracting, with neighbors being loud and household members being intrusive and noisy. Help wanted. Thank you in advance.

She's an emotionally sensitive 15yo that I give private lessons to. She is a complainer and other parents are picking up on it and are starting to complain themselves. They think she's rudely complaining about their kids and would like someone to talk to her. I plan on saying something like no matter how frustrated you get just let it go until you get outside and then complain all you want. Is that ok? What else?

I've been living with my dad since I was 14, my mom left me, and ever since then I've been cooking, cleaning and washing his clothes. My past relationships never required me to move out, I'm 26 now with 2 kids. My dad used to be an alcoholic but has been sober for 3 years and he needs my help to keep his diet balanced and medications up to date because of the complications the alcoholism left. I met a guy about a year ago and he is great to my kids and wants us to get married and live together as a family. I'm not scared of change, even though this will be a big change in my life, I'm scared of leaving my dad alone. My kids look up to my dad and when there is a fathers day event at school my daughter goes straight to my dad so he can go with her, my son is only 2 but I can see how much he loves my dad already. I don't want to move out and leave my dad alone, I feel like he will get very sad he's used to having the kids around everyday and I can see he looks forward to that everyday. But I also want to get married, I want a partner in life. This guy is perfect in my eyes, he shows love for my kids and always puts them before anything, even me and I love that. But how can I leave the only person that was there for me when my mom left me, my dad made sure I wasn't missing anything he went out of his way to buy me clothes, school supplies and made sure I wasn't missing love. He turned into my mom and dad, even as an alcoholic he was always there and never talked bad about my mom.

I'm fully aware that based on my question, I sound very clingy but trust me, this is for my parents' sake. My older brother has recently developed a habit of leaving the house at around 10:00pm to go somewhere and return til 2:00am. He doesn't say much when asked where is he going other than a cheap excuse such as "I'm going to put gas in the car". It doesn't bother me that he leaves for quite some time because he is fully capable of taking care of himself but to my parents it is like he is still a kid to them. I usually call/text him when he's out for too long but he doesn't reply most of the time. I've tried to look for him by using the Snapchat update where you can locate your friends but he has turned that option off which makes it harder for me. My parents get really anxious and lose sleep because he isn't home. He doesn't come home drunk or high because I'm still awake when he returns. My friend said that it is easy to track someone by their phone number but I still don't know how to do it properly and so I seek for guidance as to how do I locate someone by their phone number or any other way. Also, I apologize for any misspelled words or incorrect sentences.

For example, in 2006-2009... lots of young girls did more suggestive things on MySpace and Facebook. It definitely does happen nowadays, but I see the trend has become less common. The average 14 year old no longer posts images/comments of them doing drugs, having sex, sneaking out, etc. They wear revealing clothes and listen to inappropriate music, but that's it. Most DON'T seem to be purposely bragging about it like back then. Statistically, more 18 year olds are like back then's 15 year olds too. Don't know if it is true, but this is my observation.

I have a step daughter that has never tried or wanted to bond with her father. Her father divorced her mother when she was 8 because her mother was into drugs and being with a lot of other men. Now she's grown and after much effort on my part we managed to get her to be around us starting at the age of eighteen. Flash forward she's now 29 has three kids from three different fathers, is never employed, has one loser boyfriend that never seem to work after another and still lives near her mother who still does drugs, has been arrested numerous times for shoplifting and in two months totaled three cars. Once with the oldest grandkid in one. We have done all the norms through the years...birthdays, christmas, easter, thanksgiving et...visit them at least once or twice a month which is 2 1/2 hr drive away. We give money and never ask for it back. Recently she stopped communicating with us when her mom had the three wrecks and got caught shoplifting again. Although we still tried to communicate with her. Now she's sent me a text saying I'm constantly on her although its just asking how they are doing and if everything is ok. She also put that her dad left her to deal with her drug addict mother and so thats what she has to deal with the rest of her life. Although we tried to get custody of her when she was young and her mom hid her for years and any time she would visit she would call her mom to come get her the next day. So we never had a chance but its all our fault.she knows

Like when me and my sister were chubby, she use to scream at us and call us names. and she hit me and spat at me. We are arabs, we are Lebanese family and i am 19 year old girl...

I'm a 52 year old mother with an 23 year old son. His best friend is 24. Today he came over my house when my son wasn't home. He told me he had something important to tell me. He then gave me back a pair of my underwear and said he took them from my room last week, but felt bad about it and gave them back. He said he took them because he thinks I'm hot and was so sorry he did this. Should I forgive him or yell at him? Should I tell his mom or my son about this?

If you new u had a step sister would u tell her ? By telling her u risk breaking up a happy family if she had been brought up by another man or maybe she believes some loser is her dad that never bothered anyways ?! Help!!!

at school people only befriend me just to talk to my friends. sometimes they even get my friends to turn on me and bully me. its only my friends and no one elses. my friends arent popular and arent the prettiest but they prefer them over me. im not mean and i always been told i have an amazing personality.

They look fun to be around.