My ex-husband's father was not a round a lot when my ex-husband. Now he spends a lot more time with his son. But my ex-husband is currently neglecting his son for work purposes like his father. Would you ever ask the Granddaddy for help with this situation if so what would you say?

The time hath come, your mind is decided on this life shifting leap. But is this in the best interest of you? **Cons: -The longer hours at work. -heightened sense of responsibility that may become a drag. -The costs that seem to ever increase/debt. -The dull routine as the spark fades after tying the knot. -The decrease of marital sex after a few years, "I'm tired." -Constant nagging/drama/stress. -Less time to pursue other hobbies/passions. -High likelihood of divorce. **Pros: -Passing your genes, which i personally find overrated. -Not dying alone? -Being a better model for your kids to follow/watching the kids grow. -Renewed life purpose for those directionless. -Having someone to retreat to when life pulls you a tad harder. You sit there pondering, "why did my life turn this way?" or "I'm elated that my life turned this way!" You tell me, married couples of yahoo. Was it worth it for you? And what would you change if you could go back in time? This could be from the age of commitment to outright regret.

The other night my husband was telling me about his physical therapist and that shes really good and shes so funny and when he go to her sessions he leaves feeling so good and happy. I kind of got jealous is that normal ?

I feel more attracted to someone s personality, not that I m not sexual but I want to stay a virgin forever but also be with someone I love. I would prefer more of intellectual relationship , but we never consummate. We have separate beds and all, but we can still have physical contact but just very limited. Any thoughts?