My boss started off pleasant but I'm a trainee and I've made a few minor mistakes the first few weeks of my new job and I think now she hates me. She made me feel guilty for taking a vacation day because "you shouldn't wait till the day before to ask for a vacation day." I didn't know I needed to ask a week in advance for my earned vacation time, it's not as if my shift needs to be covered in the position I work in...anyway, have you ever had a boss that made you feel like crap? How did you deal with him/her?

I have been to my sister's apartment last year, but lately when I go over there to go out with her or pick anything up from there she runs out of the house before I can even knock. Yesterday we went grocery shopping and were waiting to leave to pick up her son from school and she didn't even ask me to come in and I have a little baby and sat in my truck for 20 mins waiting while she put stuff in the house and came out 10 Mins later. Her and her family are always at our house without even giving notice most of the time while they are in the car they send a text and we welcome them in always. Thoughts about this????

She needs a ride home? Like proposing to drive her home? I declined... hope he didnt find that rude.

So somebody recently stopped me in my place of work who had been obviously observing me work which is waiting tables. They said you command attention and walk with authority. I said thanks because I had hoped it was a good thing lol. Can someone explain more ??

When he's angry he gets very hostile and expresses himself in a way that could scare people. During road rage he has said things like: I hope they get run over by a bus, I hope her mom gets cancer. He's also said things like I hope they get shot and die. On one occasion he got really angry with my little sister and has said that she should get rapped. One night before putting our daughter to bed she couldn't stop crying, he was getting upset with her and said shut up to her, he said if you weren't my daughter I'd put a pillow over your head and throw you out the window. He always tries to justify himself and says he never means it, he's compared himself to other dads and says they get angry too. I've told him that it's normal to get upset but to say things like that is never ok nor normal. Our daughter is 6 months old and I'm really concerned that when she gets older she'll pick up on his hostility, I need to protect her well being. I've tried to breakup with him but he just doesn't want to leave me, he has tried to work on his anger and has calmed down when our daughter cries but there's still times when he's hostile. I don't know what to do, I'm a stay at home mom and has been a struggle to get back to work. I've mentioned that he should get counseling but he just doesn't want to give up his pridefulness.

I'm 16 and a guy if that matters. My father drinks and smokes, he used to hit me but not anymore. He threatens to take things from me like my phone, car. He threatened to beat me and overall is just an asshole. I am constanly called an asshole and selfish over the most rediculous things. I have many memories of being slapped, kicked, thrown into walls, tables, grabbed by the mouth and throat. He wasn't always this violent but it got worse after my mother died. I am constantly reminded by him that he is stronger and that he is boss because he pays for everything. He is a violent, alcoholic, racist ( he uses the n word ), abusive piece of **** and I hate him clear to his core. I need to know what I can do to stop this, I don't want to get CPS involved and I don't want to get taken away and put into foster care. I have grandparents that know about this.

So I've been a cheerleader for five years now and I've had the same coaches every year. Just a few days ago I realized that I really like one of them. She's super nice and pretty and is such a talented person at what she does and teaches. I can't even see us as a couple but I can't stop obsessing over her. She's really young and somewhere in her early twenties. I however am not 18 yet and this is the situation that made me realize I'm bisexual so now I'm just a mess. I can't explain what my mind is even trying to say but I need help to stop obsessing over her. It's not even like I can just simply avoid her. She is my cheer coach and I wouldn't even dare think about quitting cheer. And then she always stops in my homeroom at school for some reason and always says hi and talks to me. Avoiding her isn't an option and in my state right now, I'd rather not. Someone help me or I'll explode. I really care about her and I don't wanna continue being weird every time I see her so someone help me chill because I can't on my own! I'm desperate!

He was talking about how some people "make money on the backs of others". Does he think I'm manipulative?

Ok short and sweet, im a 17 year old guy with sever ocd and anxiety problem, like the type of stuff that keeps people home bound, but im able to mostly put it into usful things and its been getting better. I would like to start off by saying i have a 4.1 gpa and a 1560 on my sat so dont worry bout grades. Anyway i have a medium amount of freinds my peak in the social strata happened last year in sophomore year where i was almost tin the popular group. Ive been to many party's but only drink at the more recent ones within a year, also dont get invited to a lot too. ive been to party's outside of my school. I have been offered and i declined two hookups so far. i have had nothing but failure in my around 3 romantic ventures, one of wich she basically took advantage of me and had me doing a bunch of stuff wich also prevented me from accepting a prom date from a girl i truely had feelings for, now ive failed with her twice tho so thats an L. Anyway ive never kissed a girl, but i have been to 2nd a couple times. this year things suck tho i lost my social power and rank and my freinds are getting very distant. But i have a feeling of not giving a crap so i guess its ok. anyway just wanted to know how im doing where i should improve advice whatnot. Mainly cause things are shity right now and im depressed. i know people will get angry im judging my success on prestige,popularity, and girls but hell thats how i measure it