Like my mom has bachelors and I'm in college, she doesn't want to work and we are paying bills out of our savings, neither does my dad. NOBODY WANTS TO WORK.

I accepted a position at a new company. I have already put in my two week s notice at my old job, and the two week s ends today. I would start my new job Tuesday at 8 am. New Job Pros: full time, great benefits, new skills to learn, starting pay is $10.50 an hour, regular schedule, casual dress code New Job Cons: 30 minute drive away from home (my car isn t in the best of shape), call center environments are stressful. Here s the kicker! I got an interview request from a company that pays $10 - $14 / hour, and is a 5 minute drive from my house. Literally half a mile away. Now, I really want THIS job, and I would love to interview and see where it leads. However, the day they would like to interview me is my first day at my new job that s entirely too far away. The situation would be different if I had a few days to try to reschedule an interview. So, what should I do? Should I take a gamble and call out sick during my probationary period (big risk) to interview with the company I really want to work for? Or should I stick it with this job I have that I haven t even started that has a long commute time?

Hi. I babysit as a part-time, on a regular basis I get paid the day of (when parents came back form movies and dinner), but there's one unique mom that always pay me a week after I watch her kid. I let it happened because I didn't wanted to lose that job. But now is coming on a every time basis, I'm even late to pay my phone bill because she won't pay me on time. How can I ask to be paid in time without sounding rude. Getting paid a week later isn't working for me since I get late in my own bills. Thanks.

I am 20 and when I was a kid I was not alowed in the house unless i was making a meal.My parents would tell me to go play just stay within town limits lol I may have had neglectful parents though.

Hey, gonna just drop some thoughts .. I'm 22 living with my mom and sister. At the moment we're homeless going, family member to family in hopes I'll finish school, which I'm doing online. Problem is my mom is controlling. She won't let me stay with my boyfriend, because she thinks we're gonna get married and ima leave her and my sister in the streets basically fighting for their lives.. even though my sister is 19! She's like, "this is crazy, you're going to marry him and leave me and your sister stranded, going no where in LIFE!" And she honestly is depending on me to do everything for her, which is also devastating. She's like, "when we get house, you're gonna be paying majority of the rent, and you're buying the house since your credit is great! but that doesn't mean you can have your boyfriend over." Like wtf? I still have a cerfew of coming home at 12. And if I go over 12, she sends BIG *** text messages like, "I should call the cops to find you!" Or "I'm having a heart attack because You're not home." Then she calls 100 times and leaves hundreds of voicemails screaming saying, "you are disrespectful to my commands!!! You're a child!" Blah blah. And tbh I've about had it!! And I'm ready to just run away but I feel so bad when she makes me feel like I'm a bad person! Pls help!

Okay so I found out my real dad contacted me and told me when i was younger she took him away from me because he was young and couldnt pay child support but he said hes been trying 16 years to be in my life but my mom took me and made me move away miles from him. I have a step father that treats me like ****. I always thought he was my dad cause he really is bossy. My real dad told me he tried to take her to court but couldnt cause he wasnt paying child support. But my stepdad really is mean to me he used to abuse me when i was younger so i really dont like him. I want to keep this to myself but he makes me so angry i just wanna say your not my ******* dad ! What should i do i dont want to get kicked out or i dont want him to feel sad or he may even lose control and we end up fighting. Lately ive been so mad at my mom for not saying anything to my stepdad all these years for treating ne like ****. And her telling me my stepdad is my Biological when he isnt. I feel shes responsible for all of this for letting a man come into my life and abuse and treat me like **** and didnt say anything so now he thinks hes the boss of me. My real dad doesnt like my stepdad either cause he heard about it and confronted my mom but it didnt stop anything. What can i do

the father is. What could be her reasons?

My sister is 10 years old and she has this habit of crying whenever she doesn't get what she wants. Like just a day ago, I forgot to buy soda when I was ordering Pizza and she started crying and throwing a tantrum about it. She says, "I want soda! If there isn't any soda, I won't eat the pizza!" And let me tell you I ordered us a medium sized pizza because she wanted it! She's constantly crying over stupid things, like how she didn't win a game or how my grandmother made her food wrong or EVEN when there isn't any of her favorite snack left in the pantry. She doesn't respect me as an older sister nor my parents. She hits and screams at me calling me a bully whenever I do try to tell her not to throw a fit or cry over something useless. Every day, coming home I hear her crying over stupid things. My parents are getting softer over the years about scolding us and so my sister never does listen to any of our suggestions. If she doesn't get what she wants, she cries and tells me that I should leave the house or kms. But if it's in front of my parents she does this thing where she's REALLY sad and starts crying quietly and making the atmosphere feel tense. My parents took little actions about this, and they have started yelling at her but she doesn't seem to care. Please give me some advice! I'm just a teenager struggling to live with 3 younger siblings.

Im 15 btw she always cusses at me and says she hates me even my lil sis shes 14 went to go live with my aunt but idk what to do sometimes i feel like wanting tk kill myself i cant take this stress on me its too much i felt like running away not too long ago i just cant handle this no more its too much plus i have school and i wonder why i was brought to this world i feel like eveyone hates me and theres no way for me to express my feelings to her than to punch or yell at something. I dont know what to do at this point this happens constantly i even packed all my stuff ready to run away yesterday ive been through some really harsh other stuff and for this to occur every single freaking day i might end of killing myself idk what to do...

Not that I love to share, it's just idk I have some drug issues, nothing crazy. Our whole family lives close. It really all started yesterday after a routine time doctor check-up for me. I came home home and my parents were (rightfully I guess) suspicious I'm out for drugs, but they calmed down like usual. Really went to the doctor. Stella ( dads mom) also saw the doctor and it's looking bleak as of now. We were fine. Except my dad. We did just casual errands around town today and he stayed annoyed, angry, very nervous and blew his top the 1/2 half of today.No nurses doctors ... no one did a a ****!. Yes maybe it's because Stella my grandma is in the hospital, but I don't see that as an excuse to torment, petrified, and physically abuse your family. Yah I can lose temper like us all, but this is beyond.!My mom is trying to downplay it, but I'm honestly scared. Yeah I toyed with dad back-and-forth about just some little jokes, but then he comes back at me and he threats to "bash me in" and he actually touched me and it hurts. IS HE abusivie? On top of that, he's is deeply meaning, hurtful, insidious words and phrases that I would never even think not the less say. Like horrible things. I use names, I push sometimes lightly but.... he makes me feel bad, enough hurt in every sense; to hurt myself. And tell you truthfully I did nothing wrong recently. Not much evidence for the authorities though? Thanks

Not that I love to share, it's just idk I have some drug issues, nothing crazy. Our whole family lives close. It really all started yesterday after a routine time doctor check-up for me. I came home home and my parents were (rightfully I guess) suspicious I'm out for drugs, but they calmed down like usual. Really went to the doctor. Stella ( dads mom) also saw the doctor and it's looking bleak as of now. We were fine. Except my dad. We did just casual errands around town today and he stayed annoyed, angry, very nervous and blew his top the 1/2 half of today. Yelled at me and mom in this little cottage, threatened to hurt us, actually did hurt me with a full round house kick that left bruises. Yes maybe it's because Stella my grandma is in the hospital, but I don't see that as an excuse to torment, petrified, and physically abuse your family. My mom is trying to downplay it, but I'm honestly scared. Yeah I toyed with dad back-and-forth about just some little jokes, but then he comes back at me and he threats to "bash me in" and he actually touched me and it hurts. On top of that, he's is deeply meaning, hurtful, insidious words and phrases that I would never even think not the less say. Like horrible things. I use names, I push sometimes lightly but.... Yah I got problems too, but I don't think anything called to be round house kick. I'm just frightened, even though similar things have happened in the past work out, I'm just scared in my bed. I'm only child 22.

These girls are bullying over the fact that the abuser DIDN'T abuse my 5 year old daughter, but ONLY my 14 year old daughter. They think something must've been wrong with her, if the 5 year old was available too but they ONLY preyed in her. These kids are going so far as beating her up. Death threats on social media, excluding, and thinking she must've been way more naive than her little sister.

Just to give some background, I'm 19 and my boyfriends 20. He lives in California and I live in Pennsylvania. Over the summer, I'd like to visit him for a couple of weeks. My parents have met him, and his family so it's not like they have no idea who they are. They seem to like him. He's visited me and stayed with me numerous times because I was never allowed to visit him and my parents didn't mind when he'd stay with us, but for once I'd like to visit him. I'd pay for my own flight in case thats of any relevance. Note: I still live with my parents.

Horrible 2-3 days here. Picked up (oral opiates (drug of choice) to be washed down with water, and I used because my very close grandma is dying at hospital. Can't even TALK on the phone at home or my dad would kill me (legit abuse me) and I can't leave the house (people may notice the bruise marks from my dad). Grandma has no family but me and my older parents and it kills me to see her in the bed like it. And plus mom is great but my father GETS OFF TO PORN NEARLY EVERYDAY"next to wife", slaps, pushes. My father yells, delegates, shoves, goes beyond nasty. Should I report HIM? Bi-polar, and just says very nasty things. So I used water/pills to numb the emotional pain, family stress and now: ....parents hate, best friend is angry at me (that knows this), I have no drugs left but I'm devastated. Sitting in bed sleeping and crying, while my folks yell derogatory names me before they left. HELP please???!

I am 36 years old and I hate my son. He is 16 and I despise him. I don't like him because he is fat, he weighs 307 pounds and he's only 5 foot 8. I always call him fatass and a tub of lard. I once punched him in the face because he took 3 helpings at dinner. Two years ago he asked if I loved him and I said no I hate you, you fat loser. One time I even made fun on social media. I can't wait until he's 18 and then I'm kicking him out. Also once he was making bacon and I threw the hit grease on his face, he screamed in pain. I feel like I should change my ways. Is this wrong?

Horrible 2-3 days here. Picked up (Xanax and oral opiates drug of choice) to be washed down with water, and I used because my very close grandma is dying at hospital. Can't even TALK on the phone at home or my dad would kill me (legit abuse me) and I can't leave the house (people may notice the bruise marks from my dad). Grandma has no family but me and my older parents and it kills me to see her in the bed like it. So I used booze/pills to numb the emotional pain, family stress and now: ....parents hate, best friend is angry at me (that knows this), I have no drugs left but I'm devastated. Sitting in bed sleeping and crying, while my folks yell derogatory names me before they left. HELP please???!

What is wrestling someone to the ground/floor???

I'm about to turn 16 and my mom and dad are letting me choose between a brand new jeep or a used mercedes because they're the same price. Which one should i get? i've always wanted a jeep but i feel i'll be the only ones w a mercedes at school (the mercedes is black and the jeep is red)

I have lived with my brother while I'm in college. Ever since I moved in, he has never washed the dishes or swept or mopped or clean anything really. He will only wash the dishes when I'm back home for breaks, and that's because there's no one else to do it for him. Every time my parents come and visit us, I'm the one who has to clean the whole apartment. He doesn't help me with any of that. One time I just snapped because my parents were coming to visit us and I had been cleaning the apartment all day and she wanted me to wash his sheets and clean his bathroom and I said no, if there's one thing he can do when he gets home from work it's take the time to clean his bathroom and wash his sheets. My mom bitched at me because I wouldn't do it. But I'm just so tired of having to do everything myself. In case anyone asks, yes, I do pay my half of the rent with my own money. So it's not my fair. I just don't know what to do anymore because I don't like saying things that might make me seem like I'm being dramatic or bratty to my parents. And they know he doesn't clean anything. They know I do it all by myself but they don't ever say anything to him. My parents are just so controlling too. They don't even let me drive anywhere out of town by myself and they sure as hell won't let me live anywhere else. I still have until December when I'll finish school that I'm still gonna have to live with my brother. I'm just so frustrated and don't even know what to do anymore.

My boyfriend and i live in an in-law apartment that is connected to his parents house. We both have our own side of the house but every time my boyfriends parents dog comes to our side of the house she urinates and poops. Its like she usues our apartment as a bathroom. No only is she not potty trained but shell bully my dog when shes on our side too. Is it unreasonable to ask to not let her on our side of the house anymore?

Can they all get along