I'll be having a civil wedding ceremony soon with a wonderful lady (early 40s) who has been the most kindhearted and caring woman in the whole world to me. This would be a second marriage for her and a first for me (I'm late 30s). She has been nothing but loving, understanding, gentle, and patient with me, especially so because I have had very little previous experience with romantic relationships. I love her very much and she is very special to me. One particular thing that she has been extremely kind and understanding about is that because of my religious beliefs, I'm fully pre-maritally celibate and have wanted to save myself until marriage to be intimate. She respected that without any complaint or judgment at all, and very sweetly put no pressure at all on me to be intimate. After we're married, she will be the very first and only woman I will have ever been intimate with. She's had a different life exp. since she has been in many past intimate relationships with many different men, and so she is very experienced, in terms of being intimate. The fact that she is willing to wait for me until after our marriage only makes me more appreciative and loving, of her. My question is and I guess I was just curious about is, is it ever considered unusual or uncommon for a lady who is highly experienced in terms of intimacy, to want to marry a virginal male with no prior experience at all? Sometimes I just worry that I might accidentally disappoint her, due to my lack of exp. :(

I went out on a few dates and the 2nd or 3rd times I was hoping she at least offer to pay but nope nothing! Mind you she is an RN and makes $35 in an hour, the thing is she is not the only one, other women do the same thing! I do have money, it just seems weird! Maybe is cause I dated Ethiopian women only as I'm originally from Ethiopia or are most women the same way?

We have been married since December. But just yesterday i found out about this fake marriage he has had for a while to help someone get a green card. He has been even sending them money because of this promise he made to them. I dont car about him helping them but im still upset about him never mentioning it. And to keep up with the fake marriage he says that he talks to this person as of they are together. Which is how i found out that this was going on. I looked in his phone amd saw messages saying hey baby almost every day. It hurt and we talked about it for a while but now all i can think about is him talking to that girl even tho he says its fake. Or what if he develops real feelings. Im also really uncomfortable like what else is he hiding. Then i found out that it looks like they just recently started talking again and it wasn't before he met me like he said. I asked him about it and he said before they was talking email. But the context of the message still doesn't go with that story. How his measages seem it looks like theybjust started talking and that it wasnt before we got together like hi said it was. Then he changed his phone password because he said that he didn't want me involved because it's illegal and he didn't want me bothering him about it. We have talked about this 3 tikes and his story still doesn't add up.

I feel like my wife is cheating she's a secratary at a enginneering company and she all of a sudden started wearing garter belts and thongs and push up bras to work as long as showing a lot of cleavage she comes home at normal times so do you think she's cheating

My husband and I haven't been married that long. Less then a year. Since getting married everything has changed! We have sex MAYBE once a month. (We haven't had sex in over 6 weeks.) When I discuss our lack of sex it doesn't seem to bother him AT ALL. He works REALLY long hours during the week and on weekends goes to his fathers house. (I know for a fact he's at his dads house.) we only see each other in the evenings on weekends because the weekend is set aside for "his dad and grandad." He even hires someone to do our lawn etc so he can spend more time with his family. I can't even tell you the last time we went on a date! If he's home we just sit and watch TV. He falls asleep on the couch almost daily and we rarely even share a bed. If I don't call/contact him I won't hear from him at all. I'm MISERABLE. I'm constantly asking myself what happened. Am I not pretty enough? Good enough? What is it?!? What did I do wrong?!? I'm only 29 we have no children. I'm strongly considering a divorce! I can't see myself having children with someone who puts "golf" before their wife. Will he do this to our children too?! ANY ADVICE?!

I really enjoy talking to my co worker. Thats all we have been doing is talking for a bout a year now. No sex or anything. My marriage is not good right now all we do is argue. I understand thats what happens is every marriage but its to a point that I am not feeling sexy to him anymore . The sex is no good , I am being brutally honest. I am not being pleased at all. He comes in 2 min. I am fed up with it. We have tried foreplay it still happens. In the beginning it wasn't like this.. But now I am just fed up altogether. Am I crazy ?

Was there a point where you realized your marriage was over? I just filed for divorce from my husband. I'm scared of a lot of things including how this is going to impact my children but I can't continue to live like this.

I've known this girl for 8 years. We have been married for 10 years now. I dont have feelings for my female friend and neither does she for me. We spoke on the phone for 2 hours when I was on a business trip recently and my wife seems to have an issue with that. My friend complains about her current boyfriend to me and vents about him. Was that appropriate of me? I dont have feelings for this female friend

They spend a lot of time together and are always posting photos where they are hugging each other. The first day I was introduced to her friend, she told me, 'I love your wife'. They are constantly telling each other this. My wife made a comment when she was drunk that she's the one girl she'd make out with (if she wasn't married). I don't like this girl. Am I over-reacting? How do I address this without seeming paranoid or insecure?

I'm so lonely

I'm 24 years old and he's 27. I met him when he was 17 (and I 14, I know it's awkward), going to school in the morning and working in the evening in a factory (he had an old father who was enomployed and has a younger sister too). When I saw him for the first time I noticed that he was so different from anybody else (he hardly spoke, never smiled, he looked extremely hurt although he was never actually sad, he had the most gorgeous angel face but he didnt seem at all the flirty jerk type of boy, it seemed like nothing mattered to him). I was so in love with him but he kept on avoiding me, treating me like a kid (I actually was a kid though!), although he was always there for me but never wanted to be more than friends...only when I was 20 he gave in and we got together in a serious relationship and since both of us are old fashioned we got married and now we have a 1 yo son. My husband is totally different from the teenager I knew: he takes care of our son, loves him and cuddles him, my heart melts when he call him little rabbit and touches his hand or kisses his son's head. He' so sweet and lovely and looks finally happy and quiet, much more than when he was 17. Suddenly he seems another person (an happier and less cold type of person than he was back then). How is this possible? Usually people are happy when they're young, he's started to smile only bow that he has a son and a wife. How is this possible? Of course I'm happy but damn, couldnt he be happy since the beginning?

Here's why they have lived with me before they are dirty and they left because they didn't like my rules. I was charging them 325 for a room which is cheap in our area very cheap. My husband needs his nephew to help at work that's is why he wants them to come stay with us but I moved my house is small and idk if I could deal with more people in house and honestly I like my private space which is my home and I don't feel it's okay that I have to give up my sons room for them. What u guys think?

No sex yet. U just have to resist??