What do I do when my MOH and BM have planned their booked their wedding after us for 5 months before ours? She is getting near enough the same dress, they asked to have the same meal as us, he is getting the suit my fiance wanted and she is making me wear a dress as bridesmaid I feel so insecure in ( I have just had a baby) I am at my wits end with stress and lack of sleep over it! Any advice on what to do? I dont want to fall out with them because we do get on well with them!