Do you think he wants to have sex with me? ME:Do you want to be friends with benefits? HIM:I wish you would've given me your number years ago. How do you feel about being with me and another girl? ME:Wow. I was thinking that maybe we might hookup but I guess not lol. HIM:2 years ago I would've loved to ME:I understand. HIM:the lady likes ladies though ME:Nevermind me saying anything I was out of line anyway. I thought you were single and was just looking for some fun. HIM:I was ME:Ok I just always thought you were sexy. I don't know what I was thinking lol. It's crazy but I apologize. HIM:Don't I was always into you too ME:Well we can still be friends. HIM:good ME:I'm thinking about going back to massage school part time I really miss it. HIM:I'll still be your study buddy ME: It's just that a threesome is a little much for me. I've never really been sexually involved with a guy. HIM:but you've been with girls, so how bout being involved with the girl while I sit back and watch? ME:I've never been with a woman either. HIM:oh so you're a gem, then? Like I said, I wish I got your number years ago. we could've been having such fun ME:I wish you hadn't of waited so long to ask for my number. I feel like I missed out lol. ME:Can we still hangout? HIM:you were always with your family I feel like I never had you alone and I thought you were too young absolutely. I have to go now though. I'll ttyl

My boss who is in his 50s brought in his new wife who is in her 20s and introduced her to his employees. When I met her, she said "you look vaguely familiar, have we met before"? I told her I did not recall ever meeting her before. I ask her what her maiden name was and she told me. That night when I got home, I found my high school year book from a long time ago. OH MY GOD, I had went to high school with her and even went on a date with her one time. This is not good. If she comes to our office again I plan to avoid her as much as possible and hope she does not see and/or remember me. Do you think it would be a problem if my boss knew I had dated his wife at one time or am I worried for nothing. Should I be looking for a new job?

so people think I was lying last time I asked this so LET ME BE SPECIFIC! I'm 15, AJ (my "friend) IS 13! We have FOURWHEELERS. AJ killed one of my dogs with a fourwheeler and never apologized or felt sorry instead he MAKE JOKES!!! AJ then poisoned ANOTHER one of my dogs. I said "Eli is dead" (Eli is my dog). Then he starts fidgeting around. "Well... I didn't do it! I didn't use rat poison (any other poison you can think of HE SAID)." WHO STARTS NAMING OFF POISONS?!? Then I said "Eli always stays by the house..." Then AJ says, "yeah but somebody could've caught him by your well or somewhere by the creek." (I live in the country." WHO SAYS THAT? Like instead of saying "Man that sucks, how'd he die?" Or "I'm sorry for your loss of your dog you had for more then 3 years." HE SAYS THAT?!? Should I just let Karma get him.... Idk I'm so angry right now... Eli was my best friend....

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, we had our ups and downs. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a while, I woke up and began to reject her sexual advances. It all began after one call, she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups. At the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

My girlfriend is 23 and she tanned everyday from the time she was 16 until she was 22. She doesn't tan anymore, but you can tell she looks a lot older than 23. She looks a little "hard," and I am so dang attracted to that!! I love the way she looks. Is this weird of me?

I just moved back to my home country after a break-up so I have no friends at all - I'm a woman in my thirties, I'm also Autistic which makes it infinitely harder too - I'm between work too so that limits me a lot. I volunteer but don't really meet many people I could become friends with in the volunteer work I do, also as I don't work I don't have the spare cash to go to meetup.com groups all the time or find new hobbies. I do try to set aside a little money to go to meetups, but even then it's a small city so there aren't many meetups or other things I could do to try to meet new people. Any ideas on how to meet more new people? Also how to make the most out of what I CAN do e.g. how to try to make new friends at meetups or what sort of events to try to go to with my limited funds to improve chances of making friends.

I started being bullied in High school by a boy names Nathan (he was the ring leader in a large group that bullied lots of people) It was just name calling at first, but I'd put up with bullying in Middle school and wasn't going to anymore. So I told a teacher. In town him and his mates saw me at the bus stop and decided to stop and start teasing me. I turned my back on them and ignored them. The next thing I knew he'd come up behind me, and lit the ends of my hair. I lost about 6 inches off my hair and it was all burnt and stunk. He told if me I ever told again, next time it would be my face. After that things got worse. He would burn me with cigarettes, stabbed me in the hand with a blunt knife in cookery class (I had to go to A&E for stitches) would hang around outside my house, knowing I was too scared to leave while he was there. He'd do things to hurt me and a long as I didn't react to the pain he'd let go, if I reacted he'd just do it harder (pull my hair, twist my wrist) I never told anyone again because I was too scared of him. He had no fear of anyone or anything. He broke a girl's nose and that still didn't put him off bullying. In the end he went to prison for some years for child pornography and when he came out they placed him somewhere else. He was insane. The thing is this all happened years ago and yet it still affects me. I still feel scared to leave my house, my nerves have never recovered and counseling did n't help. What can I do to get over this? Thanks for any advice, it was so long ago but still haunts me. How could one person have such an affect?

Ever since we were friends hes been over sensitive, but he would be the type of person to disrespect others but expect respect in return or he'll get mad. On Wednesday, he called me a dumbass because he said I dont know much about the religon I follow. Although hes not religious, trying to preach to me and criticise me for not knowing certain things i haven't read in the Bible. I mean i'd respect him and his beliefs so I expect him to respect mine in return. I didn't want to listen to him speak so I tried to change the subject, and he got mad and basically hung up. We haven't talked ever since because I feel like there's nothing i should apologize for. Once hes mad at me he claims that I'm a crappy person and all but a majority of our conflicts are started by him being disrespectful. This one time he made fun of the time I was sexually assaulted by a stranger at school, he started claiming "That I liked it", and "I didn't do anything about it" when I know I did do something about it. I decided to not take his crap anymore so I stood up for myself and we stopped for about a week. He later got his friends to attack me and send me racial slurs on my social media, and he later told me "My uncle should've died sooner than he did." I think harsh stuff like that too, but it never comes out of my mouth. He says "he doesnt mean it" but he does have the self control to think about what he says.

When a Retired RN & Hospice Nurse who has known your husband her entire life offers to sit with your terminally ill husband how do you tell her No without hurting her feelings? I do call on her for advice but I want to be with him & not have anyone outside the family sit with him right now.

So I'm friends with this girl,Ashley and about 2 weeks ago I just had a quick fight with her. It was really something stupid at the beginning because we were sitting on the couch at my place and she almost made fall the ashes of my dad that were close to the couch. It fell but it didn't split on the floor and the urn didn't broke. I get it that it was an accident but when I saw the urn on the floor I just yelled at her "What's the matter with you? Can't you be more careful? you only care about your own things?" And yes I was angry but as soon as I saw it wasn't broke I just put it at it's place. I apologized also to her right then in there for raising my voice and she said we were cool. I thought we were. Fast forward 2 weeks and I tried to call her twice in these 2 weeks and she didn't pick up. Texted her and nothing. I furthermore apologized by text and added that I love her and I hope she's not mad at me and got no response. It makes me mad because We've been friends for years and this is the first time we actually fought. After this argument even if she didn't say this I think we're done whereas I've seen her have arguments with a lot of other friends of hers and she ALWAYS made up to them and reached out to them and actually answered their texts right away. It sucks because I really care about her. I don't know what to do. I won't be calling her furthermore because I texted her enough. What do you think?

so i just turned 19 i dropped out of high school a little over a year ago. I've done nothing but hangout with my best friend and chill at my house i recently got a job as a groundskeeper with my friend but i don't want to be working at park making 7.25 when I'm like 25

My best friend is fat she's about 210 pounds all. All her tops don't fit her, her belly always hangs out of her shirts, and she has a massive massive bum that stands out as well . Please tell me what I should do?

im so tired of people using me... My roommate last semester took advantage of my niceness and tried to just kicked me out of my dorm room bc she was sure i was going to say yes to moving out? like i dont even know.. i mean.. i prob would have said yes but i didnt like how she assumed my answer? and so i was going to look for an apartment with just a classmate who im not really close with.. so i was excited bc i thought she liked me and wanted to live with me but she asked me just so that i can stay in this small crappy room and share the bathroom with one other person so that she can get the big good room with her own bathroom and big closet and reduce the rent price since theres 3 people splitting it.. I also had friends who would use me so that they dont look like loners or have someone to talk to.. and just leave me by myself when they see their friends and dont even include me.. i also had a friend who would only talk to me or text or hang out with me when they had nothing else to do and would try to cancel last minute once they found some other people to hang out with. honestly.. this is how my life has been since middle school.. so i guess thats why i kinda have social anxiety bc i dont know if people like me or think of me as their friend or im afraid they will think im weird and talk bad stuff about me.. it makes me upset all the time.and i get depressed for a few days.. then get over it and become happy.. and then become depressed again bc it will happen again soon and when that girl asked me about the room.. i feel like she knew or felt like i was going to agree bc i just never say no.. and im nice? but i did say ill think about it..

I have two friends. As soon as I introduced them together they started teaming up against me on everything (even the little things.) This started to bother me so I voiced my opinion in a nice way- asking if they were mad at me or something. I was told "we always keep how we feel about you to ourselves so you should do the same." So basically they always talk bad about me. What do i do? I'm tired of . constantly being told to keep my feelings to myself and to let **** go, but I can't when I constantly feel like I'm being put down. You're supposed to be able to tell your friends anything.

So im a shy,introverted person.. and i do not talk to anyone in class.. so i guess people do think im weird..even if i do have friends i dont talk to them unless we are sitting together or just somehow have to interact.. so i guess a lot of people think i have no friends.. the people i hang out with are considered "popular?" so when they see me hanging out with them they get so shocked.. like this one girl is chinese and she was speaking chinese with my friend so i couldnt understand but i kinda knew what she was talking about.. i heard my name like 6 times and she was keep glancing over me and laughing and had a weird look on her face and it seemed like she was asking why i am hanging out with her and her friends.. i can tell my friend was trying to change the subject but that girl tried to keep talk about me.. even when i was right beside her.. i also went to a friends bday party and idk why but everyone in class were so weirded out that i was invited and was keep telling me.. i heard you went to that party.. or how come you were invited but i wasnt.. and stuff.. which made me kinda mad.. it makes me feel like they talk behind my back and makes me wonder if my friends think of me as their friend? how should i handle this situation? i now feel nervous to go hang out with my friends bc of what other people will think of them and me..

Can I look up the other person name and see if it show multiple friends or is there another way to do it?

My husband has since made a new FB profile but in the past a lot of people from our high school added him on Facebook- people he never really talked to! My husband is super shy and quiet but very sweet. I am quiet as well and I always smile and am friendly but I talk more when someone else starts the convo. I start convos as well. I feel like people don't like me very much. I guess I'm wondering if that assumption is correct!

i'm like "hey mike, you know if you wanna talk about it i'm here, and you'll probably feel better about it, so why don't you talk about it?" and he's like "no that's okay you know, i'll figure it out, just leave me alone, i'll figure it out"

because I am spending time with other individuals...is he being controlling?

Had sex with one of your parents from the opposite gender (Male > Your Mother) (Female > Your Father). But you didn't find out until two months later. Your male friend has sex with your mom or your female friend has sex with your dad. How would you react? What would you do? Would you still be friends with that person?

So I've been crushing on my best friend for a while and I told her recently that I had these feelings that felt more than me just loving her as a best friend. I always want to cuddle with her or just be with her and hug her and sometimes I do want to kiss her but I never want to do anything sexual. We are both straight girls and in our 20s. At first she said that she felt honored I felt this way and she loves me but now she said that feels the same way, the kind of crush feeling. We talked about how we are not gay because we don't make out or want anything sexual besides the occasional boob grab or butt smacking. I've kissed her a few times only as a peck but before I admitted my feelings. We just layed together face to face and fell asleep. She always lays on me and says that she just loves me and now she thinks she likes me too. We still like boys but we both agreed that of course this is more than what normal best friends do but we're both okay with. What is this? What does it mean?

I'm a young mom 20 about to throw my daughter a birthay party. I have a large family but only inviting a quarter because I don't really care for the rest. They mostly talk to me with their nose in the air or even ignore me if I speak to them at the grocery store. Anyways there's a certain aunt that works with my mom all the time and she wants me to invite her because she invited all her co-workers except for her. I refuse to because I don't respect her or like her at all (we just found out she's been stealing money from my dad for years) My mom suggests we act like it didn't affect us and invite her anyways. I feel bad that she may have to deal with the awkwardness when my aunt finds out she was the only one not invited and having to see her everyday but then again I'm not trying to have anyone with bad energy around on such a meaningful day! Am I being childish or should I invite her despite the fact I almost hate her? Thanks******

I'd like to get in contact with some old friends I haven't seen or talked to since the 80's or 90's. I found their contacts through the White Pages because they didn't have Facebook or any computer contact. I don't know why but I feel reluctant to do so, is it a good idea to go back in and see how these people have been doing all these years?