I have two best friends and we've been friends for a very long time now. Recently they have been hanging out a lot lately with out me and its been bugging me because they never invite me. And now that ive been thinking about it, I've always been the one who asks to hangout. They never ask me first. And when I ask they always so no, ignrore me, or leave me on read. Sometimes they even make up the stupidest excuses. This really hurts me. Ive confronted them about it and they basically said we dont always have to hangout together (even though we never hang) and I don't want to fight and make it worse. So instead ive been making new friends and hanging wiht them and doing fun things. My two best friends then got mad at me saying we never do fun things together. I said to them that i have tried many times to do fun things with you but you guys always ignore me and makeup stuff. Im just not sure what to do anymore because i love them but this hurts me.

Me:Do you want to be friends with benefits? I know I'm being blunt lol. But If you are interested let me know. I'm sorry I know that was a little foward of me I apologize I got carried away. I would still love to hangout with you if you are still interested. If not I'll see you around. Him:I wish you would've given me your number years ago. How do you feel about being with me and another girl? Me:Wow.I was thinking that maybe we might hookup but I guess not lol. Him:2 years ago I would've loved to Me:I understand. Him:the lady likes ladies though Me:Nevermind me saying anything I was out of line anyway. I thought you were single and was just looking for some fun. Him:I was Me:Ok I just always thought you were sexy. I don't know what I was thinking lol. It's crazy but I apologize. Him:Don't I was always into you too Me:Well we can still be friends. Him:good Me:I'm thinking about going back to massage school part time I really miss it. Him:I'll still be your study buddy Me: Lol ok. We can still hangout if you want to let me know when your available.

So I was at my friends house with a bunch of people and we were all drinking and pretty much I threw up all over cause I decided to not eat. I threw up on the bathroom floor, on myself, then on the couch and the floor. Before I even realized what happened he cleaned it up. So it's not like I asked him to. But now it's the next day and I've been texting him and he won't answer me. One of his friends told me he's pissed cause I got sick all over. What do I do to fix is?

I am very calm and composed, though I hide my emotions as well. Inside, I am kind and caring. But on the outside, people often assume I am cold and don't care about anything. Sometimes I feel funny saying I like someone, or complimenting them, even if I really do. I'm not rude though. I am introverted. Lazy. I love to take things as slow and easy as I can. I sleep the day away and can't get anything done which I regret later. I'm too into my comfort zone, I can be shy and very bashful. I don't smile in photos, not because I don't want to but because I'm insecure about my smile. I just wish I could show my emotions sometimes. Everyone always assumes I am grouchy, mad, rude, and cold. It hurts on the inside... Eh. What do you think? is this strange? Should I be more open and honest about how I feel? I think it would be a surprise now, since I hardly ever do it.

I moved to a new state last year and I still haven't made any new friends. No one here likes me even when I put in effort to make friends. I always pictured myself graduating from the highschool In my old state, graduating with the people I grew up with. But now I'm gonna have to graduate with strangers. Everyone talks about how much they miss high school and hanging out with their friends but I'm afraid I'm gonna regret not having fun in highschool because I'm always home without any friends and I never go out cause I have no friends. I just want to move back but I can't. I've never felt so lonely.

I say hi to this boy every time I pass him at school, once I did it in front of his gf (I'm a girl) and he never said it again. He ignores me when I look at him. Why?

Me:Do you want to be friends with benefits? I know I'm being blunt lol. But If you are interested let me know. I'm sorry I know that was a little foward of me I apologize I got carried away. I would still love to hangout with you if you are still interested. If not I'll see you around. Him:I wish you would've given me your number years ago. How do you feel about being with me and another girl? Me:Wow.I was thinking that maybe we might hookup but I guess not lol. Him:2 years ago I would've loved to Me:I understand. Him:the lady likes ladies though Me:Nevermind me saying anything I was out of line anyway. I thought you were single and was just looking for some fun. Him:I was Me:Ok I just always thought you were sexy. I don't know what I was thinking lol. It's crazy but I apologize. Him:Don't I was always into you too Me:Well we can still be friends. Him:good Me:I'm thinking about going back to massage school part time I really miss it. Him:I'll still be your study buddy Me: Lol ok. We can still hangout if you want to let me know when your available.

I liked this girl since the 4th grade and we in college now. She goes to college right near my house. But I told her I liked her in 9th grade and she didn't feel the same way. But to be clear we never really talked to each other so she didn't know how I was a a person. but over the years we eventually became friends: everytime we hanged out it was always laughs, laughs and more laughs plus allot of funny adventures. Well it's safe to say I truly like this chick. And I been dying to shoot my shot somehow but I'm kinda afraid of how to make that situation come to that if I end up seeing her again because I haven't seen her in months. Like I'm not afraid to talk to her I just don't know how to like "finnese" I guess. I haven't seen her in months and I've been thinking about meeting up soon at her college. Should I do that? But yeah I like this chick so much it's actally ruining my chances with other girls because I deny them thinking I still need to go to the chicks college and finnese her. This is exactly how I feel right now, It feels like a empty hole I need to fill by letting her know how I feel which would be weird to do right away because we haven't talked in like 6 months. But yeah I feel if I don't do something I'll forever keep thinking about her. I need to clear my conscience. Im scared :(

I had this friend ive been talking to since like August and we were pretty on/off but yesterday he decided to unadd me on snap and block me through imessage however we're still mutuals on Instagram so i left comments which he deleted but still mutuals. Yesterday he wasn't responding to me after saying his dad was mad at him the night before so I sent a few messages and my last one was "r u ok?" and he read it and blocked me on imessage and unadded me on snap so i couldnt see him. I'm not sure if he did this because I was annoying or if I angered him about his dad or whatever but we're still mutuals on IG and he's done this before except i was never unadded and blocked. Am I ghosted and just completely out of his life or does he just want a break?

I was told something really, really upsetting by a really close friend and I'm now unable to speak. I've tried over and over but it's like there's an invisible barrier stopping the words from coming out. Whenever I try, I become out of breath, my chest squeezes, and my mouth goes dry. For a few minutes I was laughing, scratching myself, hyperventilating, and widening my eyes every other second. Now, I feel nothing at all. I can hardly move without spacing out. What's happening, will it stop, is this just shock??? Thank you~

Me:Do you want to be friends with benefits? I know I'm being blunt lol. But If you are interested let me know. I'm sorry I know that was a little foward of me I apologize I got carried away. I would still love to hangout with you if you are still interested. If not I'll see you around. Him:I wish you would've given me your number years ago. How do you feel about being with me and another girl? Me:Wow.I was thinking that maybe we might hookup but I guess not lol. Him:2 years ago I would've loved to Me:I understand. Him:the lady likes ladies though Me:Nevermind me saying anything I was out of line anyway. I thought you were single and was just looking for some fun. Him:I was Me:Ok I just always thought you were sexy. I don't know what I was thinking lol. It's crazy but I apologize. Him:Don't I was always into you too Me:Well we can still be friends. Him:good Me:I'm thinking about going back to massage school part time I really miss it. Him:I'll still be your study buddy Me:Lol ok. We can still hangout if you want to let me know when your avaible.

So I had an annual eye exam and the eye doctor called me in and asked me if I were my glasses all the time and I said usually and suddenly he SCREAMED SO LOUD "ONLY SOMETIMES??!" And slapped my face hard and screamed I better wear them always and hit my face again and kicked me in rage and screamed at himself in anger and slapped my face and ran out of the room in anger

I've fallen out with my friends because they constantly treated me like shït all the time so I stopped talking to them, but now I'm on my own at school and they're in my form so I can't really talk to anyone because they talk to all the people I talk to, but they're closer with them than me. It's the most depressing thing because now I have no one to talk to and feel like nobody cares. I don't know how much longer I can deal with this, I honestly cry myself to sleep some nights. I don't know what to do..

I thought he was single since he asked for my number when I saw him at the store working. When I told him I was taking massage therapy. We talked on the phone. And he asked me to hangout. So when then he tells me that he has a girlfriend after reading my fb message. And he said his girl likes women and he wanted to know if I was ok with being with both of them. So I apologized for asking him to be friends with benefits because I feel like I crossed a line. He told me not to and that he was always into me. And he wish he would have had my number a couple of years ago. And that if it had been a few years ago he would have hooked up with me. I told him we could still be friends and he said good. I told him I was thinking about doing massage again. And he said I could still practice on him. Should I stop talking to him?

For no reason, nothing happened, a former coworker restricted me from seeing their FB profile, so I asked them directly why and they didn't give me any reason except to say that I was no more restricted than anyone else, which means I am restricted on some level. Then they went and told another former coworker who they're close with and obviously told that person to restrict me too, and suddenly I couldn't see any of that person's new posts. So I asked the second person what was going on and how hurt I was because I love seeing their posts. That person said they didn't restrict me from their profile and didn't change anything and even said she would check to make sure. But that was all a lie because that person told me this yesterday and I still can't see a single new post on that person's profile. I feel really insulted and don't know what to do.

I never seem to keep friends, and I don't like people. I've been burned too many times, and I have usually been an outcast and kept to myself. I suffer from depression because I been through bad stuff. Mostly I want to be alone in the dark and silence, and I get very irritated when people break my silence. But one friend is still my friend after 4 years. I know I talk too much to him and sometimes am annoying to him, but he still spends time with me. He still listens. He knows I can get annoying and has admitted it when asked, but still says yes to hanging out, and respects me and listens to me, and gives advice. I'm sure he can find better friends that aren't damaged like me and are less maintenance but he stays loyal. I really care about him and would do anything I could for him. I love him, but I am no good at this stuff. Having someone listen to me is different, since nobody else ever does. I wonder what it is that I am doing that makes him want to spend time with me and listen to me? We are also both guys, so it is not like he is trying to get on base or anything. How can I figure out why he respects me without asking and making myself sound like a loser? I want to keep him happy and do whatever I can to make sure he gets the best I can give of everything. I want to keep him happy and not mess up. How do I make sure I don't blow it? I do not want to lose this friend. Everyone else bugs me when they talk to me, but I am never annoyed by him and always want to hear him.

I've struggled with depression for years, and I'm experiencing it particularly bad right now. In addition, my best friend of who knows how many years has been starting to go off with new, better friends and has left me in the dust. I often find a lot of relief talking about my feelings on my blog; not necessarily to whine or for attention, but it's like a diary for me, but just an online version. My "best friend" is fully aware of how depressed and abandoned I've been feeling lately. In my eyes, a true friend would be there for me, a shoulder to lean on and someone to talk to when I' down. Maybe even a coffee date to lift my spirits or something. She didn't text me or talk to me for weeks, and then a message from her simply said that she's sorry I've been feeling "down" and that she's been thinking of me. That was it. It made me angry because this girl is (or was...) my BEST friend! We always got together when one of us was feeling sad, and I'd always be there when she was sad for her to pour her feelings out to me. What do I get in return? Some "thoughts" about me. She hasn't tried to be there for me at all these past few weeks, even though she fully knows how depressed I've been. I always see her making time for her other friends; all her other friends except for me. That's how I know she's not "busy" or anything and that has led me to conclude that she just couldn't care enough about me to even be there for me. Are my feelings justified? Am I expecting too much?

there is so much that is causing me pain, anxiety, and stress. 1) my mom went out of town to take care of my sick granddad, and she's not coming back for 2 months. i'm staying with my dad now, but he has no interest in my life. he doesn't bother trying to get to know me, and the house is always quiet. he's so aggressive and short-tempered. it just sucks to not have someone to talk to when i get home. 2) i have no close friends. i have friends at school, but we don't talk outside of school. they hang out with their friends on the weekends, and i stay home. i try really hard to put myself out there, but people don't bother making new friends when they already have good ones. people are also really judgemental, because i look different. i haven't hung out with a friend since the summer. 3) i have so much homework. i'm in high school, and i am taking ap classes. all the work is doable, but i don't really have the motivation. i'm just kind of sad. i get all my happiness from watching tv and listening to music. how can i find the motivation and happiness i need?

I asked him if he and I could be friends with benefits. Then he asked me this question. How do you feel about being with me and another girl?

I see her everyday sitting alone and want to talk to her. I've know her name and snapchat since high school because she played a sport but she doesn't know me at all. What can I do to become friends with her? I feel like just saying, "hi, (her name)" would be creepy as would just adding her on snap.

I have played video games 14 hours this week (a high amount for me), usually it is closer to 10, I make straight A s in honors/AP classes, I am on the varsity swim team and spend two hours a day practicing, and I ask to play fortnite (a popular game right now) with 3 of my friends but they gave me the stupid bullshit answer of "As a kid we didn t have videogames" "You are addicted" "No!". They have every right to do this. My sister is in college and doesn t talk to my parents much except when she needs something. They wonder why, but the answer is so obvious, it s because she doesn t want stuff taken away for no GOOD reason. Sorry if that was hard to follow, I m not very good at writing

Ok, we've been texting for like the past three weeks but the only reason we've been texting for so long is because she always takes like 2-3 hours to reply sometimes more. Yes I know she has a life. I know she's busy. But why would she be doing this every day? I know for fact she's always on her phone!