Have you ever seen a person and been like I really want to be your friend so bad? well thats what im feeling right now. So, I'm a freshman in highschool and I have a kinda of platonic crush on this one guy. he seems really cool and I would really like to be his friend. I haven't actually talked to him at all , like ever. I was walking past him on my way to class on Friday while I was talking to one of my friends about how i was going to build a blanket fort this weekend and stay there until monday (childish I know) and HE FREAKING SMILED AT ME, I felt like I was gonna die of embarrassment. do you guys have any tips on how to befriend him?

Lately my best friend has been turning on me. Saying hurtful things, revealing my deepest secrets and making fun of me. She tries to get people to gang up on me and I have been nothing but nice to her. Any advice?

Really want to see a friend over spring break, both of out parents are saying no.

When you are in a heated situation with another guy that could end up in a fight what do most guys do? Having any record and even an assault or disorderly conduct charge would bare me from future employment at a business campus or any professional setting. If I were some loser with a record or no future at all I wouldn't have any problem taking them down. I suppose you could tell them to meet you somewhere but that's no guarantee the god dam police wont show up. Obviously if they touch you at all bets are off. It's this kind of **** that gets to me. If it weren't for the law I would love to just beat the **** out these people send them to the hospital with lifelong aliments.

My ex husband and I are still friends even though we are divorced. We talk on the phone occasionally and email occasionally. I am happy that he has a girlfriend and is getting on with his life. I am also friends with his mom and dad. They called me recently and told me they thought his current girlfriend was only interested in his money. They had talked to him about their concerns and he ignored their problems with his girlfriend. They asked me to warn him that his girlfriend was only interested in his money. I declined to do that and told them that who he dates is none of my business. His girlfriend may or may not be after his money. I don't know and I don't want to know. They are unhappy with me for not warning him that his girlfriend is a gold digger. Did I do the right thing by not getting involved in this?

I have a huge crush on a guy, the only one I've had a crush on since ever (I'm really picky I know), now we're friends I could say.. He's tall, blond, blue eyed, has beautiful features, he comes from ukraine and always looks serious and tough. He doesnt talk that much. Anyway everytime he's around I stare at him, every single thing of him he's so handsome.. one day I managed to talk to him with an excuse on the bus (asked for directions) when suddenly the bus stops. I fell over him and he grabbed me. That was the best moment ever. Or when I hurt my knee on an iron piece on the street and he treated my wound and stopped the blood. Another time when I was sick (I had fever and I was shaking because I was cold) he covered me with a blanket and tried to warm me up while hugging me and told me to go to bed. Then he saw I was still freezing off and he kept on warming me with his body and then he came to the bed too and I slept in his arms. When I woke up I saw him sleeping I thought he was the most gorgeous person on earth. When he woke up he was awkward, he blushed when I looked into his eyes, he asked how I was, and was embarassed so he wanted to get out of the bed. I told him not to go because that was the best moment ever. And he said: but I have to, I cannot stay here. I told him that staying with him was like perfection and he blushed and said, you liar! So I put my head on his chest and he let me and caressed my hair. I love him so much. But why do I look at him as my guardian angel? Sometimes I feel like hes too much perfection in this s*** life, the only one who cpuld light up my life.

He acts like he's so much smarter than me. I have almost all B's and a few A's. It's the other way around for him. I take my classes online and he goes to a regular high school and he acts like that makes a huge difference when you want to get into a good college. He says "Colleges aren't going to be looking for homeschoolers" and I said "It literally makes no difference. They aren't going to care as long as you get good grades. They'll also be looking for people who have common sense, which is something you lack". He thinks he's going to become a neurosurgeon and make millions right off the bat and I told him it doesn't work like that. All he can say is "what do you know about it? You're homeschooled." He tries to use it as an insult and I just think it makes him look stupid. He's told me multiple times he's going to beat my a$$, and I say "do it, coward" and he just doesn't say anything. He may be bigger than me, but he can not fight. My other friend who is smaller than me landed one clean headshot on him and he forfeited from the fight. My "friend" (the jerk I've been talking about) can never admit when he's wrong and thinks that if one idiot sides with him, then he's right no matter what. And then I tell him to look it up and he'll look at one word that could maybe tell him he's right and he uses that. He doesn't even bother to read the whole article, but I do and then me and my other friends just laugh at him and how wrong he is. Should I quit hanging out with him?

My best friend ever moved last year - and it broke me. We're still in the same city, but we don't really see each other that often. She's changed a little (her new friends are influencing her - and it's bad) even her mom says she regrets moving her. ANYWAYS, we still talk daily, we send each other snaps all the time, etc. BUT, she keeps posting to her story convos between her and her nEw FrIeNdS, she calls them "mom" and "twin" and that hurt me because it used to be OUR THING before she moved. I keep getting jealous of the things she does with them and also really, really hurt when what used to be ours is now shared with them. She isn't just my best friend; she's the truest friend I've ever had, my twin, my soulmate in a friend kind of way, you know? I don't want to tell her that I'm scared that ... I might be replaced. Just the thought of it makes me cry. I know it's all probably just in my head and she's super supportive but I can't help but be jealous! Yeah, I guess this is what it's about ,,, I don't know. I'm not jealous of her having friends, I'm jealous of them! I love her so much and feel like I don't want to share her with anyone. God, this is weird. Help! Okay I'm being ridiculous - her attitude's changed a lot lately and it's annoying. Forget that "other friends" stuff. she deserves to be happy but its no excuse to ignore me!

My parents don't want me to sit on my *** for all summer so they're sending me to work for one of their friends' restaurant which is in a different country, and in a small town by the sea. Being near the sea doesn't bother me, but I am worried I'll just be bored out of my mind, since I don't know anyone there and there is probably nothing else to do... Also I have a cultural difference with that place, and I am generally very introverted. Anyone been in a similar situation?

ME:Do you want to be friends with benefits? HIM:I wish you would've given me your number years ago. How do you feel about being with me and another girl? ME:Wow. I was thinking that maybe we might hookup but I guess not lol. HIM:2 years ago I would've loved to ME:I understand. HIM:the lady likes ladies though ME:Nevermind me saying anything I was out of line anyway. I thought you were single and was just looking for some fun. HIM:I was ME:Ok I just always thought you were sexy. I don't know what I was thinking lol. It's crazy but I apologize. HIM:Don't I was always into you too ME:Well we can still be friends. HIM:good ME:I'm thinking about going back to massage school part time I really miss it. HIM:I'll still be your study buddy ME: It's just that a threesome is a little much for me. I've never really been sexually involved with a guy. HIM:but you've been with girls, so how bout being involved with the girl while I sit back and watch? ME:I've never been with a woman either. HIM:oh so you're a gem, then? Like I said, I wish I got your number years ago. we could've been having such fun ME:I wish you hadn't of waited so long to ask for my number. I feel like I missed out lol. ME:Can we still hangout? HIM:you were always with your family I feel like I never had you alone and I thought you were too young absolutely. I have to go now though. I'll ttyl *I know he has a girlfriend you don't need to tell me that*

ME:Do you want to be friends with benefits? HIM:I wish you would've given me your number years ago. How do you feel about being with me and another girl? ME:Wow. I was thinking that maybe we might hookup but I guess not lol. HIM:2 years ago I would've loved to ME:I understand. HIM:the lady likes ladies though ME:Nevermind me saying anything I was out of line anyway. I thought you were single and was just looking for some fun. HIM:I was ME:Ok I just always thought you were sexy. I don't know what I was thinking lol. It's crazy but I apologize. HIM:Don't I was always into you too ME:Well we can still be friends. HIM:good ME:I'm thinking about going back to massage school part time I really miss it. HIM:I'll still be your study buddy ME: It's just that a threesome is a little much for me. I've never really been sexually involved with a guy. HIM:but you've been with girls, so how bout being involved with the girl while I sit back and watch? ME:I've never been with a woman either. HIM:oh so you're a gem, then? Like I said, I wish I got your number years ago. we could've been having such fun ME:I wish you hadn't of waited so long to ask for my number. I feel like I missed out lol. ME:Can we still hangout? HIM:you were always with your family I feel like I never had you alone and I thought you were too young absolutely. I have to go now though. I'll ttyl

ME:Do you want to be friends with benefits? HIM:I wish you would've given me your number years ago. How do you feel about being with me and another girl? ME:Wow. I was thinking that maybe we might hookup but I guess not lol. HIM:2 years ago I would've loved to ME:I understand. HIM:the lady likes ladies though ME:Nevermind me saying anything I was out of line anyway. I thought you were single and was just looking for some fun. HIM:I was ME:Ok I just always thought you were sexy. I don't know what I was thinking lol. It's crazy but I apologize. HIM:Don't I was always into you too ME:Well we can still be friends. HIM:good ME:I'm thinking about going back to massage school part time I really miss it. HIM:I'll still be your study buddy ME: It's just that a threesome is a little much for me. I've never really been sexually involved with a guy. HIM:but you've been with girls, so how bout being involved with the girl while I sit back and watch? ME:I've never been with a woman either. HIM:oh so you're a gem, then? Like I said, I wish I got your number years ago. we could've been having such fun ME:I wish you hadn't of waited so long to ask for my number. I feel like I missed out lol. ME:Can we still hangout? HIM:you were always with your family I feel like I never had you alone and I thought you were too young absolutely. I have to go now though. I'll ttyl

I won't and can't explain but it really bugging me. That try not to care afterwards or get angry but there actions show. I do ignore them so much I could be smaller but why do they always do this to me it's like I'm always small or something. But it really Effin pissing me off. I don't inside if this is the way how they wanna be or and I mean who do they take me as I am I mean this is a joke wtf but I really need to know why tf r they doing this to me it making me really so mad and really bothers me it just not right. So long story short but what going on???? Wtf is going on ???? I can't do anything and I feel completely I don't know. I fuc ken hate them and would do anything. Wth ... Help

When people move long distance, especially out of state, that is when all friendships die immediately. Friendships may stand the test of time, job changes, and graduation, but no friendship can ever stand the test of a long distance move. Literally, you might try and plan a get together with that friend for lunch, but months turn into years, and years into decades, without ever a get together. You watch as 20 years pass, then 30 years, then 40, then 50, then 60, and so forth. And still no get together or even a possibility of one. It's exactly like that friend passed away the day he/she moved long distance. The distance is far too great and the cost of travelling that distance is totally prohibitive. So why do friends still say they'll see each other again when they move long distance?

Ok, so this past weekend, I partied/went to the bars. So at a bar, I was kinda lit, and I was trying to help my friend who was about to get us kicked out, and I was also just trying to take a pic of the bar(not my friend of course), to just add the my snap story nothing, weird. I'm not used to the new format, and I accidentally sent it in a group to some of my contacts. Embarassing, I know. They all left it I'm sure, and I just blocked them, because Ii'm really embarassed. The snap wasn't anything weird just a drink with the title of the bar, but am I overreacting. I'm sure they knew it was an accident and that I was just a little lit lol. I feel like living in a cave now.

I have always been a loner. Is this bad or good. I like being by myself but sometimes I wish I did have a BFF. Ive always had trouble making or keeping friends. Whenever I do have a really good friend it's always me making efforts to keep the friendship that's why I don't really have much friends. Anyways is it a good or bad thing to be a loner

Hi so I have this friend who I have been friends with for 4 years now and we have since graduated high school. Ever since then we have been drifting apart. I try to keep the friendship alive and try to hang out but he's usually busy. Its always me reaching out tho. We haven't seen each other in months now and he's made new friends. Should I keep forcing the friendship or just move on?

My best friend gets mad at me for the smallest things I've noticed and I'm getting sick of it. We're grown up now and it seems completely pointless since we have our own lives and we don't spend time with eachother daily. I'm a good friend and really loyal but I also let my friends have their lives and don't expect them to tell me everything they do. She got mad because I kept telling her I had work stuff to do and I couldn't hang out with her that week but I could the coming week. We spoke a couple weeks later and she explained how she was upset that I kept using the same excuse to not see her and I must have been doing something else to avoid her and I wasn't telling her the truth so she decided to not communicate with me for a while. This sounds bizarre to me because I was busy doing work and yes other things but why do I have to explain every detail to her for her to not get mad at me. Can she not accept that maybe I had other things to do not worth mentioning and we could both decide on a time we were free? She's getting really irritating and I feel like I'm wasting my time asking her "are you mad" and "why"... i mean I let her have her space and whenever we can agree on a time to visit we can. Otherwise we text and talk on the phone. Am I in the wrong here? I don't get it Generally she's a nice person and caring and funny bit this thing about her bothers me. I also can't tell her it does because she'll disagree and say well that's how I felt and I was upset.

I talked to this girl in school and a flirtationship kind've developed and it seems something developed. Well we went into a period of seperation, going to another education. Well I have a post announcing a death in my family it's public on Facebook. Herself and her mom like the picture and comment on it. Well I see her and she stares into my eyes and gives me a funny look, I felt funny so I look away and she doesn't stop staring after. Well after that her and her mom unlike the post but keep the comment. Why would they do that a year after.

So I have always had commitment issues in relationships. It may be because I can feel sorta feel bored after a bit... I don't know why, but in the beginning I always feel "Oh this'll work!" Then not even two weeks later I lose feeling for the person and never know how to break up with them, because I feel so selfish to do so. I honestly feel like it's because at times I feel so lonely and need someone to connect with so I go out and try to find people to date who seem perfect at first but then later on they can be way too clingy, and or we lose stuff to talk about. Well, I've managed the breakups with the other ones but this one is a little more difficult because I genuinely care for them, I just want to be single and not worry about making them feel jealous or them to think I don't care for them when I go with friends. This person I have told multiple times "I will always be with you" "I will never leave you!" "You're perfect" etc, etc. What makes it worse is they have severe depression and have attempted suicide in the past because they didn't think anyone cared for them so I'm worried I could push them off the edge by breaking up with them. They've also told me that I was the only person they've had treat them this well because I actually listen to what they say and comfort them I'm not one to cry, but this has me teary eyed and sick to my stomach... I don't know what to do! Sorry the sentences aren't fluent my thoughts are racing right now.

If I Snapchat person A more than person B but person A isn't an added friend, who will be my #1 best friend?

About a week ago, two of my friends got into a HUGE argument. Let's call the three main people Belle, Peter, and Diana. Basically, Belle and Peter are BFFs and she is friends with Diana. For the past month, Diana and Peter have been dating and Belle only recently found out. She overreacted, and now my friends are taking sides while I try to remain neutral, but things are only getting worse. What should I do?

They don't get along at all, they just really don't click. A few minutes ago, I texted him all friendly and then after awhile he said he was mad at me. I'm like WHAT THE **** WHAT DID I DO. Then, he explained. So, what do I do dkskdkskfk

Ok, so this past weekend, I partied/went to the bars. So at a bar, I was kinda lit, and I was trying to help my friend who was about to get us kicked out, and I was also just trying to take a pic of the bar(not my friend of course), to just add the my snap story nothing, weird. I'm not used to the new format, and I accidentally sent it in a group to some of my contacts. Embarassing, I know. They all left it I'm sure, and I just blocked them, because Ii'm really embarassed. The snap wasn't anything weird just a drink with the title of the bar, but am I overreacting. I'm sure they knew it was an accident and that I was just a little lit lol. I feel like living in a cave now.

So I am really close with these two sisters, their names are Emily and Laci. Laci and I are both seniors, and she turned 18 in Oct while I turned 18 last Sep. Emily is a Junior and she turned 17 last Jan. I went over to their house today and we all hung out in Laci's room until like 6 30 where Emily went into her room to work on a school project. My mom picked me up at 7 45 and since she was in her room I forgot to tell her goodbye and she's super mad. How to apologize to her tomorrow?

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I always smile and laugh whenever I look at my friends approach me to greet and chat with me! even if something sad has happened to me!! My mother once confiscated my belongings as a grounded discipline option because of my bad habits of (lewd images of people in my cell phone), it does not matter anymore, yet the very next day I smile and enjoy my time with my friends no matter what. I almost pissed my pants when my friend did a so dangerous act during school time, but when I come back home, I let my emotions take the wheel? Is it fine to feel happy with friends but down with the parents?

I talked to this girl in school and a flirtationship kind've developed and it seems something developed. Well we went into a period of seperation, going to another education. Well I have a post announcing a death in my family it's public on Facebook. Herself and her mom like the picture and comment on it. Well I see her and she stares deeply into my eyes and gives me a funny look, I felt funny so I look away and she doesn't stop staring after. Well after that her and her mom unlike the post and I see her months later she acts real weird.