My parents are going through divorce this month, mainly because of my father but it seems like my mom is the one who's emotionally unstable at this point. She feels guilty and sorry that divorce is going to affect her children. Honestly with me being old enough and being emotionally detached (in a good way) I'm really fine. But I just can't seem to think of words to say to her that's going to make her feel less guilty and reassured. What do you guys think is the best thing to tell her at this point? Thanks for your help in advance

because his wife is always too sick, tired, moody, etc to do it with him?

I wanted to get married settle down and have kids but he said he wasn't ready yet and wanted another 5 years I'm 25 this year hes almost 30. He wanted to play around enjoy bachelor life for another 5 years until he was 35 before marrying me settling down and having kids. we have already been together for 3 years -_- ' I told him I'm not waiting another 5 years for a serious marriage commitment I told him straight up if you don't propose by our next anniversary it's over i'm leaving to find someone who will marry me and want to commit to me anyways I told him that I've already given him 3 good years of my life and if he wants the rest of it he better put a ring on it or I'm going to leave and find someone else who will So he did propose the next week he bought a ring, its beautiful got down on one knee and everything and he said "You win i give I love you i don't want to lose you so I'll do it I'll marry you ok will you marry me and be my wife " those were his exact words I am so happy i got what i wanted but i feel bad because i think i forced pressured my fiance into it should i feel bad ? It feels like I rushed our relationship and rushed and pressured him into it but he gave me no choice , if i didn't do it he would have just lazed around for the next 5 years or so not taking our relationship seriously and would not have proposed .

Your ugly wife/hisband I mean

she ended up pregnant. He chose me and left her while she was pregnant (because I said it was a constant reminder and told her he wouldn't be involved so he didn't..) and didnt have anything to do with her or their daughter Except paying child support. But now he has started seeing her but only started seeing her when she was two because he said he was choosing me over her because it was a hard situation. He tells me he doesn't care about her anymore, but she's more settled as far as a career and that's the mother of his child and now she's around more because he decided to have a relationship with his daughter...so I'm concerned he will start getting feelings for her again. He says their affair was just a one time thing but I'm obviously insecure about it. Does he love me more than her? Or do you think he's still with me because he feels trapped and guilty because I have cancer and am sick he is my sole provider since I don't work and am sick so if he was to leave I wouldn't have anything or anyone do part of me wonders if it is out of pity :(

I moved into a nice condo in Salt Lake City for law school. I met my beautiful neighbor and she was so nice she invited me over for dinner amd we had salad and lasagna. We knew eachother from BYU and youth activities as kids. I texted a friend about her and he told me she's married. So fast forward a few days later and she brought over milk and cookies and sat on the couch with me barefoot and sat on my lap seductively. I told her the only reason I slept with her the other night was because I thought she was single. She began to cry and told me about her failing marriage and then kissed me she said she doesn't love her marriage and that her marriage has been over the moment the wedding ended. She told me that her marriage is abusive, sexless amd she feels trapped. When I got this condo I didn't know she was my neighbor. Well we've been seeing eachother secretly for 6 months and she even bought me a Rolex watch and told me that it was for her kind lover. When I had to have surgery on my leg after it was broken a buddy of mine told me that her husband was suspicious of us when his wife found out that I was hurt and left the room and started crying in the bathroom,. I'm not sure what to do... her husband is always working and she even took me to her parents place and introduced me as her special friend and her mom said it was a pleasure to meet me. i love her but I'm not sure if she's leading me on. She said she wants to be together but that we need to wait

I think my husband may be black,I myself am colorblind and can only see greys and whites and some reds and yellows,I cant make out if my husband is black. Ive never heard him say any typical "black" slang or do anything "black" but I cant help but think he is. And no,I cant ask him,because we have been married for 7years and Im ashamed that I dont know his skin color. How can I find out if he is black?

Do you think an entire generation of young men growing up witnessing seeing their parents divorce and seeing the men in their lives go through the horrors of divorce hearing reading about the high divorce rate and seeing divorce horror stories in the news and internet media where the man lost everything in divorce and family court to the woman he married has that caused an entire generation of men to become afraid of getting married scarred from forming committed relationships with the opposite sex and shun marriage wife and children ?

she ended up pregnant. He chose me and doesn't have much to do with her or their daughter Except paying child support and occasionally sees her. He tells me he doesn't care about her anymore, but she's more settled as far as a career and that's the mother of his child. He says their affair was just a one time thing but I'm obviously insecure about it. Does he love me more than her? Or do you think he's still with me because he feels trapped and guilty.

For those living together with children , what is your wife responsible for paying ? Does she pay half the rent ? Nothing ? Utilities? And why ?

9 months ago my partner cheated on me with another woman, he told me this straight away, however I recently discovered that his cheating resulted in this other woman getting pregnant. He says he didn't know she was pregnant, until recently when she turned up on our doorstep with the baby, then just an hour later walking out the door without our knowledge (we were in the kitchen making tea when we heard the door slam shut and the baby starting to cry) leaving her baby behind and I'm inclined to believe him but he wants me to raise the child as our own. I love my partner I truly do, but a little over a year ago I was told I was unable to have children and we tried for almost a year, in which time I had 2 miscarriages. I know to many it may seem that I'm being insensitive but I don't know if I have the strength to raise a child my partner had with someone else, who wasn't me. Knowing I could never give him a child and how distort I am/was about it so my question is what would you do? because I don't know what I should do

A woman had her third baby via c-section and a tubal ligation. The baby is now 4 months old, and the other two children are 3 and 4. Both the woman and her husband work FT jobs. Thru the pregnancy, everything was fine. The couple was happy. Then the woman s father comes on an expense paid visit to be there to help while the woman goes to have the baby. Grandpa leaves only after 2 weeks, and chaos ensues. The woman is finally able to rest and recover, but has only a month before she returns to work. Fast forward to now, she wishes for her single life back. She can t make it thru a day without at least 2 cups of coffee. She s stopped going to church, only wants to order in every day, and is leaving earlier and coming home later from work (which she says is due to traffic). She says she s fine, but no one questions or looks beyond the surface.

Been living with the in-laws for a month now with my husband. We are both 25 and are in college. We both have full-time jobs. But we moved in when our ceiling collapsed on us. Me and my mother-in-Law get along perfect. However, our initial plan was to stay two weeks while we looked for a new place. I found one, and we got our security deposit together. Before we could sign our lease, his mom sat us down and told us she loves having us with her and wants us to stay until we are done with college. She said she never wanted her son to move out, but understood he wanted to get married. She said we were free to come and go as we please ect. I explained to her that love my independence. I like to walk around Naked. I like to sing loud And I love intimacy with my husband. But my husband wants to stay just for 4 more months while he says up money. He offered to rent the room from my MIL, and is paying 350 a month for the room we share and buys groceries for the house ect. However, I just want my own place. Sex is not the same, my in-laws open the door in the middle of of and we are trying to conceive a child. I'm willing to pay for my independence and don't believe in living with parents. However, my husband loves being back home and my mother-in-Law cried and said she missed having him home. How do i tell them it's time to go without being the bad guy? I found a place I love, it's close to home, and it's affordable. The landlord is nice, and has approved me for the place.

It is kind of obvious that she is begenning to feel the same even thou neither of us have brought it up or talked about it to eachother. Any advice.

He's tall, tan, handsome face with jet black hair that's perfectly combed and his body is amazing. You can see he's muscles through his shirt. He sometimes throughs a football around with his friends in his front yard shirtless which is a sight to see He's our neighbor and I'm too shy to make a move on him let alone say hello. What do I do? My husband is fat and much older and isn't or wasn't ever as studly as this young man is. Don't get me wrong he makes great money and Is an amazing provider but leaves a lot to be desired physical wise.

I always feel whenever I am around someone , ANYONE that I feel compelled to talk , say things, act certain ways, not do certain things, etc that keep me from thinking on a more profound level. how this would be any different if in a relationship with someone like marriage, or sexual partner? I mean, after the sex, a little conversation, it really takes TIME to get to know someone deeply,,so this person you have married maybe after 5 years (let us say)...you are still uncomfortable around them and 'putting on an act ' still 95 % of the time,,, still thinking if you made a mistake and them doing same with you? I feel whenever I am living alone, am alone, THAT is when I can think about things deeply and study and etc. otherwise I am just on 'auto -act' mode ....trying to put on the act....say the normal things, do the normal things, keeps me thinking on a superficial or self conscious mode? is that better term for it?

...by others? I even atarted wearing mostly just long flowy skirts. I want a traditional marriage like in the 50s with mom at home and dad working. I dress modest and cover up. So I don't get why men just don't have any interest in me. I see men talking to and acting desperate to women for sex though so I know theyre not "intimidated" by me... Cause men go after what they want. I'm not a nasty or rude person. There would be no reason for a man to be acares to even find out about me by talking to me casually