He proposed in October 2016 and I won't lie, I talked about wanting to marry him a lot! and a month later I found out we were having a baby! She was born in July 2017. We are very happy with our little family and we have paid our deposits for the weddingon August 30th 2018! A few days ago he said he's been thinking about it for a while and he doesn't think he wants to get married anymore. He says he doesn't want to be controlled by the courts if something happened between us? He sees how upset I am and is now saying he doesn't want to talk about it and we will rediscuss it in April, before all the final payments have to be made. The invites have already been sent I know I can't force him to marry me but I want to be married. We love each other deeply and have a beautiful baby girl and we want her to have both parents as she grows up. So any advise on what to do now? Anyone been through a similar situation?