I have never been married before, so I don t know what marriage is like. All I have done is date several women. I sometimes want to move in with my girlfriend, but people tell me that living with someone is way different than just dating. How is it different? How is it similar?

I hate saying that it sounds Horish? But how does an independent woman explain to older men that it's just casual? Without causing problems?

My husband has never been there for me emotionally. A year ago I was severely ill for over a week, I could barely get out of bed, turned out my appendix ruptured and I was in the hospital for almost 2 weeks due to so much infection. He rarely visited, promised to call and I'd wait by the phone for his calls. Had someone tell me he was trying to sleep with someone else while I was in the hospital. After I was released I couldn't drive. My husband left me home alone with our 3 kids a lot and ran around. He took my pain medication and was trying to exchange it for sexual favors. Ever since then our relationship hasn't been the same. I keep questioning where I stand.

I have been having lots of issues with my wife lately. She has in the past 4 months consecutively calling me ugly, liar, pathetic, bad father, gross, a bully, she hoped I failed at work, get fired, lose our money, truck and van, go bankrupt, she has threatened to divorce me, take my kids, she has told me that she will marry another man and let him father my kids. But, I will admit, my defensive actions have been poor and when she pushes and pushes and pushes, I usually have reacted with cussing and calling her names. I felt really bad for do so, so I apologized, and then she just made fun of me. She likes to put her fingers in her head to resemble the devils horns and she mocks me. She constantly tells me she doesn't care about the finances or how the house looks. I have been coming home to a messy house every day after work, I don't say a word to her about it anymore. I clean, vacuum, wash dishes, clean the toilet,the bathtub, the counters, the mirrors, literally everything. Only for her to allow the kids to destroy it the next day. Now, she wants me to talk to a Christian evangelist and get help. I told her I would because I'm not afraid to get help if I need it" not afraid to get corrected if I'm wrong, not afraid of self improvement. I know from experience that he will most likely tell me not to worry about her, focus on myself, seek god for help, pray, and ignore her faults. But how does this not affect someone, how could someone ignore these thing

She is 5'8" and I am 5'11", when she wears even thick flip flops she is almost as tall as me. She bought some shoes with a really big high heel for a party we are going to next week. I was thinking of buying a few Dr. Schools inserts or gel pads and putting them in my shoes to get a couple of inches. I was thinking she might not even notice because her shoes have a 5 inch heel that will put her over 6 feet tall. Would a wife notice?

A little background: Hubby and I have been together since college and both nearing 40 now. A few years ago while using his phone to lookup something online I found an app on his phone that said Grindr and when I looked it up I found out it's a site for gay people to hook up and I guess date. When I confronted him about it and asked if he is gay, he said no but admitted he is bicurious and possibly bisexual and swore he never cheated. So we moved past it and he agreed to delete the app and I thought we worked it out. Well fast forward to yesterday. He has a very annoying habit of letting his 5:00 a.m. alarm on his phone go off every single morning and hitting snooze for an hour or two before finally getting up for work. It's very annoying and wakes me up even on weekends and he always says he will set it later but forgets. So after having to deal with this for the millionth time yesterday, while he was in the shower, I went to delete the alarm myself and while searching for it, I see the Grindr app is there! This is a new phone he has so its not like he just forgot to delete it from the old one. Now I'm stumped. I have not confronted him again because I guess I shouldn't have even been in his phone without permission but I can honestly say I was not looking to snoop I was just trying to turn that annoying alarm off and found much more. What should I do? Do I confront him or do I let him explore this side of himself that he can't stay away from? I'm so confused.

My ex was ordered not to be near my job or my bf job and today I saw him passing by while visiting my bf at work.i got a restraining but lost it because I did not afford a lawyer, is he doing his because he know he can get away with it .. I know I should not be paying attention but in the past when separated he would show up at my job and stalk me . It's hard because we still are in same neighborhood but why pass by that specific area ? It's making me have bad ptsd and I can't stop thinking why

My wife and I have been together for 5 years so far. We have two kids together living in the same place. However, her sex drive has changed after our first child. She s been looking for the reason but she cannot find it as she replied and she wanted to change that. We both have been treating each other perfectly as a wife and husband suppose to be. We are happy with our kids and our relationship is moving forward. As many time she s in the mood for sex then I start touching her and try to make love to her, then her whole emotions went off. She lost all sex feeling and start saying don t touch me. No matter what I do. She just don t want to interact with nothing at all. Now, she complaining every day what can she does to change that. And she doesn t think she love me the way I do, and don t want to lose me and she still treat me good like a husband and wife supposed to be, it just the sex is still struggling... My sex feeling stay the same but hers change when we come together . Can you give us your best advice what can we do with this sex problem??

My birthday was the 1st of feb. I had a small get together at a restaurant because I was having some major surgery on the 2nd of feb. Basically no one showed up because everyone was too busy to come. A week after my surgery I developed multiple pulmonary embolisms due to this surgery. Ib as hospitalised this friday. My sister in law had a party for her son that had his birthday that saturday. My husband and all my friends and family went to this party and had the time of their lives...while I was in hospital waiting on the results of the ct scans to find out if there was any permanent damage...while no one even came to my party at the restaurant.

Could they start a family and have kids? Would the age difference cause any problems if they really love each other?

Hello, i just opened my yahoo account with the intention to ask this question. I have my husband who is a good husband, and we have 7 years married and 2 years of relationship which makes a total of 9 years together,at the begin of our relationship she hated me and did things to me to make me feel bad,like, comments,bad looks etc,but my husband gave me my place,so she changed,and now we have like 2 years in peace ,harmony and love,at least for my very sincere intentions. Now,what is really brothering me is that he always tries to excuse other people over me.Here goes the question, what you guys would think if you mother in law try you with love and nicely but when you tell her nice thinks on facebook she ignores you and respond others thanking them for the comments,but ignore yours most of the time,moreover, if you have told her how bad other person which is not her friend has been with you and you have shared with her some bad experience that you have had with that person, and you mother in law reply to the comments that that bad person made to her just thanking her,and do not respond to yours,,but in real life she trieds you with "love".I dont understaend,i feel she is not beign true with me,and my husband thinks that i am exaggerating,but i dont know my inner sence tells me that she is not my sincere friend,,what you guys think is the right answer??? My husband is also going to read the comment

What are the disadvantages or unfavorable circumstances for women and men married to their co-workers from their work? I will pick the best answer.

So I have been married for 5 months now and I recently found out my husband has been giving another woman money.She messaged me and told me about it. At first I didn't believe her, then she started sending screenshots. When I confronted him at first, he lied. Then he finally confessed that he has been giving her money for months because she needed money for "gas and food". Mind you they have had sex in the past before we met and he also sent her naughty messages. He says that the messages were photoshopped but I don't believe it. He even said in one of the text messages thst he would divorce me if they start dating. He swears that they haven't had sex recently but I don't know that since he is always working out of town.

He won't and we are infertile. He says he doesn't want to have someone else's kid but I keep telling him adopt means he or she will be our kid.

My husband and I moved into a new development... One of the maintenance guys (who is also married and only lives 5 units away from us) only seems to talk to me when my husband isn't around... My husband even noticed, and I get the impression it makes him a little jealous. Over the past month or so, I have bumped into this guy three times now, all of which he seems to kind of go out of his way to chat with me as I'm walking my dog. I believe his wife is disabled, and doesn't leave the house often. Is he flirting with me or just being friendly? Is it because he's sincerely interested or maybe just lonely? I have to admit that I do get a vibe there may be a mutual attraction between us, but could I be imagining this??????? Also, I am happily married and love my husband and still find him sexy, we still enjoy each others company, make each other laugh, etc., but I can't stop thinking about this guy, and I look forward to these random encounters we have had so far. Could I be sensing something happening between us or am I completely out-of-touch with reality? Also, why am I so interested in this guy? I don't understand what is going on and need some guidance!