I grew up in a single parent household. And my parents were divorced pretty much the whole time I can remember. But every other house I went to of friends and family who were married. Didn't put their kids first. And they were married for a long time. As a child it meant much more to me to see two loving parents than my own needs. And it was to my friends too. They felt a better of security and comfort knowing they always had a home and no matter what they always had two loving parents. I'm not sure why a lot of people need to feel like saying "my kids come first" should be said so loud as to throw it in the others person face. Usually its single women or women who aren't married.

My wife has been very emotional lately. Last night she cried herself to sleep. I ask her what's wrong she said nothing. She's not pregnant or on her period. What's wrong with her ? How can I comfort her ?

Guys never have nice things to do or say to me or I get ignored. maybe it's cause unlike some girls I don't go around touching and flirting with all the guys. I remember those types of women in school. All the guys wanted to flirt with her and she would do splits in front of the guys for attention and flirt with all guys for attention.

So my husband always has his phone on him even when he takes a shower.. this makes me think he is having an affair. And I have even confronted him of this behavior he tells me he has nothing to hide but I think otherwise.. sometimes I go through his phone when he's asleep but I find nothing!! What should I do to see if he is messing around or not..

So long story short my husband cheated 2 years ago and we have 2 kids together.. 2 weeks after I got back with him he told me the girl he used to be with is supposedly pregnant and I felt betrayed again because he never told me before getting back together. Now I'm somewhat happy in this relationship but feel like I will never heal from this because one thing is he cheated and a whole different story is that he might of gotten her pregnant.. Sometimes I feel alone even if I'm with him in this relationship. Whenever he goes out to his friends house I feel like he goes to the girls house even though he told me it was over for good. And he tells me he made a huge mistake and that he will not do it again but it's hard to trust someone that did that I am currently finishing my college education and he thinks I might leave him after I get my career.. What to do you recommend I do I feel like I still love him but sometimes I wish I was single because he doesn't enjoy some hobbies I like

I'm a white American marrying a Jordanian woman in the near future(yes I am a revert). We're both in college right now, and I'm getting increasingly concerned about the costs of the marriage. I save money and have financial aid, but I was hoping I'd be able to graduate with a few thousand saved to get our household put together, and from what I've read about these Arab weddings I'd be heavily in debt for years if not decades after. Any advise?

I think in my opinion it's pathetic cause that's your husbands mom . ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

Okay so I actually over heard my boss asking my co-worker what her and her bf are doing for Valentine's Day . She replied going out for dinner , then ..she asked my boss what he was doing he's like nothing yet , then he started to talk about his wife and was like she's retarded and he told her a story about what happened I'm not too sure I wasn't really listening to everything like the details but my co-worker was like but thats your mom so I'm guessing she got mad at my boss for listening to his mom . She said that's dumb my co-worker said, she gets jealous and she was probably just upset and my boss said idk . I mean he was and sounded like he was kinda of complaining in a way . ☆ Sent from iOS Dr. Know! 1.1.04

Bake him a pie. Even though he gave you jack sh*t. WHY? Because you're the bigger person, that's why :) and save your marriage instead of getting mad and ruining it for life. We all need to take a step back and ask ourselves why are we so obsessed with material things, yes it is a marriage worth saving because materialistic things mean nothing, it should define a marriage or relationship. Amen. Not*

Daily expenses like home rent mobile bill, Electric Bill and saving her money to purchase home. she delete my brother's number from my mobile and not letting me talk to my brother, if she find that i am talking with my brother then she fights with me like hell and shout so all neighbor listen and definitely they feel that boy is giving hard time to her wife, and she also not letting me use my money to buy my stuff,now she says i will invest in 401K and you dont have to invest in 401K, when i talk to her family her family members always take her side, if i talk about her to her family, then she fights like hell with me. my green card is about to expire within 7 month cause its conditional green card, and we are going to apply in next month for renewal process and remove conditions. what should i do?

Okay so my husband says that I am too jealous because he came home talking about his friends girl had her boobs out and he told her if she was getting interviewed by a man she'd definitely get the job. I told him I didn't want to talk about some chicks breast and he said I'm too jealous and that we need space. Also he always leaves me with the kids anytime we go hangout with anyone or will go across the road to his friends for an hour while I'm stuck at home with two kids. I never get to go anywhere without them but he frequently hangs out with his friends alone

Over two months ago I found out my husband was having an affair with a coworker. On top of all this I am 4 months pregnant. I did take him back but only to both of us agree to work on our marriage. When he came back, he didn't care to go to counseling, didn't want to talk about the affair and wanted to move on like nothing happened. I knew myself that I wasn't going t be able to get over it so I told him I wanted to be separated. For two days now I have been asking him for divorce and he has been so mean to me saying I'm trying to break apart this family. Also saying He doesn't want the divorce and I'm horrible for wanting it before our child is born. But he was the one who cheated?? I just want to move on, and not have nothings linked with him but this child. Am I in the wrong?

About two weeks prior to Valentine's my husband asked me what I would like. I offered subtle suggestions such as helping me get my hair done, fixing my car, something thoughtful like a basket of things he thinks I would like/some of my favorite things..etc. Well I guess his idea of romantic is a dildo, *********, bondage, lingerie and other various stuff from fascinations that added up to almost $300! I was pretty thrown off at the gift since it seems like something that would make more sense us picking out together. I have a small vibrator but never mentioned wanting all this elaborate stuff from a sex shop, heck I would of been happy with flowers and him helping me fix my car I've mentioned numerous times, which would of been less. I don't want to hurt his feelings but this wasn't my idea of a romantic gesture. He also just told me he wants another baby within the same week so I'm not sure why he would spring all these sex toys on me... Any advice?

My husband and I are about post one year from his affair he had for 3 months with his old highschool flame (who then screwed him over the day I dumped him). He currently is gone for two weeks for work in south Florida, and I want to know if I'm obsessed and going extreme. These are the things I ask: -He facetimes me every morning, afternoon, and whenever I ask (which is another two times usually wherever he is that night) -At the end of his work day he shows me his hours, what time he punched in and what time he punched out. -He has to facetime when he gets to his room and show me his entire room that no one is there. -He has to keep facetime on all night so I know he's sleeping Even after all this I feel like he's doing something or hooking up with someone. He says he's not, for the most part he has been cooperating, but I freak out when he hangs up. I don't know how I can stop this....=(

My wife's mother threatens to kick me and her out all because my wife doesnt pick up much and has me do all the cleaning while she does little.. and she's sick and handicap.. im not and yet we get treated like this! I feel like moving back to new york city again.. should I?