My boyfriend and son do not get along . I see it from both sides my son is lazy and has a bad attitude but what 17 year old doesn't ? My boyfriend and I lived together for a year and I moved out because I couldn't stand the pulling me back and fourth . Not to mention I'm pregnant and my emotions are already a wreck . It's been a month since I left . My son is still lazy and I understand why my boyfriend gets aggravated . We came up with a plan for my son to stay in the apartment I'm in now and me to move back to his home . It's 100 mile drive . My son is getting his ged . he got a full time job and is testing now for the ged. I spend some nights here some nights with my boyfriend . My thing is my boyfriend is so possessive with me being only at his house . I try to explain I need to get him set up and I don't feel comfortable leaving him alone too much . I know he's 17 and I had moved out well before that . I also know he needs to start working on being responsible. But every time I come to my house it's hurry up and get back . The pressure is crazy . I'm already 8 months trying to juggle this situation with my 17 year old . He doesn't work ( my boyfriend ) and I know he's lonely but I have my own responsibilities also. I just spent four days with him and have been at my house for one . Just got off the phone with me and My boyfriend is like why don't you just have him take the ged by himself tomorrow and come back early. It's oike he doesn't care at all. Any suggestions ?

My wife wanted to be a stay at home mom, her dream not at all mine. After a few years of marriage she decided on her own, without even consulting me to quit work and focus on trying to have a baby. Her income was largely comparible to mine so our income was cut nearly in half. She blew through a large portion of our (mine really) savings to try all kinds of treatments even after she was told she was infertile and they probably wouldn't work. After that I told her she needed to start working again, there was obviously no reason for her to mope at home all day. But she claimed to be "too depressed". Not depressed enough to see a doctor just too much so to work. During this I met an amazing, beautiful, driven woman and we began seeing each other. We were both more focused on our work than each other but when she became pregnant that all changed. I want to be a dad. I want to raise a baby with this woman. But I don't know how to tell my wife. I threatened to leave her before and she threatened suicide. would it be best to consult a lawyer first?]

Ever since me&my husband had our first baby all we do is argue. Over the stupidest stuff too. I know it's me that has changed. I was very passive before & now since I've had our baby I feel like I can do anything... & I've also realized how controlling my husband is. I hate it. We were never on social media then he got a Twitter & Snapchat. Months later I got a Twitter, he tells me I'm on it too much & I should be spending time w him. He plays PS4 all the time, all the time. Then I get a Snapchat that I ONLY have family on and he tells me when he wants me to delete posts. The last post he told me to delete was of my baby talking, nothing scandalous or anything. He also is very sensitive. He will take shots at me and make fun of me all day long but if I were to say something to him he blows up. He brought up our babies 1st bday before breakfast the other day. I told him I wasn't excited yet & said I was more excited for breakfast. He said I shot down his convo that he was excited about. I told him I wasn't super excited about my babies bday because it's a lot to plan & because my mom & dad don't get along so I have to choose who's coming. But still he was mad at me. He constantly wants me to acknowledge his feelings but when I have them they don't matter. Im over him acting like this. I didn't realize the hardest part of having a baby was going to be dealing with my husband. These are legitimate feelings right? Or am I just being a *****? Any advice? No were not divorcing.

I was married for 6yrs to a man that couldn't have been any more opposite of me. We experienced alot of issues but at one point, I was willing to see beyond the differences to make US work. He is an amazing father. However, it seemed that we lacked communication, trust and intimacy. I could not get this man to make love to me. Communicating never got far. We would grow frustrated or he would agree to something he did not intend to actually commit to. As for trust-He often lied...mainly about other females and as naïve as it may sound-I do believe that he didnt cheat on me but doesnt change that he repeatedly lied about them. Our relationship became that of two roommates sharing the responsibility of raising two amazing children. Upon realizing what we had was not a partnership -I grew weary and after one last fight involving another woman (colleague), discreet text messages and his need to hide/delete messages, we split. Later on, we discussed putting the past behind us and continuing to try. The truth is that my children are my motivating factor in our trying as I am sure is the same for him. There is still love there and a part of me really wants to see us try and succeed but there is a nagging voice in my head that tells me that trying again is just prolonging the inevitable. Yet, I cannot help but feeling sad. Moving forward without him hurts. Has anyone else found themselves in this mess and if so, what did you do about it and how did it turn out?

My wife will not stop complaining about work. It's always something... She complains about everything from her boss to her coworkers to the clients. She often sends me text messages first thing in the morning when she has only been there for a few minutes complaining about something and often eludes to the fact that she is going to quit. These messages usually come just as I am finishing a long commute and trying to get my day stared at my own job. She has had several jobs in the seven years we have been together and it seems like this happens everywhere she goes. I don't particularly love my own job but I never talk about work when I leave the office at the end of the day. The way I look at it is I go to work to make money but it is not my life. My job has allowed us to by a home and has moved us up the ladder to the ranks of the middle class. I'm at the point where I don't even want to pick up my phone while driving home from work. Also, every time she leaves a job it sets us back financially. I am going crazy! I don't want to make it seem like I don't care but her constant " work drama" exhausts me more than my own job.

My husband halfways works and has put me in debt (I am disabled and lost my job last year after being hospitalized). I take care of the kids and he is working now but we have no money in the bank a lot of the time due to him not working (I kick him out all the time and he wont leave and tries to kick me out of the home my family paid cash for). My gas light came on last night and I almost ran out of gas @night in a rough part of town. My debit card is missing and I asked him for his so that I could get gas to take my oldest to school. He threw a hissy fit and said that any money is going towards his huge pickup so that he can get to work and that I can "sit at home and dont need gas". My mom got angry because she is tired of his behavior and she texted his parents to tell them what he was doing. Is this normal? He also uses the Bible to control me.

Im a 42 yo woman.. I'm VERY happily married for almost 20 years but CANNOT stop thinking of my new neighbor who I have developed a serious crush on over the past couple of months. I never noticed him until he stopped to talk to me a couple of times. I keep thinking this attraction will just go away, but it isn't. WHY am I feeling this way and how can I make it stop????

We've been married since August 2017. My birthday is coming up next month and I told my husband I want to spend it with him, friends and family. He's not happy about it because he wants me to spend it just with him. We talked about it and I explained to him my bday is not a romantic day like valentines. I want our friends and family to be included. But I still couldn't reason him and it continues to be an issue so much so that I'm not looking forward to the day anymore because I don't know what to do. He behaved this same way over Christmas and New Years and refused to include anyone else and we ended up spending both days on the sofa watching Netflix and sleeping while everyone else was out with their loved ones enjoying the festivities. I don't want my bday to be like that.