The friends I have right now are just not my type and sort of make me miserable. I really want to find a new group to sit with for lunch! I have a lot of friends, but I don't like any of THEIR friends, so I don't really sit with them at lunch. I tried sitting with some middle school friends but left after a few days because they sit with some really strange kids. I usually hang at the library with a friend, but after I asked where she sits for lunch she's stopped hanging out with me (probably because she doesn't want more people in her group.) I want to enjoy my high school years and go to prom and all that, but i don't even have a good group of friends, and this has been a problem for two years now (i'm a junior). Help??

I a friend got clingy and kept saying how you didn't consider him a friend and treated him as a back up friend, would you get mad if you really weren't?

My mom found out that I skipped class and she followed me around at school alll day. And when my friends offered me chips at lunch my mom interrupted her and said "No because her mommy is following her around at school" and my mom was giving my friends rude stares. My mom was waiting outside my class and when I went to go to bathroom my mom said "where do you think your going " and I said bathroom. And she said ok. And I came back to class to ask my friend if I can use a pad because I started my period and didn't have any. And I got one and went back out to bathroom and I told my mom and she said "give me the pad and go to class". I told her I was leaking through and she said "i don't care this is what you get for cutting class". I just took the pad and walked off because I was not dealing with that. And my mom has a little smirk on her face when she follows me around school. Is my mom legally aloud to follow me around school ? I don't think schools allow it ? And is my school counselor aloud to give my mom the address of a student that is not her child ? Because my counselor gave my boyfriends address to my mom and my mom put the address in her notes on her phone.

I'm a college guy - and I'm in a class where I'm friends with literally everyone. There's about 15 of us, and I don't have a single negative thought about any of them. During our lunch breaks, they'd all go to town. Normally, I'd join them. They'd want me there, they'd invite me. However, recently, I've found myself moving away from them and doing my own thing, eg, finishing off my coursework since I'm far behind. I could easily complete this at home, yet I choose not to..

I tried calling him, today and it says: "We're sorry. The number you have dialed has calling restrictions that have prevented the completion of your call" I don't see him very often anymore since I don't have a car, and I would have to walk to his place, in the cold. Months ago, he said he would have to delete my number since he claimed his "boothang" was crushing on me(she wasn't) over text. It seemed like a joke. Several times when me and his crush was talking, he claimed we were flirting, but he didn't seemed serious, and I very much assured that I wasn't, since I knew he liked this girl. So, there's a motive if he wanted to block me , but DOES that message mean that I'm blocked?

I feel like I'm forever a loner. Never had a gf and I'm 20 years old. I'm really set on my future career as a cop, im about to enlist into the airforce and I'll be away for a long time and there's one thing about that that's bothering me. This girl I've always had a crush on since the 4th grade goes to college near my house and I haven't talked to her in months and want to talk to her again. I really wanna spend the rest of my short life in this world being with her but idk about that because I told her I liked her in 9th grade but she didn't like me back. But now we are older and we are good friends. Every time we hang it's nothing but laughs good conversations & adventures. I'm starting to stress because this airforce thing is fast approaching and life is going by so fast and I feel so incomplete if she not by my side. I feel like I'll be at ease if I find out her answer if it's a yes or no. Btw the airforce thing isn't a guaranteed job so I could be disqualified in the future maybe you never know. But yeah man this chick is not like the other chicks. Everytime I'm with other girls She just on my mind and it's getting pretty tiresome. what should I do to not be a life long loner :(

I have been dating this guy for 8 months now. He just asked me to be his girlfriend 3 weeks ago. We talk on the phone every night, text all day, and hang out most of the weekend. Everything is good. Then today I found out from my friend with screenshots that he is on bumble. His main picture is a recent picture that isn't even on his Facebook account. He started dating me right when he moved to my city so he even has his caption on bumble "recently moved here, looking to explore!". There are no questions needed to ask because I know this is an active page. i just don't understand. He planned a huge Valentines Day event for me and everything. We had plans to go to a museum tomorrow night that he already got tickets for. His apartment is close to my work so I'm supposed to go to meet up with him at his apartment so we can go together. I REALLY like this guy. I thought he felt the same way. I feel SOSOOO hurt right now and i don't know what to do. I have it planned out that I would go to his apartment and break up with him tomorrow, but I can not even plan out how I'm going to say it without crying. Nonetheless, in front of him. Please help me.

I have this guy friend who I love dearly. He's a pretty reserved/laid back guy but when he gets drunk, it's a completely different story. I hung out with him and his girlfriend on New Year's Day. When he saw me, he wrapped me up in a big hug. I was sitting down at the bar and he came up behind me and kissed the side of my head. I was talking to a few other people and then he walked up next to me and put his hand on my butt. I moved his hand off of me and then he whispered in my ear "You are the most beautiful girl and if any guy ever tries to mess with you, it won't be good for them." He started getting in people's faces so I took his hand and dragged him to a table to sit down with me. I said "Ryan, hey let's sit for a moment. Let's not act super crazy." He put his hand on my upper thigh while rubbing it and whispered in my ear "Hey, hey, hey. No one tells me what to do. Okay. Thank you." I moved his hand off of me once again and he pulled me into his lap and said "Come home with me." I told him "Ry, knock it off. Your girlfriend is here. Stop being stupid." I was completely over it. He gets WAY too touchy when he's drunk. The next time I saw him he gave me a hug and thanked me for putting up with him.

I've never had many friends. I'm not shy usually, but I am around teenagers my age, because im scared of them judging me. I have one really good friend, but she recently told me she's bi, and now Im scared she likes me. Not for no reason, she touches me, watches me when I change etc. So im uncomfortable around her now. My other friend always acts bored around me, and I cant think of things to say to her, because she has a grand social life, and I don't really. She always runs into other friends when we're hanging out, and starts talking to them completely ignoring me. other than that, I don't really have any other friends. And I don't think any guys like me. I cant really stop being shy, it's really a part of me

My best friend is in a talent show tommorow which I was supposed to go to support her. It is 45 minutes away so they would be my ride their and back. I specifically told my friend that I wouldn't want to be driven home by her mom without her while she goes to her boyfriends. We didn't have plans for after but I don't want to go if she's gonna leave for her boyfriends right after and leave me in the car alone with her mom for 45 minutes. She's mad at me and keeps on saying that "I would do it for you" and she refuses to admit she's ditching me even though I told her I didn't want to be driven home alone. What should I do?

If I wanted to confide in someone something someone else is doing that I don't like or think is fair. How can I do this without gossip?

I have some people in my life that I have talked about behind their backs (gossip, etc.). How should I say I'm sorry if a few of them might not want to talk to me again? I hate myself for gossiping and what I have done to my life. Any advice?

After a complicated story and trying to avoid getting trouble I unadded someone. They were #1 on my best friends list. I have been snapping them while removed. If I add him back will the time have worked and him be off my list or will he still be up there

So my two friends invited me to go to the this club on Saturday but it starts at 9pm and ends at 2am. I'm planning to go there at 10pm and leave at 11 pm but they want to do my makeup (which I've never worn before) and curl my hair (I always have my hair in a ponytail so...) & (I am going in jeans and a big black sweater lol) was like I don't want to be telling my mom I'm going to the a CLUB and be coming back home wearig make up and my hair done.. Also I have really terrible anxiety so the word club threw me off, but I already said yes to my friends. (lol why did I do that).. They already have everything planned. What can I do about all of this? Sigh.

We work together at a restaurant. We used to have a lot of flirty energy when around each other. It was all banter- no serious convo A couple get togethers were suggested and she sounded genuinely interested in doing something, but we never ended up doing anything - mostly I'm to blame. Several months pass and we hardly ever see each other at work. When I would, it'd be in passing and she'd give some quick, monotone response to my "hey". Sometimes, I'd notice her sneak behind me on her way out the door. This cycle began where she'd be disinterested, I'd get fed up and decide to stop bothering, only to have her come back saying things like "you know I love you girl", trying to be playful or patting me on the hip in passing. I'd give in. This time, I casually admitted in text that I was bi. She seems comfortable with her sexuality and perhaps even bi herself. She made sexual jokes to me in the past. She responded well "who needs men anyway lol", but I saw her the day after admitting I liked women, and she, again seemed to be ignoring me - passing without stopping to say hey. I called out to her, she hesitated for a split second, and continued walking. I figured she had a problem with my sexuality and decided that this was the last straw. If she didn't like it, it was her problem, not mine. A week or two passed and she's trying to talk to me again. She playfully shoved me in the lower back the other day while asking me something unimportant (I'd said something to someone else and she took opportunity to cut in and interact with me). She tried helping me but, without eye contact, I said I didn't need it and quickly got away from her. Last night she was making obvious efforts to talk to me. While talking with someone about something in my day, she loudly cut in to ask me about it (and that person walked off). She came up to ask what I was drinking and I felt inclined to answer but again I came across as disinterested, gave an answer and walked off without eye contact. I went to sit down and fill out something on paper. She followed, complimented me -I didn't respond- and then just stood there awkwardly for several seconds. Looked like she knew something was wrong but she didn't ask She's never made such efforts to talk. I'm stubborn and feel like I want to continue ignoring her, though I truthfully always wanted to get close to her. Am I wrong for doing this? Is it normal to be upset with someone like this or am I overreacting because I had feelings for her and she'd stopped giving me attention? If she were to ask what was wrong-I wouldn't want to admit it because from then on, I'd know her interactions with me were forced. And I don't know if I'm being needy or reasonable

Yesterday, family friends came into my job to shop... I hadn't spoken to them yet as I was at the register ringing up customers. On the walkie a manager told another manager to come over and watch these girls which so happended to be my family friends. The whole time they are having this conversation it is making me SUPER uncomfortable. They didn't even have big bags and weren't acting suspicious at all. One manager in the walkie says " The girl in the pink keeps looking at me " well, YEAH. You are staring her down and making her uncomfortable and a manager had two sales associates come over,too. It was ridiculous and sad to watch. I never got off the register in time to talk to my family friends. They actually checked out on the other side of the store since the line on my side was so long. After I got off register my manager said " The one in the dress looked familiar. BULL! They are not even from the area! I broke down and cried because I feel like my job thinks majority of black people are theives if they come into our store and aren't dressed a certain way or if they are loud. It's sad. Her thing also is " if they are loud, they are no good " like seriously?! Just because you are " ghetto " doesn't mean you are a theif! My family friend wrote a Yelp review about how uncomfortable she felt and mentioned she knew a employee in her review. I know my job looks at Yelp reviews should I wait til they mention it? What would you do in this situation? Take it up with HR?

Lots of my girl friends have iPhones I don't mu family uses either Samsung or Android only one of us has an iphone. I'm a girl I hate iPhones I have a Samsung. I did have an iphone I plugged it in one night it shut down while charging and never came back on. I use an ipod for music but I hate Apple. My boyfriend and brother have a band only one member uses an iphone the rest use Android or Samsung. It seems like mostly girls and celebrities have iPhones. Why is this ?

i have never had a boyfriend in my life. my sister has had boyfriend after boyfriends. Well guys always want her and they say shes the more attractive sister and im the ugly one. They go for my sister and after going for her they go for me even after they called me ugly sister. i rejected all of them and all of them get mad and jealous when i talk to other guys.

Could the person who is been a fake friend, or someone who pretends romantic interest in you, could they based on your conduct of being a genuinely good person, begin to have a change of heart toward you, and start become genuinely concerned toward you? I know that often times people don't want to change who they are. Not they can't, because anyone can change if they truly want to, but most people don't truly want to. And I also know that fake people will use and take advantage of your goodness for as long as you continue to let them do so, which is why it's best to cut these snakes out of your life, when they reveal their true colors. But do you really think it's possible for someone who has been that way toward you, yet they see how well you treat them and others around you, to start to have a change of heart, regret their being fake toward you, and start to appreciate you and your goodness and begin to genuinely care for you?

We work together at a restaurant. We used to have a lot of energy when around each other. It was all banter- no serious convo. A couple get togethers were suggested and she sounded genuinely interested in doing something, but we never ended up doing anything - mostly I'm to blame. Several months pass and we hardly ever see each other at work. When I would, it'd be in passing and she'd give some quick, monotone response to my "hey". Sometimes, I'd notice her sneak right behind me on her way out the door. This cycle began where she'd be disinterested, I'd get fed up and decide to stop bothering, only to have her come back saying things like "you know I love you girl", trying to be playful or patting me on the hip in passing. I'd give in. This time, I casually admitted I was bi. She seems comfortable with her sexuality and perhaps even bi herself. She made sexual jokes to me in the past. She responded well "who needs men anyway lol", but I saw her the day after admitting I liked women, and she, again seemed to be ignoring me - passing without stopping to say hey. I called out to her, she hesitated for a split second, and continued walking. I figured she had a problem with my sexuality and decided that this was the last straw. If she didn't like it, it was her problem, not mine. A week or two passed and she's trying to talk to me again. She playfully shoved me in the lower back the other day. She tried helping me and, without eye contact, I said I didn't need it. While talking with someone else, she loudly cut in to ask me about my earlier experience. She came up to ask what I was drinking. I went to sit down and she followed, complimented me and just stood there awkwardly for several seconds as I hardly responded. She never makes such efforts to talk - it's always been me. I'm stubborn and feel like I want to just continue ignoring her, though I truthfully always wanted to get close to her.

My friend (I'm a girl he's a guy) ALWAYS criticizes me and undermines me. It's gotten to the point where I feel like I always gotta defend what I gotta say. The other day was the last straw when I told him I finally found out what career I wanna do (psychologist) and I told him it took 8-10 years, and he straight up laughed in my face and told me I will never be one. I'm at the point where I am done. Should I dissapear on him? Go ghost?

nitially I was always the one breaking up and he'd chase me and make up. Then he finally Didn't and I was the one always trying to make up. When we we're breaking up last time during the fight he insulted My mom saying she dressed like in club attire at church and I said his mom looked like she came from the stable. 2 months after I texted him he said he wouldn't forgive me and wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I think he prob waited for me to try to go back to him but I haven't. He's a deacon in church and whatever he does he keeps looking in my eyes and has smiled and said hi a couple times. He constantly looks at me.

from the start I felt she was a bit too self interested, I wrote back to one of her messages to which she was replied in a really short way, with lots of full stops and making it seem like I was a nucence for wasting her time ( i know this is a feeling and not a fact) and i said something like 'you sound stressed, you don't have to watch the video and no need to reply to this' and she replied to me, but i just cbf dealing with her. she seems so difficult and serious sometimes

My friend has French kissed a guy. I've never been kissed on the lips; but, I let a guy kiss my boobs. Which is farther?

I met an actress today in Manhattan discussing my acting career. I'm a super beginner and I know it. She discusses with me that I would need acting classes, which she's right. She said that she would call one of her actresses/clients that would be good for teaching me. She also said that because I'm black and a such a beginner, that people would call me stupid if i come into the business. Also that my timidness could be a problem too. I have no problems with her being honest with me. If anything I like people who are honest with me and tell me straight, ESPECIALLY if it involves the entertainment business. So I'm not mad at her. I'm mad at myself and the ******* world!!!! My timidness is so ******* annoying. I look up to Madonna, A LOT. She's so assertive and strong and that's the kind of people who succeed in the business. Me? I want to NOT be timid!! I can't be timid in the entertainment business.

I moved to a new school at the start of high school and I didn't know anyone. I met my best friend right at the start of freshman year and we became friends very quickly. It's been two years now and lately I've been having some problems. Sometimes I will tell her something that I think is interesting and she will just tell me she doesn't care or she asks my why I'm telling her. When we are with a bigger group of people I feel like she uses me to make jokes at my expense or she will just basically ignore me. I feel like it's always me who puts effort into the conversations we have. I feel a lot of resentment towards her and wonder how my closest friend could do this to me. I don't want to confront her about this because it would just cause so many more problems. I know it seems like I'm stupid for hanging out with her still but we also have so much fun together. We have gone on vacations with each other and we are so close. What should I do? I don't want to stop being friends with her because half of the time we have so much fun and she is awesome but the other half of the time she makes me feel like crap and she can just toss me to the side.

Okay so this girl, we met about a year ago shes been calling herself my sister....a year older than me.... We almost dated but figured the drama so we stop plus I was engaged so.... We didn't pursue, couple months later she got pregnant with her BF and our friendship grew stronger... Today we were hanging out it was dark...we were in her car she told me didnt have any pants on so of course I tried to leave but she then stopped me telling me its okay. Of course I scratch it and continued while we were conversating she felt her baby kicking and she wanted me to feel it stating its normal we are brothers and sisters...i politely decline since I felt weird.... She continue on on talking about her butt... Willing to show me something shed notice of course bare naked... Now my question is..... I know when pregnant hormones rises and emotion and all was it that or does she still have the same attractions

He asked to sit at my table. We locked eyes once then bowed our heads to study. When I was leaving he finally asked what I was studying etc. He was studying for the bar exam so pretty busy. Do you think he would've bothered to talk if he didn't like me? BUt I haven't seen him since Monday here. If he was interested wouldnt he have returned or Idk if that was his off or whatever

My best friend and I have gotten into two arguments in the past. I remember because I'd never thought before that we would ever get into an argument. There were times that I actually didn't want to talk to them anymore but after a while, we did get over it and continue our friendship. I personally feel somewhat happy that we can do that and move on. It feels like our bond is stronger. I'm curious to know if this is normal for others as well. Is this normal? Would not being able to be disagree or be honest a bad thing in a friendship/relationship? I hope I'm writing this well enough for someone to understand.

I invited a friend to go along with me on a trip to a beautiful, historic small town in New Hampshire. She thought the century-old hotel we were going to stay in was wonderful when she saw the pictures I emailed her. We chatted for almost two hours about all of the things we would do. I told her I was really looking forward to getting out of the city for some relaxation. Suddenly, she asked if she could bring her ten year old son along. I told her that I really wanted our trip to be a special time just between the two of us and that maybe we could bring her boy another time. Frankly, I don't like the idea of having to look after someone else's noisy child when I am supposed to be on vacation. Now, she is angry with me, but I think it's completely selfish of her to expect such a thing. I'm thinking of dropping the whole idea now. Who's right?

I am a darkskin African American woman who attended a predominantly white university for almost three years and did not make one friend. Most of the whites just ignored or avoided me. Why did they do that?

We are in high school (I am a male and she not. Both Juniors) and, right now, only have one class together- A 7th period class where you do all the work online but have to show up for test. Though she stays because her internet at home sucks and she has no car. Keep in mind that I do not have any romantic feelings for her, but I do love her. Anyway. One day I was feeling a little down and sent her a text message asking her if she still liked me and if she would be sad should I die. BUT, and she has confirmed that this has played a big part in her decision, I did *not* mean the message like "Hey, I am going to kill myself. How does that make you feel?," but rather it was used as a stupid example to see how she felt about me. Though, I could not explain right then because she ignored it and I had no clue it would be taken that way... That happened last week and the following morning on Wednesday when we went to school, she went to the guidance councilor and asked her to tell me that she had talked with her mother and did not want to be friends anymore. She avoided me that day and Thursday before pulling me aside Friday and saying "You know we can talk, right?"- Where she told me that I liked her too much and valued her opinion too much and confirmed the text of course. Now, this week, she has gone back to ignoring me! Wont talk to me, sit with me in the morning, wait with me in the car line, wont sit at the same table during 7th even though she said we could talk... HelpMe (Ran out of room) We did not become friends overnight and break up! We became friends early October 2017 and have hung out outside of school twice. Once: I went and met her mom at a pizza restaurant . Twice: Her and her mom came and met my mom. And that second meeting happened just two Saturdays ago and went so well... She is not the dating type. She is a highly anti-social teacher's pet who transferred here in Freshman year. She is used to being alone and I'm pretty much her only friend here.

I've been best friends with a married man for a little over a year now. I'm a single female. We get along well and enjoy each other's company. We text/PM daily and see each other weekly or sometimes more than once a week. We always go places together or sometimes hangout with my mom at my place. We usually go out to eat when we are going somewhere...a party, the movies, a museum. Always just us. Sometimes we set up a group of friends to hang out to do something fun but it's rare. Anyway, he always pays for me,(food,movie tickets) always is such a gentleman to only me it seems (opens car door for me, holds doors open for me, drives me, throws my trash away , walks me to my front door) It is wonderful and our friends are awesome too. The kicker is I've never met his wife and I don't think he talks about me to her. I see that they don't do much together and she's always at home for the most part due to medical conditions and he's always out and about with me and friends, along with his usual duties like groceries or car repair. He has told me he likes me a lot and likes doing things with me. That he has feelings for me but can't go full relationship with me but wants to still do all these things with me like lunch and fun events. He says he wants to show me more affection, hugs, light kisses (lips) and other things like guiding me by the small of my back. I saw him a few days ago, we went out for about five hours and then he look me home and he hugged & kissed me before going