ok so me and this super hot established guy started talking about a month ago we met on eharmony,com he s 37 and im 23 we went out on superbowl sunday for our first date he didnt kiss me though(he claimed he was being a gentlemen and didnt believe in kissing on the first date) and our everyday convos started to shorten after our first date it seemed he actually started hitting me up only after i hit him up first but everytime i would question it he would claim he was so busy at work and his work was piling up (he s a director of his company making 6 figures) & apologize so i believed him for a while then it started getting to the point that i was asking when we would see each other again and he would say "we can go out for drinks again ONE DAY" he ignored me the weekend before valentines day and the sooner valentines day came the more distant he became so i flat out asked him on the day of valentines day "so are we going out tonight or nah?" he simply replys after 4 hours that he "just got home from work and now its gym time!" i immediately responded " oh nevermind i ll stop wasting my time" with an eyeroll emoji and he hasnt responded since and now i feeling like a AHOLE and like i Jumped the gun i know we werent official but we were talking EVERYDAY and we did go out for superbowl sunday so am i wrong for expecting SOMETHING ON VDAY? my mom thinks he s married cause he hasnt offered to take me to his house & its a neighorhood with huge house should i reach out again or no? And when i would send him pics he would still compliment me so i dont think it was an attraction thing and while we were out he kept mentioning his "ex' and how she was so boring and she never watched the superbowl with him and he loved that i was going out to watch the superbowl with him and he needs a woman thats not like his "boring,lazy couch potato " ex it was literally the main convo of the night other than the superbowl so do you think he was hiding something?

Initially I was always the one breaking up after every fight and he'd chase me and make up. Then he finally didn't and I was the one always trying to make up. When we we're breaking up last time during the fight he insulted my mom saying she dressed like in club attire at church and I said his mom looked like she came from the stable. 2 months after I texted him he said he wouldn't forgive me and wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I think he prob waited for me to try to go back to him but I haven't, it's been 4 months.I think he expected em to go back. He's a deacon in church and whatever he does he keeps looking in my eyes and has smiled and said hi a couple times. He constantly looks at me. Today I saw him walk down the aisle and turn into the doorway and sneakily look at me through the door crack lol. A bit later I turned saw him looking and we locked eyes for like 2–3 seconds. I started going to the church 4 months. Does he stare because I go there. WOuld he do this if he wasn't interested though? But he's not making a move?

Holaa xd Soy mexicano, de cabello *****, piel blanca, con 14 años, mido 1.67 y soy pasivo :u Pasen su WhatsApp para platicar y pasar fotos xd

We made love after we argued, it was a really bad fight, she kept asking things that hurt me (about my life, why I am always so serious and cold, the fact that I didn't have a family, my grandma raised me in romania in a poor neighbourhood as well as she could), I shouted at her, she said that she loved me, I said that I never had anything in my life and I dont want anything or anyone, she said that she was mine and I was hers, that we would always have each other because she loved me and she would never leave me. I said that it wasn't true, that I didnt want anything. She said that I was lying because deep down I wanted to be loved, just like she was. She started kissing me I told her to go away and then I started shaking and almost had tears in my eyes because of the anger and she hugged me and kissed me and we made love... she's such a sweet and caring girl, she was virgin until then, but sometimes I wonder if we did it wrong because we both were mad and nervous because of what we said to each other. I basically was too strong and I rushed too much with her although I knew she is a innocent and lovely girl, yet I could not control myself in that moment. I wish I was more gentle to her because I love her, instead because I was mad we were both too impulsive. I do not the regret the act itself but the way we did... it was too rushed, too angry and overemotional. She cried after and kissed me, and I hugged her, I probably would have cried too if it wasn't for my pride.. Did we do it wrong? Now we're together and I wanna marry her but I'll always keep in mind of how things went the first time, which makes me emotional and weird

Llevo 3 años con una chica, estábamos bien. Pero apareció un amigo que es 8 años mayor que ella .... que no me di cuenta mas que por comentarios en facebook. Le pregunte a ella y me dijo que solo era un amigo con quien se llevaba bien. Y acepte normal . Despues vi otros comentarios algo subido de tono y me moleste . Le pregunte si tenian otras intenciones . Me dijo que solo eran amigos , que se conocian hace un mes .. Despues de estar discutiendo casi 4 semanas senti que me ignoraba en pocas ocasiones. Demoraba o dejaba de responderme al chat . Y le pregunte si era porque estaba conversando con su amigo? A lo que me respondio . Eso y otras cosas. Me senti mal .. Y le dije si aun me queria . Me dijo que si , a pesar de todo . No entiendo alguien que quiere te ignora ?? O invado mucho su espacio personal ? ... Mis conocidos me dicen que ella no es una chica asi y la conocen mas tiempo que yo . Nos hemos propuesto olvidarlo y estar bien, pero me cuesta mucho hacerlo. Relaciono cada accion de que si demora en responder que es porque me ignora por conversar con él . Sé que si , porque ambos están en linea. Ayúdenme con consejos coherentes. ( Por cierto el chico se conecta y se va solo cuando ella esta ) cosa que me molesta mucho . Y me hace dudar ... Aconséjenme como mejoro la confianza, no solo soy yo, creo .. Ella y yo , ya estamos cansados de pelear ...:c

So about a week ago, I tried connecting with this girl on facebook, whom I've had a crush on since middle school. But were not connected and since Facebook isn't as popular anymore, I don't know how long it will take her to see it. I was thinking of messaging another one of her facebook friends and asking them that if it's not too much trouble, to let this girl know that I need to talk to her, and that I sent her a message. Is this a good idea? If so, any ideas on how to make it sound as less-creepy as possible. Thanks