riassumendo, mi piace, gli scrivo, ci vediamo. sembrava io gli piacessi profondamente perché avevamo caratteristiche molto affini, sembravamo fatti l'uno per l'altra. lui cerca cerca in tutti i modi di piacere ai miei (mia madre non lo vedeva proprio "bene") e vuole conoscere le persone a me più care. "speriamo duri" (detto da lui in ben più di un paio di occasioni). viene a casa mia praticamente tutte le settimane e vuole che io vada a casa dei suoi. se, magari, succedesse che incontrassimo qualche suo amico per strada si girava continuamente a chiedermi se andasse tutto bene (per via della mia silenziosità). cerca di uscire con me o vedermi le più volte possibili all'interno della singola settimana (praticamente eravamo una coppia non ufficiale), si presenta lungimirante parlando del futuro, cercando di incastrarmici dentro in qualche modo, indirettamente parlando. gli feci presente del mio problemino "mi stano molto facilmente delle persone", ma con il passare del tempo fu sempre più palese il fatto che con lui non sarebbe successo, in quanto ero sinceramente innamorata. a causa di mia madre, lui era a conoscenza dell'impegno che dovevo dedicare allo studio, quindi aspettava fossi io a scrivergli il pomeriggio. fu questo il suo unico difetto, mi voleva ma non mi cercava mai, il suo "buongiorno/notte" erano d'obbligo per lui, ma non mi cercava poi così spesso. se lo facevo io, era al settimo cielo e parlavamo per ore, mi riempiva di messaggi vocali e cose così(..) (..) a quanto ho capito, faceva così con tutti, dato che le chiamate e messaggi li riceveva e non inviava, mai. poi, mentre andava tutto a gonfie vele, dopo un intero weekend fantastico passato insieme "non me la sento di continuare". io ho il cuore in frantumi e passa qualche mese, succede poca roba ed ora ha cominciato mettermi like (cosa che con le sue ex non fa mai, ne durante, ne dopo la relazione), e vorrei molto scrivergli, mi chiedo solo se non lo faccia lui per questa sua abitudine o..

My brother, his girlfriend, and I live in a house. My brother and I own the house. His girlfriend pays us about 100 a month for bills. Well she only works a day a week, and is always complaining about not having money. Anyway. She has to get a new license plate for her care and get the breaks fixed so she can get a full time job. Well. She went and bought a $200 dress to wear at her friends wedding. She could have returned it and got her money back after the wedding, but she wanted to keep it. Than she went to a bacholaret party in a city 8 hours away, and spent a good amount of money there. Bill time came around. And she says she can't pay right away because she doesn't have the money. She could have easily token care of her car and help pay bills if she hadn5 of blown her money. It just irritated me. I almost feel like just kicking her out. If she wants to act like a child, than she can go live with her mommy.

I am 24 and been fired almost every job. what should I do? I seem to struggle everywhere I go and cant figure things out.

I'm 18 she's 37, I've had a mega crush on her ever since i can remember. She used to babysit me when I was a kid. But whenever we're together I put my arm around her waist and we take a lot of pictures together. We've got pictures of us at the beach and pictures of me kissing her cheek. She was gonna come by and visit me one Friday while my mom was gone but I chickened out and cancelled but by the time I had it in me & reinvited her she already made plans. I haven't talked to her since January but I really like her not trying to have a relationship I just love her curves she's got a really great body. I'm not a misogynist she just gets me excited when we're together. That's why I always have my arm around her waist. But I overheard my mom talking to her mom and she was emotional saying it's not right. I know she's older than me but she's hot shes got a big butt and I love her Latina accent

Late 2016, I meet a girl. We'll call her "K", just for privacy. I meet her at meet day for our new high school, nothing weird with that at all. K was a completely oblivious girl, kinda nice actually, nothing stood out, she no knowledge of the school, like me, except I knew some things, because I had an older sister who went there when she was in high school. But, I knew nobody, except for two friends who went to the same lower school, and I had social anxiety, so I was always biting my lip, revealing my buck teeth (didn't help that they were jittering I was so nervous), stroking the veins on my hands, and, I like to whisper reassuring phrases to myself in those situations. I did that. First day of high school, I go up to everyone who was in my group on that 2016 day and it was the getting-to-know-you stuff. Near April, I help our group in dance class come up with a routine, and she always commented one thing: "Shut (the f*ck) up ((my name))! Nobody cares/likes you!" It got worse as 2017 progressed, people saw it happen, they told on her. Nothing was done, don't know why. But my mom found out, and she told teachers too recently, and that's how I found out the others said stuff (even after I told them not to). This made me realize something: She was right. Nobody likes me. Why would they do that if they liked me? If I tell them not to, why would they do it? Unless they didn't like me! I need to tell her she was right, but how? I need advice, ASAP! Help!

i can do it up until they finish, i can't stand the taste of ***. it feels like an exploding pimple in my mouth. i dont know what to do lol

I'm 18 she's 37, I've had a mega crush on her ever since i can remember. She used to babysit me when I was a kid. But whenever we're together I put my arm around her waist and we take a lot of pictures together. We've got pictures of us at the beach and pictures of me kissing her cheek. She was gonna come by and visit me one Friday while my mom was gone but I chickened out and cancelled but by the time I had it in me & reinvited her she already made plans. I haven't talked to her since January but I really like her not trying to have a relationship I just love her curves she's got a really great body. I'm not a misogynist she just gets me excited when we're together. That's why I always have my arm around her waist. But I overheard my mom talking to her mom and she was emotional saying it's not right. I know she's older than me but she's hot shes got a big butt and I love her Latina accent

What is a cold slider?

I've only known her for a few days and we are co-workers. She's told me really personal things about herself such as her being sexually harrassed from a previous job in the passed, to being a loner and previously having problems girls at her old school whcih eventually she transfer to a different school . To me this feels like too much information in the three times we've talked after work. I think she needs friends. But I also think I must be approachable that's why she's told me these things. I don't think any of my other co-workers know this much about her. But is this normal for girls to unload this much information to a guy and co-worker sh's barely met?