so i think one of my best friends is fake. she's really fun to be with but sometimes texting and her being one of those immature "umm...... well ya i was with her" to the parents when i lie to them being somewhere then I GEt MORE IN ****** TROUBLE i.. :/ i need a new best friend but i'm sort of shy. i have a good good friend i hang out with also along with the other but i don't know because she's moving after this year and i'll be alone with my sort of "fake" one :S please help me. i talk to people but they already have friends and I'm scared that if I hang out with them they're not gonna talk to me or through sonic even looking at me because I don't know what to say because I'm in the quiet and does not know was gonna talk to me and it's gonna be awkward and embarrassing well they're all laughing probably laugh along a few times but not talk as much because it's a group of people that I don't know 😞 what do i do...?

Like a cell phone. From a woman's point of view.

So recently in life Ive been depressed since I have been feeling like nobody talks to me unless I speak. I have told my friends how i have felt about this feeling and they either say nothing or be less sensetive, speak up, etc. and nothing ever changes. For example I sat with my group of friends during lunch and nobody said anything to me at all until and then someone finally said hello and then i said ive been here the whole time and then he said "I know" and its with everyone and these people are the nicest friends I have ever had but im sick of feeling lonley and feeling like im the only one making a effort with talking to my friends and Its gotten so far that I just want advice with how to tell people properly how i feel or how to stop feeling this way once and for all. and I have depression and im also a very sensetive person aswell.

So I first wore a thong round my friends house. Me and her had always been good friends and when she went to have a shower she left her drawer open. I looked over and saw some of her thongs. While I was looking I started thinking abouut what the feel like, because I thought they must be uncomfortable because you have the string going up your bum, so I quickly tried it on and it was actually really comfy and I could barely feel the back. So I quickly pulled my trousers up with them still up and took 2 more from her drawers. That was about a year ago and those 3 are the only ones I have and no one knows I have them and I'm afraid to tell them so I just wear them in secret and when I take the dog for a walk and stuff. But now I really want some more but I just think it would be really awkward and that everyone would judge me in the shop. I tried talking to another boy at my school who wears female clothes and he's really open about it but I was worried he would tell everyone that I wear them and I sit know if I'm ready for people to know yet. So I made a fake Snapchat but he won't awenser me and I really want more but don't no how to do it without everyone judging me please help????

I'm a girl in 10th grade and I'm the only one out of all my friends to live in an apartment. There are 4 apartments total in our building. To be honest, it's really not special at all. Me, my little sister, mom, and stepdad all live in it and it's 2 bedrooms. The paint outside is chipped and old, and it's not neat. My parents' room is REALLY unorganized and small, which is ridiculous because we've been here for six years now. There are clothes all over the place and it's cramped. They don't have good jobs. We used to get a lot of mice in the summer, and our building looks HORRIBLE when the garbage is taken out and placed right in front. Food gets all over the sidewalk and smells bad. I hate it. I know it's hard to buy a house, and I know I shouldn't be complaining, but it's just really embarrassing when all of my friends live in decent or nice houses. After we hang out on the weekends, when one of my friend's parents drive me home, I'll ask them to drop me off like a block away and make up some sort of excuse. I don't want them to see where I live, and I always go over my friends' houses instead of having them over. My parents also can't afford braces for me or a school trip to Europe (which I understand is expensive). It just sucks because I would love to live in a house and have my friends come over to chill. I also have a huge crush on this guy who I've been talking to, and it'd be too embarrassing to have him over because he lives in a nice house. Suggestions? :(

Frankly, I don't see the point if they won't answer. I had one 'friend' ask me a favour and I did the favour. But when I asked one of her she ignored me. Then, she asked me for money the next message. I said, 'Why should I?' I'm helping you out with connections but when I ask for something you ignore me. Then you ask me for money!' People are so selfish. I did, in fact, unfriend her but that was the worst case scenario. What are the reasons you unfriend people? And should you keep them on your profile if they never answer?

So mostly all my friends guilt trip, and at first i always listened to them and tried to be a good friend and be there for them, but it's getting to be too much. Everything they talk about is about how horrible their lives are. At first, it wasn't like that, then for the past months now, even when i'm dealing with sh it, it always comes around to what the hell happened to them. I don't get it, sure everyone has their days were they feel like sh it but everyday? We could have a good mood going, everyone is cracking jokes and having a good time, then all of a sudden, one of my friends is like, "this weekend, i wanted to commit suicide", and darkens the whole mood. I tell her advice all the time, and she never listens to me, because everyone focuses on the negatives and not the positives. One of my friends makes the smallest things seem like dying moments, she claimed she had two mental breakdowns, in three days. I seriously don't know what to do, also they bring up bad things that happened to me in the past, which i don't understand why. Should i just get new friends? or try to hold on?

So in school I'm pretty quiet and only hang with a few people because a lot of my old friends turned fake or we grew apart. So I stay out the way, don't bother anyone, and just focus on my work. So for some reason this guy in one of my classes (who use to want to date me) always wants to talk crap about me, then he'll try and start conversation with like we're cool or he'll stare at me for no reason. It's like he's trying to get my attention or something but I ignore him because I don't feel like cussing anyone out. Also, this girl who I never had a conversation with likes to talk crap about me. One day she was telling my friend why does she hang with me, Im weird, she lied on me and told my friend I wanted to have sex with the guy who talks crap about me and she said they make fun of me behind my back all the time. But the ironic thing is both of these people follow me on Instagram, like my pictures, and watch my Instagram stories... I don't understand the purpose of all of this, like why can't they say any of this to my face and what kinda guy talks crap on a girl behind her back but tries to be in her face? & I'm thinking about saying something to them (which won't be nice) but my friend is telling me to chill because they're just "haters." What's your opinion on this?

Keeps trying to be your friend? And you show you're not interested by ignoring them, or telling them straight up

I currently go to a community college and already it seems hard to make friends but I assume social life in cc is normally like that, and everyone already seems to have established friendships. Ever since high school ended my only best friend has gone to another college so since the first semester I've been feeling extremely lonely which has been making me feel unmotivated and a little depressed. I have no one to really call or text or go out with so I'm home all day. There's some 'friends' still around but none that really makes time to hang. I'm just hoping that after I transfer to a four year university, will it be likely I'd make friends there? Or since I've joined late, not so much? How do people make friends in college in general, because I'm not interested in any clubs but aside from that everyone seems unapproachable and just minds their own business. Anyway any advice would be awesome! It did not bother me at first but after a while of being lonely it starts to get sad

There two girls I know and they sound the same don't you guys find it awakard? (my sister friends)

What should i do, i have been friends with her for 2 years and now she doesnt hangout with me as much. I asked her why but she said she wasnt ignoring me but she is.

This guy has a girlfriend I didn't know it at first. I sent him a Facebook message asking him if he wanted to be FWB. He said he wish he would have got my number sooner. And asked how would I feel about being with him and another girl. I told him I was thinking he and I could hookup. He said had it been two years ago he would have loved to because he was always into me. He's been asking me about letting me practice on him since September. When I first told him I was in massage school. And even now that he knows that I want him sexually he still said he would be my study buddy for practicing massage.

She went to my house, I asked her : "do you want to smoke ?" , then she said "yes", I knew that she smoked before so I thought she won't have a bad trip. She started to yell at me, she told "don't touch me , don't talk to me" , I have tried to explain her that it's normal to feel weird etc, one hour after we smoked , she left because she had to go i don't where with her mom, as I said , she left and I accompanied her , even if she told me " stay here , don't come with me " , I just wanted to assure myself that she is ok. She arrived next to a train station, her mom came (I think she called her mom or something) and she picked her up, then her mother saw me , I told her that her daughter doesn't fell good and I don't know what happens with her , I don't want her (my friend) to get in trouble with her mom because of me, her mom doesn't know that she smokes. Few days ago I asked one of her friends if I should fix the problem with her and apologize for what happened. Her friend told me that she don't want to talk to me anymore and even if try to talk to her , she won't talk to me. I think I lost her , she were like a little sister to my. And once she told me that I m like a sister for her too. What can I do ? I can't eat, I can't concentrate since she stopped to talk to me . She blocked me on instagram and Snapchat.

Me and my best friend have been friends for 10+ years. she is really nice to me at times but is really mean and says hurtful things to me. She befriends everyone im friends with and flirts with every guy i like. I cut her off shortly after she did that but she gets all depressed and sad. So i decided to be her friend again. But she is always in my conversations with my boyfriends seeing who im talking too and how they look so she could talk to them. She wants to go every where i go like go to the same school and work at the same job as me. I cant have any friends without her trying to get to know them or asking me to introduce them to her. Even if i dont she'll find out who they are on her own.She keeps her friends private and tells me not to talk to them. And if HER friends come and talk to me she gets mad at ME instead of them. Its like my life is her life. She wants to do literally everything i do, friends with everyone im friends with and talk to any guy that likes me. I dont want to be around her because She is really mean and negative and its causing me to be depressed and panic. I have never felt so horrible about myself before till now. i forgot to mention, when i tell her that i want to be alone or stop being friends when she makes fun of me, she takes it as a threat and finds way to cheer me up. And when im all happy again, she brings me down again. And she isnt fair. She didnt visit me while i was in the hospital and got angry at me when i didnt visit her when she was in the hospital.

She said "I don't want to talk anymore" and I said "why" she said "stop I don't want to talk." She didn't tell me why she doesn't want to. I was kind to her, cared about her feelings, was interesting with her and asked her a fair amount of Qs so I wasn't boring, I don't know what happened. Any help?

The other day I messaged one of my female friends on Facebook to say hello. I noticed she hurried up and clicked off of Facebook. Shortly after I messaged her, my Messenger page said that she was active 19 seconds ago, shortly after I clicked the send button. I talked to my little sister who s also friends with her and explained the whole situation to her to get advice. My little sister told me it might of had nothing to do with me she might of been busy, the boyfriend might be jealous that she s talking to me, or she might be at work. I m under the impression she doesn t want to be my friend anymore and we have good friends since the end of my junior year which was 9 years ago. I am taking a survey on here to see how many people think I should unfriend her off of Facebook or continue to keep her as my friend on Facebook. So should I unfriend her or keep her on my Facebook page and Instagram page?

Last time I scheduled a friend to come over everyday and felt great. I had daily human contact and kept myself busy by needing to tidy the house everyday for the person. But now I'm 'grounded' and can't have anyone over during break. I'm afraid I'll fall into old habits of not getting dressed, eating improperly and letting my room/house fall into chaos. My parents work full time so I'll be alone 12 hours a day for 5 days in a row. Any tips on how to stay sane?

I'm a guy and I would like to meet girls just to talk to and nothing more. That's it just to talk. But sometimes when I talk to girls they seem nervous and uncomfortable and I'm not even flirting with them or doing anything to make them feel that way. I don't know why.

I know the answer... I shouldn't be. I can like whatever I want, but for some reason I'm still reluctant about it. I've known about BTS for a couple years now, but I've only been a fan of theirs since last month. I really got into them and like them a lot. An old "friend" of mine who I still occasionally speak with judges everything people do and like. When we used to hang out more often, she always told me how weird people who like Kpop, anime, and other stuff like that are. She made fun of anyone who liked something that she didn't. Whenever she finds out I'm into something new, she doesn't leave me alone about it and talks behind my back. The sad part is we're in our late teens. I want to like and follow their stuff on Instagram but she always asks me about every photo I like of something new, which isn't her business and is actually very annoying. She doesn't like BTS and is very closeminded. Should I just say screw it and do whatever the hell I want? I'm also reluctant to tell other people about it, too.

I have a girlfriend and sometimes I'll try to become friends with women I meet just because I like having a large group of friends but friendships with women NEVER work. They either want to use you for your money, use you as an emotional tampon, try to get you to cheat on your girlfriend with them, or they are very flakey and wishy washy and never reliable and lie constantly. It's gotten to the point where I can only have guy friends.

I even unfollowed her on a social media website for 2 hours one time and she messaged me how it made her sad and she yelled at me to follow her again.

No, I'm not flattered at all. It's like , come on man, get a brain and identify of your own. They don't do anything until I do, Even when I speak with them, and they ask me what I've been doing, if I tell them, they interrupt and tell me something to outshine it. Is a tall fence an answer? Why do people act like this?

At school, just two months ago, this girl told me about her best friend's dad and how funny he is. He died last Saturday after being in a coma from a sudden heart attack. No prior health problem. That's what she told me at school. This other girl told me about her older brother, last month. He accidently shot himself two weeks ago. What the heck?? I didn't know about any of these people until just recently.

Long story short back in H.S I used to like this guy a lot to the point I couldn't look at him and speak to him without blushing. He would always stare at me and always try to talk to me. While back few months ago. He came to my register have me a wink but didn't say anything. I know he has a gf or some girl he is with all the time. But yeah everytime we see each other we make eye contact and give each other glares. I have a hard time approaching super attractive guys. Anyway he was usually out going, funny, sorta popular guys in the school. Almost every girl liked him. For the longest time out of anyone he would try so hard to speak to me. But my crazy shy blushy self would sorta ignore him not on purpose tho... So my question is does he like me or something? Since whenever I say hi he is shy or hardly speaks? I'm 21 now and he is just about my age since we graduated 3 years ago together.

So I'm 21, and single. I'm a guy and I haven't really tried hard enough to find a girlfriend because I'm scared that they will see me as a nice attractive guy on the outside but once it gets to the next level and we get naked they will change their mind because of my body. I'm not fat I just lack the toned look so I'm worried :( Am I overthinking this? It's really holding me back. I need your advice