My ex was very abusive (physically and mentally) and so was his whole family. I lived with him for several months and I'm traumatized by everything that happened. I got pregnant by accident too and I left because I couldn't take the abuse anymore. When someone brings up my ex, or something reminds me of him, my heart starts pounding and I get this sick nauseous feeling. Not only that, my ex's family was abusive and I think that's where he learned it from. I want to keep my baby but I'm so scared that he/she is going to remind me of him and I'm just going to feel sick and nauseous around my own child... I'm especially afraid of having a boy. I keep hoping the baby will look like me and my side of the family. Will this fear go away once the baby is born? Will it not even matter then? I don't know what to do. I've even been thinking about giving the baby up for adoption.

We dated from 2008-2010. I am now 25 years old. Anyways, its his I.D from when he was in high school. I remember they issued him a new one because they printed the wrong birth date on it. I feel weird throwing an I.D out but i highly doubt he cares or remembers. I found it while cleaning a plastic dresser drawer that i am getting ready to throw out. It was in between a book. I still have my ex's number. Occasionally I will see him as he is a city bus driver( not on purpise i dont know what times he drives the bus). He got sort of mad at me in October 2017 and he swore that he would be over me for good now and then I saw him again in November with my boyfriend on accident (he ended up being the bus driver) and he looked real p*ssed off to be seeing me and he said nothing but he also looked jealous in a way... but the point is should i contact him to see if he wants his high school I.D or just throw it out? All of the years we been broken up he never mentioned it so i am thinking he forgot about it.

So my husband buys me curtains for iur bedroom, I keep them blinds pulled up and open because I love the light it brings in the room. So anyway my phycho neighbor goes and gets curtains somewhat like mine and keeps her blinds up like mine... Im sorry but this is ridiculas!! Jealous over a curtain..What should I do?? Close my blinds completely and ignore or keep mine like they are?? Im sorry but im to old for this crazy kindergarten games..thanks

A friend of mine is involved with an older man who's never been married and has no kids. She uses contraceptives but told him that she's concerned about pregnancy anyway . He told her he isn't concerned and whatever happens happens . She told him he's lucky he has no kids and he told her something like if you say so. She is concerned about his relaxed attitude towards unprotected activities . Is this normal ? Why would he not care ?

Im guessing he could just snap a pic of it and txt to me . Instead last time he offer to drop it at my home and this time he is telling me "u have important legal mail over here". Im not sure I even want to respond to him . I do miss him but he has manipulitive traits. If it was important wouldnt u just tell the person where the mail came from but also if u didnt care about the person and wanted them to "go away" why even bother informing them of mail??

I'm young and I love to listen to other music other then rap. I spend hours watching ballet and psychology videos and I love finding things that I think are beautiful, none of my friends would consider me doing this "normal" I love listening to classical music and other genres except hip hop. I feel weird because I can't fine anyone that likes the things I like and if I tell my friends about this they think I'm weird. I try to like the things they like and be how they want me too but I don't want to change to become someone I'm not

So I live in a two story apartment where apartments are on top of each other.The girl moved in a few months earlier and has sex with her boyfriend every god damn morning and night. I am not even exaggerating. I was wondering how to get back at them so they would stop. All I hear is the box mattress going at it.

A friend of mine married young. He had 1 kid with his wife.they divorced. He was not really financially stable. About 10 years later he met a woman, he is handsome.She is below average. Them met on a dating site. Her parents are old and wanted her to marry The wedding date was set. 2 months into wedding prep a new girl started at our work. They hit it off. They suited each other well. She was average height, long hair, killer smile and eyes that can seduce anyone.The two began an affair. He was crazy about her. We could all see.He was still getting married in 4 months. He told her he loves her. they didnt even have sex yet. A month into the affair, He told her he didnt mean it when he said he loved her and only said it to her coz he didn't know what to say.I could see the love he had for her was real. His eyes didnt lie. He got married and they barely spoke. She then found out his wife is pregnant and it broke her but she was strong. At a staff trip He kissed her and they ended up sharing a room and cuddled the night. 2 months later on the staff Christmas holiday he wife accompanied us.He kept on looking for hottie. His wife slept all the time and he was with his hottie. They spent day and night together for 3 days while his wife was 3 doors away. We were on a ship. By the way, she is the girl every guy at work wants. I know he loves her but i cant be sure.He cannot go a day without making an excuse to see her or talk to her. Should I ask him how he feels about her?

I opened my BF Facebook today and found these with his bestfriend(girl& married). We've dated 8 months, but BF/GF 1 1/2 months. This is from 2 weeks after he asked me 2 be his GF, 2 weeks ago. (Im 22, he's 28) BF: So seems like this girl really wants to date for real F: Which one? And how do you feel about that? BF: Which one? lol. nice.... The younger one from Armenia. I don't know.. she really is a pretty great. She is smart, pretty, very kind, fun. But there is a definite difference in maturity & life experiences. We are just in completely different places in terms of perspective, & while she is very smart and kind, she doesn't share the same passion for social justice issues that I do. She would have been PERFECT like 5 years ago. F: Right. Sounds like a fun fling but not a girlfriend. BF: I guess... but I don't want to hurt her. She told her mom about me, etc. F: She'll be hurt for 1 second & get over it. Its much kinder than leading her on. BF: Well its more than that, we do have great chemistry. I don't know, I have dated great people in the past years but always find a reason not to pursue it. F: She's too young & doesn't share the same passion for social justice BF: Yeah my passion is very important to me, but its also a very rare quality. F: But its what you've chosen to do BF: Its not like she doesn't care and she listens, but doesn't exactly have much to contribute to some of my convos F: Right BF: I feel like I've become a terrible person with dating too F: Why? BF: Ive had such bad experiences that I find it incredibly difficult to put in effort and open up F: I think thats fair I only know most about your ex and she was awful. BF: I guess I'm tired of being alone though F: Yeah but if she's being upfront with you then you need to be the same with her and just need to open up more. BF: it is more than that. I do care about her. F: You need someone in-line with all of you BF: ya

I've been sing a married man for a year and I've fallen head over heals in love with him.He told me that he was in the process of leaving his wife but idk..He still live his wife a year later with no plans of moving out It's getting too painful because he can only see me during his work hours which means they are times when our plans fall through because of unexpected things that might come up during his work hours. -He has never taken me on real date -he ignored Valentine's day, no card no "happy Valentine's day text nothing I want to end it but I'm afraid I might not find anyone else.I've always been not so lucky in love and have hard time attracting unattached man