well after their marriage ? i mean in america is it the brother's affair or the husbands' ?!

It shouldn't matter but somehow it does matter. So white women nowadays tend to be more and more exclusive to dating other races. Nothing wrong with that but does that mean white men should be more open and try dating mostly other races too? But if so, are other girls interested in white guys

Firstly , I met my wife on social media and we hit it off right away - she was from the same town as my family is from and happened to be my grandfathers sisters neighbor - anyways she was everything I ever wanted and next thing you know 4 or 5 months later we were engaged ! Anyways she's awesome - always is and was but her family sucks. They are gossipers, always talk about money, and very insulting . I stayed over there (they live in a different country- thank God) when I visit and I hate it - anyways my wife who is at their house now wants me to go to their house and visit again and bring her back but I'd rather avoid them and meet her half way and come home I know this will sound bad but I also come from a high class background and they come from the complete opposite which never bothered me but the lack of edicate shows me that it matters in a sense I love my wife and she's amazing but I can't stand them What should I do

I met this man over 2 years ago and we hung out in the same friend group. I knew he was attracted to me and eventually we started hanging out just the 2 of us. He s married and I don t know how it started except that we became really good friends which escalated into more. Eventually he was basically living with me for almost 6 months because our company had him move to a different state away from his family for work for a while which is how we met because I had been moved there to. He would only go home 2 weekends a month. Eventually he told me he loved me and how he knew he had married the wrong person. He was moved back home over a year ago and I thought that would be the end. But since then he calls me every night. we talk all day and he flew back several times to see me. I now live about 30 min from him. His wife found out 4 mo ago and he still calls me every night and we see each other almost every 2 wks. I don t know what to do because I m tired of hearing how unhappy he is in his marriage and how much he loves me. I really do love him and his wife found out because she got suspicious and looked thru his phone and found texts where he was expressing his feelings and found love letters. He started calling this a relationship and he knows I m almost to the point of ending it. But I really don t want to lose him, I really care about him. We call each other best friends and we have phone calls that sometimes last 4 hours. I cant ask him to leave but I don t know what to do I should probably add that I haven't allowed anything intimate to happen besides kissing since he left a year ago. Which makes it more confusing because if he was just seeing me for sex I would get the side chick thing, but hes not getting that.

everything was great between us until he cheated on me. I tried to forgive him and make things work between us. Went to counselling etc but he cheated again a couple of months later so I decided to leave him. He begged for me to stay and said he's changed but couldn't believe him anymore so I left. Now he's all bitter and blaming me for everything. Insulting me and asking me to return every gift he ever gave me in two years of marriage saying he gave them to me because I'm his wife but if I'm leaving him then he wants it all back. He even made me a list. Can he do that ? He knows some of those things i don't even have them anymore. He bought me a laptop a year ago and knows all my work is on it and I can't afford another one right now as I'm leaving him and need money to get back on my feet etc.( we would equally share all the bills etc) He wants that back too. I gave him many gifts as well but I don't want them back because to me it's not right to do that. I'm not attached to material things. But can he legally demand all that back ?

Since we got married he doesn't do anything other than go to work, visit his mum and does grocery shopping on Sundays, eat watch tv and sleep. I tried to get him out to do some stuff with friends or go out together for a date or other stuff outdoors but in vain. I have hobbies, friends, activities I like doing but he will get mad at me if I go out with friends or do any of my hobbies. Basically I have to stay home and eat watch tv and sleep with him. I'm bored can't continue like this what happened to him he changed since we got married I asked him but he would insist he's alright and can't be bothered going out. He just wants to relax at home with his work he says but I'm bored of the same routine. What can I do

He blocked all my coworkers on my phone even my boss me his jealousy has made me possibly loose a job that I make over 100k at he emailed my job trying to get my fired excuse is they call and I work too much Im 8 months pregnant and loosing this job before leave could kill my finances as I have a company car, leave pay and insurance not to mention it would be difffcult to find a new job He had the car I am making payments on towed the car will likely go into repo as I can not get it out My kids hate him . He is very strict military rules Women should cook clean He doesn't work he's on ssd He does help clean but if I do not serve him his food he will not eat he wants to live only in one town I am White He wants to onlybe in a town that is 98 Cuban i has do not speak Spanish and most everywhere everyone speaks Spanish. he's very attentive to me . He is always saying he wants to be with me forever and he always has time for me . my childrenare almost grown and they will be starting their own life soon.I am having baby I raised my kids with no help from their father my parents were killed so I literally have not one person in my life do not go back I will be completely alone I know if I do not go back he will have a new women in his life quick and moved in will not be a part of this child's life if I do not gobback I know my credit plus all deposit will be gone if I move out making me more dependent on him He told me he likes that idea bc he never wants me to leave him .

Okay so, my parents are weird, it's like they are on and off with their relationship. They are either on good terms half the time, and the other half of the time they are annoyed by each other and fighting. Half the time they sleep in the same room and half the time they don't. In the past year they were about to divorce like 3 times, but never go through with it. The last time they were talking about divorcing and were fighting a lot was around 6 months ago, and I think the only reason they didn't divorce was because of me and my brother. I just don't like how they are hot and cold with each other, I just want them to end the fighting and stuff because I always feel bad for my mom after they fight, and I feel like it would just be better for all of us if they divorced if they keep on like this. I don't know if I am suppose to feel this way, am I being selfish about this because I am in no way trying to.

My fiancé does not want to leave his mom alone after we get married, she got married without thinking it through but her husband is a loser and lives in his truck because he can't afford a place for both of them to live. Now my fiancé feels like she has to live with so we can help her out but without her husband in the picture. I on the other hand think we should let her continue to live in the same place she is at and we can give her money to help pay for rent. As long as she's living alone. (I don't trust her husband) But the main thing for me is living alone as a newly wed couple. It's really important to me. I mean I love his mom but I want us to have our own privacy. Any suggestions?

Basically If I go out he always wants to go with me and gets mad if I don't take him even if I say it's a girls night or day out he will be mad he doesn't get to go. He gets mad when I go lingerie or clothes shopping with my female friends and not with him. I feel like I haven't got a minute for myself. At home I can't be by myself for a bit. He follows me everywhere and starts cuddling. If I'm cooking he'll be holding me. If I'm sat in the living room reading a book or anything he'll come join me and start cuddling. If I move to the bedroom he'll move too and join me and cuddles again. Soon as I want to do something he just jumps in. I have talked to him about it and he said I'm being cold because his behaviour is normal as he loves me. He told me he expects that when we are together I should drop everything I'm doing to give him my attention and have '' together '' time. Things is is I need alone time too. How do I get that if he won't leave me alone for a minute I love reading, listening to music, having a girls day out or video talking to my family as I live far away from them but soon as I'm doing any of that he'll just jump by my corner expecting me to stop and give him attention. I only enjoy the days I'm off and he's at work so I can do my own things but that rarely happens so I feel exhausted with his behaviour now.

I caught my husband in his computer watching female ice skaters. He would pause the screen every time the skater would have her legs up showing her crotch. He paused it several times. I asked him about it. At first he denied it, later admitted it. Our sexual life is not as active but is it reason for him to be attracted to YOUNG women? It would not be big deal to me if the women were my age, mid40s. He is 51, and those are teenage girls. Its wrong, I told him. Should he see a psychiatrist ?

The only thing I can come up with is marriage. I m society it s projected that people marry for love but in all actuality people marry for a number of reasons love , money , fame ect .. any other examples?

So my husband recently hangs out with his ex and her husband.. they literally just got in town a couple of days ago. But unfortunately I can't hangout with them is because I'm at work. He wakes up every morning since the day they have been here and go see them and drives them everywhere since they out of town. He does a good job being home early when I get home. But I still feel like it's not right and weird. I asked him if the roles were reversed how would he feel and he said it's different bc you depended on your ex while I didn't. But I feel like that's an excuse just for him to hangout with them. He thinks it's completely normal but I don't. I think it's weird. He doesn't even want me contacting my exes and I totally respect that. It's just weird for him to think it's okay. I just feel like he doesn't respect me. And we don't even have boundaries. It's just him always getting what he wants with this type of excuse. What do you think?