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My boyfriend and I have been dating more than a year. We are in our mid 20s. This has been the best relationship of my life so far, he constantly wants our relationship to progress and he has been taking the lead from day one, for example I am going to Europe this summer to meet his extended family. His parents lived together during school then got married, he wants to do the same, they have been together 25 years now. My parents went the traditional route and got divorced after 7 years. I said I'd compromise a year of my time, and I am not as excited as he is. I told him I would do an apartment for a year (he wanted to buy a condo) and that I don't want to invest in anything big with someone I am not married to. I want everything separate and I want an easy out if necessary. I told him I am not going to be the woman waiting around for years for a guy to decide if he wants to marry me or not because I know I will feel like I'm settling. Despite what I said to him I know I'm not ready to get married, if he proposed right now I don't think I'd be ready, yet if he did I would feel more secure about living with him. He doesn't understand why I don't view it as the next step for us, I guess I don't either. Despite all of my fears he is still very excited about it all he wants our relationship to grow and get stronger. Should I take the chance and move in? In my mind right now, it's better to take it because I know sooner if we have a future or not so I can move on if need be.

My wife feels scared when we hear her brother and his partner have sex. When we do it she loves it but it scares her to hear her brother and brother in law doing it. They do keep us awake he does scream kind of loud. Were a band so we all live in an appartment together theyre room is across the hall. What's wrong with her ? How can I help her feel better ?

I cant imagine saying not tonight honey or pushing him away. Even if I don't wanna do it I will have a sourpuss look but try to hide it and I will do what he wants. Who's wrong here?

My husband's current "bestie" is a man who used to grow and sell marijuana illegally, breaks copyright laws and steals media with torrent downloads and other tactics (despite being a 36 year old grown man with a reliable, well-paid job), has hacked my own paid Pandora account for his own use, etc. When I first met him, I didn't suspect anything about him. He comes across as trustworthy and friendly. But the stories about his criminal past and current criminal activity came rolling in as my husband would talk about him and I quickly wanted to distance myself from him as much as possible. I never forbade my husband from being friends with him, but my husband knew that I didn't like the guy (and still don't). Currently, my husband is rooming with him temporarily as we establish a new residence. The first night that my husband set up his computer in the guy's home, his Paypal account was hacked to the tune of $1000. Immediately I suspected his friend of the hack, but when I shared this suspicion with my husband, he went to the moon and back to defend the guy. This is a man who once "let himself in" to my husband's residence before my husband got home from work. He said he used his hidden spare key because he didn't think my husband would mind. I don't understand how my husband, or anyone, could go so far as to fight with their spouse about "how dare you accuse him of that" and defend a guy who he knows has hacked into his own wife's account in the past. What am I missing?

I'll just cut to the chase, me and my husband want to find a couple of men that would participate in non sexual, but fetish oriented activities. We don't want to pay them or receive payment, we're not looking for people to have sex with, we're not looking for prostitutes. We just want to have fun with other people but we're not sure where to look. Please don't recommend craigslist because thats too sketchy. I wanted to know if there we're any official and legitimate "dating" websites for that sort of thing?

A little insight before i go on the full story. I have depression, post partum depression, Low self esteem and lack of confidence. I wear sweats ALL the time my hair never brushed no make up looking like a zombie 99 percent of the time my husband met me and married me like this lol. I RECENTLY started to get dressed and do my hair, put a little eye liner on. I was trying to build myself back up and gain a little of my life back to feel better after 4 kids mentally and physicality . And get the motivation to go back to work after my youngest was born, The 4 months home was a little rough on me, Lately my husband is telling me that hes done cause apparently i don't listen to him when he says i'm beautiful. I tried to explain that i need to believe it before i can believe it from him. That i need to start Loving myself also. I want to bring me back and start gaining confidence and feeling like a woman. He says i'm not the woman he loved... I don't know what to do cause i love my husband, but apparently he doesn't love the woman i'm growing into. am i crazy or is he?

That is to be faithful loyal to each other and love each other For better or for worse For rich or for poor. In sickness and in health Till death do you part 1 in 2 Couples don't actually mean those vows when they say them and go back on their word and promises to each other 1 in 2 women will bail on their man if any of the above happen If he become worse , poor or terminally ill Or if they become bored and unsatisfied of the marriage sex they Leave and abandon him cheat have affair behind his back then divorce

I have an issue. No matter how much I tell myself to go do something, it's almost like my body just refuses. I'll say "okay we have to pick up after we are done eating, it's not even a lot to clean" and I just...won't. My husband has told me multiple times that it frustrates him when I don't contribute and I only do what I want to do. And every time he mentions it I feel really guilty, i clean up for the next two or 3 days, and then I'm right back to how it was. I hate it and I know it stresses him out but sometimes i feel like I have no control over it. So my question for anyone who has the same issues: how do you deal with it? Is there something I could try to get myself into the habit of picking up around the house more often? And please don't say "just do it", because that's not working and if I felt I could, i would. Thank you

My husband is a vet and served in afgan and Iraq between 2005-2011. He isnt the same man he was when I married him. He was discharged while in afghan because he had a breakdown while on patrol. He was shortly after diagnosed with PTSD. He see someone and takes medication. He cant keep a job because he gets angry and loses it. He yells and yes even has hit and threw me into a wall. However he hasnt done that since he has got help. We have twin daughters who are 13 and a son who is 9 and they both love their dad and scared of their dad....they dont want to eb around him. It hurts them and him that they feel this way. He yells and screams and tells me he is going to kill himself constanly. I am honestly dont want to go home after work sometimes...I dont think this is what a family is suppose to be. However, I love him and am scared to leave because I am scared he will hurt himself...I am just both physically and mentally exhausted. Does anyone have any advice or went through a similar situation? Thank you.

I mention men specifically because men have a lot more to lose and get F harder in divorce and family court than women do especially wealthy men . -Every 1 in 2 marriages fail and end up In divorce -And every 1 in 2 western women will in their life time commit infidelity and cheat on their husband stray whether that be a one night stand with someone or a full on affair Despite the husband doing everything right in their marriage despite the husband being a good husband father That means only 1 In every 2 women cant be trusted How do you know that your woman is the 1 in that 2 that can be trusted to be loyal faithful devoted to you How do you know that the wife partner you pick will be the 1 in that 2 that will lead a successful happy marriage with you that last a lifetime I go on here everyday and there is always several women talking about cheating on her husband online having affair thinking of leaving divorcing him for some stupid petty reasons

Could they start a family and have kids? Would the age difference cause any problems if they really love each other?