say this friend pissed you off. Not extremely as nothing major happened but still you're angry at him. Would you stay mad if he tried to make you laugh? for nothing major I mean he didn't run over your cat or something like that. I just mean you 2 had an argument and he made you mad but now he's trying to make you laugh

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, we had our ups and downs. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a while, I woke up and began to reject her sexual advances. It all began after one call, she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups. At the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

I've been seeing this guy at a store where he works for a couple of years now. My mom and I would talk to him and he would ask me how I was doing etc. Five months ago I saw him at the store and he asked me what was new. I told him I was in school for massage therapy. And he told me if I needed someone to practice on that I could practice on him. And he asked me for my number he didn't call me until last month for the first time. Asking if he could come over to my house to get a massage and asked if I wanted to hangout. So then he left a voicemail saying we could hangout on a certain day but I missed it and didn't call him back until a few days later. (I had sent him a message on Facebook the same week when he first called me. But he didn't get the message until after he asked me to hangout. I sent him a message asking him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. He said that he wish he would have got my number awhile ago and if it had been 2 years ago he would have loved to. And asked how I would feel about being with him and another girl. I told him I had never been with a man or woman before. He asked me if I was a virgin and said again that he wish he would have go my number awhile ago. Saying that he and I could have had a lot of fun together. He said he would still me my study buddy and that I could still practice massage on him. I asked if he and I could still hangout and he said absolutely. I know he has a girlfriend but I think it's strange that he took my number and didn't tell me he had a girlfriend. And even now that he knows I'm sexually attracted to him he still wants me to practice massage on him.

I have a friend who, i guess u could say...care free. So he doesn't always like to turn in homework and sometimes he has a bit of trouble with self control. So whenever he mentions that he has a homework due very soon or isn't going to turn it in I help him with it. The problem is, I try to help him but I end up hurting him instead. Just today 4 ex: we were working on homework at a local library. He started getting stressed because he tought he wasn't going to be able 2 finish in time. He started hitting the table with his knees playfully, but the table looked like there was an earthquake. I was afraid that we would get in trouble so I tried to tell him to stop, but I didn't want him to fel embarrased so I said it jokingly. But since he didn't get the hint, i mentioned the time he got publicly scolded by his teacher, which was recent. I was there, so of course he's going to feel embarrased about that, around me. And just the other day, I offered him a ride, but the problem is this: since the last time i offered a ride, he seemed a bit uncomfortable in the small car (he's very muscular), I didn't want my mom driving that same car. So to convince her to use dad's car, the bigger 1, I ended up telling her that my friend was "big and wouldn't fit in the car". I had forgotten that he can still understand the language I was speaking in. Not to mention that I get so ecxcited to hang out with him that sometimes I end up insulting him or hitting him even tho we're joking..

Hello! So, it's been awhile that I'm used to walk with a group of people that has the same insterests as me. And I've been noticing that everytime that I say my opinion the same girl (let's call her K) judge me and say I'm wrong. Today we had to do a work for school and there wasn't a chair for me, so I told her that I was going to seat in the computer behind her and she started to act really mean? She said thing like "Why are you like this?" , "Calm down" (I was really calm) and "I don't have the patience to argue with you right now". She always seems to subestimate me and the others agree with her almost every time, and I'm feeling like they're slowly rejecting me. I'm taking some distance of this group but I'm afraid that I'll be alone, because besides this group I don't have anyone to talk to. I would be really grateful if someone could help me. I hope you had a great day! I'm sorry for any grammar mistakes.

I did not get mad or defensive when she said you need to text me less often I just said hey I'm going to be respectful of your wishes so don't think I'm mad at you if I take a step back and text you very seldom. We get along great went out together and seem to really have a good time do you think permanent damage was done or do you think I'm good as long as I don't text her a lot? Is there anything else I can do to help make amends?

Usually my friend doesn t turn in homework, and he s a bit....care free. I don t want him making the same mistakes I make, so I try to help him finish homework and try to help him improve self control. But the problem is that I always end up bullying him somehow. That s what it feels like. Here s today 4 example: we were staying after school in the library to work on homework. He started getting stressed cuz it s due tomorrow and we hadn t even started on it yet. So he started playing with the computer and hitting the table with his knees. I was afraid we d get in trouble so I told him to stop (not in such a serious way that he took it personally). Since he took it in a jokingly way, I mentioned the time he was publicly scolded by his teacher. Since it happened recently, he immediately felt bad. And after we were about to go home, I offered a ride. But since I didn't want us to go in the smaller car my fam has, since he's pretty ripped, I tried to convince my mom to take dad's car. I ended up calling my friend "big and wont fit in the car" to convince my mom, forgetting that my friend understands the language I was speaking in. And not to mention, most times I end up insulting him even tho I'm joking. My question is this: I feel like I'm bullying him but I wanna know of I'm being paranoid or not. And am I right to tell him "let's work on ur hw" every1 time he mentions that he's late on turning in hw? I feel like I'm making him feel helpless and worthless everytime i'm with him

There is this guy I work with and he's my age, 19. He has a girlfriend and I know that and respect that, also I'm not interested in him that way. His girlfriend visits his job every day. One time while I was bagging for him, his girlfriend saw so she walked over and got all lovey dovey and kissy. Her boyfriend tried to tell her that it isn't the right time for her to be all lovey dovey because he's at work so she steps away but doesn't leave him alone. So as I was bagging, there was a can that was left far away, so I said. "Jay, could you hand me that can please?" I asked, so he handed it to me, and I thanked him, his girlfriend got mad and said "Why don't you get it yourself? My boyfriend isn't your server", so I told her I was just bagging and she said "Yeah, bagging your way to try and steal my boyfriend" she threatend, I told her I only saw him as a friend and she said "No you don't, you want him for yourself, well too bad because he's mine and only mine. Go get yourself your own boyfriend, but that won't happen probably because you look like a donkey who mated with godzilla" so Jay asked her to leave and she told him, "If you want to keep dating me, you'll stop talking to donkey kong freak" and left. He apologized and said that he still wants to be friends but I don't know if we should at this point.

My friend adI were havig a deep conversatin on the phone, she is my kindred spirit and I am hers. Were very close. During the conversation she had said"Well i care ad I have such a specia iterest in you"

say this friend pissed you off. Not extremely as nothing major happened but still you're angry at him. Would you stay mad if he tried to make you laugh?

So I've been crushing on my best friend for a while and I told her recently that I had these feelings that felt more than me just loving her as a best friend. I always want to cuddle with her or just be with her and hug her and sometimes I do want to kiss her but I never want to do anything sexual. We are both straight girls and in our 20s. At first she said that she felt honored I felt this way and she loves me but now she said that feels the same way, the kind of crush feeling. We talked about how we are not gay because we don't make out or want anything sexual besides the occasional boob grab or butt smacking. I've kissed her a few times only as a peck but before I admitted my feelings. We just layed together face to face and fell asleep. She always lays on me and says that she just loves me and now she thinks she likes me too. We still like boys but we both agreed that of course this is more than what normal best friends do but we're both okay with. What is this? What does it mean?

I get you people hate overly sensitive people so much ( trust me I hate myself too , I wish I wasnt ) I am trying to work on myself..I just stick to myself now : ( but now. I have no friends . well , people state how it's terrible to be even a little sensitive..so do people just prefer everyone just to be such as sholes and not give a crap about anyone lol? How are we suppose to act?

ME:Do you want to be friends with benefits? HIM:I wish you would've given me your number years ago. How do you feel about being with me and another girl? ME:Wow. I was thinking that maybe we might hookup but I guess not lol. HIM:2 years ago I would've loved to ME:I understand. HIM:the lady likes ladies though ME:Nevermind me saying anything I was out of line anyway. I thought you were single and was just looking for some fun. HIM:I was ME:Ok I just always thought you were sexy. I don't know what I was thinking lol. It's crazy but I apologize. HIM:Don't I was always into you too ME:Well we can still be friends. HIM:good ME:I'm thinking about going back to massage school part time I really miss it. HIM:I'll still be your study buddy ME: It's just that a threesome is a little much for me. I've never really been sexually involved with a guy. HIM:but you've been with girls, so how bout being involved with the girl while I sit back and watch? ME:I've never been with a woman either. HIM:oh so you're a gem, then? Like I said, I wish I got your number years ago. we could've been having such fun ME:I wish you hadn't of waited so long to ask for my number. I feel like I missed out lol. ME:Can we still hangout? HIM:you were always with your family I feel like I never had you alone and I thought you were too young absolutely. I have to go now though. I'll ttyl *I know he has a girlfriend you don't need to tell me that

ME:Do you want to be friends with benefits? HIM:I wish you would've given me your number years ago. How do you feel about being with me and another girl? ME:Wow. I was thinking that maybe we might hookup but I guess not lol. HIM:2 years ago I would've loved to ME:I understand. HIM:the lady likes ladies though ME:Nevermind me saying anything I was out of line anyway. I thought you were single and was just looking for some fun. HIM:I was ME:Ok I just always thought you were sexy. I don't know what I was thinking lol. It's crazy but I apologize. HIM:Don't I was always into you too ME:Well we can still be friends. HIM:good ME:I'm thinking about going back to massage school part time I really miss it. HIM:I'll still be your study buddy ME: It's just that a threesome is a little much for me. I've never really been sexually involved with a guy. HIM:but you've been with girls, so how bout being involved with the girl while I sit back and watch? ME:I've never been with a woman either. HIM:oh so you're a gem, then? Like I said, I wish I got your number years ago. we could've been having such fun ME:I wish you hadn't of waited so long to ask for my number. I feel like I missed out lol. ME:Can we still hangout? HIM:you were always with your family I feel like I never had you alone and I thought you were too young absolutely. I have to go now though. I'll ttyl *I know he has a girlfriend you don't need to tell me that

To be honest I don't know where I'm going with this but I just always talk without thinking just to fill in awkward silence or make converstation I feel the need to so I should I stop that habit ? Also I overshare way too much online sometimes & it should be for close friends but I also just feel the need to let everyone know everything almost sometimes.

I noticed changes in my friend. She seemed depressed. She wouldn't say what was going on directly, but she hinted it. I caught the hint. anyway though, I knew she told one of our other friends, so just to make sure....I asked her. Apparently, my suscpisons were correct. She's being abused. I just don't know if I should report it. I don't want to make anything worse. me and her are the only people who know, and she's keeping it a secret. I though, feel like I need to tell, but....it could make matters worse. Im afraid if I do, the police and CPS might get involved. (We're in freshman year) and if CPS gets involved, she could be taken into foster care. Now, I've been in that system before, (I'm not now though) and it really sucked. They don't really fully check where they place you, and from my experience, your not loved when your in the system. all the homes I was in were horrible. I was treated poorly, and unfairly. I felt like an object. and I don't wish it in anyone. But I think if that happens to her, she'll feel even worse. I can tell how sad she is, but I just think reporting it might do more harm than good....what should I do? I don't want her to experience that. And she has some visible bruises, and a scar....nobody really questions it though.

My friend adI were havig a deep conversatin on the phone, she is my kindred spirit and I am hers. Were very close. During the conversation she had said"Well i care ad I have such a specia iterest in you"

I cannot say I have a group project. College is already over. I'll be moving out in august for my masters. I'm 22. At the moment I live with my parents. It's us friends meeting and planning a night out. Mostly involving watching a movie, going to a club, drinking a little, going to this girl's penthouse, getting more/proper drunk there, party and sleep over. Maybe having sex with a friend. idk I cannot tell this stuff to parents! They'll lock me up instead of giving me permission. What do I tell them, that they allow me to leave! And also how do I manage if they call in the middle of the night?

I would like some help in deciding between two girls. I'm a 26 year old guy. Girl #1 She is a 24 year old Elementary school teacher. She is really elegant, polite, and a strong Christian. She is really innocent, but doesn't have a lot of experience in the world because she has been raised really sheltered. She doesn't drink or anything. She doesn't cuss, and likes to babysit a lot. She is really loyal and loves strongly, but doesn't have a lot of self confidence and always wears stuff that covers herself. She also doesn't have any friends. Girl #2: She is 22 and finishing her last semester of college before becoming a middle school teacher. She is really sweet and down for anything. She is pretty classy, but not religious at all. She is very loyal and fun to hang out with. She has her nose pierced and likes to dress up to go out and shows a little bit, but makes sure to be classy. She lives on her own and doesn't get stressed out to easy. One of her favorite things to do is to have a beer at the bar with her friends. Which girl should I date?

I'm 15 years old. Im in 10th grade. I literally have no friends, I had a few friends, but they turned on me. I also have no friends that are girls, and I really want a girlfriend. I haven't hung out with anyone since Idk how long. I am not depressed, though. I enjoy spending time with my parents. I just want a girl friend, or even a real friend.

My best friend has been telling me that she has been thinking about ending her life and I'm really scared for her. Last August, she cut herself and she's been saying that nothing is helping. She said that she's been feeling horrible and sad for no reason. She says that her grades are horrible and her friends of last year aren't her friends anymore. She says she's alone now and people bully her because she's bi. She told me she puts on a fake face and acts like everything is ok, but it isn't. She also says her mom gets mad really easily and she has even called my friend a little *****. She says she doesn't see any point in living and I'm worried about her. What can I do to help?

I'm in my senior year of high school and I don't have any close friends. I talk to people, but they are more like acquaintances than friends. I really want to make close friends and I'm nervous that it's too late to make friends because I'm a senior and everyone already has their friends picked out!! I plan on going to community college, will I make friends there? It seems like I make friends in high school but they're just acquaintances because they never ask me to hang out with them or go out to lunch... it makes me sad!

Ok, so this past weekend, I partied/went to the bars. So at a bar, I was kinda lit, and I was trying to help my friend who was about to get us kicked out, and I was also just trying to take a pic of the bar(not my friend of course), to just add the my snap story nothing, weird. I'm not used to the new format, and I accidentally sent it in a group to some of my contacts. Embarassing, I know. They all left it I'm sure, and I just blocked them, because Ii'm really embarassed. The snap wasn't anything weird just a drink with the title of the bar, but am I overreacting. I'm sure they knew it was an accident and that I was just a little lit lol. I feel like living in a cave now.

i'm in my mid teens, and finding it incredibly difficult to make friends. my peers are more concerned with waving around fidget spinners and shouting "kill yourself" over and over again than being decent people and they have no sense of maturity. they already dislike me because i don't share their mentality of "drugs-sex-popularity." i'm doing well in school. my grades are pretty good and i'm first chair viola in orchestra. i'm acing spanish and am teaching myself german so i don't get bored. i'm really happy and satisfied with life. but despite all this, life is dull. i see other kids laughing and joking with their friends, yet after school i find myself feeling lonely. i don't have friends. and i don't mean to sound "edgy" or whatever it's called. i would just like some advice on how to find another decent human being, y'know. somebody to at least talk to. any advice would be appreciated. thanks.

My parents always say that I am antisocial and have no life and am going to go no where like this. My mom is always nagging me about why I don't ever have anyone over, and if I like being "a loner". I have moved high schools 3 times within a year (not by choice, but for work), and it is really hard making good friends. I have a good amount of friends who I talk to at school, and they talk about hanging out, but never actually do. I don't feel like a "loner" or anything, and I don't want to be lonely, it is just hard to make really good friends. I feel like I am always compared to my sister, who is more social. I don't mind being alone, but don't want to be lonely. I don't really know what to do.

I have this friend who has been getting on my nerves more and more lately. Our personalities and senses of humor just don't match at all now and they just annoy me to no end. I don't want to hurt them or anything. How would I say I don't want to be friends anymore without hurting them?

We do different sports in my PE class at school. We just switched from Basketball to Volleyball. And we changed team members. And I was put with the Rich Popular kids. Dose anyone have advise? And yes i'm not popular at all.

Sorry for the long post, I think that I am pretty nice to people, but some guys are just so rude to me, I don't really understand why. I have a friend who I sit with at lunch and we're pretty good friends, but sometimes he can just be really rude to me. He'll ignore me, he'll tell me he doesn't care when I tell him things, and sometimes he'll treat me like I'm dumb. I even got him a Christmas present, and I've gotten him food, but he continues to just have this weird resentment toward me. I try to be nice, and I don't understand what I'm doing wrong. Another time this guy who I'm okay with constantly makes me feel like ****. He's made fun of the way I look, telling me I look like a lesbian (which I'm not) and just picks on me all the time. One day I just snapped and was yelling at him to shut up, I can't believe I had to go as far as to yell in class at a guy that was bothering me. I also have this friend who I think is funny and I've had good times with him, but one day he seemed in a pissed off mood and called me ugly. He would be rude to me sometimes but I've still maintained a good friendship with him. What's wrong with me that guys just seem to not like me, or feel the need to be rude? Thank you in advance

Look, I just feel like my own friends don't like me anymore, like how they use to( don't even say anything about then they aren't your true friends, I've heard it before), when we first met. I'm already trying to like not contact my friends anymore, or try and make excuses to go home from school so I don't have to see them for the rest of the day. I just feel like I'm a disappointment to them, and they never should have met me. I honestly don't know what to do now.