My husband and I would sometimes get into arguments that would get heated sometimes. Sometimes he undermines what I say. We have different styles and competitive too with each other. There is an unspoken thought between us that says he and I don't think of each other as smart. Is it healthy or ok for couples to have this type of relationship?

Career woman...how do you deal with the your emotions when you're having a bad day? And how do you not let it take over you? I have such a hard time controlling my emotions that it takes over me and the things I need to get done and my job! What are some things you ladies do to control your emotions?

someone else? What did she mean indeed?

i came clean about being sexually assaulted when i was 8 years old. i told her the truth and she laughed at me saying i'm delusional and i need help. my sister knows about the assault and she knows the person who did it as well ( that guy worked in my uncle's garage when we were younger ). my mom then claimed that she knew about my assault and that she didn't consider it rape as my rapist didn't manage to penetrate me completely. she said " oh yeah you were just molested and we made sure he went to jail for a month'. A ******* MONTH ??? she told me it was my fault and i had no business playing in our balcony when everyone was asleep ( my grandma naps in the afternoon till 5pm ). if an 8 year old is playing under no supervision does that mean its an open invitation to rape her? i remember everything about that day. i remember the dress i was wearing, i remember him coming up to me and taking me to the backyard, i remember him making me sit on a stone slab while he undid his pants, i remember him trying to put his dick inside me and rubbing it on me, i remember him ejaculating on my vagina because he couldn't get it in completely and then telling me not to tell anyone. i even went and told my grandmother as soon as she woke up but i guess she downplayed what happened. how can a mother tell her own daughter that shes delusional about being raped? apparently what happened to me doesn't fit her definition of what rape is.am i wrong to cut her out ofmy life completely?

Sometimes I feel like I want to take that hat away from him. He wears that hat everywhere he goes and people keep saying "thank you for your service" "you are a hero", I find it disrespectful to those that served and hopefully he's not getting discounts on things since he's not a Veteran and if a real Veteran sees him wearing that hat and finds out he's not one then they are going to be upset. Should I take it away from him or should I let him learn the hard way when a real Veteran sees him?.