Everytime a married woman is unhappy about something upset over something and complains about it on the internet First thing strangers like you assume is they always blame the man its all the mans fault and they are quick to point their fingers at the husband and call him the bad guy gang up on him and suggest to the woman that she should leave him and get a divorce I see that BS on here in this section all the time and on the internet all time And my girlfriend wonders why i don't want to get married. It's BS like this that makes me don't want to get married and avoid it all together Society is so misandric and married men always get the short end of the stick Marriage in Western society Its a feminist anti-man hating institution that serves and protects only women and leaves men in the dust Men get nothing out of marriage just the short end of the stick they get blamed for everything when the wife isn't happy and strangers first advice is to tell the wife to leave divorce the husband over the smallest things with that type of BS going on in society can you blame young men for being scared of marriage

My taste in porn is hot young couples getting it on. There is a brand Nubile Films that really turns me on. The women tend to be curvy, but not fat. They tend to be fairly to very pretty. They aggressively please the male performer. He tends to be good looking, in shape and fairly well hung. Most of thectime it is one man and one woman. Sometimes it is two women and one many. Sometimes it is internal ejaculation. Mosf of the time the male ejaculates on the body, butt or back. Maybe little hits the face, but generally nog all over her face. Maybe you are familiar with this studio, maybe not. There is no dialog or story. I call it tasteful hardcore. My wife thinks ig is still gross. Too manh closups of penis in mouth or vagina. To many ejaculagion sbots. I like to know ghe male had a good time, because he probably gets very little money compared to the female performers. If I was single, about 2" longef and 15 years younger, I would perform with any of the women for free, just for the hot sex. Is there anything gross about a young couple getting it on? Maybe with a friend ofchers too, because you know that's a male fantasy, but two males with one female can get awkward.

I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year now, and he has a two year old daughter with his ex. They divorced because she cheated on him while pregnant with their daughter. Yet for some reason, I constantly worry that he still has feelings for her; when his ex picks up their daughter from his house and I am there, he always steps outside and closes the front door to talk to her, leaving me inside. I never know what they are talking about. He is still friends with her on Facebook, even though they have each other's phone numbers and been instructed by the court to communicate through a court-mediated website. He claims that she broke her phone, and has no other way of communication than through Facebook. He even fixed her car without even being prompted (after the divorce). They always seem to hold extremely pleasant conversations whenever they swap their daughter to each other. He says he is pleasant to her because of their daughter, which I understand is important. However, he just seems a little too bubbly to her. These issues may seem scattered and pointless, maybe I am jumping to conclusions. It just seems that if my ex had cheated on me and I divorced them, I would purposefully be nothing more than neutral at best, much less pleasant and cheerful. if it were me, I would want to absolutely minimize contact at all costs. What should I make of this?

My wife cries when we have sex. Why ?

I am a father paying child support and I pay a bit more for the reason that they have medical insurance under their mothers job...I took my son to the ER and found out he has no insurance.

I try to be nice to him but he insults me and has all these control freak issues for me to follow when my husband and I visit.I am not allowed to use the bathroom the tv or the hallway without his permission at my mom's house when I visit. He keeps lying to my mom and getting us to fighting which we never use to do.He wants my husband and I to sleep in separate bedrooms when we visit. He threw a fit because my mom husband and I had a couples glasses of wine at dinner.He told me he views me as a threat to his marriage to my mom and feel he has to compete for my mom's affections. I talk to my mom about this , and she is lonely since my dad died and wants us all to be friends.

I want to get married to my girlfriend Settle down have a wife family and kids I'm my heart I truly and honestly do But I don't want to risk everything I own and have for a 1 in 2 chance shot of happily ever after What If she decides one day that she doesn't love me anymore and leaves me for someone else divorces me I've seen and talked to divorced men i know a lot of them It's a horrifying ugly nightmare I've see. And talked to married men who wife's had affair cheated on them divorced them they lost everything I don't want to risk everything and lose everything It happens a lot to a lot of men At least if she decides she doesn't love me anymore in the future and leaves me I only get away with a broken heart which heals with time not ending up In poverty working till I'm 70 to make back what i lost

I've been with my wife for 10 years. We have no kids. We have a great life. The problem is that I enjoy many expensive luxuries. I like going to get full on massages, sideline seats for Giants and Devils games, wear fancy suits for work, and drink expensive whisky and smoke high end cigars. I make nearly 6 figures but we still have no money saved. 6 months ago my wife cancelled my cards and started to put me on a budget. Each week it got tougher to live the way I was. Last week at work I had enough and while she was working I went to the house, took all of the wifes jewelry in our safe(including family heirloom ring), took other house items to make it look like a robbery, and drove an hour away to seedy pawn shops and sold all of it. When I got back I saw cop cars in our house. My wife called them when she got home. They took their report and left. My wife was upset and I pretended to feel the same. Since then I went to 2 devils games and gotten 3 $200 massages while at "work"/ went to bar. Today my wife asked me why there was as Devil's stub was in my jacket(was looking for keys). I lied and said a co-worker gave it to me. She said "Ok" and left the room. I'm afraid she will nail me and I'll go to jail. How to avoid being caught?

Me and my wife got married after being together for only two weeks we had no reason to. She's 15 I'm 21. Is this wrong ?

I am currently seeking an attorney to help me with the divorce process. I have a few questions before hand. So if anybody could chime in that would be great. I make 3k a month, she makes 1200 a month. There's our income. I have no criminal background and neither does she. She has fell into depression before and currently is suppose to be on medication for slight ptsd and an anxiety disorder. She has been at her worst the last 6 months, she has verbally said to me that wished I lost my job, my house, my kids, my truck. She dances and sings about me leaving and hitting rock bottom and making fun of while getting the kids to sing a long with her. She constantly argues with me, so ill go into the room to avoid the fight in front of kids, then she purposely follows me to continue. She makes her fingers on her head and says "I'm the devil" while kids watch. She's left the kids outside my work parking lot 3 years ago and left without notice because she was mad. I bring that up because she asked me to bring my son some food on my lunch, I did, while we were eating she said she'd be back. That was Fri at 1130am she turned her phone off after she text my oldest son that she loves them but won't be available because she needs a break. I'm really afraid of the whole fact that washington state is a mother state and I will lose physical custody. Im not trying to take the kids from her forever, I just want physical custody while she has joint. Is this a losing battle for me?

I am pregnant ,had a miscarriage last year . I am farther along than i ever was last year . I am afraid to have sex right now ,one because it makes me sore and 2 bc I have been so sick i haven't felt like it . I have offered to have oral sex but my husband just comes home and goes to bed . Even on the weekend ,for the past 3 months . I dont get it . He works 8 hours ,5 to 1 ,is 27 . I dont know what to do ,he won't even give me a massage ? I have to ask alot ? What would you do

You know how I've never been that girl to press or force a marriage convo? So, My brother an sister-in-law both snapped me that they've been together 13 years (go them!) and i mentioned it to my SO... I mentioned how amazing and I remeber them as a new couple. I loved my sister-in-law right away. So I asked..how long have we been together? 5 years right? ..we both agreed about 5 yrs. I asked, "do u see us getting married?" He said "why are u asking out of nowhere." I said "well, because of my brother... just started thinking about us and marriage." He said ohhh, we've talked about it before. ( over a year ago was the first time I asked him when he saw himself marrying me). I asked again, "do you see yourself marrying me one day?" He was weird about it and said "I don't know if I'm ready for marriage, I don't see myself getting married yet." Which is understandable but not once did he mention me. I'm not the type of woman to get hung up on marriage or ask until I was pregnant - which was over a year ago. But now, I'm just hurt and confused. Day in and day out I work, clean, cook & take care of our child. I carried and birthed our child, I've sacrificed so much mentally and physically. Latelly, I feel unaprecited... I don't know what to do or say... how should I go about talking to him?