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- Question: How do I tell a baby it’s dad died from a toy it left on the stairs and their dad tripped over it?
- Question: I have a teacher how lied to my mom?
- Question: How should I handle this (and should I involve my son-in-law)?
- Question: PLEASE HELP ME, I NEED SUGGESTION REGARDING MY SISTER.?
- Question: What does someone do if they are sick get kicked out of the house. no job or income. and their parents are horrible abusive and evil to them?
- Question: Should I tell him I'm his mother?
- Question: If my parents never met, yet they each had a child with another partner, which family would potentially birth me?
- Question: Why does my family always make me feel bad about my height I'm 17 and 5'1.?
- Question: Do you think it's offensive the way "father" is used as a verb?
- Question: I told my mom I wanted to kill myself and she called me a spoiled brat?
- Question: Why is my dad never happy?
- Question: My girlfriend's father just proposed to my mother. what do we do?
- Question: I had the worst year in 7th grade. Could that be why those memories stick out?
- Question: Family worry I need help on, read below and please reply?
- Question: Is my mom emotionally abusive?
- Question: I was the unplanned child?
- Question: Why does my mom yell at me easily/what do you think is wrong? Am I a bad person? (?
- Question: I'm constantly miserable and depressed living with my mother but i cant afford to move out right now. how can i cope?
Posted: 20 Feb 2018 09:43 AM PST |
Question: I have a teacher how lied to my mom? Posted: 20 Feb 2018 07:38 AM PST This teacher has always had it in for me but I never thought she would lie straight to my moms face telling her I said my brother got shot I never said that. I'm getting in trouble for something I never said what should I do. I have a teacher who lied to my mom |
Question: How should I handle this (and should I involve my son-in-law)? Posted: 20 Feb 2018 06:27 AM PST Our grandson (7 y/o) spent last week with us while his father was away for work reasons and his nanny was having a week off (our daughter has sadly passed away four years ago). Usually my grandson called me Granny, but over the week he insisted on using my first name. Last night when I called, he also did the same. However, he called my husband Gramp, as usual. I told grandson that he should call me Granny. I asked where he picked that up and grandson answered that his daddy (my son-in-law) also calls me that way. My son-in-law calls my husband "Dad" because my husband told him to do so long ago. I didn't, because of some misunderstandings in the past, and as years gone by it has become awkward to change. I don't know if my son-in-law has told his son to be disrespectful toward me. How should I bring this up with my son-in-law? I don't want to have another fight with him. My husband said just let it go, but I don't want this to become a habit, or that our grandson grow up thinking I'm a witch or something. |
Question: PLEASE HELP ME, I NEED SUGGESTION REGARDING MY SISTER.? Posted: 20 Feb 2018 06:13 AM PST She is 30 married 2 kids and i am 25 married no kids idk if she has intrest in me or not her husband is *** he treats her like slave doesnt come home all night long goes to other girls beats her controls her too much my sis is scared of him me and my sis are really close we talk dirty we share secrets we laugh but only on whtsapp My sis comes to visit us on thrusday night and stays our place until sat morning The only place where we can talk alone or private is on whtsapp when her husband is not around...when she comes to visit us thusday night she spend most time with mom and other sisters I used to have sex with my wife and i used to tell her that i love my sis she got pissed and told everything to my mom and sisters they thought that i have some kind of mental issue thats why i told all this Me and my sis are really close we talk dirty like i have no kids so she says why dont you have kids until now dont you have sex with your wife and sometimes i say i want to marry another girl she says ya ya you need a girl to satisfy you I try to flirt with her on whtsapp and i tell her marriage you were so happy and now u r smile is lost u r husband treats you like **** if u were my wife i would become u r slave i tell her you look so gorgeous when you dress up on eid or new year why dont you dress up often especially when you wear pink dress u look beautiful i am in love with her please help me what can i do now? |
Posted: 20 Feb 2018 02:30 AM PST with no job or income. and their parents are horrible abusive and evil to them. kicking them out of the house on the street to let them starve to death sick and die instead of helping them? is that legal for parents to do that??? And what if the police wont help? what then? and they are over the age of 18 and they need medication and attention but their parents refuse and the police wont do anything? |
Question: Should I tell him I'm his mother? Posted: 20 Feb 2018 02:30 AM PST I was raped and I got pregnant I eventually got hooked on drugs and I became a prostitute. My son was taken from me when he was four. He was taken because I was a terrible mother and I didn't treat him well. I cleaned up my act and got help found a good man and I was finally able to get my son back. But he doesn't know I'm his mom.He thinks I'm a foster mom. My son is now ten and he has problems from what I understand he's been with multiple families and his anger has been a constant issue from what I've been told. He has nightmares about a woman he calls her the Scary Lady and he draws her and I'm pretty sure I'm the Scary Lady. Part of me wants to tell him I'm his mom that I'm so sorry for the person I was but I worry I'll make things worse. Should I tell him? |
Posted: 20 Feb 2018 12:12 AM PST |
Question: Why does my family always make me feel bad about my height I'm 17 and 5'1.? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 10:02 PM PST I won't and can't explain but it really bugging me. That try not to care afterwards or get angry but there actions show. I do ignore them so much I could be smaller but why do they always do this to me it's like I'm always small or something. But it really Effin pissing me off. I don't inside if this is the way how they wanna be or and I mean who do they take me as I am I mean this is a joke wtf but I really need to know why tf r they doing this to me it making me really so mad and really bothers me it just not right. So long story short but what going on???? Wtf is going on ???? I can't do anything and I feel completely I don't know. I fuc ken hate them and would do anything. Wth ... Help |
Question: Do you think it's offensive the way "father" is used as a verb? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 09:41 PM PST When the word "mother" is used as a verb, it refers to taking care of a child. When the word "father" is used as a verb, it refers to conceiving a child. The word "mother" is NEVER used as a verb to describe carrying a child or giving birth. WHAT THE HELL? I find this offensive on every level. It creates this stupid belief that fathers are nothing more than sperm donors and not really important. It makes me sick. Do you agree? Do you think it's offensive to use the word "father" as a verb for merely conceiving a child? |
Question: I told my mom I wanted to kill myself and she called me a spoiled brat? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 08:29 PM PST (please take the time to read this all, I know its long, but its important to the rest of the story) This might sound stupid, so let me give you some context before you say Im overdramatic. Ive been begging my parents to let me do online school since I found out about it. I was recently diagnosed with ADHD, and obviously most classrooms are not exactly conducive to my needs, which is why it's basically impossible for me to function as a normal person in a classroom environment and Im constantly miserable. My parents refuse to put me on medication, even though not only me, but my grades are suffering horribly. They dont take this seriously and genuinely believe Im just an edgy teen who hates society. It has literally driven me to the brink of suicide because going to school makes me so miserable. My parents were on board with me doing online school next year for the most part, until suddenly my mom decided she would be completely against it. I would literally rather die than have to be stuck in traditional school for my high school career. Im already miserable as it is, but next year school is actually going to count, and the fact that Im getting such bad grades already and cant help it, even though Im trying my hardest, terrifies me to no end. My education is probably the single most important thing in my life, and thats going to be severely threatened if Im not able to do online school. I have had several online classes with the program I would be using, and every time (sorry, it got cut off) Ive been able to end the class with an A easily. I know how the program works and I know for a fact Im able to learn so much better online. Anyway, getting to the meat of the problem... My mom called me and out of nowhere she suddenly refused to let me do online school next year, we were communicating back and forth (me trying to get my thoughts across calmly as she yells over me) after SHE was done talking, in the middle of me trying to get a thought out, she started yelling over me, and then hung up on me. I texted her after, and I tried to explain the weight of this issue and how much its affecting me. I even confined in her and told her it made me miserable to the point of considering suicide, and that I would rather die than have to suffer through traditional high school. Immediately afterwards, she accused me of blackmail, she texted these exact words: "Thats very smart talk" "You are acting like a little spoiled brat who doesnt get her way" "Something in your life doesnt go exactly your way and you start threatening your parents make killing yourself?" (what the hell) "Way to go thank you very much" I didnt respond after that because of how taken aback I was and how upset it made me (not that this is new) I mean how are you supposed to respond to your mother name calling you and accusing you of blackmail/attention seeking after confiding in her about wanting to commit suicide? This should be a fun little tidbit to tell my therapist |
Question: Why is my dad never happy? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 05:48 PM PST I'm 22 years old and I recently started going through some financial trouble and my dad was kind enough to let me stay with him. I do help around the house where I can like doing dishes mowing the grass etc and I give him money when I can ( I do have a retail job now). Now I just can't tell if he's constantly bitching at me because he doesn't want me there or cuz he just doesn't like me. He constantly bitches about my job and the way I do things.no matter what I do I can't seem to make him happy. I would understand if he doesn't want me there but when I bring that up he Says he doesn't want me to be homeless. In all honesty I'm on the brink of just saying **** it and living in my car instead of living with him. What can I do? |
Question: My girlfriend's father just proposed to my mother. what do we do? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 05:36 PM PST the girl i'm dating is about to become my sister! now what? |
Question: I had the worst year in 7th grade. Could that be why those memories stick out? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 04:43 PM PST I'm almost 16 and I'm curious of why I remember it more than any other year. An 18 year old girl was my only friend, got into fights, and parents didn't care enough. As a 12 year old I was forbidden to go to an after-prom. It was age-inappropriate and I cried for hours because I couldn't be there with my friend. For some reason, when my friends mention prom.. I still get this weird feeling and reminds me of all the bad things. It doesn't effect me much, but I'll always remember those days. When I speak to my old classmates, I remember everything. I still remember wanting to grow up so fast, and the times my parents got mad at me for getting into trouble at school. No one else remembers THIS much, not even my classmates and parents. My old teacher can't remember everything. I don't have the best memory either, it's ONLY this age that I remember so well. Could it be that bad memories stick out more than neutral ones? |
Question: Family worry I need help on, read below and please reply? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 03:47 PM PST In a few weeks my cousin is coming to town with her new baby. I want to reach out by getting a baby gift and offering to bring it by where she is staying (at my aunt's which is her Mom's). I am scared I will seem intrusive however. I am scared if I mess up socially I will be cast out of the family forever. Also, I am scared the family will have a party for my cousin and her new baby with all the cousins, aunts, uncles, and my grandmother. I fear they will leave me out since my Mom is deceased and they are not close to my Dad. This is my late mother's side of the family. Thus, the whole family will gather and I will be left out and feel that pain of rejection that I felt as a kid when my Mom wouldn't let me see them due to a feud my Mom caused. I feel so hurt when this happens. So what do I do about these two fears to make sure neither happens? Please advise. I am 32 and male and thus living on my own so it is not like I have to only go if my Dad does but for a party I'd have to be invited obviously. |
Question: Is my mom emotionally abusive? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 03:35 PM PST My mom and I are not on good terms right now due to me using their money to go to chickfila (I understand this is wrong and I should be held reasonable for my actions, but her reactions seem somewhat extreme) and she s done some things that seem to show signs of emotional abuse. While we were fighting she would guilt trip me saying, "I get it I m a bad mom and I never give you enough attention," and, "You could go to jail for this!" She is forcing me to quit an activity I have done all 4 years in high school and planned to do in high school even though we have paid $500+ to do it. She was saying that I m probably not even gonna graduate and said, "I d take away your car, but how do I know you d even go to school without it?" and continued to say stuff like this. I do understand what I did was wrong, however I do think some of what she is saying is emotionally abusive as its form of guilt tripping and trying to make me feel bad. She does this whenever we get into fights and has never apologized for it. |
Question: I was the unplanned child? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 02:03 PM PST Hi, im a nineteen year old boy I am the youngest of three my brother is twenty one and my sister is twenty five. A couple of weeks ago my brothers friend who i dont really like said to me"at least i wasnt the unplanned child" i kind of shrugged it off and turned it back on him. But then i saw on my brothers phone that he had told this girl that our parents said that i was the unplanned child. My dad got vasectomy im assuming after i was born. Im having a bard time going through my teenage years and i just dont know why i even exist if my own parents who are the people i trust the most didnt want me at all. This has mad me depressed and ive been crying over it a lot. |
Question: Why does my mom yell at me easily/what do you think is wrong? Am I a bad person? (? Posted: 19 Feb 2018 01:52 PM PST My parents left & told me to feed the dogs.I went to feed them but I forgot the salmon oil, so they did not eat. She said how sometimes they don't like eating if they aren't home so I didn't think anything of it,& I texted my mom.She got home, she asked me if I put the oil on the food, but I didn't really hear her (the dog bowls are near the laundry room)&i assumed that she asked if I fed them, so I said yes.She said how could you do it if the salmon oil isn't even open and I said oh, sorry I thought that you said did you feed the dogs.She got really mad at me and said that I have listening problems & that I was a dingbat. She said that she does everything for me but I can't do this one thing for her,I am selfish& I don't care about anyone but myself.She said check your chores so I went over but she said get out of my face& tried to hit me but I moved.So I left the room and started to clean and my parents started fighting.After I cleaned I went to my room and then she said to go to bed.They were still fighting, and when I was lying down I heard a bunch of banging (it sounded like a table) and I heard her say "Bryan stop!" and a little while later I didn't hear it anymore but I heard them yelling still.Eventually, I fell asleep and then at like 11 my dad woke me up and said"do you not think you are selfish?"& i said I don't think I am selfish, I just made a mistake.&my dad said well you are and you need to not be selfish so isaid ok and then he left so Ijust went back to bed. |
Posted: 19 Feb 2018 09:09 AM PST how can i be happy living in her household until it's time for me to move out. my mother has been physically and mentally abusing ever since i was like 7 years old. i remember having to go to school after my mother had tried to choke me to death and there were bruises on my neck and when people asked me what was wrong i had to lie. she would constantly slap me around and call me all kinds of B***. to this day she still calls me worthless and puts me down in every way. my dad never put his hands on me and he did a good job making sure that me and my brothers were taken care of financially, however he didn't stand up to my mom. it was almost like he was scared of her. the only thing he kept saying was he wish he had peace because he was sick of going through this. whenever my mom comes home he goes straight upstairs because he knows all she's going to do is nag and complain. thats another thing, my mom complains every single day. even if things are perfectly fine she will find something to get mad about. cooking is my passion and brings me joy, whenever i feel my depression kicking in i'll cook to bring myself peace and my mom always complains about me cooking and says she hates when i cook. she says i leave the kitchen a mess even though i spend hours cleaning and washing dishes. if things are not absolutely spotless she loses her mind. this is crazy to me because she doesn't cook and whenever she's in the kitchen its a diasaster, she leaves crumbs of bread on the counter she hasnt cooked dinner for our family in like 10 years. i'm always the one cooking. she gets mcdonalds my aunt said she thinks my mom is jealous of me because i'm able to cooking for the family and being a good cook at that it's so hard for me because i'm trying to go to work and school and pretend everything is okay, while im falling apart in the inside. most days i feel lifeless. i try to push through because i want to make something of my myself i struggle with anxiety and depression and there will be times where i will randomnly start crying at work or school. i'm only two months short of graduating college but i still won't be able to afford to move out as soon as i graduate. I didn't get an loans so i basically had to use all of my paychecks to pay for college. my mom said she was going to throw me a party when i graduated college but she changed her mind because she said i wasn't going to wear what she wanted me to last summer i went to spend ONE night with my boyfriend in florida for my birthday and my mom lost her mom, my dad said she started losing her mind. she called me 75 TIMES, and told me i was gonna be punished when i came back. she even went as far as to try to go to my boyfriend's mom house to tell her we had went to a hotel in florida. his mom already knew and didnt care and told my mom not to come onto her property anymore my dad said he doesn't know what's wrong with my mom because she didn't say anything when my younger brother who's 21 went to las vegas with his girlfriend for two weeks i'm 25. and my boyfriend is 30. i work full time and go to school and it's still not enough money |
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