She smokes so much. I've already lost my Uncle from smoking. It was Painful to watch him Struggle with Cancer. I don't want my Mother to experience it. How do i Make her Quit?(I'm 20 years old and She is 49)

my grandmother has a clutter issue her apartment is very cluttered and I m worried she might have bedbugs the apartment is already overinfested with roaches. As an old woman she is very stubborn holding on to walkers wheelchair and legs and old papers from 1990 s.

Maybe she hasnt been home and doesnt know she has a surprise or i hope it was not mailed to wrong apt number .

His recently got off probation. She believes he is not guilty. And the 15 year old girl is lying.He took the Alford plea instead of taking it to jury where he could have been convicted of abduction and rape. He serve 1 year. This happened in 2015. Now she wants to run off with him and the children because she claims we are ruining her life because we don t want him around the children. Also when he moved he didn t update his address on his regristry which is breaking his requirements. (I believe since he is off probation he doesn t have any restrictions being around children) We live in VA. What can I do? Children are 3 girls 16,10,5 and 2 boys 14,4

I'm 15 years old I'll be 16 in a few days and I just went to my first job interview at a water park I was waiting a long time and I came early so I waited like 2 hours. What I was wearing was really dressy compared to other ppl they wore jeans and stuff. But when they called me up for my interview the interviewest just looked at me. He didn't shake my hand or anything I answered all of his questions greatly in my opinion but the whole time he seemed uninterested I was smiling and everything I did everything I was supposed to do. After he told me there weren't any positions left and he told me to wait. So I was waiting and long story short they told me I didn't get the job but I asked to get interviewed again. The lady who interviewed me said they call back (hopefully). At this point I accepted I didn't get the job but I was confused as to what I did wrong it's difficult to comprehend on why when I believed I did what I was supposed to do. It just makes me sad because everything I try to do like trying out for stuff I never succeed. Advice please

So I am getting ridiculed by people for what I have told them. I am a huge fan of this famous singer in the asian community and I have been a fan of hers since 2016. I am friends with her on facebook and I run her fan club which she is also in and likes all of my posts. I recently got a chance to meet her last saturday and as soon as she saw me she pulled out a chair and asked me to sit and chat with her. We had a very good chat and I requested her to sing a song. When she got on stage she said a friend and fan who is very good to her requested this song. She called me her friend and actually treats me like her friend. She told me a lot of personal things like how she has to fly out at 6am and has to be at the airport at 4 and says she won't get much sleep. She took a picture of us together and posted it to facebook and tagged me in it. My therapist told me that it sounds like I have a friendship with her and encouraged me to continue being her friend and maybe something will form from it maybe a relationship since she knows that I like the singer a lot. The singer told me that she will let me know when she is coming back. I told people that I am putting her first and people think I am a creep. My family is trying to set me up with a woman and I am supposed to meet her in 2020 and I said if the singer comes back around the time I am supposed to go then I am dropping the plans and instead will go to see the singer again. People said it is unhealthy. I told people that I do know her but they don't believe me and asked me this. They said if you do know her then what is her favorite color or what is her favorite food ? I said I don't know and they said then it means you don't know her. Well I do know her I just haven't gotten close to her yet. Everyone thinks that my therapist is doing a bad job and is encouraging me to do creepy stuff. They said you have a woman a potential fiancee and your dropping her for this singer. They said the singer wouldn't give you the time of day when you have a woman who is willing to meet you. I am just tired of my family trying to set me up as it failed so many times. They tried to for years and those women were like I don't know if I wanna meet him. That is why I am putting the singer first as she actually talks to me and wants to meet me versus those other women. Everyone calls me a creep for putting the singer first. Why is it creepy to do this ??