.. and they do so? So now you feel kinda alienated and have no friends in school and the ones you were close to no longer is there. How would this affect a person as he is growing up?

I wouldn't really care if she was honest with me but she tries to keep it so secretive like one time she let me on her snapchat so we can take a picture and I saw the girls name on her feed and was like "is this the Kimberly I don't like?" And she just ignored me and acted like she didn't hear me and then starting crying when I got all mad about it like just be honest. And I notice a lot of our mutual friends will ask mention Kimberly in front of my best friend and she just kind of changes the subject because I'm there. My bestfriend and Kimberly have like a 75 day snapchat streak so how do I know she isn't sending Kimberly snapchats making fun of me because I'm pregnant? That girl hates me for no reason pretty much just because her friend dated my ex. She would say bad stuff about me like I'm an ugly b*tch too skinny I even had to switch out one of my classes when I was in high school because she wouldn't leave me alone and kept threatening me when I would always just ignore her. Am I wrong to be mad at my bestfriend about this? Because I feel like deep down they talk about me together

My guy friend bought me some boots with his income tax for no reason i feel bad because i didn't want him to use his hard earned money to buy them .. i didn't ask for them he just bought them

The women around here them and their family and friends are structured like a gang is. They would gang onto someone, or come after someone, or gangstalk someone. Them and their family and friends carries an ingroup favoritism, and their friends are more like related/kenfolk than just relating and sharing the same interest. If you have anything to do with her you will have to 'plug in' with her family and friends. If you don't talk/act/or not like their family and friends you will be treated like dirt by their family and friends. They will always consider you an 'outsider' and not apply the same rules to you as they do their family and friends. If you have an issue with her her family and friends will be in your face. why is it like this?

everyone in the school has been saying im too ugly for my boyfriend. When they hear who my boyfriend is dating (which is me) they're like "EWWWWWWWWW" or "thats so gross" they added me and my boyfriend on all our social medias and look at what we're doing

I really think my cousin dislikes me. After not visiting Mexico for 5 years I finally go,and the cousin that I used to hang out with a lot doesn't even like me. I know I shouldn't be speculating,but when my other cousin suggested to invite me to walk to the market she shook her head saying no. Plus since arriving there she hasn't even spoken to ms. I never did anything to her and she is acting this way. It's not a good feeling having someone you hanged out since childhood dislike you. Should I just treat her the same way she is treating me.

When I get older, noone will want to be my friend or something. I'm too bad. I have poor social skills, no sense of humor, am boring, interests are too complicated, etc. I'm not the best for anyone nor anyone is the best for me. I'm sure lots of people will get tired of me and leave me for someone better (at least for them), or they'll get bored of me. I don't think I can have a good time with anyone. I don't know really much anymore. Thanks hc.babe , but I don't believe it to be true. I don't mind being alone.

My brother recently passed away, so I've been really struggling lately. My friend knows this, and still, it's like she expects everything to go back to normal after only a month. She understood at first, why I wouldn't talk to anyone for awhile, but now she's upset with me for it. She started asking me if I was annoyed with her and that I should just tell her. This happened just because we didn't talk for the day. She's always pissed whenever we do talk and hanging out with her is only stressing me out more. I need my own space right now, but she just doesn't understand. What do I do?

I'm only asking this because I'm fed up with my life and I don't think it will ever change, no matter how hard I try (yes I've been trying for a while). I'm 25 and I'm still having issues making friends like a teenager, how sad & pathetic is that? I've dealt with too many people being uninterested in friendships because they already have their set of friends. This is why I'm jealous of extroverts, because they have what I want. It's too easy for me to make enemies without any peovocation and to attract bullies & haters (since I was 11). Because I'm not well liked and I attract haters, it makes me unhappy and yearning to be someone else. I don't blame MS/HS-aged teenagers for complaining about not fitting in with their peers, because I understand exactly how they feel and what they're going through.

Initially I was always the one breaking up and he'd chase me and make up. Then he finally Didn't and I was the one always trying to make up. When we we're breaking up last time during the fight he insulted My mom saying she dressed like in club attire at church and I said his mom looked like she came from the stable. 2 months after I texted him he said he wouldn't forgive me and wouldn't allow himself to have feelings for me again. I think he prob waited for me to try to go back to him but I haven't. He's a deacon in church and whatever he does he keeps looking in my eyes and has smiled and said hi a couple times. He constantly looks at me.

so i lost alot a weight recently and i have been getting alot of attention from men i never got before. I went to visit my friend who is always getting attention from guys and guys who treat me invisible around her. I was expecting her to compliment me or tell me i looked good, she was being really rude to me. All the girls in high school who didnt wanna be around me are being even meaner to me. Including my family who stalk me on my facebook and gossip to my other family members on what im doing.

So most people know that I don't go to parties, personal preference, they're just a waste of time. But my friends are always asking me to go to their parties or parties with them. I guess they do it because I come off as a party person perhaps. I always decline, until this time. My friends asked me to go to their party I said no, but my other friend told us to tell us some girls he want there and he'll invite them. I really didn't care st first, but then I thought if I tell him to invite the girl I'm interested in, II could talk to her. I didn't sat anything because it wouldn't have made a difference but after that whole thing he said he is inviting her so now I'm trying to go. How can I ask my parents to go without making it look like I'm up to something?

I am single, female, 38, being alone but not lonely for the past 7 years, I like my own company too much that I won't settle with anyone less. I work, I love animals and I have hobbies also, I rented out rooms to tenants as well, single female or male, couple tenants, even if I see any couple outside lovey dovey, it does not affect me and I am happy being alone. I used to rent out to couple tenants as well and I do not feel jealous or envy them, this one particular male tenant got me! He is 5 years younger than me, ok, he is tall, quite good looking but not really that handsome, he holds a good job, and he text a lot whenever we whatapp ( we text only for business) , he always give me those wide smile, etc, too friendly for a tenant, I Guess. I found out he has a gf and every night talks to her on the phone on speaker and I can hear the woman 's voice, I can't help but feel jealous and start to wonder, should I have a guy beside me too? But before this tenant stay my house, I am happy for the past 7 years, now this tenant makes me feel like crap and I start to have low self esteem , I feel like I'm not pretty or capable anymore, he just makes me feel depressed. Why am I like this? Should I evit him do I could be myself again ?! I do admit I kinda like him a little bit but I do not want to progress further so I stop. But now he has gf, I felt hurt and jealous

Today at school i was taking a **** in the lunch recess and 2 black guys were kicking my bathroom stall and scaring me the **** out of me, then one went under the stall and pulled my legs and made me fall of the toilet where i HIT my head and was laying there with my pants pulled down luckily they just laughed and ran of like *******. I know who these ppl are.... I want to kill them so BAD but i don't wanna get in trouble what should i do??? And please dont tell me to go to a teacher bc i aint no snitch and this is embarrassing af... btw im a freshman and they were seniors I think. This is the worst thing that ever happened to me and i never felt so humiliated please tell me what should i do. i definitely want revenge they deserve punishment.

So I have this friend, we aren't really all that close we told each other secrets but we're not like close or anything. She's always been a good friend but today she was having a bad day (seems like she always seems to these days) and toke it out on me, i just sat in silence, later I posted a photo on snap and then she posted a photo with the >(greater than sign) obvi shade idk what to do don't tell me "talk to her" because I don't want to.

I've known this girl since kindergarten and we were friends all through elementary. In middle school (grade 5 and 6) we stopped talking and junior high (grade 7 and 8) we became close again. We are now in 9th grade and we consider each other our "best friends". I can't tell her any of my secrets or things that happen because she will tell a whole bunch of people and it will go around the school. For example one time I told her I was talking to my ex and we were gonna go to the movies. And I told her he called me babe, but we weren't dating we just liked each other. She thought we were dating and tells a whole bunch of people that we are. A girl on my bus who never talks to me even asked that day if I was dating him. She NEVER cares what I have to say like if something happened in class or whatever I would tell her and she just doesn't say anything or act like she wants to hear it. And she talks all the time about her life she doesn't let me speak. We hangout like once a month. We are so different people because I'm more popular than her (no offense) but I just like i talking about different things than her. She only wants to be my friend when it's just us hanging out but if she sees another friend she will totally ignore me.

Ok me and this guy know each other just about a year now. Its been talking talking more 7 months. We confessed while back late summer our feelings for another. I'm 21 and he is like 20 something older than me. Anyway I told him my day was ok and bit sad. He asked why and I told him I had a flashback of me and my ex holding hands. And told him I cried. Which it is true. I don't miss him. But for randomly came to my mind and what triggered it was seeing couples all over the mall holding hands and being all affectionate. In a few weeks its gonna be 1 year of my first relationship break up. But I don't know he keeps popping up in mind. Anyway the reason why I told this guy because he asked and wasn't sure if he still liked me or not. He doesn't text me a lot as he used to. Anyway he said 'lol I guess you miss him and sad how you know how long its been. I told him I don't miss him just only in my dreams I do. And I did apologized to him if I made him feel a certain type of way. And he replied 'lol you didn't make me feel any certain way. I don't really care.' I only told him this because he asked why I was sad since I told him and plus haven't been showing signs of interest. I know he told he has been working a lot and busy with school. But he doesn't hardly flirt as much as he used to. I just asked if he still like "like like" me. I'm waiting for him to respond.

I'm 14 and I find a lot of things people do in my grade so immature. Just for one example these girls in my class were shooting rubber bands at each other and I sit next to them and I thought it was just immature of them doing that. They also were shooting them at other people. I know they were just trying to have fun but it was kind of immature. Idk am I just too mature?

I've been stressed a lot lately and I went to a social event and it was awkward and make me anxious. One of my friends (another girl, I'm a girl) did a weird hand gesture that my other friend said was meant for lesbian sex. That made no sense to me and got me worried. I feel like I'm going to barf. Also, I ate some pizza that is making me feel weird too i'm straight btw and she is too ( i know for sure )

I live in a 4 bedroom house with 2 other college graduates and a super-weird chick that flunked out of school last year. We all avoid her because she's a total social retard. She talks a mile a minute, brags horribly, has insane theories about stuff she knows nothing about and thinks she is the foremost authority on EVERYTHING. Tonight she kind of trapped me in the living room and was talking at me a mile a minute for ages then started following me around the house trying to show me viral videos on her phone with he volume jacked up to an obnoxious level. I don't know if I can make it through the next 7 months with her if I don't come up with some way to push her away and settle her down. She is horribly inconsiderate and wakes us all laughing and playing games at all hours and leaves messes everywhere she goes. She's got a lease though and I don't know if there's anything we can do. any advice?

I thought its by them staring, smiliing, approaching, asking for their number but no? Can they do this just for sex but not really interested in the girl?