I had February break this past week, and over the weekend my family and I went to a resort in the Poconos. My "friend" went with us, and we ended up paying for her food, activities, room, pretty much everything even though she had originally offered to pay for those things herself. However, that's not the problem I have with her. Even though we paid for everything she wanted, she got angry and annoyed at us when we wanted to stay a bit longer to go skiing because she wanted to go home and play video games. We had wanted to skiing before, but the weather was too bad for it until today, but she was annoyed and didn't want to go and kept complaining, so we felt bad and decided to not go at all. When we get home, she doesn't even say thank you for anything or repay us at all for the almost $2,000 we spent on her. She acted like she did us a favor for going with us, and I'm really angry with her. I want to stop being friends with her, but she's close with my other friends, and knowing her, she'd say that it was my fault and tell everyone some bull. What do I do?

I met someone online about 10 years ago who turned into a really good friend. It started as a normal friendship that turned into the other person kinda catfishing me. (i dontThis think it was their original intention) About a year or more into it they shut themselves off from me. No goodbye, nothing. Then 5 years after they apologized through email. I sent a reply but shortly after lost access to that email so i dont know if i ever got a response.Its been about 5 years since that apology and I do not feel like i have closure. Should I try to contact them or just move on?

She said no more quizzes. We are good friends and I wanted to share so she could know more about me. Confused why she was annoyed but don't really want to ask. She said her own sister doesn't even know that much about her. I guess she thought I was gonna ask her to take it. I love her to death but seems very guarded. What should I do?

Me and bestfriend used to be really close. Now, we're still close but he acts like he doesn't care about me anymore or the friendship. I'm a girl, he's a guy. I never really noticed until this one day in class, I was on his phone and saw the Grindr app. He's always denied being gay despite everyone thinking he is because he's so feminine. In the back of my mind, I always knew. We've been friends for years and it's fairly obvious. If he is, I can understand why he's not coming out. But back to our friendship. He never wants to hang out or come to my house. He misses school. He hangs out with other girls. And it's not that i'm jealous because they're girls. Its like he's just trying to replace me. He doesn't text me back. He hangs up in my face on the phone. He's all around being a ******* *****. After this school year, I'm sure we wont be friends over him. I know if I bring this up to him, he's gonan point the finger at me because I got a boyfriend recently and he will try to say I'm putting my boyfriend before him. But, I tell my best friend everything. Everything including how much I hate how my boyfriend treats me. And he defends him. He doesn't even try to see my side. And don't even make me get into how I think my boyfriend is gay. I don't know if this is even a question, I really just needed to rant.

I'm 16 and a Junior in high school. I am a male. There's this girl who sits across from me in my science class, and she never talks to me. I try to spark up conversations with her and she never reciprocates. The other four people at our table are very nice and will talk to me. She's the only one that doesn't. She's been acting like this towards me since the first day of class. She talks and is friendly with the other people at our table. She'll initiate conversations with them. However, she isn't friendly towards me and doesn't talk to me at all. She won't make eye contact with me at all. For example, when I'm having a conversation with the whole group, she won't even look in my direction to acknowledge me speaking. Whenever I try to talk to her, she gives very short replies and one-word answers, and she gives off a vibe as if I'm bothering her. When she does make eye contact with me sometimes, she rolls her eyes. When I ask her a question, she'll answer it, but she looks at the person sitting next to me as if they asked the question. I feel like she doesn't like me, but she has no reason to. I have done nothing to her. I have been nothing but nice and respectful to her and all the other students at our table. We barely know each other. Why could she be acting like this towards me? I'm not trying to start a relationship with her, but since she sits at my table I would just like to talk to her you know.

My bestfriend is extremely mad at me because I "blamed something on her." On Friday night, I decided to go to her house and sleepover because she invited me. I didn't ask permission from my parents to sleep there without adult supervision, therefore they got extremely angry the following morning. I'm not sure what happened, and what my parents told her mother, but now, my bestfriend is furious with me, and told me I blamed her for what happened on Friday. I explained to my parents it wasn't her fault but it didn't make a difference to her. On top of that, my bestfriend is now telling MY friends I blamed something on her, and honestly making me look like a terrible person. I asked why she's telling my friends, and she stated , "Because they would never blame something on me, so I'm asking them for advice." What should I do?

I find that I'm always the one initiating contact with my friends, and they never do the same in return. If I don't text or call them first, we don't talk. I don't like how I'm always the one that is putting in the effort to maintain the friendship. So why could it be that they never initiate contact with me?

So I am currently in the 9th grade. I do not have a boyfriend but I dated a 11th grader earlier this year and now I like this 12th grader and I think he likes me too but I also think its inappropriate to date him. Earlier this year I drank a lot and tried smoking and I feel like a lot of my friends don't support me because of my bad decisons. I still feel like a bad kid At lunch I sit by these upperclassmen idiot boys who throw food and get me in trouble with the teachers and make the other people that are freshmen hate me even more. I think I know who I could sit by but I also don't want the upperclassmen boys to hate me. I used to go to church a lot but I feel like I may not be christian anymore because I sin all the time and don't really believe that god exists. Right now I just feel like I am so wrong and don't have a good path and what is the best things I could do to help me right now.

My ex gf and I broke up after a year and a half, we had our ups and downs. She kept calling, wanting to hangout, have sex, showed up at my job and even tried to get back together. After a while, I woke up and began to reject her sexual advances. It all began after one call, she wanted to come over and 'cuddle', I said no. A few months later, I got in touch with her, assuming we were friends, and learned that she was moving, she was very venomous and said all kinds of cruel things. She hurt me very badly. I finally confronted her about the times she used me, it was a vicious call. She sent me a e-mail apologizing telling him that she still really cared about me a lot, how she was truly sorry for all of the things she told me, regretted it, and that she was going through stuff at the time. I called her back, she had just moved, she told me that she missed me, That she still felt a strong connection with me, and I think, that she thought of me as family. But she downplayed our past relationship (when we were a couple) attributing it to being 'young and naive' and that she liked some things about our relationship. She also told me how she was interested in hook ups. At the end of the phone call, I wished her good luck and happiness in life and told her goodbye. She told me that I could call whenever I wanted to talk, but I didn't respond to her offer, and just said 'bye.' After she told me bye, and she stood on the line until I hung up. And I never talked to her again. On our final night together, during the period where she was being hateful, she came onto me sexually and I rejected her, and she told me 'if I was older, I probably would've stayed with you.' She even invited me to move with her. This was before the confrontation call, before the final phone call (a month or so before). You don't try to have sex with someone you feel is like family. So, I wonder if she was putting on a front during our last phone call.

she always wants to prove to everyone that she is better than me and i dont give her a reason to act like this so why she act like this?

I have this friend let's call her M. Everytime I cancel on her at the last minute she gets upset with me. She expects a reason why I am cancelling on her at the last minute. I'm an extremely busy person but she doesn't understand that. She is busy too. Today I cancelled on her at last minute and we were all talking through group chat about meeting up. About an hour before the plans started I started not feeling well and I cancelled the plans. She told me that she didn't like that I cancelled plans without giving her a reason why. I felt like she was starting drama and I don't like drama so I removed myself from the group. Now she is upset with me that I did that. What should I do?

Hello! I really don't know how to start this off but... I am a junior in high school and usually I don't have problems with friendships but being a junior now, I am limited to certain classes, meaning less options for me to choose the classes I want to be in. This has led me to be in the same classes as my 2 other friends. They always sit next to each other and talk while leaving me out. I have been told to speak with them about how I'm feeling and I have. It just continued to be the same. Facing reality, I have accepted that there's nothing I can really do to make them WANT to include me. You can't force friendships, so I decided to drop it. I have a problem with burning the bridges with them though. I have all classes with them, am seated next to them, and my classes all have small groups of friends formed already. I don't want to be a loner, but sticking with them is the only option I have. What would your advice be for this problem? I'm leaning more towards the "fake it till you make it" thing.

I found out via Social media that my friends caught a movie and went out to eat without me and didn't even attempt to invite me. I feel very angry and vengeful about it. Is it normal to feel this way?